Valentines Day

[SlimmerMe]

if a girl gives me their # without me asking for it and they ask ME out something has got to be wrong with them so I never went any further

why do you say this? this does not mean something is wrong with them at all. I am a traditionalist meaning that I do think it is up to the guy to ask the girl out, but I do have friends who ask out guys and there is nothing wrong with them for doing so....

Do you ever ask anyone out? We need to get you a VALENTINE DATE!

[RaZr]

Buy her chocolates and cut a hole in the bottom then give her a d*** in a box

[Ernst]

To Craigslist!

[RaZr]

To Craigslist!

Watch out for the creepers!

[stack_it]

Ill be in the gym. It's leg night so no missing allowed.

[Ernst]

Still waiting on pics of neighbor woman....

[stack_it]

Still waiting on pics of neighbor woman....

Lmao. You're encouraging me to add a large amount of drama into my life.

[karen]

No I've never asked a girl out . I have never gotten to know any girls and I think it's too awkward to just go up to someone whose name is all I know about them and ask them if they want to go out. I don't even know where to bring them

[Ernst]

Drama? Who said anything about drama? It's just a picture. I sneaked one of a Snooki look-alike on my phone pretending I was texting. Surely you can do this.

[RaZr]

Drama? Who said anything about drama? It's just a picture. I sneaked one of a Snooki look-alike on my phone pretending I was texting. Surely you can do this.

Is that the creature from NJ

[SlimmerMe]

No I've never asked a girl out . I have never gotten to know any girls and I think it's too awkward to just go up to someone whose name is all I know about them and ask them if they want to go out. I don't even know where to bring them

are you interested in girls? do you want to know them?

[karen]

are you interested in girls? do you want to know them?

no I don't really want to know them I just want to have sex with them (trying to be honest here) all the other kids my age are sexing it up left and right I'm pretty sure I'm missing out on something very good

[SlimmerMe]

no I don't really want to know them I just want to have sex with them (trying to be honest here) all the other kids my age are sexing it up left and right I'm pretty sure I'm missing out on something very good

at 18 it is fairly normal to want to have sex and not know them ....
and I can tell you this: some of the guys who say they are having sex are more than likely not! And I will take that to Vegas!

[stack_it]

Drama? Who said anything about drama? It's just a picture. I sneaked one of a Snooki look-alike on my phone pretending I was texting. Surely you can do this.

Yeah but the only way to get a pic would be to have her over and if she comes over she'll prolly rape me lol. Maybe I can take one out my window next time I see her outside. I'm gonna feel like such a creeper

[karen]

at 18 it is fairly normal to want to have sex and not know them ....
and I can tell you this: some of the guys who say they are having sex are more than likely not! And I will take that to Vegas!

this is probably true I am only making assumptions about kids my age I dropped out of highschool at 16 and got my ged so my social contact has been limited. It's either a) coworkers or b) people on the internet/gym people and I have only been able to add them to my list this month cause before that I've been working out at home

[stack_it]

at 18 it is fairly normal to want to have sex and not know them ....
and I can tell you this: some of the guys who say they are having sex are more than likely not! And I will take that to Vegas!

Agreed. It's been about a month or so for me. As you know I'm turning down my neighbor but I've got some other things looking good for me. I'll be honest when I'm not getting any lol.

[stack_it]

No I've never asked a girl out . I have never gotten to know any girls and I think it's too awkward to just go up to someone whose name is all I know about them and ask them if they want to go out. I don't even know where to bring them

Go to dinner and have a conversation with one. You don't have to listen you just have to look like you're listening. Then take her home to watch a movie and let 18 year old hormones do the rest.

[karen]

Go to dinner and have a conversation with one. You don't have to listen you just have to look like you're listening. Then take her home to watch a movie and let 18 year old hormones do the rest.

Should I just ask the coworker out on sunday ? What should I say ?

[SlimmerMe]

Note: just for the record: girls are the opposite on this. They want to get to know you before sex. And because so, this is where the games/drama/ confusion begin.

Yes....ask out the co-worker. Just say, "hey, lets go to bla bla , how 'bout it? I'll pick you up at bla bla..." and then she says what she says. And if she has plans or whatnot, then you merely say, " oh...thats too bad because it could have been fun." And keep cool and confident and trust in one thing: NEXT!

Remember: at 18 you are shopping. As long as you do not abuse or use someone with bad intentions, then you have every single right to sort it all out. As does she. You will find what you like in a girl, just like she will find what she likes in a guy. This is the R&D stage.

[karen]

Note: just for the record: girls are the opposite on this. They want to get to know you before sex. And because so, this is where the games/drama/ confusion begin.

Yes....ask out the co-worker. Just say, "hey, lets go to bla bla , how 'bout it? I'll pick you up at bla bla..." and then she says what she says. And if she has plans or whatnot, then you merely say, " oh...thats too bad because it could have been fun." And keep cool and confident and trust in one thing: NEXT!

Remember: at 18 you are shopping. As long as you do not abuse or use someone with bad intentions, then you have every single right to sort it all out. As does she. You will find what you like in a girl, just like she will find what she likes in a guy. This is the R&D stage.

ok well I will go ahead and ask her out as long as I'm able to get my sportbike running tomorrow. If I can't, then there's no feasible way for me to take a girl out because I would not have any transportation.

[layeazy]

good advice slimmerme however you should charge him for your counseling services...

Just man up at 18 its easy territory you will still know chicks from school, uni, work....

[stack_it]

Note: just for the record: girls are the opposite on this. They want to get to know you before sex. And because so, this is where the games/drama/ confusion begin.

I completely disagree on this but will not confuse him with a debate here. I've had plenty of girls that have approached me and then slept with me without ever know eachothers name. I'm sure dukkit, cal, and a few others have had there fair share of these aswell. Not sure of your age and would never ask but girls now are not like they used to be. I don't think there was a single virgin girl in my highschool graduation unless she was huge or butt ugly. Even most of them were whoring around.

[SlimmerMe]

ok well I will go ahead and ask her out as long as I'm able to get my sportbike running tomorrow. If I can't, then there's no feasible way for me to take a girl out because I would not have any transportation.

then get it running! keep us posted.....

[SlimmerMe]

I completely disagree on this but will not confuse him with a debate here. I've had plenty of girls that have approached me and then slept with me without ever know eachothers name. I'm sure dukkit, cal, and a few others have had there fair share of these aswell. Not sure of your age and would never ask but girls now are not like they used to be. I don't think there was a single virgin girl in my highschool graduation unless she was huge or butt ugly. Even most of them were whoring around.

Oh...here goes....not the same frame of mind....you are the guys he is talking about...and the girls you are talking about who said they did not care were FAKING! or drunk .....

[karen]

good advice slimmerme however you should charge him for your counseling services...

Just man up at 18 its easy territory you will still know chicks from school, uni, work....

you would think so but it's not like that. Last time I've seen any girls from highschool was when I was in highschool 2 years ago(completely srs). I just started working last month and there's only 3 girls my age that are my co-workers. My neighbor is my only contact in my phone besides my mom/dad/work. I spent most of my time after dropping out playing video games and not going outside. Luckily weights kind of saved me (started training in july). I sold my xbox so that I could focus only on working out and I recently got a job so that I could buy myself proper food and gear.

[Ladyblahblah]

[Yes....ask out the co-worker. Just say, "hey, lets go to bla bla , how 'bout it? I'll pick you up at bla bla..." and then she says what she says. And if she has plans or whatnot, then you merely say, " oh...thats too bad because it could have been fun." And keep cool and confident and trust in one thing: NEXT!


Did someone say bla bla?

Seriously, I agree with Slimmerme. Good advice.

[stack_it]

Oh...here goes....not the same frame of mind....you are the guys he is talking about...and the girls you are talking about who said they did not care were FAKING! or drunk .....

Faking what? That they cared? Sex is a very big part of life and it I believe it's more open and excepted (talking premarital) than what it used to be. In highschool I was with just one girl. I stayed with that one girl til I was 20. That's when I started my wild times I guess you'd call it. I graduated from a small school. 55 people in my senior class. One of our teachers even slept with a couple students. I'm not saying all of what you said was wrong, just saying that young women are not very lady like anymore and will have sex just for the fun of it. There's actually a sociological study that was done on this not too long ago. It showed college students both men and womens views on random sex and they were surprisingly similar.

[Ladyblahblah]

^^oops, meant to quote that from Slimmerme.

[layeazy]

I feel a hug coming on invizion...

you accept lol

[stack_it]

Oh and yes alcohol was involved a majority of the time.

[SlimmerMe]

PS to Stack: virgins in high school are a rare breed and nothing new.....this is not the issue. I am talking about a kid who is 18 and wants to have sex but does not want to actually know the girl and I did not want to lead him to girls thinking the girls felt the same way. Think about it. I am talking most girls. All girls talk about behind your back is "does he like me?" not...."I want to get laid..." 90% of girls want to know the guy first. Naturally there is always the girl who makes it easy. This is another thing all together. I stand by the fact that this contrast is what confuses the mating game from the get-go. You want sex. WE WANT TO KNOW YOU FIRST. And a lot of that knowing has to be earned with the little things in life like.....

VALENTINE CANDY AND PRETTY FLOWERS AND SWEET CARDS AND A ROMANTIC DINNER......then.....and then you might get what you want. Because in the end, the female does the picking.

[stack_it]

PS to Stack: virgins in high school are a rare breed and nothing new.....this is not the issue. I am talking about a kid who is 18 and wants to have sex but does not want to actually know the girl and I did not want to lead him to girls thinking the girls felt the same way. Think about it. I am talking most girls. All girls talk about behind your back is "does he like me?" not...."I want to get laid..." 90% of girls want to know the guy first. Naturally there is always the girl who makes it easy. This is another thing all together. I stand by the fact that this contrast is what confuses the mating game from the get-go. You want sex. WE WANT TO KNOW YOU FIRST. And a lot of that knowing has to be earned with the little things in life like.....

VALENTINE CANDY AND PRETTY FLOWERS AND SWEET CARDS AND A ROMANTIC DINNER......then.....and then you might get what you want. Because in the end, the female does the picking.

I brought up the highschool thing to relate to his age. Yes many girls want to get to know us I agree to that. My point was that if he doesn't want that type of girl then the easy ones are out there. I doubt anyone who has never gone through the dating scene could pick them up easily tho so your route would be the best for this guy. I do believe this is a subject we always have and will have to continue to agree to disagree on. It's really got a lot of variables.

[karen]

I feel a hug coming on invizion...

you accept lol

lol ok

maybe some of your game will rub off on me and I'll ask this girl out confidently

[stack_it]

Sorry for ruining your thread D

[SlimmerMe]

[Yes....ask out the co-worker. Just say, "hey, lets go to bla bla , how 'bout it? I'll pick you up at bla bla..." and then she says what she says. And if she has plans or whatnot, then you merely say, " oh...thats too bad because it could have been fun." And keep cool and confident and trust in one thing: NEXT!


Did someone say bla bla?

Seriously, I agree with Slimmerme. Good advice.

THANK YOU LADYBLAHBLAH,,,,,and on that note? I will get off while I am ahead!

[karen]

THANK YOU LADYBLAHBLAH,,,,,and on that note? I will get off while I am ahead!

lol see ya later and thanks for the advice

[drdeath613]

im married so she said shes cooking me a nice thick steak and going to rent a few movies

i told her after im done slamming it that night ill hold her and not fall asleep for a lil bit hahah

[DSM4Life]

im married so she said shes cooking me a nice thick steak and going to rent a few movies

i told her after im done slamming it that night ill hold her and not fall asleep for a lil bit hahah

Smash that box !

Isn't that what the guys say these days.

[Tigershark]

We are going to a wine tasting and chocolate event in South Hampton, NH. And the best part is it is free.

[karen]

Sportbike parts won't be here until Friday the earliest. No Valentines day date for me even if she had said yes

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