Just out of curiosity, how do YOU define "Slut"?

**Times Roman** · 10-06-2011, 09:48 AM

We throw the term around so casually nowadays that I'm pretty sure it means different things to different people.

Anyone?

**Shol'va** · 10-06-2011, 09:53 AM

Anyone who has slept with more than one person in their lifetime....Were all sluts, some more than others...

**evander87** · 10-06-2011, 10:08 AM

Any woman who wont have sex with me is a slut.

Really I don't call women sluts. They are just as free to get theirs as guys are.

**Nooomoto** · 10-06-2011, 10:09 AM

A girl I can nail within three meetings. When I'm single, if I haven't closed it by three meetings (not dates, meetings) I move on.

**JohnnyVegas** · 10-06-2011, 10:11 AM

Anyone that consistantly has sex without establishing even a basic emotional tie with the other person. Sex on the first date? Slut. Male of female. Keep in mind that I don't think being a "slut" is a negative. But, I wouldn't want to sleep with one. Give me a conservative girl any day.

**Gaspari1255** · 10-06-2011, 10:14 AM

Originally Posted by JohnnyVegas

Anyone that consistantly has sex without establishing even a basic emotional tie with the other person. Sex on the first date? Slut. Male of female. Keep in mind that I don't think being a "slut" is a negative. But, I wouldn't want to sleep with one. Give me a conservative girl any day.

Well put.

**SexySweetheart** · 10-06-2011, 10:29 AM

a person that has sex with someone knowing that it is betraying another persons trust or would be painful to another if they found out
(cheating or sex with someone they know is cheating)

**JohnnyVegas** · 10-06-2011, 11:00 AM

Originally Posted by Sexy4mySweetheart

a person that has sex with someone knowing that it is betraying another persons trust or would be painful to another if they found out
(cheating or sex with someone they know is cheating)

That is an Evil Slut. :-)

**gixxerboy1** · 10-06-2011, 12:11 PM

i honestly dont care. I really dont judge that. I'd rather a girl fvck on the first date because she wants too then wait for a magical rule that makes it acceptable,
I've had long relationships with girls that i took home after the first date.

**Flier** · 10-06-2011, 12:18 PM

Originally Posted by gixxerboy1

i honestly dont care. I really dont judge that. I'd rather a girl fvck on the first date because she wants too then wait for a magical rule that makes it acceptable,
I've had long relationships with girls that i took home after the first date.

Gixxer, a personality trait is revealing itself from your posts in a few threads in the lounge.
..You are not a complicated person...lol

**gixxerboy1** · 10-06-2011, 12:22 PM

and what trait would that be?
I def not complicated. I say what a feel. Sometimes it gets me in trouble

**Times Roman** · 10-06-2011, 12:29 PM

Was just curious. The term seems to be used in the title of some of our threads here and just wanted to see what you all thought

**Flier** · 10-06-2011, 12:30 PM

Originally Posted by gixxerboy1

and what trait would that be?
I def not complicated. I say what a feel. Sometimes it gets me in trouble

I mean just that, un-complicated. Makes life easier.

Seriously...things are easier when not overanalyzing. Sometimes I get stuck in a loop of thoughts that prevents from enjoying what is right in front of me.

**Flier** · 10-06-2011, 12:32 PM

Originally Posted by Times Roman

Was just curious. The term seems to be used in the title of some of our threads here and just wanted to see what you all thought

In todays dating societies....pretty much everybody but our Moms.

**Shol'va** · 10-06-2011, 12:33 PM

Originally Posted by Flier

I mean just that, un-complicated. Makes life easier.

Seriously...things are easier when not overanalyzing. Sometimes I get stuck in a loop of thoughts that prevents from enjoying what is right in front of me.

Actions speak louder than words, less complications that way.. Besides, everyone I date believes in the here after. If there not here after what I'm here after there gonna be here after I'm gone. ...

**gixxerboy1** · 10-06-2011, 12:34 PM

Originally Posted by Flier

In todays dating societies....pretty much everybody but our Moms.

you dont know my mom.

just joking mom

**warchild** · 10-06-2011, 12:38 PM

my ex gf...she's a slut

**dec11** · 10-06-2011, 12:43 PM

i rem being told when i was 12 that a slut is a girl who wears tight jeans, smokes and drinks lol

**Shol'va** · 10-06-2011, 12:51 PM

Originally Posted by dec11

i rem being told when i was 12 that a slut is a girl who wears tight jeans, smokes and drinks lol

That just described every girl in every bar in town lol

**gbrice75** · 10-06-2011, 03:40 PM

Originally Posted by JohnnyVegas

Anyone that consistantly has sex without establishing even a basic emotional tie with the other person. Sex on the first date? Slut. Male of female. Keep in mind that I don't think being a "slut" is a negative. But, I wouldn't want to sleep with one. Give me a conservative girl any day.

^^ this.

**Shol'va** · 10-06-2011, 04:00 PM

Originally Posted by JohnnyVegas

Anyone that consistantly has sex without establishing even a basic emotional tie with the other person. Sex on the first date? Slut. Male of female. Keep in mind that I don't think being a "slut" is a negative. But, I wouldn't want to sleep with one. Give me a conservative girl any day.

I resemble that remark..

**JohnnyVegas** · 10-06-2011, 04:12 PM

^^^^ Hey, I said sluts aren't bad. Some of my best friends are sluts. Heh.

**Hoggage_54** · 10-06-2011, 05:35 PM

gixxer is a slut

**Hoggage_54** · 10-06-2011, 05:35 PM

A girl that wont sleep with me... fvcking slut

**Times Roman** · 10-06-2011, 08:53 PM

when i was younger, a girl picked me up. i gave her my number, and she called me later that evening when i got off work. our dinner date never got past my bedroom. after, she asked if all my dates got to fuk me on the first date, and then she called me a slut, jokingly of course. caught me by surprise since at that time, i had never considered myself a slut!

**Shol'va** · 10-06-2011, 09:36 PM

Originally Posted by Times Roman

when i was younger, a girl picked me up. i gave her my number, and she called me later that evening when i got off work. our dinner date never got past my bedroom. after, she asked if all my dates got to fuk me on the first date, and then she called me a slut, jokingly of course. caught me by surprise since at that time, i had never considered myself a slut!

And here I just thought you were a old fart.

**RaginCajun** · 10-07-2011, 07:23 AM

Originally Posted by Shol'va

And here I just thought you were a old fart.

ditto

**Flagg** · 10-07-2011, 08:04 AM

Originally Posted by Flier

I mean just that, un-complicated. Makes life easier.

Seriously...things are easier when not overanalyzing. Sometimes I get stuck in a loop of thoughts that prevents from enjoying what is right in front of me.

Good point. People have too many hang ups. Like "wait two days before returning a call". I hate that stupid shit.

Where do people, and society, find these bizarre rituals. Im pretty sure many couples that have had long term relationships, fvcked on the first date. Big deal.

I'm beginning to wonder how many of you hate women, deep down.

**RaginCajun** · 10-07-2011, 08:28 AM

Originally Posted by Flagg

Good point. People have too many hang ups. Like "wait two days before returning a call". I hate that stupid shit.

Where do people, and society, find these bizarre rituals. Im pretty sure many couples that have had long term relationships, fvcked on the first date. Big deal.

I'm beginning to wonder how many of you hate women, deep down.

good points. and love the last line! hahaha

**Times Roman** · 10-07-2011, 10:03 PM

I guess the point I was trying to make with this thread is that the term "slut" can pretty much describe anyone you want it to describe.... almost!

**mike954** · 10-07-2011, 11:57 PM

Well to me its a chick that lies and sleeps around. But if a chick is single and is playing the field I don't think any thing Is wrong if she's honest when they cheat or lie and tell one guy one thing and another another thing to me they are a slut

**Times Roman** · 10-08-2011, 12:41 AM

^ it is interesting how the default gender to associate the term with always seems to be female?

**songdog** · 10-08-2011, 05:07 AM

Well The way I seen it described its a woman you take out.She shows you a good time so in stead of being grateful.You tell your friends shes a slut.

**rockinred** · 10-08-2011, 06:27 AM

Originally Posted by Sexy4mySweetheart

a person that has sex with someone knowing that it is betraying another persons trust or would be painful to another if they found out
(cheating or sex with someone they know is cheating)

Execellent!!!! I think this about sums up my perception of a slut. I can't define it any other way other than a person that is addicted to sex to the point where they can't remain faithful to another one or committed.

**thegodfather** · 10-08-2011, 10:36 AM

slut /slʌt/ Show Spelled[sluht] Show IPA
noun
1. a dirty, slovenly woman.
2. an immoral or dissolute woman; prostitute.

Lol...anyway..I think what S4S said is pretty accurate....

My own definition of a slut has nothing to do with the NUMBER of sexual partners, or anything like that. I think a slut is a person who sleeps with people without really having any standards about whom they sleep with. Meaning, they will sleep with just about anyone, without regard to social status, success, aesthetics, cleanliness, etc. It may sound snobbish to some people, but I honestly don't have much interest in sleeping with girls who aren't somewhat successful or have goals in their lives which they're working towards achieving. It's those sorts of 'criteria' for who you sleep with or conduct a relationship with, which constitutes having STANDARDS. So I think the lack of standards with whom you choose to sleep with, constitutes a slut.

**lovbyts** · 10-08-2011, 11:54 PM

Originally Posted by Sexy4mySweetheart

a person that has sex with someone knowing that it is betraying another persons trust or would be painful to another if they found out
(cheating or sex with someone they know is cheating)

That's basically the way I would put it. someone who is hurting another, saying they are in a committed, monogamous relationship but are cheating/slut or sleeping with someone else who is married/in a serious relationship.

Slut/cheater is associated with a bad thing. Because someone likes to have fun, likes sex but is not in a monogamous relationship does not make them a bad person or someone who can not be trusted, they are just having and not hurting anyone. If it was not for girls like this or sluts many of us/you would have never gotten laid in the first place. LOL

**paulzane** · 10-10-2011, 06:52 AM

Originally Posted by rockinred

Execellent!!!! I think this about sums up my perception of a slut. I can't define it any other way other than a person that is addicted to sex to the point where they can't remain faithful to another one or committed.

Sounds like me!!