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    Kids having surgery

    Ok chaps here it is I'm 41 led a somewhat coloured life shall we say 1st man in England with a 10yr ban for being a top flight hooligan,prison,numerous fights etc (I'm a different guy now) but not a lot scares me but my son is 7 and is having a "routine procedure" this morning to correct his hearing,and it's scaring me to death.....
    I feel helpless and what if something goes wrong man I wish it was me and not him
    Is it just me or does everyone get these feelings of being helpless????

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    I don't have kids but I think that's normal for parents. Of course you don't want him to have to go through anything like that. I'm sure everything will go smoothly. I wish the best

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    Unless you're the surgeon performing the surgery, everyone in your shoes will feel helpless. Its normal. It tells you how much you love your kid. If you dont feel this way, then something is wrong.

    But if the doctors are confident, and if its really a simple procedure, then you really have nothing to worry about. Cheer up! Go grab a beer before you sit in the waiting room

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    Thanks guys kind words :-)

    He's out and ok now:-)

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    Good news he's ok, hopefully everything will be normal now.

    My my, if you I knew you were such a hoodlum I may never have agreed to meet you j/k

    Aren't we training again next weekend?
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    Quote Originally Posted by SteM
    Good news he's ok, hopefully everything will be normal now.

    My my, if you I knew you were such a hoodlum I may never have agreed to meet you j/k

    Aren't we training again next weekend?
    Yes my good man we'll get it sorted next week :-)
    How's the gel?

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    Quote Originally Posted by milky01623

    Yes my good man we'll get it sorted next week :-)
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    Good mate, don't feel 18 yet, maybe 30 though!!!
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    Hahaha he gave you that line aswell?

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    Glad your son is out and ok. You have been a dad longer than me(20 month old). I can't imagine surgery for a child. Happy it went well.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Capebuffalo
    Glad your son is out and ok. You have been a dad longer than me(20 month old). I can't imagine surgery for a child. Happy it went well.
    It's pretty brutal. My middle child had a condition called pyloric stenosis(over development of the sphincter entering the stomach) so he couldn't eat and would throw up all the time. Had to have his stomach cut open and operate on that muscle. Me and my wife were a wreck for like a week. I sympathize with ya milky. Glad everything is g2g!

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    shit. when my daughter was born, she had a partially open tear duct, which meant mild sedation and a very mild procedure to open it all the way up. I was scared. It was my baby. You're in good company mate!

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    glad all is well. my boy is 7 and daughter is 5. i still wake in the middle of the night and check on them. they are both very sound sleeper and my biggest fear everytime i see them they are not breathing. my boy (Maximus) yells at my everytime i wake him. and yes those fears i think are normal no matter how old you kids get that feeling of protector will never leave

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    My daughter turned 18 recently and there isn't a single minute of the day that I don't worry! It's the burden of being blessed with parenthood lol. Glad all worked out Milky, glad someone in the family isn't afraid of needles

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    Quote Originally Posted by Lunk1
    My daughter turned 18 recently and there isn't a single minute of the day that I don't worry! It's the burden of being blessed with parenthood lol. Glad all worked out Milky, glad someone in the family isn't afraid of needles
    I think ur worries r slightly different being she's 18!!! Lol

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    Quote Originally Posted by Tron3219 View Post
    I think ur worries r slightly different being she's 18!!! Lol
    Texas isn't THAT big! Keep it up! Thats my baby!!!!!!!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Lunk1

    Texas isn't THAT big! Keep it up! Thats my baby!!!!!!!
    Lol u know I'm just giving u a hard time. But tell ur worries haven't shifted since she was younger. Makin sure ur guns r nice and clean lately? Lol

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    Quote Originally Posted by Tron3219 View Post
    Lol u know I'm just giving u a hard time. But tell ur worries haven't shifted since she was younger. Makin sure ur guns r nice and clean lately? Lol
    Told one kid once "don't do anything that might cause you to end up on the back of a milk carton", since they don't do that anymore he just looked stupidly at me!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Lunk1

    Told one kid once "don't do anything that might cause you to end up on the back of a milk carton", since they don't do that anymore he just looked stupidly at me!
    Haha I have a sister that's about ur daughters age and I'm 8.5 years older then her. She brought a guy home once and I had all my guns out (ar15, ak47, several shotguns(hunting and home invasion), .308 tactical sniper rifle, .357 mag, couple glocks(.45& 9mm)). They were walking out the door and I just told him "u can't run and u can't hide" . Poor boy turned white as a ghost and damn near fell trying to get out the door lol

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    Thanx guys its good to hear friendly words :-)

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    Glad to hear everything went good Milky! And yes, i know what you mean.

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    Thanx dude ^^^^

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    Glad to hear your son is fine now

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    Quote Originally Posted by marcus300
    Glad to hear your son is fine now
    Thanx Marcus
    He's currently running around like nothing's happend lol
    Came in earlier and said"I've been in hospital and for my treat we're off to frankie and bennys, get your cost dad"
    I thought I was the adult lol

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    Quote Originally Posted by milky01623 View Post
    Thanx Marcus
    He's currently running around like nothing's happend lol
    Came in earlier and said"I've been in hospital and for my treat we're off to frankie and bennys, get your cost dad"
    I thought I was the adult lol
    If you get through your first pin ok...then you can have Frankie and Bennys too Milky
    Kids are so damn reseliant....glad he is well!

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    Cheers lunk for both the kind words and the reminder lol

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    looks like everything turned out well! GOOD DEAL!

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    Glad to hear things are on the right track mate!! Keep your chin up!

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    Thanx everyone for the kind words

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    Quote Originally Posted by milky01623
    Ok chaps here it is I'm 41 led a somewhat coloured life shall we say 1st man in England with a 10yr ban for being a top flight hooligan,prison,numerous fights etc (I'm a different guy now) but not a lot scares me but my son is 7 and is having a "routine procedure" this morning to correct his hearing,and it's scaring me to death.....
    I feel helpless and what if something goes wrong man I wish it was me and not him
    Is it just me or does everyone get these feelings of being helpless????
    You will be in my prayers friend. You and your son

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