Are you judgemental?

**calgarian** · 03-14-2011, 09:23 PM

Originally Posted by oldnsedentary

It is spelled judgmental.

i purposely misspelled it to see if someone say he is not and point that out...dont you think i can use spell check .......moron

**Knockout_Power** · 03-14-2011, 09:43 PM

Originally Posted by calgarian

i purposely misspelled it to see if someone say he is not and point that out...dont you think i can use spell check .......moron

I put the mental in it

**songdog** · 03-14-2011, 10:09 PM

Yes Kawi it does.Along with 9 yrs in the Marines.Where you meet some of the biggest husslers around.

**kalspic** · 03-14-2011, 10:29 PM

i judge and i am wrong alot. i still judge, but keep it to myself. and i also think that judgmental is to general of a term, unless cal wanted to cover all aspects of judging

**lovbyts** · 03-14-2011, 10:34 PM

I'm sure I am due to life experiences, upbringing and culture but at the same time I have always tried not to judge, not to be 100% sure about anything and willing to listen, think, learn and to understand that everyone has different life experiences and cultural differences that gives them different views. Because something is right for me does not mean it is right for everyone.

**Bojangles69** · 03-14-2011, 11:41 PM

Originally Posted by Kawigirl

Never, not my place.

Originally Posted by Kawigirl

And, I've seen a tattoo'd covered individual selling Lexus's whose traveled the world and is one of the most kindest I've met.

Care to explain how this isn't judging?
You're just judging him as a kind person.

I don't think people actually understand what judging is. Its when you attach ANY label to a person.
I think what you're really saying is "I don't judge people within the first 30 seconds I meet them". But in terms of this car salesmen, you just judged him after you *assumed* to know him.
Since we never really know people, we're technically always judging as long as we use a label to desribe them in our own mind.
You just did this, therefore you are judgemental.

You can say "I try not to judge people". But noone can ever say "I don't judge people". You do. If you think about them on any level, its impossible otherwise. This is actually psych 101 I guess you never took it? Its where that whole word "inherent" comes into play. I'm not trying to offend you but
you seem to be living in a bit of a bubble. Ok no thats not true. See I just judged you. It could be that you just don't know. That would be a much
more accurate judgement (I assume) but I can still be wrong.

**wmaousley** · 03-15-2011, 12:20 AM

Its human nature to be judgmental

**calgarian** · 03-15-2011, 07:19 AM

Originally Posted by DSM4Life

Cal does this all stem from you loving fat chicks ?

I try not to be.

u meant to say fvckiing???

**oldnsedentary** · 03-15-2011, 07:38 AM

Originally Posted by Standby

English isn't his first language

give him a break!

I did not know that - I am actually very impressed with his English if that is true. I see a lot worse from native English speakers.

**calgarian** · 03-15-2011, 07:42 AM

Originally Posted by oldnsedentary

I did not know that - I am actually very impressed with his English if that is true. I see a lot worse from native English speakers.

so now u turn me into american native.......wow........

**oldnsedentary** · 03-15-2011, 07:56 AM

What? LOL! I do not think you understood my post.

**calgarian** · 03-15-2011, 08:00 AM

now u r picking on me cause English is not my NATIVE language........its not only rude but I am telling

MARCUS!!!!!!

**D3m3nt3d** · 03-15-2011, 08:01 AM

Originally Posted by calgarian

now u r picking on me cause English is not my NATIVE language........its not only rude but I am telling

MARCUS!!!!!!

Moron

**calgarian** · 03-15-2011, 08:03 AM

Originally Posted by D3m3nt3d

Moron

come on u love me

i was just rattling his cage....

**D3m3nt3d** · 03-15-2011, 08:09 AM

Originally Posted by calgarian

come on u love me

i was just rattling his cage....

You are my favorite

**oldnsedentary** · 03-15-2011, 08:13 AM

I hope Marcus does not ban me on the first offense!

**calgarian** · 03-15-2011, 08:23 AM

Originally Posted by oldnsedentary

I hope Marcus does not ban me on the first offense!

i was just messing with u man......

**Kawigirl** · 03-15-2011, 08:26 AM

Originally Posted by Bojangles69

Care to explain how this isn't judging?
You're just judging him as a kind person.

I don't think people actually understand what judging is. Its when you attach ANY label to a person.
I think what you're really saying is "I don't judge people within the first 30 seconds I meet them". But in terms of this car salesmen, you just judged him after you *assumed* to know him.
Since we never really know people, we're technically always judging as long as we use a label to desribe them in our own mind.
You just did this, therefore you are judgemental.

You can say "I try not to judge people". But noone can ever say "I don't judge people". You do. If you think about them on any level, its impossible otherwise. This is actually psych 101 I guess you never took it? Its where that whole word "inherent" comes into play. I'm not trying to offend you but
you seem to be living in a bit of a bubble. Ok no thats not true. See I just judged you. It could be that you just don't know. That would be a much
more accurate judgement (I assume) but I can still be wrong.

Because I got to know him on a more personal level Bojangles. THATS how I knew!! I never made a preconcieved notion based solely on his tattoos.......otherwise....I would of judged him alone on that and never got to know HIM; as an individual. What he's done in life...experienced...seen.

**Gaspari1255** · 03-15-2011, 08:44 AM

Let me give you another example. You're a police officer working in Miami in the middle of July and a man comes charging towards you with a long black trench coat on. Are you gonna be a little cautious and maybe reach for your firearm? Probably. It's not a crime to be weird wearing a trench coat when its hot as balls out, and at the same time, it's not a crime to label the man as a possible threat to you and the surrounding community.