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  1. 06-12-2011, 09:18 PM #1
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    Exclamation Need to get back in the game mentally and physically ! After break up

    Ok, Iv been off this forum for some time now few years I was in crazy relationship and I really slacked off I'm not gonna bore you all with the details, but I put on about 70 pounds and I look like shit this past week Iv been drinking like a fish and partying like a rockstar. I really need to get back motivated and train like I use to and move on with my live. So what I'm asking is I did it years back got I got fit quit drinking and felt great.

    I need to light that fire under my ass to get me back in the swing of things any ideas to get me out of this slump thanks !!??????
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  2. 06-12-2011, 09:27 PM #2
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    Cool story bro....
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    thanks for being a tool, not a story more like a question .
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    Well it's only you that actually make it happen , the rest of us can motivate you into doing something about it, different things motivate different people in different ways. What motivated you in the first place ? Get fit and use it to get a nice chick? Personal achievements and goals ? What about doing another year of partying gain another 70lbs, see how you feel then, feel like crap enough to make yourself go to the gym again?
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    Quote Originally Posted by mike954 View Post
    Ok, Iv been off this forum for some time now few years I was in crazy relationship and I really slacked off I'm not gonna bore you all with the details, but I put on about 70 pounds and I look like shit this past week Iv been drinking like a fish and partying like a rockstar. I really need to get back motivated and train like I use to and move on with my live. So what I'm asking is I did it years back got I got fit quit drinking and felt great.

    I need to light that fire under my ass to get me back in the swing of things any ideas to get me out of this slump thanks !!??????
    Look in the mirror.
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  6. 06-13-2011, 02:06 AM #6
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    Quote Originally Posted by terraj View Post
    Look in the mirror.
    Good advice, if that doesn't motivate you nothing will. You have to do it for yourself or you will be back where you are after you get in the next relationship. Dont do it so you can go find another chick. Enjoy the extra benefits from being in shape but dont do it for that reason. I looked in the mirror a little over 3 years ago and said who the fvck is that. Now when I look in the mirror I recognize the reflection.

    Sorry to hear about the troubles in the past but you cant let those things be an excuse to let yourself go. Yeah we all miss one or two workouts due to life or moods but you cant let it define who you are and what you do. I have been in relationships like that. I have walked away; not always as soon as I should have but I did. Learn from your mistakes and get your ass back in the gym, eating right and enjoying life.
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    Thanks guys
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    70 lbs is a lot of frigggin weight

    what always motivates me is if i look down and can't see my dik, then that's a pretty good clue it's time to change a few things.

    the other one is if I get fat and start thinking oral is better since not so much work
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    Quote Originally Posted by Times Roman View Post
    70 lbs is a lot of frigggin weight

    what always motivates me is if i look down and can't see my dik, then that's a pretty good clue it's time to change a few things.

    the other one is if I get fat and start thinking oral is better since not so much work
    Why do you have to be fat to think that? Personally Ill take (and do) oral over sex most of the time or at lest 3x+ a week. Maybe I'm just lazy but it's fun grabbing that long black Asian hair while laying on my back getting a good rhythm going.
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    Quote Originally Posted by lovbyts View Post
    Why do you have to be fat to think that? Personally Ill take (and do) oral over sex most of the time or at lest 3x+ a week. Maybe I'm just lazy but it's fun grabbing that long black Asian hair while laying on my back getting a good rhythm going.
    i like a good mix of about 50%

    (I haven't grabbed me an asian woman by the back of the head in years......)
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    Quote Originally Posted by Times Roman View Post
    i like a good mix of about 50%

    (I haven't grabbed me an asian woman by the back of the head in years......)
    Sorry to hear the, the last time for me was... let me check the clock.... 4 1/2 hrs ago. I dont get home for another 9 hrs from work so it might be another 10 hrs before I get some more.
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    Quote Originally Posted by terraj View Post
    Look in the mirror.
    Thatīs the motivator.
    If it doesenīt work, go gain some more weight until it does.

    Iīve been on and off the gym all my life. But, I think 4 years ago, I looked my worst. About 250-260 lbs. (Same weight as now with a 20% difference in BF)

    I happened to be sitting on a toilet in a bathroom that had a mirror placed such that I could view myself from the side.........
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    Quote Originally Posted by lovbyts View Post
    Sorry to hear the, the last time for me was... let me check the clock.... 4 1/2 hrs ago. I dont get home for another 9 hrs from work so it might be another 10 hrs before I get some more.
    Cool....I havenīt had sex in 6 months......
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    OK sorry guys, I dindt mean to rub it in your face (figuratively speaking) to you guys who are away from home and being GOOD boys. My hast off to you, I dont think I could do it.
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    Damn...I canīt use the being good excuse.....I just havenīt had sex...
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