My healthy sex drive and her "menopause"=ISSUES, like porn

[Kawigirl]

I'm just gonna throw this in here...cause I can't handle keeping quiet anymore.

More than just hormone therapy is the issue here!!! But, of course being this is that type of forum; I don't blame all for such being their first suggestion!!

toooosmall....from a woman whose been married before.......there maybe more to this than just a "hormone" issue. I'm just giving you a different perspective than the obvious.

That's all I'm sayin

[SlimmerMe]

^^^ agree 100%. However a good place to start. And the rest? IMO? Between her ears. That is what usually works.

[toooosmall]

I guess time will tell what the hell is goin on...hopefully...

[dec11]

the poor woman is obviously having hormonal troubles. try not just considering yourself and helping her. if you dont want to then you shouldnt be there

[toooosmall]

the poor woman is obviously having hormonal troubles. try not just considering yourself and helping her. if you dont want to then you shouldnt be there

understandable reply. unfortunately, there's alot more involved. A sh!t load more, of which if i wrote a book people could see and understand better. and I wouldn't look to some as being so selfish. this goes way beyond me not getting my rocks off by her. It does have alot more to do with other issues. But you don't understand what I've been through, from the beginning of the relationship, to the hysterectomy, to all the shit that happened since then. and believe me, I was prepared for craziness from the surgery, and have tried to keep up front that her new behavior is hormonal. but its really not that new. it coincided with alot of things. and after 6 months you lose sight that it could be hormonal....oh god, really, I'd have to write a book, because there's too much to say. and she does have emotional problems from the past, which def helped create all this. and it just seems like she doesn't want help with the emotional problems, nor the physical problems. but, i can't argue that I need to not consider myself as much, and that i need to focus more on helping her. that's why I want to research hrt.

[Kawigirl]

You can't make anyone get help if they don't want too for themselves. Just as the old adage goes...You can lead a horse to water; but you can't make him drink. So true........

[toooosmall]

hmmmm...i feel like i'm in a pit of confusion surrounded by hotties

[zabster151]

eat her ***** out till she shakes then **** her real hard. should do the trick

[toooosmall]

zab, dude, thanks, but, been there dun that. that was key with my ex's, when needed. but not here. This is sumthin different. seems to be hormones for real.

[SlimmerMe]

ZAbster? THat is called Shake and Bake! Smart Man you are!

[big_ron]

thanks everyone. I'd like to try to address much of the replies here.
pt141? there's no chance of getting her to inject anything unless a doc tells her to. she doesn't trust anyone but doctors regarding anything...as long as she can't find a different doctor that disagrees with that doctor and she likes his advice better. she's not too bright, and she's paranoid about diseases and cancer and such. she's very mainstream. if she knew I've just completed a 12 week steroid cycle, she'd shit bricks and maybe leave me. and everyone i know would know i use steroids . etc.
divorce? could happen. hopefully there's a better option.
why are we still together? we've wondered that too.
side dish? haven't tried that before. probably won't unless I don't care for the marriage anymore at all.
chloroform? i prefer rufees jk
pt 141 nasal spray? now that's a good idea. please let me know how that works TR.
HRT? I do want to research that. she refuses to take hormones because she's read or heard that it could lead to breast cancer.
**** her while she's sleeping? funny you say that because i did play with her in the middle of the night last night and she showed no signs of arousal. (this is a woman that used to want sex allll the damn time.)
PM'ing Kawi? welll,...she IS hot as hell...
Base, I agree about the porn threats. you made very good points.
So, I guess what I should do is research HRT thoroughly and find a way to discuss it with her in a way that she can understand. Perhaps i can get her interested in the hrt forum.
thanks everybody!

Seems there maybe other issues other than sex which can be affecting it as-well. and yes of course because of her operation, BUT in MY experiance things like that can be over exaggerated if she is the type of person, as in its not the reason she doesnt want to have sex, but its an easy out. just an idea. not saying all woman are like this

[dec11]

ZAbster? THat is called Shake and Bake! Smart Man you are!

is tht she-ra in the avi slim?

[dec11]

understandable reply. unfortunately, there's alot more involved. A sh!t load more, of which if i wrote a book people could see and understand better. and I wouldn't look to some as being so selfish. this goes way beyond me not getting my rocks off by her. It does have alot more to do with other issues. But you don't understand what I've been through, from the beginning of the relationship, to the hysterectomy, to all the shit that happened since then. and believe me, I was prepared for craziness from the surgery, and have tried to keep up front that her new behavior is hormonal. but its really not that new. it coincided with alot of things. and after 6 months you lose sight that it could be hormonal....oh god, really, I'd have to write a book, because there's too much to say. and she does have emotional problems from the past, which def helped create all this. and it just seems like she doesn't want help with the emotional problems, nor the physical problems. but, i can't argue that I need to not consider myself as much, and that i need to focus more on helping her. that's why I want to research hrt.

ah i didnt realise there ws more to it. only thing to do is have a heart to heart and go from there

[SlimmerMe]

is tht she-ra in the avi slim?

Teela.....She-Ra....must be the same character.....

ah i didnt realise there ws more to it. only thing to do is have a heart to heart and go from there

x2......best advice so far Dec

[dec11]

Teela.....She-Ra....must be the same character.....



x2......best advice so far Dec

off he-man and the masters of the universe?

[SlimmerMe]

^^^^ yep!

[dec11]

^^^^ yep!

i think she was part of my sexual awaking all those years ago lol

sorry OP, back on track now

[SlimmerMe]

^^^ but isn't that what this thread is kinda about?

yes.....back on track.....

[toooosmall]

wonderwoman with linda carter was mine!

[Times Roman]

wonderwoman with linda carter was mine!

not only are you too small, you are too old! I too remember Linda Carter aka Wonderwoman, and what a wonderous rack she had mate!

you know, she did a number of topless movies, and even more amazing with top off. She was ahhhh sooooo natural. mmmmmmm

[toooosmall]

tell me more! I GOTTA see them movies!!
if you remember her too, then you're too old too, right?

[Twist]

Your avy is ****ing hilarious TS. Every time I look at it I start laughing.

[toooosmall]

me too! I was going to hold a butcher knife and slightly cock my head to the side!

[stevey_6t9]

im sorry but now this is your only real option, good luck bro, hope all goes well....

[68charger]

Coming from another married man, maybe 1-2 times a day is setting the bar a bit high for anyone.

[toooosmall]

Coming from another married man, maybe 1-2 times a day is setting the bar a bit high for anyone.

that's my preference and sexual status, but it was once or twice a month, then after a huge clash, its now once or twice a week. she used to want it nearly every spare moment. if my hand took care of me like it used to, no problem. I don't understand why i can get so horny but my hand just ain't good enough. she said she would try the nasal spray but I'll wait n see if Times Roman has success.

[Times Roman]

OK. Doc Roman here figured it out.
Go here...
http://forums.steroid.com/showthread...-MY-car-soooon....
and read #4

[Times Roman]

im sorry but now this is your only real option, good luck bro, hope all goes well....

I see she is a good practicing Christian (turning the cheek)

and it looks like he knows how to play handball.

See what happens when good people get together to share a common interest. but I wonder how good he is with his open left?

[dec11]

wonderwoman with linda carter was mine!

she was in there too along with debbie harry, fvck i must have been right little perv in the early 80's lol

[dec11]

not only are you too small, you are too old! I too remember Linda Carter aka Wonderwoman, and what a wonderous rack she had mate!

you know, she did a number of topless movies, and even more amazing with top off. She was ahhhh sooooo natural. mmmmmmm

what????? how didnt i know this????????? links!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[Times Roman]

that's my preference and sexual status, but it was once or twice a month, then after a huge clash, its now once or twice a week. she used to want it nearly every spare moment. if my hand took care of me like it used to, no problem. I don't understand why i can get so horny but my hand just ain't good enough. she said she would try the nasal spray but I'll wait n see if Times Roman has success.

I'll be renting a big cabin up in the mountains, with a bunch of my closest friends, and not bringing my laptop. So expect a status report from me sometime after the third week of may.

[Times Roman]

what????? how didnt i know this????????? links!!!!!!!!!!!!!

wasn't this back in the 70's before the digital age?

you can try to google three words and see what comes up

Linda Carter Topless

you tell me what you find?

[dec11]

wasn't this back in the 70's before the digital age?

you can try to google three words and see what comes up

Linda Carter Topless

you tell me what you find?

yep but re-mastering exists you silly old goat lol

[Times Roman]

but then again, back in the 70's and 80's, I ached for Jamie Lee Curtis in her topless roles too.

and then there was Bo Derek, which was totally nude for a good bit of the movie in Ten. She has/had, really, a body that was a true 10

[Times Roman]

in fact, many of the really hot wenches did (semi)nude roles

Farah Fawcett
Linda Blair
I'll let you finish up the list... I'm late for work, and have to commute about 50 steps to the office compound across the street =)

[dec11]

wasn't this back in the 70's before the digital age?

you can try to google three words and see what comes up

Linda Carter Topless

you tell me what you find?

whoop!! it works!! 1st pict and the one directly below, if they arent just foto shopped

[calgarian]

im sorry but now this is your only real option, good luck bro, hope all goes well....

NEVER hit a woman....ever better to walk away

[Times Roman]

tell me more! I GOTTA see them movies!!
if you remember her too, then you're too old too, right?

maybe. but i'm the rare breed of young old men that women crave to see blazing down the road on my harley.

You just old! =(

[Times Roman]

NEVER hit on a woman....ever better to walk away

but's it's OK to hit on a fattie?

[Times Roman]

whoop!! it works!! 1st pict and the one directly below, if they arent just foto shopped

OK... making progress.

Step duece in ol' Roman's "how to get internet savy" course is to do some substitution.

So now class use this as a template:

(Woman's Name) Topless

and this becomes the basis for "how to get internet savy"

might i suggest a few more exercises?

Try:
Demi Moore
Jamie Lee Curtis
Bo Derek
Halle Barry
Barbi Benson

And for something a little more contemporary, try
Hillary Swank
Reese Witherspoon
Jennifer Lopez
Jessica Alba

And remember, "how to get internet savy" recommends BOTH hands on the keyboard!