(Sad Thread, I know) The Longest you've been without a woman (or....)

**Times Roman** · 03-29-2011, 10:14 AM

Originally Posted by Knockout_Power

called DSM

touche! =)

**flatscat** · 03-29-2011, 10:17 AM

Originally Posted by Times Roman

it was 1980, and I was 18...

Like I just told someone else...

Good girls wouldnt' talk to you...

Bad girls wouldn't leave you alone

you either paid for it, or you were celibate. What would you have done?

An old man once told me a long time ago.....

If it floats, flys or fcks..........rent it.

I could be a millionaire by now if I had only listened...

jus sayin

**JohnnyVegas** · 03-29-2011, 10:21 AM

I didn't keep track, but I went without for a long time at the end of my marriage, then took almost a year off from women.

**Bojangles69** · 03-29-2011, 10:24 AM

Calgarian get off your fvckn high horse you sound like a pretentious bitch.
Not to mention when you can't speak english properly if comes off even more insulting.

Seriously. Prostitution should be legal and if you do it, I have nothing against you as a person. I think its how you view prostitution that is the problem. There are filthy drug using prostitutes yes if you prefer going to the ghetto, but now and days almost everyone just uses escorts.
I grew up around enough successful men, cool fvckn men, not "losers", and it wouldn't be rare for us all to chip in after a nights drinking to get one. We do this for a reason. Because most of them are married/have gfs, and its far more discrete then dragging home drunk bitches from the bar so your gfs friends bfs sister who was also at the bar doesn't have to go open her mouth to your wife/gf.

Plus if you know the right places, you can get escorts that are top notch, like none of the fatties you've ever fvcked. You should try it.

As far as the thread. Longest I ever went was 20 years lol. Yes, I was a "late bloomer".

**Times Roman** · 03-29-2011, 10:26 AM

Originally Posted by DSM4Life

ha ha ha!

sorry DSM.... I don't think you were alive back in 1980 =)

**Knockout_Power** · 03-29-2011, 10:26 AM

Originally Posted by Bojangles69

Calgarian get off your fvckn high horse you sound like a pretentious bitch.
Not to mention when you can't speak english properly if comes off even more insulting.

Seriously. Prostitution should be legal and if you do it, I have nothing against you as a person. I think its how you view prostitution that is the problem. There are filthy drug using prostitutes yes if you prefer going to the ghetto, but now and days almost everyone just uses escorts.
I grew up around enough successful men, cool fvckn men, not "losers", and it wouldn't be rare for us all to chip in after a nights drinking to get one. We do this for a reason. Because most of them are married/have gfs, and its far more discrete then dragging home drunk bitches from the bar so your gfs friends bfs sister who was also at the bar doesn't have to go open her mouth to your wife/gf.

Plus if you know the right places, you can get escorts that are top notch, like none of the fatties you've ever fvcked. You should try it.

As far as the thread. Longest I ever went was 20 years lol. Yes, I was a "late bloomer".

nothing to worry about here... add a couple more years for this guy

**calgarian** · 03-29-2011, 10:28 AM

Originally Posted by Bojangles69

Calgarian get off your fvckn high horse you sound like a pretentious bitch.
Not to mention when you can't speak english properly if comes off even more insulting.

Seriously. Prostitution should be legal and if you do it, I have nothing against you as a person. I think its how you view prostitution that is the problem. There are filthy drug using prostitutes yes if you prefer going to the ghetto, but now and days almost everyone just uses escorts.
I grew up around enough successful men, cool fvckn men, not "losers", and it wouldn't be rare for us all to chip in after a nights drinking to get one. We do this for a reason. Because most of them are married/have gfs, and its far more discrete then dragging home drunk bitches from the bar so your gfs friends bfs sister who was also at the bar doesn't have to go open her mouth to your wife/gf.

Plus if you know the right places, you can get escorts that are top notch, like none of the fatties you've ever fvcked. You should try it.

As far as the thread. Longest I ever went was 20 years lol. Yes, I was a "late bloomer".

wow sound like DSM didnt pay you after using u.... and I have nothing against prostitution for all ppl u know (as u wrote a great book on picking up chiks) if u play ur cards right u dont need to pay for sex thats it thats all.

**Times Roman** · 03-29-2011, 10:34 AM

I agree. Prostitution should be legal in my opinion. For the life of me, I can't see anything wrong with what ever two consenting adults decide to do. Oh, but then again, we live in a society of Bible Thumpers that know better than anyone else!

**Bojangles69** · 03-29-2011, 10:34 AM

You SAID the word "loser". You obviously have something against prostitution. I'm not here to start shit my only point is don't go around calling people losers just because they get a hooker. There are guys who do it for fun, and guys who do it out of desperateness. The latter likely feel bad enough about themselves already, last thing they need is comments from overly judgmental pricks about it.

I'd never judge a guy for doing something like that because lets not forget sex is still natural, paid for or not. Certain things in this world like raping little kids isn't natural. If you want to talk about losers, go to the pedophile thread. Lets be real.

**Hazard** · 03-29-2011, 10:45 AM

I never did understand why it's illegal..... it doesn't make sense. You can pay someone to drive you from point A to point B - you can pay someone to do your nails - you can pay someone for a therapeutic massage - you can pay a mechanic to fix your car - you can pay someone to cook for you...... but you can't pay someone to service your sexual needs.

The sheer ammount of rapes may just drop if it was legalized...... there would always be those sexual sadists and predators..... but maybe the ammount of rapes on women by guys whom are desperate would drop off a little.

If two adults are in agreement..... I don't see anything wrong with it. One day I believe it will be legalized..... our society just isn't ready for something like that yet.

~Haz~

**calgarian** · 03-29-2011, 10:46 AM

Originally Posted by Bojangles69

You SAID the word "loser". You obviously have something against prostitution. I'm not here to start shit my only point is don't go around calling people losers just because they get a hooker. There are guys who do it for fun, and guys who do it out of desperateness. The latter likely feel bad enough about themselves already, last thing they need is comments from overly judgmental pricks about it.

I'd never judge a guy for doing something like that because lets not forget sex is still natural, paid for or not. Certain things in this world like raping little kids isn't natural. If you want to talk about losers, go to the pedophile thread. Lets be real.

i was going say something but I rather not and leave it alone ......

**calgarian** · 03-29-2011, 10:49 AM

Originally Posted by Bojangles69

Calgarian get off your fvckn high horse you sound like a pretentious bitch.
Not to mention when you can't speak english properly if comes off even more insulting.

Seriously. Prostitution should be legal and if you do it, I have nothing against you as a person. I think its how you view prostitution that is the problem. There are filthy drug using prostitutes yes if you prefer going to the ghetto, but now and days almost everyone just uses escorts.
I grew up around enough successful men, cool fvckn men, not "losers", and it wouldn't be rare for us all to chip in after a nights drinking to get one. We do this for a reason. Because most of them are married/have gfs, and its far more discrete then dragging home drunk bitches from the bar so your gfs friends bfs sister who was also at the bar doesn't have to go open her mouth to your wife/gf.

Plus if you know the right places, you can get escorts that are top notch, like none of the fatties you've ever fvcked. You should try it.

As far as the thread. Longest I ever went was 20 years lol. Yes, I was a "late bloomer".

Originally Posted by Bojangles69

You SAID the word "loser". You obviously have something against prostitution. I'm not here to start shit my only point is don't go around calling people losers just because they get a hooker. There are guys who do it for fun, and guys who do it out of desperateness. The latter likely feel bad enough about themselves already, last thing they need is comments from overly judgmental pricks about it.

I'd never judge a guy for doing something like that because lets not forget sex is still natural, paid for or not. Certain things in this world like raping little kids isn't natural. If you want to talk about losers, go to the pedophile thread. Lets be real.

nice.....

**Knockout_Power** · 03-29-2011, 10:52 AM

Originally Posted by Bojangles69

You SAID the word "loser". You obviously have something against prostitution. I'm not here to start shit my only point is don't go around calling people losers just because they get a hooker. There are guys who do it for fun, and guys who do it out of desperateness. The latter likely feel bad enough about themselves already, last thing they need is comments from overly judgmental pricks about it.

I'd never judge a guy for doing something like that because lets not forget sex is still natural, paid for or not. Certain things in this world like raping little kids isn't natural. If you want to talk about losers, go to the pedophile thread. Lets be real.

this is true, while Ive never thought of going to a hooker/prostitute/call girl/escort, it doesnt mean its a "wrong" thing to do... you would have to define "paying for sex" cause there are a ton of guys who support a woman who doesnt take the time to make sure her man is satisfied. This costs a guy a lot more than a couple times "paying" directly for sex. Hello, even buying a girl dinner in hopes of getting laid is the same thing cause lets face it, we would sooner not have to spend the money... and Im refering to a "booty call", not dates and stuff like that, we enjoy treating a woman well most the time without thought of "compensation"

**Knockout_Power** · 03-29-2011, 10:55 AM

Originally Posted by Hazard

If two adults are in agreement..... I don't see anything wrong with it. One day I believe it will be legalized..... our society just isn't ready for something like that yet.

~Haz~

you know this comes down to 2 simple things... one is controlling the massive increase in disease transmission and the moe important one is the gov't will want its share of taxes from the service provided. And until they can gaurantee their fair share of income tax, they will not legalise it

**Knockout_Power** · 03-29-2011, 10:57 AM

ok, lets keep this a little more friendly... so what if someone used the wrong word to describe their thoughts on people who do or do not do certain things that dont affect anyone else... lets not get nasty... we're still adults, albeit immature ones

**Bojangles69** · 03-29-2011, 11:03 AM

Originally Posted by Times Roman

you mean the right Chinese people? sorry mate! aint never paying for it again... living in Korea was plenty

Originally Posted by calgarian

only losers pay for sex ...not trying to be harsh....

"nice"
I could have seen maybe if you didn't quote him directly, but you don't exactly have any credibility to be making judgements on my manners.

I'm not sure what world you live in. But calling a person a loser, than saying "not trying to be harsh", doesn't actually make it any less harsh. Thats like me saying "only losers fvck fat bitches", then say to calg "oh and btw not trying to be harsh". Wtf is that shit?

What if I said:
"Hey anyone who has sex with men and is a man... you're a loser, and btw dsm not trying to be harsh"

thats obviously rude. Your attempt to soften the blow at the end only makes it more insulting imo. If your real problem is that you don't understand english, say so. It seems pretty clear what you were trying to say. If you don't like my manners, don't act like a dick. Doesn't get much simpler than that.

**calgarian** · 03-29-2011, 11:07 AM

Originally Posted by Bojangles69

"nice"
I could have seen maybe if you didn't quote him directly, but you don't exactly have any credibility to be making judgements on my manners.

I'm not sure what world you live in. But calling a person a loser, than saying "not trying to be harsh", doesn't actually make it any less harsh. Thats like me saying "only losers fvck fat bitches", then say to calg "oh and btw not trying to be harsh". Wtf is that shit?

What if I said:
"Hey anyone who has sex with men and is a man... you're a loser, and btw dsm not trying to be harsh"

thats obviously rude. Your attempt to soften the blow at the end only makes it more insulting imo. If your real problem is that you don't understand english, say so. It seems pretty clear what you were trying to say. If you don't like my manners, don't act like a dick. Doesn't get much simpler than that.

u should read the post before times posted. all i was trying to say if you know right ppl even in afghanistan u can get laid on a regular basis without getting scammed and he bring in the chinese ppl. u can read all u want between the lines.

only way to shut u up either agree with you or ignore you..

**Times Roman** · 03-29-2011, 11:10 AM

I can see this thread is becoming a barrel of laughs?

**Bojangles69** · 03-29-2011, 11:11 AM

Originally Posted by Knockout_Power

this is true, while Ive never thought of going to a hooker/prostitute/call girl/escort, it doesnt mean its a "wrong" thing to do... you would have to define "paying for sex" cause there are a ton of guys who support a woman who doesnt take the time to make sure her man is satisfied. This costs a guy a lot more than a couple times "paying" directly for sex. Hello, even buying a girl dinner in hopes of getting laid is the same thing cause lets face it, we would sooner not have to spend the money... and Im refering to a "booty call", not dates and stuff like that, we enjoy treating a woman well most the time without thought of "compensation"

Ding ding ding! We have a winner lol.
See this is PRECISELY what I'm talking about. There are much better things to be judgemental about. I would have more respect for the guy who just goes out and gets a prostitute, then the guy who pays for dinner, pays for a new purse, pays for the lemon in her drink, pays for her shoes, begs endlessly and plays the whole "nice guy" role - pulling chairs out & opening doors just to ge laid. And when he doesn't get laid, he begs like a baby then offers to take her out shopping again.
There is actually a staggering wealth of guys like that out there. They're paying for sex, cause if they didn't have money, they'd never get laid. They also try to hide the fact they're a tool/doormat, try to play it off like the girl is sooo interested in them, and at that point I gotta pull out the word loser on them. Far far worse then merely getting a hooker imo.

**calgarian** · 03-29-2011, 11:12 AM

Originally Posted by Times Roman

I can see this thread is becoming a barrel of laughs?

is there anything else u like to share?

**marcus300** · 03-29-2011, 11:15 AM

Originally Posted by Bojangles69

Calgarian get off your fvckn high horse you sound like a pretentious bitch.
Not to mention when you can't speak english properly if comes off even more insulting.

Seriously. Prostitution should be legal and if you do it, I have nothing against you as a person. I think its how you view prostitution that is the problem. There are filthy drug using prostitutes yes if you prefer going to the ghetto, but now and days almost everyone just uses escorts.
I grew up around enough successful men, cool fvckn men, not "losers", and it wouldn't be rare for us all to chip in after a nights drinking to get one. We do this for a reason. Because most of them are married/have gfs, and its far more discrete then dragging home drunk bitches from the bar so your gfs friends bfs sister who was also at the bar doesn't have to go open her mouth to your wife/gf.

Plus if you know the right places, you can get escorts that are top notch, like none of the fatties you've ever fvcked. You should try it.

As far as the thread. Longest I ever went was 20 years lol. Yes, I was a "late bloomer".

Respect our members please,

**Bojangles69** · 03-29-2011, 11:16 AM

Originally Posted by calgarian

u should read the post before times posted. all i was trying to say if you know right ppl even in afghanistan u can get laid on a regular basis without getting scammed and he bring in the chinese ppl. u can read all u want between the lines.

only way to shut u up either agree with you or ignore you..

If you "knew the right people" in afgan you could also be your own opium drug czar, own a concubine, traffic/import little boys and girls for the sex/slave trade, and kill people for money.
You can accomplish a lot in life when you know the right people. I haven't gone back to read as you sound pretty adamant you had another point. So I'll just take you on your word.
I gotta get back to work, so feel free to get snidy again when I leave. =]

**Knockout_Power** · 03-29-2011, 11:17 AM

Originally Posted by calgarian

is there anything else u like to share?

I would....

**Bojangles69** · 03-29-2011, 11:18 AM

Originally Posted by marcus300

Respect our members please,

I already do thanks. If you go back and read you'll see I was actually demanding respect for our members same exact way you are.

**Times Roman** · 03-29-2011, 11:20 AM

Originally Posted by calgarian

is there anything else u like to share?

I think I'm good for now....

how 'bout you?

**marcus300** · 03-29-2011, 11:20 AM

Originally Posted by Bojangles69

I already do thanks. If you go back and read you'll see I was actually demanding respect for our members same exact way you are.

I was commenting on your post no one elses, you disrespect many members here we had many complaints so I am just letting you know to respect our members in your future posts

**calgarian** · 03-29-2011, 11:26 AM

Originally Posted by Times Roman

I think I'm good for now....

how 'bout you?

i am getting laid regularly....and was just told if i wasnt married a gun would be put to my head and will be forced to marry.....

**calgarian** · 03-29-2011, 11:27 AM

Originally Posted by Knockout_Power

I would....

now i got wet pants.......freaking test

**Times Roman** · 03-29-2011, 11:29 AM

Originally Posted by calgarian

i am getting laid regularly....and was just told if i wasnt married a gun would be put to my head and will be forced to marry.....

I'm in exactly the same boat!

...'cept I'm NOT getting laid regularly. Other than that....

**calgarian** · 03-29-2011, 11:31 AM

Originally Posted by Times Roman

I'm in exactly the same boat!

...'cept I'm NOT getting laid regularly. Other than that....

and knowing her I am sure that she is capable of doing as she said.

**BARLOW** · 03-29-2011, 11:31 AM

Originally Posted by marcus300

I was commenting on your post no one elses, you disrespect many members here we had many complaints so I am just letting you know to respect our members in your future posts

Can anyone understand what this guy is saying? Engrish pls.

**Bojangles69** · 03-29-2011, 11:34 AM

Originally Posted by marcus300

I was commenting on your post no one elses, you disrespect many members here we had many complaints so I am just letting you know to respect our members in your future posts

Really? I'm not calling bs here but if you were getting complaints here about ME wouldn't it be smart to have at least told me? Like when it allegedly happened?
Anytime I've ever gotten a complaint in the past I've been told about it. Its been years since thats happened.

90% of my "rudeness" here is to compensate for selective moderating. Same way you said "I was commenting on your post and noone else", thats selective policing. If someone had reprimanded calg prior to me coming into this thread, I wouldn't have had to say a word to him.

If "rude" is what I was doing, instead of sticking up for someone, I apologize.

**marcus300** · 03-29-2011, 11:38 AM

Originally Posted by Bojangles69

Really? I'm not calling bs here but if you were getting complaints here about ME wouldn't it be smart to have at least told me? Like when it allegedly happened?
Anytime I've ever gotten a complaint in the past I've been told about it. Its been years since thats happened.

90% of my "rudeness" here is to compensate for selective moderating. Same way you said "I was commenting on your post and noone else", thats selective policing. If someone had reprimanded calg prior to me coming into this thread, I wouldn't have had to say a word to him.

If "rude" is what I was doing, instead of sticking up for someone, I apologize.

Look your bullshit posts dont wash with me, ive told you to respect our members, the end.

If your struggling to comprehend what ive said let me try and re-word this so you can understand it better.

Stop being a imbecile, I know you look like total crap and maybe that's why your so insecure and try all the time to belittle our members but we have had enough of the complaints regarding your belittling posts and your constant disrespecting our members. Now please continue in a respectable manner and everything will be fine, thankyou

**Bojangles69** · 03-29-2011, 11:45 AM

Calling my posts "bullshit" now?
"Struggling to comprehend".
"Stop being an imbecile"
"look like total crap"

I realize exactly where this is going now. And don't worry, I'll take it up with someone who doesn't fly off the hinge in an attempt to discuss a simple matter.
If I saw someone getting picked on in the streets, and went to stick up for them (regardless of my tone) thats still an act 90% of the common sense having
world would consider polite. And if a cop saw me doing it, they wouldn't say a single word to me as they would realize I was not the problem.

I'm reporting your post and going to admin. You get respect on here when you earn respect. I have absolutely no respect for you after that bs.

**marcus300** · 03-29-2011, 11:47 AM

I can see your not good at decision making

**Bojangles69** · 03-29-2011, 12:01 PM

I don't understand why you're so all or nothing about things. You act like I don't try to be polite on here and treat people with respect, I do.
Cal insulted times, I've seen cal do this before to other members. Quite like you've "heard through the grapevine" about me being rude to other
members.
I'm being straight with you, this is the 3rd or 4th time I've seen it happen w/out him being reprimanded. If I make a mistake I DO THINK I should be
told about it. If cal does I think he should be told too. I'm not perfect and I know I lose my cool. But how can you address me like that, in a totally
condescending way and expect me to just gobble up your shit?

I told you I'll be polite. I made a few comments that were true. And now we'll see if admin think they're true too.

**Times Roman** · 03-29-2011, 12:09 PM

^ Let it go mate! Last I checked, I can handle my own... no worries on my end!

**marcus300** · 03-29-2011, 12:10 PM

Originally Posted by Bojangles69

I don't understand why you're so all or nothing about things. You act like I don't try to be polite on here and treat people with respect, I do.
Cal insulted times, I've seen cal do this before to other members. Quite like you've "heard through the grapevine" about me being rude to other
members.
I'm being straight with you, this is the 3rd or 4th time I've seen it happen w/out him being reprimanded. If I make a mistake I DO THINK I should be
told about it. If cal does I think he should be told too. I'm not perfect and I know I lose my cool. But how can you address me like that, in a totally
condescending way and expect me to just gobble up your shit?

I told you I'll be polite. I made a few comments that were true. And now we'll see if admin think they're true too.

I have been sent many complaints regarding your attitude and insecure posting and I got another one regarding this thread, so I sent you a polite warning to keep it on track but seeing that you cant take direction and you have this behaviour were you want to argue with everyone, you come back with your usual bullshit posts.

Now your going to Admin, complaining about me well I might aswell give you something to complain about

I dont know what you see when you look in the mirror but believe me you dont want to ask me,

**Bojangles69** · 03-29-2011, 12:19 PM

Marcus its gotta make you feel good to be the official ar cop. I have nothing against any mod here, I have nothing against you. But you are entirely too powerstruck and disrespectful to other members.
I never gave you permission to post my pics. Thats a bannable offense. You have flamed me 10 times the amount I did to calg, someone who was flaming someone else mind you. You keep telling me about "complaints" but NOT ONE TIME HAVE YOU EVER pm'd me about it.

Your entire story is shady. A lot of people on here are aware of the fact that you merely just don't like me, and thats the actual reason you take every desperate attempt you can to "correct" me about an issue. Show me a complaint and I'll explain it to you if you need. Otherwise using that as justification for how you're behaving now is ludcricous juvenile nonsense.

Like I said, I'm discussing this with admin. And I'm also making a list of every offense thing you have ever said to me, and other members on this forum.
If you think I'm rude, wait till admin sees what I'm working on for you.