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  1. 07-03-2011, 05:39 PM #1
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    Another relationship thread....

    Alright well my girl and I broke up about 3 weeks ago. Shortly after I started my Prop/tbol cycle which is going great! We dated for 9 months but the last few months was very up and down and we argued every day and she was constantly crying. We ended up agreeing we were not good for each other and split up. The last two days we agreed to hang out as '' friends ''... We still held hands/made out and she ended up staying the night last night. We are not good for each other and we both need to move on but its so easy to just give in and call her. i am also starting to feel a little emotional and it sucks! I know the best thing to do is to cut all ties with her and try and move on and focus on myself right now. Fvck now I know why I stayed single for so long, relationships are too distracting and stressful! I said a lot of hurtful thing towards hurt when we broke up and shes is still angry with me and says how she wouldnt get back with me anytime soon but I know we most likely would if we keep hanging out. I just dont need this drama/anxiety/stress from this situation while on cycle. She knows I have been talking to some other women and it obviously bothers her and some guy she recently met took her to lunch today which bothered me even tho she says its friendly and she cant even she herself with anyone but me still.
    She was my first serious gf I have had in years, its just a really sh!tty situation for me and it helps to vent and talk about it i guess...
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  2. 07-03-2011, 05:43 PM #2
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    well you said it yourself you guys arent right for each other. Hanging out or talking is only gonig to string things along. It maybe harder in the short term but better longterm
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  3. 07-03-2011, 05:46 PM #3
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    Quote Originally Posted by gixxerboy1 View Post
    well you said it yourself you guys arent right for each other. Hanging out or talking is only gonig to string things along. It maybe harder in the short term but better longterm
    Ya I know we arn't, it is just hard to move on when there are still such strong feelings towards one another.
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    dude i know. we have all been there at some point. Cold turkey is the best way. You cant get over someone you are still hanging out with.
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  5. 07-03-2011, 05:51 PM #5
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    Quote Originally Posted by gixxerboy1 View Post
    dude i know. we have all been there at some point. Cold turkey is the best way. You cant get over someone you are still hanging out with.
    Very true! It will suck at first but it can only get better right
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  6. 07-03-2011, 06:40 PM #6
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    Just be thankful she is just a G/F and you are not married to her. Imagine having an investment of marriage and having to fight and argue every time you two are around each other. Girls/Boys will come and go but the perfect match will be the keeper. Move on to the next one and find one who is more compatible and less drama driven. You will be happy you did in the end.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Shol'va View Post
    Just be thankful she is just a G/F and you are not married to her. Imagine having an investment of marriage and having to fight and argue every time you two are around each other. Girls/Boys will come and go but the perfect match will be the keeper. Move on to the next one and find one who is more compatible and less drama driven. You will be happy you did in the end.
    see there is some benefits for not being able to marry. Some straight people wish they could use that accuse. I do love you and would marry you tomorrow if it was legal baby.
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    Quote Originally Posted by gixxerboy1 View Post
    see there is some benefits for not being able to marry. Some straight people wish they could use that accuse. I do love you and would marry you tomorrow if it was legal baby.
    Actually some straight people do use that excuse now. But they live in Arkansas and it's their sister......
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    Im detecting alot of beta maleness in this thread. If you keep hanging with her the feelings will keep coming back, best to cut all ties with her, delete her off facebook and change your number and find another girl. Like a boss.
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    Quote Originally Posted by stevey_6t9 View Post
    Im detecting alot of beta maleness in this thread. If you keep hanging with her the feelings will keep coming back, best to cut all ties with her, delete her off facebook and change your number and find another girl. Like a boss.
    and post pics of here and if she is hot her phone number too
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  11. 07-04-2011, 12:03 AM #11
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    Quote Originally Posted by gixxerboy1 View Post
    dude i know. we have all been there at some point. Cold turkey is the best way. You cant get over someone you are still hanging out with.
    x2. Ive done that as many of us have. Not a good idea. It turns into more fighting, more problems. We became friend only after not seeing each other, not talking for over a year.
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    where are the scantily clad women?
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    Quote Originally Posted by Times Roman View Post
    where are the scantily clad women?
    LOL, I'm trying to keep it down to a minimum this week.
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