Depression

**D3m3nt3d** · 08-18-2010, 04:38 PM

Originally Posted by calgarian

Dude u need to learn alot when it comes to Women.....

Damn homie I used to be a pimp haha. It was two women, give me a break

**Shol'va** · 08-18-2010, 04:57 PM

I never had any problems with depression till I read all these posts, now I'm depressed.

**D3m3nt3d** · 08-18-2010, 05:23 PM

Originally Posted by Shol'va

I never had any problems with depression till I read all these posts, now I'm depressed.

Yeah, my life will make anybody depressed.

**Shol'va** · 08-18-2010, 05:35 PM

Originally Posted by D3m3nt3d

Yeah, my life will make anybody depressed.

Hell, write a book, who knows it might be a million seller and end up helping someone else. But on the downside you might end up on Oprah.

**D3m3nt3d** · 08-18-2010, 05:55 PM

Originally Posted by Shol'va

Hell, write a book, who knows it might be a million seller and end up helping someone else. But on the downside you might end up on Oprah.

She would probably pay me alot too tho. I could call it "A Marriage of Convenience"

**lovbyts** · 08-19-2010, 01:49 AM

Originally Posted by D3m3nt3d

Yeah, my life will make anybody depressed.

I always keep in mind no matter how bad you think you have it there is always someone out there who has it worse than you and has picked themselves up.

I can compare notes with the best of them usually but there are people who have had it 10x tougher than me.

**D3m3nt3d** · 08-19-2010, 09:34 AM

So I just found where I posted my story in plenty of fish when we first separated...and there is seriously this dumb bitch who seems to think I am stuck on myself and the sex...and acting like my wife did nothing wrong. I got an email today, hell I had forgot about posting it. I see why that dumbass woman is single.

**GymHero** · 08-19-2010, 09:36 AM

Originally Posted by D3m3nt3d

So I just found where I posted my story in plenty of fish when we first separated...and there is seriously this dumb bitch who seems to think I am stuck on myself and the sex...and acting like my wife did nothing wrong. I got an email today, hell I had forgot about posting it. I see why that dumbass woman is single.

How's that site goin for you? i cant find 1 descent chick on there in my area

**D3m3nt3d** · 08-19-2010, 09:54 AM

Originally Posted by GymHero

How's that site goin for you? i cant find 1 descent chick on there in my area

I haven't tried to use it for dating bro. I don't even have my pic up. I went there to get another outsiders perspective on shit...and apparently there are some stupid people in this world.

**lovbyts** · 08-21-2010, 11:41 PM

Plenty of fish I think from what I remember has a LOT of Asian chicks on it (good for me) but most are not local (bad for most everyone) but it helped for some hookups when I was traveling.

I would remove your story from there. Also you need to be selective when looking for people (men or women) on singles sites. Most are on there there (single) for a reason. They like to play it off as if they are the victim but you know there are two sides to ever story.

Now if you find one that is NOT blaming the ex and says like we agree to just not agree and we still get along fine, friends or whatever that's MUCH better I think or of course the NO ex husband is best.

Most of the girls I meet though didn't have ex husbands because they where all still 18, 19, 20.

**DSM4Life** · 08-22-2010, 04:57 AM

Pick up this hat and all your troubles will go away.

**Igifuno** · 08-22-2010, 05:08 AM

I've never been diagnosed, but have gone through rough times where I've been prescribed stuff for anxiety as well as anti-d's.... I chucked the anti-d's after a couple months becuase I felt like I lost my edge and urgency no longer existed.. at work or in the gym... I decided that I need my edge and that it was a key part of my drive and what keeps me motivated and intense in the gym. As for the stress I had, I just dealt with it. I know not everyone can do that though due to their own issues that could be more severe.

**DSM4Life** · 08-22-2010, 05:15 AM

If you want my serious advice which doesn't happen to often. Try EVERYTHING you can do to stay off meds. Go talk to a doc and see if talking it out helps. I hate meds, never take then unless i have to.

**lovbyts** · 08-22-2010, 06:51 AM

Originally Posted by DSM4Life

If you want my serious advice which doesn't happen to often. Try EVERYTHING you can do to stay off meds. Go talk to a doc and see if talking it out helps. I hate meds, never take then unless i have to.

Agreed. I think I sated the same earlier or close to. Only meds I like taking but would rather not have to is pain meds.

**D3m3nt3d** · 08-22-2010, 05:02 PM

Originally Posted by lovbyts

I would remove your story from there. Also you need to be selective when looking for people (men or women) on singles sites. Most are on there there (single) for a reason. They like to play it off as if they are the victim but you know there are two sides to ever story.

I removed my story. I was not on that site because it was a singles site, trust me the last thing I want is another woman causing me grief and headaches now. I'm already borderline depressive with one. I just posted my story, and after my wife caught it...on a singles dating site nonetheless, it caused more hell than what it was worth.