tough 24 hours

**gixxerboy1** · 11-23-2011, 08:47 AM

My wife is freaking out because one of her breast hurts. She is convinced there is something wrong with an implant and something horrible is going to happen. So i made some calls she and got her in for a momogram today. She is so scared about this she is flying to florida next week so i can go to a dr with her because she doesnt want to go alone.

Last night my grandma passed away. She was 99 and was in good health until about 2 weeks ago. She was a greatperson and i will miss her. So tomorrow i fly to NJ for be up there for the funeral.

**calgarian** · 11-23-2011, 08:58 AM

feel sorry for ur loss...I never saw my grand parents...so consider urself lucky...... u sure ur wife doesnt want a bigger cup size?

**Nicotine** · 11-23-2011, 08:59 AM

99 yrs is a long life, and if she had good health for high majority of those years - that's fantastic.

as for your wife, at least she's listening to her body. most people ignore issues and think that it'll "just go away".

also, long time no see

**flatscat** · 11-23-2011, 09:03 AM

Really sorry Gix

**gixxerboy1** · 11-23-2011, 09:12 AM

Originally Posted by calgarian

feel sorry for ur loss...I never saw my grand parents...so consider urself lucky...... u sure ur wife doesnt want a bigger cup size?

thanks cal. I do know i'm lucky. So was great and lived a long life. I could ask for more

I'm sure about the wife. If she did want bigger she would just say it. She isnt shy, she did it once already. But she was in crying yesterday. She seems really scared.

**Nicotine** · 11-23-2011, 09:24 AM

give her support, talk to her, reassure her. not really much else can be done till you see the dr.

**Times Roman** · 11-23-2011, 09:39 AM

99 years is a great life! Something to celebbrate. Hard for those she left behind though.

Sorry to hear about your woman and her situation. Be there for her, and comfort her.

**marcus300** · 11-23-2011, 10:03 AM

Sorry to hear about your loss, condolences to you and your family.

Are are you sure your wife should be flying before she gets it looked at? I think I would speak to someone before she gets on a plane, you never know whats wrong.

All the best

**gixxerboy1** · 11-23-2011, 10:08 AM

I never thought of that Marcus. Maybe our GP can look at the results of the mammogram first. She wanted to see a plastic surgeon when down in Florida

**HitIt** · 11-23-2011, 10:14 AM

damn that is a rough day... good luck with the wife

**Standby** · 11-23-2011, 10:28 AM

sorry to hear gix. and for your wife well i dont even know what to think lol. what could go wrong with an implant anyone know? i think the could pop yes?? but im sure it would mess up there look

**RaginCajun** · 11-23-2011, 10:33 AM

sorry for the lost gixx, but at 99, she must have been an incredible person! hope your wife can figure out the breast thing and lets just hope it is just an implant problem

**SlimmerMe** · 11-23-2011, 10:35 AM

Sorry to hear about your grandmama and hope your wife is just fine and healthy.

**Nooomoto** · 11-23-2011, 10:37 AM

Sorry about all that gix, life blows sometimes. I lost my grandma a few years ago and it sucks. She was probably the nicest person I've ever met or will meet by far. Not a mean cell in her whole body. Grandmas rock.

**JohnnyVegas** · 11-23-2011, 10:37 AM

Wow, 99 years. That is a long run. Sorry for your loss.

I hope you keep us tuned in on your wife's issue. My wife gets her implants in a few weeks and hearing about the kinds of problems that can happen is scary/interesting.

**gixxerboy1** · 11-23-2011, 10:42 AM

Thanks everyone.

I dont know what it can be with my wife. She says it looks normal. Although i dont know if that means anything. I wonder to if she could have pulled something in the gym?

**Standby** · 11-23-2011, 11:07 AM

Originally Posted by gixxerboy1

Thanks everyone.

I dont know what it can be with my wife. She says it looks normal. Although i dont know if that means anything. I wonder to if she could have pulled something in the gym?

pulling some thing is also very possible. and with her having implants would just make her worry right away. i could see this being something

**dec11** · 11-23-2011, 11:30 AM

sorry about your grandmother mate,

tell the wife to get checked out 1st, no point in wasting cash on flights etc if its nothing connected to the implants

**SexySweetheart** · 11-23-2011, 02:38 PM

Sad news gixx sorry for your loss...emotional day for sure
Poor wifey! she must be beside her self with fear if she is cring

please tell her we feel for her, and will have her bealth in our thoughts <3
that’s some scary stuff, the bobbies are such a major part of feeling womanly ~the thought of anything bad happening to them or as a result of them are most def. no fun...very awesome of you to take her concerns as serious as she is. I truly hope she will be fine but it sounds like she has a winner of a hubby supporting her either way.

**ghettoboyd** · 11-23-2011, 03:37 PM

sorry your having a rough time right now bro, hope your wifes issues end well...goodluck...

**Hoggage_54** · 11-23-2011, 05:35 PM

Sorry for your loss...

**DCI** · 11-23-2011, 06:53 PM

Sorry to hear about your Grandmother man. Not a nice thing for anyone but I'm sure you'll pull thorugh.

Hopefully your wife is ok too and it is nothing major and as you said only something small like a pulled muscle or so.

**fatluke_nofx** · 11-23-2011, 07:12 PM

Sorry for your loss man, and hopefully all goes well with your wife. Life sure can be rough.

**ecruz** · 11-23-2011, 07:13 PM

its times like this Gix that life seems so precious to us, although the loss is tough rejoice in knowing that 99 awesome years this earth was blessed with your grandmother, i could only hope and have faith that i my self will live that long.... your wife will be in my prayers bro, dont worry your self cause trully it wont do a thing, trust that everything will be ok and be that ROCK your wife needs you to be in this time.. again im sorry for your lost and your concerns lets us know how it all turns out.. have yourself a safe and happy Turkey Day

**DIESELPWR** · 11-23-2011, 11:49 PM

Best of luck to you and your wife, gixx.. And my prayers are with your grandma

**cherrydrpepper** · 11-24-2011, 09:46 PM

Sorry for your loss. And about the boobies. If you need an extra set of eyes to make sure things look ok.. well..

**zaggahamma** · 11-25-2011, 03:57 AM

my condolences gix

**JimmySidewalk** · 11-25-2011, 04:15 AM

Sorry ofr your loss bro, these things happen. At least she didnt go early.

From what i know, breasts usually form like a socket cup around the implant. Maybe she over streched that at the gym and a small "crack" might have appear which although painful, it just needs time to heal. Just be there for her and tell her everything will be ok, i'm sure it'll go well.

BTW Do you know or could you ask her how much did her implants cost ? My gf wants to get them done. How long did it took to heal ?

**gbrice75** · 11-25-2011, 04:12 PM

Sorry for your loss GB, and sorry i'm late to this thread, been a bit absent lately.

Not sure how long you're in Jersey for, but hit me up if you'd like... I'll PM u my cell.

**stpete** · 11-25-2011, 04:31 PM

Sorry to hear about you loss Gixxer..I'm sure your Grandmother had a very fulfilling life to live to be 99. That's awesome!!

As for your wife, my son's mother(ex dancer) had breast enlargement and it was a nightmare for her. She cried almost all night long only about 4-6 weeks after the surgery. What happened was some of the muscles grew around the implant and actually became attached to it. As the muscles grew, they twisted the implant and made it unbearable to even put a tank top on cause her nipples were so sensitive. She had to have surgery to have them removed. And the doc was very respectable in the field. It was a rare case.

Good luck to her and you...Wishing you guys all the best!!

**Tigershark** · 11-26-2011, 04:56 PM

You will be in our prayers Gixxer. I sure hope things get better for you and your family.

**lovbyts** · 11-27-2011, 04:54 AM

Belated condolences on your grandmother.

I'm sure/hope everything works out fine with the wife.

**DSM4Life** · 11-27-2011, 07:56 AM

Sorry to hear about your grandma. My buddies aunt just passed at 101 !

**jimmyinkedup** · 11-27-2011, 11:03 AM

Originally Posted by lovbyts

Belated condolences on your grandmother.

I'm sure/hope everything works out fine with the wife.

This Gix. I sincerely am sorry I somehow overlooked this thread until now. All my best to you and you family and sorry for the loss of your garndmother. Also I wish and hope all the best for your wife's health bro.

**songdog** · 11-27-2011, 05:52 PM

Sorry about your loss bro and hope your wife is ok.

**gixxerboy1** · 11-29-2011, 10:03 AM

Thank you everyone. I havent been on since being out of town for the services. Everything went as well as can be expected.

Some good news is though. My wife got in for a mammogram. Everything was fine. Hers are under the muscle. The dr thinks she over did something in the gym. For her to just rest a week or so.

**gixxerboy1** · 11-29-2011, 10:03 AM

Originally Posted by JimmySidewalk

Sorry ofr your loss bro, these things happen. At least she didnt go early.

From what i know, breasts usually form like a socket cup around the implant. Maybe she over streched that at the gym and a small "crack" might have appear which although painful, it just needs time to heal. Just be there for her and tell her everything will be ok, i'm sure it'll go well.

BTW Do you know or could you ask her how much did her implants cost ? My gf wants to get them done. How long did it took to heal ?

I'll pm you

**lovbyts** · 11-29-2011, 10:12 AM

Originally Posted by gixxerboy1

Thank you everyone. I havent been on since being out of town for the services. Everything went as well as can be expected.

Some good news is though. My wife got in for a mammogram. Everything was fine. Hers are under the muscle. The dr thinks she over did something in the gym. For her to just rest a week or so. :)

Good news, I'm sure she will appreciate some good massage from you to break up any scar tissue. LOL