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    Guys help me get back on track

    Week 3 of test/deca /dbol cycle. Last night was a very rough night for me. My gf broke up with me and I hit the bottle pretty hard. I'm looking for some motivation to get back on track. She did nothing but treat me like shit but I can't get her out of my head. I just need some advice from guys who know what I'm going through because I cant think of a reason to get out of bed right now

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    i know where your at....im 9 weeks into a test cycle and my wife fuked me up around week 5.....lost 2 weeks of good training.

    youll know when your ready



    i have no positive advice

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    Quote Originally Posted by Jfew44 View Post
    Week 3 of test/deca/dbol cycle. Last night was a very rough night for me. My gf broke up with me and I hit the bottle pretty hard. I'm looking for some motivation to get back on track. She did nothing but treat me like shit but I can't get her out of my head. I just need some advice from guys who know what I'm going through because I cant think of a reason to get out of bed right now
    GF left...good...stop feeling sorry for ur self and start thinking with ur dick...u r on test it wont let u depressed believe me just need more blood in ur d!ck fvck everything that has vagina and alive....
    Plus no bitch worth screwing ur cycle...AAS is more important then ASS.....Get on it

    I know i come as an arrogant asshole but u know its true i am just spilling out for you

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    oh and pvssy is dime a dozen......

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    Quote Originally Posted by calgarian View Post
    GF left...good...stop feeling sorry for ur self and start thinking with ur dick...u r on test it wont let u depressed believe me just need more blood in ur d!ck fvck everything that has vagina and alive....
    Plus no bitch worth screwing ur cycle...AAS is more important then ASS.....Get on it

    I know i come as an arrogant asshole but u know its true i am just spilling out for you
    only Cal.....this advice is near perfect i'd say

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    Quote Originally Posted by vanduhl View Post
    only Cal.....this advice is near perfect i'd say
    Thank you sir

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    Quote Originally Posted by calgarian View Post
    Thank you sir

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    The only thing that will heal you is time. I went thru this same thing a couple months ago. Focus on bettering yourself, work out and try not to think about her. Before you know it you will ask yourself why you even cared in the first place. Trust me.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Jfew44 View Post
    Week 3 of test/deca/dbol cycle. Last night was a very rough night for me. My gf broke up with me and I hit the bottle pretty hard. I'm looking for some motivation to get back on track. She did nothing but treat me like shit but I can't get her out of my head. I just need some advice from guys who know what I'm going through because I cant think of a reason to get out of bed right now
    Dude just handle your shit and actively remove any ***** thoughts as they come to you. This is the only way I can get laid so Im speaking from experience. If you need to grieve then do it but my are gonna **** hotter bitches. The only question you have to ask yourself is if you wanna **** them now or do you wanna sit around moping for the next 6 months.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Jfew44 View Post
    Week 3 of test/deca/dbol cycle. Last night was a very rough night for me. My gf broke up with me and I hit the bottle pretty hard. I'm looking for some motivation to get back on track. She did nothing but treat me like shit but I can't get her out of my head. I just need some advice from guys who know what I'm going through because I cant think of a reason to get out of bed right now
    Take whatever time it takes to heal...Do not start binge drinking and pissing your hard work and cycle down the drain! Hit the gym and start thinking about all the hot chicks you can get with now..It happens, it sucks and feels like shit when you break up with a girl. But there always hotter and better chicks out there..sounds like this one treated you like shit..**** her..On to the next one, keep hitting the gym brotha, goodluck

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    only cure for old pvssy is new pvssy

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    J, stay way from the drink... worst for this scenario... gonna make you do something you will surely regret... use this emotion on the gym floor, go pound out those wieghts and see how you feel... get some good heavy fvckin music and go do your thing.

    Leg day will make your forget about all this shit. Pose for some of the ladies in the gym if you have to. Go grab some fast food after your workout and if the cashier is decent looking, tell her she's really hot... see if it goes anywhere... if not, who gives a shit, she's a cashier at a fast food joint.

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    you're a fat useless piece of shit.

    get to the gym.

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    Megadeath has a song called "my darkest hour." You should download it. The song is about what your going thru. One line says, "time has a way of taking time and lonelyness is not only felt by fools."

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    Keep yourself pre-occupied, don't stop training, and surround yourself with your friends. Time will eventually do it's thing.

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    Tom Petty "That's the last time you'll ever hurt me". Download and listen during leg day.

    Oh, and what Cal and KP said. AAS is more important than ASS.

    (that's so my new sig when I can have one.)

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    Quote Originally Posted by LGM View Post
    Tom Petty "That's the last time you'll ever hurt me". Download and listen during leg day.

    Oh, and what Cal and KP said. AAS is more important than ASS.

    (that's so my new sig when I can have one.)
    best one Ive heard for a long time.

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    Quote Originally Posted by calgarian View Post
    GF left...good...stop feeling sorry for ur self and start thinking with ur dick...u r on test it wont let u depressed believe me just need more blood in ur d!ck fvck everything that has vagina and alive....
    Plus no bitch worth screwing ur cycle...AAS is more important then ASS.....Get on it

    I know i come as an arrogant asshole but u know its true i am just spilling out for you
    Quote Originally Posted by Knockout_Power View Post
    best one Ive heard for a long time.
    i said it.....

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    Quote Originally Posted by calgarian View Post
    i said it.....
    I'm stealing it. You know, in another 1.5 million posts or whatever it is...

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    Quote Originally Posted by LGM View Post
    I'm stealing it. You know, in another 1.5 million posts or whatever it is...
    dont worry, at your rate, you should be there in 2.3 years

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    Quote Originally Posted by LGM View Post
    I'm stealing it. You know, in another 1.5 million posts or whatever it is...
    as long as I get the credit 4 it...

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    Take your pain to the gym. It's the best the place to be during difficult times like this. I don't know your story, but don't be surprised if she comes knocking on your door at some point.

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    Quote Originally Posted by calgarian View Post
    GF left...good...stop feeling sorry for ur self and start thinking with ur dick...u r on test it wont let u depressed believe me just need more blood in ur d!ck fvck everything that has vagina and alive....
    Plus no bitch worth screwing ur cycle...AAS is more important then ASS.....Get on it

    I know i come as an arrogant asshole but u know its true i am just spilling out for you
    Yes you do sound like an arrogant asshole but you are absolutely right

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    Quote Originally Posted by AlphaGenetics View Post
    The only thing that will heal you is time. I went thru this same thing a couple months ago. Focus on bettering yourself, work out and try not to think about her. Before you know it you will ask yourself why you even cared in the first place. Trust me.
    I know I've been through it before its just hard. thank you

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    Quote Originally Posted by Knockout_Power View Post
    J, stay way from the drink... worst for this scenario... gonna make you do something you will surely regret... use this emotion on the gym floor, go pound out those wieghts and see how you feel... get some good heavy fvckin music and go do your thing.

    Leg day will make your forget about all this shit. Pose for some of the ladies in the gym if you have to. Go grab some fast food after your workout and if the cashier is decent looking, tell her she's really hot... see if it goes anywhere... if not, who gives a shit, she's a cashier at a fast food joint.
    Great advice. Obviously I dont want to fall into a pattern of drinking and feeling sorry for myself which is why I opened up to yall.

    Any other music that will help during my workouts???

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    Quote Originally Posted by Nicotine View Post
    you're a fat useless piece of shit.

    get to the gym.
    Thanks for the motivation

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    Quote Originally Posted by LGM View Post
    Tom Petty "That's the last time you'll ever hurt me". Download and listen during leg day.

    Oh, and what Cal and KP said. AAS is more important than ASS.

    (that's so my new sig when I can have one.)
    Best advice I've heard in awhile

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    Quote Originally Posted by vetteman08 View Post
    Take your pain to the gym. It's the best the place to be during difficult times like this. I don't know your story, but don't be surprised if she comes knocking on your door at some point.
    She will be back. It's gonna be not letting her back in thats gonna be the hard part. BTW love the avy

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    Quote Originally Posted by Jfew44 View Post
    She will be back. It's gonna be not letting her back in thats gonna be the hard part. BTW love the avy
    same here, Im not giving my ex a 2nd chance...

    go dowload some devil driver and go to town.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Knockout_Power View Post
    J, stay way from the drink... worst for this scenario... gonna make you do something you will surely regret... use this emotion on the gym floor, go pound out those wieghts and see how you feel... get some good heavy fvckin music and go do your thing.

    Leg day will make your forget about all this shit. Pose for some of the ladies in the gym if you have to. Go grab some fast food after your workout and if the cashier is decent looking, tell her she's really hot... see if it goes anywhere... if not, who gives a shit, she's a cashier at a fast food joint.


    Hehe...now thats some solid advice and i agree. Knockout Power is speaking from tru experience. Ive dated a few women that were the Bad-ass type / down for whatever girls and its very refreshing at first yet harder than normal to break it off later. If you have sex with a new woman it will definitely help you keep your mind off your current situation as well as help fill the void in your life caused by losing something that has become an integral part in your life. My personal theory on both relationships and addiction is that one of the only ways to rid yourself of a certain addiction or get over a relationship is to fill that void by trading it with another obsession or relationship. it has a lot to do with free time. n ow that youre not with you woman you have more free time and the longer you sit there with nothing to occupy yourself, the more you will dwell on the negative and continue to feel miserable. Go out and better yourself, try something new, get crazy as all fvck in the gym, get a head at work, learn a new skill. I like to cook and creating delicious dishes and then devouring the hell out of them makes me feel great. I even like to almost go on a pseudo treasure hunt to try to find the purest tastiest ingredients. whatever. Once you start to be obsessed with something that is positive everything will be that much better. i have a work friend that was a HUGE alcoholic and now he still drinks on random occasions but has fixed his problem by trading his booze obsession with these crazy ass extreme endurance competitions, ie 150 mile run / bike / swims in the coldest conditions possible. he even attempted to swim the English Chanel. Some people neeed to trade something for something else. its the "Idle Hands / Law of equivalent exchange" type deal. Once you pimp out every aspect of your life you will attract the best women anyway. Lastly..."The person who holds the Power in a relationship is the one who cares the least." Im not saying to be rude and cruel, im simply saying to put yourself first for a while and keep busy. Good luck my man, you can do this!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Jfew44 View Post
    Best advice I've heard in awhile
    it was mine....jesus...

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    Quote Originally Posted by Jfew44 View Post
    Thanks for the motivation
    anytime....

    which also raises the question: why are you still here?

    get your ass moving, get to the gym.

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    Quote Originally Posted by calgarian View Post
    it was mine....jesus...
    I'm getting more of a kick out of this than the actual quote...

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    well I think arm wrestler made some nice points there, DOnt hold back on looking for a new woman there, Dont dwell on your ex, keep her at arms length if she comes back dont just accept her like nothing ever happened. let her know you are pissed with her just leaving you like that mate, and she will think better of you that way. What ever you do keep your training number one, and dont let it slide, if you feel like a beer well whos stopping you just use it as an excuse to score with a chick and see where it takes you.
    Good luck mate
    Last edited by fleck; 08-13-2010 at 02:44 PM.

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    Quote Originally Posted by LGM View Post
    I'm getting more of a kick out of this than the actual quote...
    i know......but IT was mine.....mofo

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    Quote Originally Posted by HitIt View Post
    only cure for old pvssy is new pvssy
    im with him man. train and find a fvck buddy

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    Quote Originally Posted by Standby View Post
    im with him man. train and find a fvck buddy
    as long as she is a girl

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    Quote Originally Posted by calgarian View Post
    as long as she is a girl
    maybe he wants to try new things? who are you to take that away from him?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Standby View Post
    maybe he wants to try new things? who are you to take that away from him?
    is there a hidden message there somewhere???

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    Quote Originally Posted by calgarian View Post
    is there a hidden message there somewhere???
    yes there it is in red, dont know how you missed it

    Quote Originally Posted by Standby View Post
    maybe he wants to try new things? who are you to take that away from him?

    I am not gay

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