I also got played like a fiddle.

**Gaspari1255** · 01-09-2011, 08:44 PM

safe

**terraj** · 01-09-2011, 08:48 PM

Bad breath?

**Gaspari1255** · 01-09-2011, 08:52 PM

Here is a picture of the view from our dinner table...just to add more fuel to the fire, lol.[/url]

**Gaspari1255** · 01-09-2011, 08:54 PM

Originally Posted by terraj

Bad breath?

Nope, chewed my orbit after dinner brotha.

**l2elapse** · 01-09-2011, 08:55 PM

i would be pissed as hell after dropping 110

**Twist** · 01-09-2011, 08:57 PM

Hahahahahaa. I'm not laughing at you bro. The whole story is pretty funny though. But she is ****ing weird. She probably is gonna say later that she got nervous when you tried to kiss her or something... What a nut job.

Either
1. she is a nut job = you don't wanna be with her
or
2. she has a boyfriend and is a shitty gf = you don't want to be with her

Clearly you need to search for women older than 25 because she is not mature yet.

**Twist** · 01-09-2011, 09:00 PM

Dude don't be pissed about the money though. You got to go with pretty girl to a nice place and have a little fun. Probably had a bomb ass meal too.

I dropped $95 at some place last night that was overpriced chinese food. $7 cover for to get in, then the meal was mediocre at best, the band sucked and so did our waiter. He wrote his own tip on the bill (which was less than what I would have given him anyway lol)! ****ing joke. Place has 5stars. I almost signed up to yelp just to bitch at those people.

anyway back to you...

**stevey_6t9** · 01-09-2011, 09:08 PM

haha fuk you got played harrd... the bitch is smart, find a young inexperienced guy, get him to pay for an expensive dinner and drive me home then tell him to beat it... welcome to the real world lol.

**Twist** · 01-09-2011, 09:12 PM

Originally Posted by stevey_6t9

haha fuk you got played harrd... the bitch is smart, find a young inexperienced guy, get him to pay for an expensive dinner and drive me home then tell him to beat it... welcome to the real world lol.

I think she got played. I mean, they both had the dinner. It's not like she tricked him into giving her money to go eat with some other guy. She put a ton of effort into this, just for a free meal? She's the idiot. He took a pretty girl to a nice dinner. Only thing is that he didn't get laid. No big deal. It's just like a lot of guys first dates.

**Gaspari1255** · 01-09-2011, 09:14 PM

Originally Posted by Twist

I think she got played. I mean, they both had the dinner. It's not like she tricked him into giving her money to go eat with some other guy. She put a ton of effort into this, just for a free meal? She's the idiot. He took a pretty girl to a nice dinner. Only thing is that he didn't get laid. No big deal. It's just like a lot of guys first dates.

I didn't even get a real kiss let alone get laid!! I did get a hug though..Go me

**Twist** · 01-09-2011, 09:28 PM

Originally Posted by ******

I didn't even get a real kiss let alone get laid!! I did get a hug though..Go me

Like I said, its just like a lot of guys' first dates.

**stack_it** · 01-09-2011, 09:44 PM

Let me start by saying no girl that is 25 and bartending has her shit together. They won't be pretty forever and not many bars have a solid 401k plan. If you weren't in jersey I'd swear you took my ex out lol. Blow it off and don't try again. She may still want you but if you try she won't. Play with her mind and bang her then when she goes to smuggle afterwards push her away and say sorry I'm kinda seeing someone else you should leave.

**SlimmerMe** · 01-09-2011, 09:57 PM

She got in her pajamas?

**HitIt** · 01-09-2011, 11:21 PM

hate the game, not the playa

**jimmyinkedup** · 01-09-2011, 11:24 PM

may want to consider that dinner an investment...time will tell....

**JohnnyVegas** · 01-09-2011, 11:25 PM

Originally Posted by ******

We get to her apartment, she changes into her pajamas and we start watching a movie. She's sort of laying on me and we lock eyes, I go to kiss her and she pushes my face away and says "I can't. I'm sort of seeing someone else. You have to leave...." So I grab my fvcking jacket, walk out the door with my head held high completely fvcking baffled about this whole situation

Sorry for my long winded, boring story. But I just don't know why the fvck she went out of her way to do this to me? Did I really get used for a meal? So pathetic....Now I have to see this d0uchebag at work almost every night. I don't understand women and I never will...

Any thoughts on this?

Count yourself lucky be out only $55 brotha'. It isn't that you don't understand women, it is that some (like that one) are walking disasters. I'll bet you understand mature, sane women pretty well. Hold out for a good one, and consider not ending up with a bad one a big win, even if it costs you a few bucks.

**Tigershark** · 01-09-2011, 11:37 PM

She may be into you, but the kiss probabally threw her off. My guess is she isn't even seeing anybody and you got her nervous by trying to kiss her. But then again if she is seeing someone else then run far away because she is a cheater brother.

**SlimmerMe** · 01-09-2011, 11:41 PM

Exactly. Either something scared her or she was up to no good. You will find out sooner than later.

**calgarian** · 01-10-2011, 12:15 AM

Originally Posted by Tigershark

She may be into you, but the kiss probabally threw her off. My guess is she isn't even seeing anybody and you got her nervous by trying to kiss her. But then again if she is seeing someone else then run far away because she is a cheater brother.

Seriously.....thats the best explanation u have? did u forget to read the she use to kiss him before that start of the shift and at the end of her shift???
to OP...wtf were u doing sitting all day till she comes in and then finishes her shift......

here is what to expect...she is going to contact you or because u have no game plan (tells me u took her to expensive first date without going second base) u r already going in the same bar she is working and its going to be long lame ass excause of she s afraid of men or shit like this...and then she would like to try it again and AGAIN u will take her to expensive resturant and the thing will go on and on and on....

got my point?

**bulldawg_28** · 01-10-2011, 12:20 AM

I hate to hear that bro. Keep your head up.

I would do like what stack it mentioned and mess with her head a little bit.

**number twelve** · 01-10-2011, 12:49 AM

for my first date i always offer to make the girl dinner. keep it very casual. that way, no finances lost!

**Friend** · 01-10-2011, 01:14 AM

There is something very wrong with the way chicks are wired.

**calgarian** · 01-10-2011, 01:27 AM

time for a master card moment

1. spending time in the bar so u can be introduced as a "boy friend" 50$/per day
2. gettin kissed start and finished of the shift another 50$
3. dinner for 2 110$
4. kicked out of her appartment without a kiss....priceless...

**calgarian** · 01-10-2011, 01:30 AM

Originally Posted by SlimmerMe

Exactly. Either something scared her or she was up to no good. You will find out sooner than later.

she just wanted to get the dinner out of him....to her he looked like a guy with big "L" on his forehead......

to OP i m not trying to be hard on u just trying to knock some sense into u

**JDawg1536** · 01-10-2011, 02:03 AM

psycho

**Gaspari1255** · 01-10-2011, 02:47 AM

Originally Posted by calgarian

Seriously.....thats the best explanation u have? did u forget to read the she use to kiss him before that start of the shift and at the end of her shift???
to OP...wtf were u doing sitting all day till she comes in and then finishes her shift......here is what to expect...she is going to contact you or because u have no game plan (tells me u took her to expensive first date without going second base) u r already going in the same bar she is working and its going to be long lame ass excause of she s afraid of men or shit like this...and then she would like to try it again and AGAIN u will take her to expensive resturant and the thing will go on and on and on....

got my point?

I'm a bouncer at her bar..I never go into to see her...we just work the same shifts, lol.

**DSM4Life** · 01-10-2011, 07:04 AM

Funny, now the shoe is on the other foot, as oppose to men running around with multi women but now men are saying "thats messed up."

You guys are just down right funny.

**D.Pump** · 01-10-2011, 07:59 AM

dude if she kisses you at the end and beginning of each shift she wasnt nervous about a kiss and she came out and asked you on a date pretty much. Guarantee she wasnt afraid of a kiss. I mean how many girls with the balls to publicly kiss someone, joke that they are together, and then say "when are you taking me out" are afraid to kiss the guy? I mean cmon she has some serious issues... **** that

***D7M*** · 01-10-2011, 08:38 AM

Originally Posted by DSM4Life

Funny, now the shoe is on the other foot, as oppose to men running around with multi women but now men are saying "thats messed up."

You guys are just down right funny.

Nah. The messed up part is that she led him on: flirted with him at work, then after he takes her out, she gets freaked out that he tried to kiss her.

**DSM4Life** · 01-10-2011, 08:41 AM

Originally Posted by D7M

Nah. The messed up part is that she led him on: flirted with him at work, then after he takes her out, she gets freaked out that he tried to kiss her.

Are you trying to say that men don't lead women on ? I admit she took it a little far but it's still the same.

***D7M*** · 01-10-2011, 08:48 AM

Originally Posted by DSM4Life

Are you trying to say that men don't lead women on ?

Exactly.

If a guy does lead a girl on, it's not like that.

When a guy is ready to go, he's not gonna freak out over a kiss

**D3m3nt3d** · 01-10-2011, 08:50 AM

Narcissistic bitch. Most are manipulative whores. Understand that and life will be grand.

**calgarian** · 01-10-2011, 09:59 AM

Originally Posted by D3m3nt3d

Narcissistic bitch. Most are manipulative whores. Understand that and life will be grand.

i would just fvck her so I can get even with her...but its just me.

**Gaspari1255** · 01-10-2011, 10:24 AM

Originally Posted by D3m3nt3d

Narcissistic bitch. Most are manipulative whores. Understand that and life will be grand.

Words of wisdom.

**stack_it** · 01-10-2011, 10:42 AM

Originally Posted by stack_it

Let me start by saying no girl that is 25 and bartending has her shit together. They won't be pretty forever and not many bars have a solid 401k plan. If you weren't in jersey I'd swear you took my ex out lol. Blow it off and don't try again. She may still want you but if you try she won't. Play with her mind and bang her then when she goes to smuggle afterwards push her away and say sorry I'm kinda seeing someone else you should leave.

^^^^

Originally Posted by calgarian

i would just fvck her so I can get even with her...but its just me.

**SlimmerMe** · 01-10-2011, 11:18 AM

I shake my head......no wonder we don't "get" each other....and it saddens me to be quite honest

**calgarian** · 01-10-2011, 11:43 AM

Originally Posted by stack_it

^^^^

oh fvck i didnt even paid attention

**calgarian** · 01-10-2011, 11:44 AM

Originally Posted by SlimmerMe

I shake my head......no wonder we don't "get" each other....and it saddens me to be quite honest

u talking to me and stack?

**SlimmerMe** · 01-10-2011, 11:47 AM

Originally Posted by calgarian

u talking to me and stack?

Is your question with a Brooklyn/Bronx accent?

**stack_it** · 01-10-2011, 11:49 AM

Originally Posted by SlimmerMe

I shake my head......no wonder we don't "get" each other....and it saddens me to be quite honest

Men and women will never "get" each other. Think about how boring life would be if we did. Better yet, think about how few threads would be in the lounge lol.