2011 sucks balls

[gixxerboy1]

Just lost my job which was a complete shock. Had a lunch with my boss last tuesday everything was fine. Thursday his boss told him they are eliminating my position.

And my father probably only has a few days left. Dr's said on sat he would prob need a feeding tube. He signed something he doesnt want one. They just emitted him to the hosp for low blood pressure and dehydration.

[Matt]

My thoughts are with you bro, and i hope your dads get better...

[stack_it]

Sorry to hear about your dad gixxer. My thoughts are with you and your family. 11 has been a pretty bad year for me aswell. The only fatherly figure I've ever had is in the hospital with pneumonia right now. There's also a ton of other things going on. Keep your head up and let's hope this year gets better.

[gixxerboy1]

thanks matt. He isnt going to get better. i know that. I just hope he goes quickly and doesnt suffer more

[Kawigirl]

I went through a similar situation last year gixxer .....hang in there! Big hugs.....

[auslifta]

Hope things only get better for you, wishing you and your family the best..

[bruary17]

My cousin went in the hospital for a mild procedure, she had a seizure and died unexpectedly. Left behing a 19 year old son and two 12 year old little girls, she was 42. I sae her a month ago, happy and health as a lark. Always smiling. We lay her to rest tomorrow. 2011 has not gotton off to a good start. My thoughts are w you gixxer. Tell your dad to say yes to the tube. When you have life, you have hope.

[l2elapse]

Sorry to hear about your trials...my best wishes go out to you and your family

[Standby]

Sorry to hear all this bro, I hope once all this horrible stuff passes the year will get so much better for you and life will be good

[BgMc31]

Damn brotha!!! I'm sorry to hear all you're going through. My thoughts and prayers are with ya, brotha!!

[dec11]

sorry to hear

[Hoggage_54]

Keeping you and your father in my thoughts...

[mperk]

Hey Gixxer;
My thoughts are with you - that's a double whammy of things that are hard to deal with. As for your dad, tell him you love him and that you appreciate all he did. He will appreciate that. As for you, try to look at life with a long range perspective. It's not about the last 5 mins but about the time you've spent together over a life and the gifts he has left you with. My dad died 20 years ago and I still miss him, but a part of him is with me still. About the job - it's just a job so try to make the best of it. Get your unemployment and some references and talk to everyone you can about getting a new position. If you can - take a month or more off for yourself. You'll be working your whole life, so missing a month or 2 won't be a big deal in the big picture.

Take good care of yourself buddy, go see a funny or exciting movie (Tourist is great) and make sure you get some good meals in. While it may seem like the sky is falling now, it will all work out some how. Feel free to PM me if you want a total stranger to talk to.

Good luck my man!

PS - and for me at least exercise is great - gets the endorphins flowing and makes you feel good. If all that doesn't work - go to one of the Asian massage parlors and get a blow job...J/K ;-)

[Panzerfaust]

Hate to hear about your Father but look at it this way, the only way to go from here is up. Another door will open soon and this job situation will become a distant memory.

[D3m3nt3d]

Best of luck to you and your father bro

[Tigershark]

Sorry to hear that. My prayers are with you.

[SlimmerMe]

So sorry to hear all of this. I hope things turn around for you sooner than you would ever expect.

[JDawg1536]

My thoughts are with you. Stay strong, man....

[terraj]

It's going to get harder the closer he gets..... say all you can now.

Best to you and your family.

[yungone501]

My cousin went in the hospital for a mild procedure, she had a seizure and died unexpectedly. Left behing a 19 year old son and two 12 year old little girls, she was 42. I sae her a month ago, happy and health as a lark. Always smiling. We lay her to rest tomorrow. 2011 has not gotton off to a good start. My thoughts are w you gixxer. Tell your dad to say yes to the tube. When you have life, you have hope.

Very well put Bru.

[Necrosaro]

There's no set of rules for this situation. Watching my mother die was a wrenching experience I still don't have the words to describe. I have experienced no deeper grief than the day she died, ever. I'd felt heartbreak before, over lost loves and the death of other relatives and beloved pets ... but nothing broke my heart so thoroughly as that week of watching her sick and in pain, fighting, seeming to get better, and then dying. Although nothing could make losing my mom "better", the well-wishes and condolences did give me a slim tether to the world of the living that kept me from teetering over the edge into a black hole of despair. I hope this board can help you through these tough times and I am sure there will be some great members to talk to if you ever needed too.

[Hazard]

My thoughts are with you man..... keep strong - you'll get through it!

~Haz~

[Dukkit]

I love you Gixxer!!

Hit me up anytime.

[thegodfather]

Gixx....You and your father will be in my prayers....I am so sorry that you are having to deal with such a trying situation....Love you bro...

[BG]

Hope things turn around as fast as posible.

[Dont wanna be old]

Hope everything works out for you and your father .
Understanding things can be difficult at this time , but maybe overtime things will be clearer .
Good luck
Dont wanna be old

[paulzane]

Best of luck Gixxer ........ I hope things get better for you and your dad!

[Gaspari1255]

Keep your head up. You're a great guy. Best of luck.

[gixxerboy1]

Thank you everyone. Dad past sat night. It sucks and was very hard to watch. But he is not suffering anymore

[Kawigirl]

Gixxer...I know your pain and no amount of heartfelt words can mend what your feeling right now. But what its worth.....HUGE HUGS!!!!!!

[Matt]

I'm truly sorry to hear this bro, but at least he's in a much better place now..

He will be up there sharing a squat rack with T-Mos

[mperk]

Hey man;
Sorry to hear that, but he is in a better place. I am glad that you were there for him - that meant a lot to him I am sure, but will mean a lot more to you as time passes. My heart goes out to you and your family. Take care big guy.

[Tigershark]

Gixxer my heart goes out to you. Will say a prayer for you and your family tonight. God bless brother.