Meeting women!!

[JohnnyVegas]

I date a supper good girl now. She is really good looking and boring as hell. That's the problem with good girls, they don't bring the same kind of excitement to the relationship. I like someone who walks the edge likes me. I really don't even care about the sex aspect. I have never had a girl that i was not able to work with in bed. Even if they are a bit lam i some how always manage to corrupted them lol.

I liked brainy good girls that I had things in common with. Always something to talk about with a girl that does a lot of reading. Not everyone is into that, but I am. But I know what you mean, and this is why I liked the batsh*t crazy ones. I had a hard time resisting them because they are exciting, daring and forward...but too much work. Too many crazy phone calls. Luckily, I dated crazy before Facebook, that would be a nightmare.

[G-1000]

Haha whats facebook??

Dude if your really dating and dating a few different girls, their is no way you can have face book. I got rid of that shit right away lol.

[JohnnyVegas]

Haha whats facebook??

Dude if your really dating and dating a few different girls, their is no way you can have face book. I got rid of that shit right away lol.

Ha! Never thought about that.

[slfmade]

I used to have a thing for Hooters Girls and dated plenty of them. I practically lived at Hooters for about 2 years (give me a break I was 22) Also dated a couple of bartenders, and a hooters girl turned stripper. Conversation was always shit because they were alway dumb as shit. Partying became exhausting and drained the pocket book. The older I got the more stable girl I needed. At the end of the day I found an attractive girl from another country (she had lived here for several years) who hadn't been corrupted by the party scene. She's who I settled down with and couldn't be happier. The nice thing about non-american raised girls are they don't have the sense of entitlement that american girls seem to have. American girls always act like we owe them something, and try to prove how dependant they are by being bitches. My woman does everything to please me and I don't plan on getting rid of this one ever. We live together, work together, train together, and I can honestly say we never fight. So try to go out and find an asian girl with good values that hasn't been given the world from a young age, and you'll find yourself a winner.

[gixxerboy1]

I used to have a thing for Hooters Girls and dated plenty of them. I practically lived at Hooters for about 2 years (give me a break I was 22) Also dated a couple of bartenders, and a hooters girl turned stripper. Conversation was always shit because they were alway dumb as shit. Partying became exhausting and drained the pocket book. The older I got the more stable girl I needed. At the end of the day I found an attractive girl from another country (she had lived here for several years) who hadn't been corrupted by the party scene. She's who I settled down with and couldn't be happier. The nice thing about non-american raised girls are they don't have the sense of entitlement that american girls seem to have. American girls always act like we owe them something, and try to prove how dependant they are by being bitches. My woman does everything to please me and I don't plan on getting rid of this one ever. We live together, work together, train together, and I can honestly say we never fight. So try to go out and find an asian girl with good values that hasn't been given the world from a young age, and you'll find yourself a winner.

I havent dated a girl born in america in 8 years, And non of them are like yours

[slfmade]

I havent dated a girl born in america in 8 years, And non of them are like yours

That's because Dec11's leftovers don't count. I can only imagine the bitches he turns out. hahahahahah

[G-1000]

I have only meet one girl who was born here that knows how to treat a guy. But she even still has that level of entitlement attitude. I do have to agree girl born and raised in other countries do take care of men better. Funny how when they take care of their man, the man take care of them right back. not like the people from here with the fuuck you attitude.

[SexySweetheart]

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[songdog]

Most guys talk the talk they want a super model.Well most of them women have serious issues.Just like the guys who think they need one of those money grubbing monsters.My 1st wife was like that she couldnt go by a mirror without stopping to look at herself.As time went on we had less in common.Now my wife may not be a 10 in your eyes beacuse she is a lil on the heavy side.But shes a solid 10 in mine.I love to hunt and fish and she is always by my side.She can hit a deer running flat out at 100 yds.And has done so on more than once.Not only is she my wife she is my best friend my hunting partner and my fishing buddy.Show me a 10 who can do that!

[G-1000]

was watching the thread...chuckeling... but seriously slfmade....seriously?

I typed out a page in responce, than reread it, followed by deleating it.
I figured the last thing a guy that suggests to a person to find a girl young/ find them foriegn/ find them before they are corrupted by the american idea of a chix speaking out when she feels she is entiled to more than she has (btw, we are).... would prob turn a deaf ear to an american girl resposoning with anything less than ... what ever you say honey.
lol

It all boils down to the people you attract, acknowledge, choose to date.
Yes there are as many crazy angry mean chix out there as looser abusive addict men, but seriously the bigger question is whats up with the guy who repeativly chooses the messed up chix or cant attract a stable educated girl ... the solid question that should be asked = what is it about the guy, that the good whitty sexy chix are steering clear of ?

* just throwing it out there/not at any1 in perticulare

meeting place ideas:Boston had a singles adventure club (your city might too) you enroll if your single and do diff group adventures. Anything from sports playing/watching to hiking/camping to fighter jet flight or bungee jumping. No pressure but you choose which trips you want to join when they come up and the Boston one I was enrolled in had a shaloo of sexy smart funny down to earth financially stable girls of all ages ~ 1 of which is my now closest friend (but she found her man on eHarmony 1 month after I found my man there lol)
MEET UP web site http://www.meetup.com/ ..its for the US and you join a group or 4 or 5 that fit your interest, meet new people, meet those peoples friends etc. I loved it! Thats how I found all the great mnt biking trails here and started appreciating wine more.
The idea is the same though :meet people you normally would not bump into - to only keeping your date worthy window open for a chix with similar interest/personality/humor - being open to friendships that could intro you to a whole new circle of chix

I hope i have not insulted you. But its true about how many women think they have the entitlement of a goddess. I think it also has to do with the demographics of where they are from. Girls from NYC are much different the women from other parts of the country. I would say women from cities are more into fashion, stuck up and selfish.

I have been dating again now for 2.5 years after my divorce. Let me tell you its a world different then it was. Meeting good girls are not an issue. Good meaning morels, educated, careers and trusting. Not every one has to be a ten or super sexy 24/7.. But it is nice to have someone who knows how to be at times and yet fun to be with. The problem is with a lot of these girls they are not as outgoing wild and fun. Their is an attraction to the wild ones, just as the good girls like the wild and fun guys..

What would me nice it to meet someone who is a good girl but yet knows how to let go and be wild and fun from time to time. This is where some of the foreign are better at doing. A lot of them also have more life experience and are more worldly then American girls. But on the flip side they can be phyco also. It really does come down to what you pic...

I think age has a big roll in it also. Young girls are Innocent and clueless and worry free, because they dont know any better. The older you get and the more hell you go through, harden you over the ears and cause you to have issues and insecurities. Trying to find people with issues that you can deal with complicates things now. It sucks when you meet your perfect match and they have more issue then you and cant work through them. So even if they are a perfect 10 for you in every other way it does not work out for those reasons alone.

I started this thread not to bash women. But to find out where and how people meet now a days. Also because every time someone post commenting on their girl they are all ways hot and say how she is a 10. I guess that's in the eyes of the beholder!!

[gixxerboy1]

^^^ i agree with you. And all the foreign girls are into taking care of themselves. They all go to the gym,

[slfmade]

Most guys talk the talk they want a super model.Well most of them women have serious issues.Just like the guys who think they need one of those money grubbing monsters.My 1st wife was like that she couldnt go by a mirror without stopping to look at herself.As time went on we had less in common.Now my wife may not be a 10 in your eyes beacuse she is a lil on the heavy side.But shes a solid 10 in mine.I love to hunt and fish and she is always by my side.She can hit a deer running flat out at 100 yds.And has done so on more than once.Not only is she my wife she is my best friend my hunting partner and my fishing buddy.Show me a 10 who can do that!

I hear ya songdog. My Girl can go out and look good and still hang with the guys. Instead of Jewelry last Christmas I got her at Sig 9mm. That's what she wanted. She bow hunts, shoots a 25'06, LOVES bass fishing, wants to go noodlin, and uses a "climbing tree stand" when she hunts...I don't another girl that would climb 30ft in a climbing stand. She's my workout partner and my best friend. On top of all of that I think she's Beautiful. Not just saying that because she's a member on here either.

Here's some pics of us out on the town, at the land in AR we just purchased, fishing, hunting, in a stand! Good Times.

[slfmade]

Sexy4mysweetheart -

Sorry if what I said offended you...I know I made a generalization but there's a reason generalizations exist...more on that later. In my experience (I've dated a lot) I found that different parts of the world; different parts of the U.S. for that matter, have different values/morals that they're raised on. Here in the U.S. women for the most part have been raised to be very independant. Not really their fault, they're just a product of their environment. This is largely due to asshole men that screw them over and make them hard.

In other countries however, men treat their women differently. The values of their parents are instilled in them and as a society have a more faithful quality instilled in them. Sure some are ridiculous such as middle east cultures that go overboard, but you get the idea.

"Browngirl" is from Sri Lanka...she lived there until her early 20's. In that society she hadn't dated because it is frowned upon unless you're looking for a spouse. When we met she the very soft hearted girl which I was looking for. I've met several of her friends from there and it turns out they're about the same. Very Sweet Girls. I might add...and I fully aware that I'm going to get hell for this...but she's very submissive. She believes the man comes first, and I love that about her. This doesn't mean she waits on me hand and foot she just realizes that the mans place is at the head of house. I'm not a pig; I treat her with the upmost respect, and never take advantage of this quality. But......I do believe this is the way things should be.

Now back to Generalizations - Sexy4mysweetheard, due to your response I'm sure you're not the typical girl. However, I do believe their are "typical" girls because I do believe in generalization. They're not 100% accurate (as with you), but there's a reason they're there. It's because there's a majority within that minority that make people feel the way they feel about them. I sometimes generalize that everyone from India live life to haggle about price. In my experience this is the case. Even "Browngirls" family are hagglers and they're not even from India (they're neighbors to the south).

In my experience american "city" girls are a bit colder when it comes to matters of the heart and would rather say fvck you in a disagreement than compromise due to the feeling of "I'm right and you're wrong", or more often times they know they're wrong but refuse to admit it (and the latter goes for both sexes).

Again I'll say...generalization are not 100% accurate, but I don't personally give people the benefit of a doubt...they have to prove themselves to me. Why because I am also a product of my environment and I've been screwed over as well.

My original post was just my opinion and an option for the OP to try because it worked for me. Not to be taken as ABSOLUTE truth.

I don't expect this to go over very well...but these are my thoughts on the subject.

[alexISthrowed]

I hear ya songdog. My Girl can go out and look good and still hang with the guys. Instead of Jewelry last Christmas I got her at Sig 9mm. That's what she wanted. She bow hunts, shoots a 25'06, LOVES bass fishing, wants to go noodlin, and uses a "climbing tree stand" when she hunts...I don't another girl that would climb 30ft in a climbing stand. She's my workout partner and my best friend. On top of all of that I think she's Beautiful. Not just saying that because she's a member on here either.

Here's some pics of us out on the town, at the land in AR we just purchased, fishing, hunting, in a stand! Good Times.

Looks like you found an awesome girl man.

[calgarian]

Def agreed with you....allllll the way yay for me.

did u use to go to and sit in the club where she use to strip and keep throwing money at her so she can come home and give u a blow job

[SexySweetheart]

Thankx but no apology/explanation necessary It was all said with a laugh and was more of a ...oh pah-lease statement ..my humor doesnt always come off rite in messages lol

I understand where you guys are coming from and h3ll if I dont understand the flip side of it as well. Sifting through men for a year+ I have def seen how generalizations can be made. If there were a country that a majority of men were raised faithful /strong /nerdy/ not addicts /challenging so I can grow /uninitiated by a women of their equal / comfy with being pampered but can also be a beast in bed that can handle sub and dom role well h#ll I prob would have checked out mail order grooms from there .... but not having that, I kept dating american men and found my perfect 10 and also realized a shaloo of great guys fit what I was looking for, I just hadnt looked in the rite places before.

G 1000 I know its frustrating even when dating is fun, dont loose hope or chalk off an entire nation lol sexy chix dont always have the issues that leed to being a stripper, crazy or high maintaince~ try new places and new ways to meet chix . If your seeking more of a non-confrontational soul maybe look at mediation groups or message classes/ aroma therapy to meet singles (MEET UP groups are usually free and hay a new skill to learn about pampering a gf is never a bad thing lol) or get in touch with your inner nerd and try a comic book convention (sexy chix in skimpy elf costumes that wore picked on in school and didn’t develop till age 25 lol resulting in not a mean bone in their whole body) after all, how can we expect diff results if use diff tactics

happy hunting!
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[lovbyts]

Ones person 10 is another persons 7. There is a lot to say for personality or chemistry when it comes to looks. Also natural looks is better than airbrushed. I like to wake up in the morning and not be scared of what is next to me or want to gnaw off my arm to get loose. LOL

Boring is usually because no one has tough them to cut loose yet. You have to be careful though, once you let the Jeannie out of the bottle it's tough to get them back in.

[G-1000]

Thankx but no apology/explanation necessary It was all said with a laugh and was more of a ...oh pah-lease statement ..my humor doesnt always come off rite in messages lol

I understand where you guys are coming from and h3ll if I dont understand the flip side of it as well. Sifting through men for a year+ I have def seen how generalizations can be made. If there were a country that a majority of men were raised faithful /strong /nerdy/ not addicts /challenging so I can grow /uninitiated by a women of their equal / comfy with being pampered but can also be a beast in bed that can handle sub and dom role well h#ll I prob would have checked out mail order grooms from there .... but not having that, I kept dating american men and found my perfect 10 and also realized a shaloo of great guys fit what I was looking for, I just hadnt looked in the rite places before.

G 1000 I know its frustrating even when dating is fun, dont loose hope or chalk off an entire nation lol sexy chix dont always have the issues that leed to being a stripper, crazy or high maintaince~ try new places and new ways to meet chix . If your seeking more of a non-confrontational soul maybe look at mediation groups or message classes/ aroma therapy to meet singles (MEET UP groups are usually free and hay a new skill to learn about pampering a gf is never a bad thing lol) or get in touch with your inner nerd and try a comic book convention (sexy chix in skimpy elf costumes that wore picked on in school and didn’t develop till age 25 lol resulting in not a mean bone in their whole body) after all, how can we expect diff results if use diff tactics

happy hunting!
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Haha i like picture, send of boots and bike lol

[Shol'va]

Just give in and date a guy. There are no surprises well except for who's on top.

[Charly Rivers]

Been from vegas ohh man i think this place its the worse to find a girl that doesnt want to party and start a family !!!

[Schmidty]

i got more sluts off the internet then going to clubs, parties, grocceri stores anything and omg its like shooting fish in a barrel with a 50 cal lol! okcupid.com was the one i had the most luck on if you just want random ass. Girl im with now i met from a army buddy, gf before that i met at a quiznos... quiznos sounds really really good right now lol.