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    Bad Guys Finish First

    Hi friends,

    In light of all the recent posts about problems in interaction with women, I have decided to create a community to bring good old fashioned man hood back. It's a place to discuss not only how to pick up women but how to maintain the upper hand in a relationship and other useful knowledge every man should have to get what he wants.

    As a former nice guy, I had to learn the hard way that being too nice doesn't pay off when it comes to dealing with women. Hence the title of my site: Bad Guys Finish First!

    Check it out!!!

    http://www.badguysfinishfirst.com


    Let me know what you think!

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    HAAHA i respect the time and effort you have put into this, but sorry man i really beg to differ with badguysfinish first, i know alot of guys that wouldnt hurt a fly and are the most genuines blokes u would come across, there girlfriends are smoking hot!

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    a bit funny but i think u r putting a lot of thought, time, and effort into something that does not require so much. personally i have a hard time dealing with my wife at times and sometimes act like an a-hole, but i love her and want whats best for her and our relationship and it does NOT mean maintaining the upper hand in the relationship for the simple sake of being able to do it to stroke ur ego.

    obviously not being married puts u in a difft mental state regarding women than myself but the same principles in life still apply IMO. i think i remember a thread done by u awhile back regarding an ex that possibly led u to the position ur in now. all women arent the same. it seems as though u want to now treat women in a similar manner this ex of urs treated u.

    id also like to note "good old fashioned manhood" doesnt necessarily imply deliberately treating women like crap (which is the impression i get from ur "site")

    id also like to say finally i am far from perfect and often sink to a similar level of thinking regarding women usually due to frustration, but it is never deliberate and unprovoked. i try to be loving. maybe part of ur problem is u find women in the wrong places. u know picking up a chick in a bar while both of u are getting hammered and taking her to ur house (or whatever) to nail her is not the best circumstances in which to find a woman u can trust.

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    Lol it's supposed to be humoristic. The character at the top is named 'Sir Richard Head' and will be offering 50's style advice to people asking questions.

    I'm not as angry with women as I sound like. In fact I do plan on getting married, having kids and all that good stuff. Trust me I'm not big on picking up in the bars.

    My idea is more about teaching beta guys some strong confidence and principles. It is not about being an asshole or derogatory or mean. It's about confidence, decision making, being level headed in all situations, etc. Basically displaying strong alpha male traits.

    I want to show people how to be nice (but not too nice lol), chivalrous, romantic, etc. while retaining all the characteristics of a dominant male.

    Does that make sense?

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    ^^yes that makes sense. sometimes humor is not easily picked up on here!

    i suppose having to be taught how to be a confident male with women is something that doesnt really occur to me. i suppose there are men out there that could use some direction in this regard. its something that would need to be done with careful thought considering u would be affecting many peoples' lives.

    it was not until i joined this site that ive ever really heard the term "beta" guys.

    dont get me wrong either man, i not perfect by a long shot! not even close! i do try though. it seems a bit strange to have to focus effort in the other direction (being more of a dominant a-hole type).

    one thing im learning is a lot of times leadership requires one to be able to lead by example. and i dont mean being an a-hole by example but just the opposite. this is something i am not good at but at least im starting to realize its an approach i need to implement more often!

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    For me it was girls under 25 treat like shit and girls above 25 start showing a little bit respect too

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    Woo! First thread in the new forum! Lol

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    I gotta reiterate that this is not about treating a girl like shit. Or anyone for that matter. I just feel like a lot of men have been brainwashed . It's all about balance. I do want to maintain a humoristic tone as much as possible.

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    I have to admit I smiled and laughed when I visited your website funny stuff. I think as mentioned there are some women being a douche works on.

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    Signed up. Interested to see where it goes.

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    Sex is a race, and I ALWAYS finish first

    Lol just thought it fits in the thread

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    Quote Originally Posted by ReX357 View Post
    I gotta reiterate that this is not about treating a girl like shit. Or anyone for that matter. I just feel like a lot of men have been brainwashed . It's all about balance. I do want to maintain a humoristic tone as much as possible.
    Is there an app for it?

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    There will be yes. I am making t shirts and stuff with the dude in the logo on them and he's gonna be saying some funny misogynistic stuff. This should get interesting haha

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    Quote Originally Posted by --->>405<<---
    ^^yes that makes sense. sometimes humor is not easily picked up on here!

    i suppose having to be taught how to be a confident male with women is something that doesnt really occur to me. i suppose there are men out there that could use some direction in this regard. its something that would need to be done with careful thought considering u would be affecting many peoples' lives.

    it was not until i joined this site that ive ever really heard the term "beta" guys.

    dont get me wrong either man, i not perfect by a long shot! not even close! i do try though. it seems a bit strange to have to focus effort in the other direction (being more of a dominant a-hole type).

    one thing im learning is a lot of times leadership requires one to be able to lead by example. and i dont mean being an a-hole by example but just the opposite. this is something i am not good at but at least im starting to realize its an approach i need to implement more often!
    At least u are trying some men won't even do that due to being full of pride or cocky... So 5 ? thumbs up for u! Keep it up

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    Quote Originally Posted by ReX357
    Hi friends,

    In light of all the recent posts about problems in interaction with women, I have decided to create a community to bring good old fashioned man hood back. It's a place to discuss not only how to pick up women but how to maintain the upper hand in a relationship and other useful knowledge every man should have to get what he wants.

    As a former nice guy, I had to learn the hard way that being too nice doesn't pay off when it comes to dealing with women. Hence the title of my site: Bad Guys Finish First!

    Check it out!!!

    Let me know what you think!
    Not ALL guys finish first... LoL I hope u stay nice there are still is girls out there that LOOK for good guys!! I was with a complete jerk/A**hole for 5 yrs had 2 kids with him finally got smart n left his ass!! He is n last place!! Hahaha I found my husband whom I've been married to 3-1/2 yrs whose a nice guy but of course can be an A-whole but who doesn't have there moments? I hope u rethink the whole idea of- "As a former nice guy, I had to learn the hard way that being too nice doesn't pay off when it comes to dealing with women." U just need to set boundaries and not go head first with every girl u meet... Not sayN u do, but sounds like u got hurt... Patience is a virtue n dnt rush it in time someone special with appreciate ur kindness if not their bad n move on... Anyways just wants to say that NOT ALL BAD GUYS FINISH FIRST my ex is in last place!! Haha

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    Quote Originally Posted by MiNNiE_MOUSE View Post
    Not ALL guys finish first... LoL I hope u stay nice there are still is girls out there that LOOK for good guys!! I was with a complete jerk/A**hole for 5 yrs had 2 kids with him finally got smart n left his ass!! He is n last place!! Hahaha I found my husband whom I've been married to 3-1/2 yrs whose a nice guy but of course can be an A-whole but who doesn't have there moments? I hope u rethink the whole idea of- "As a former nice guy, I had to learn the hard way that being too nice doesn't pay off when it comes to dealing with women." U just need to set boundaries and not go head first with every girl u meet... Not sayN u do, but sounds like u got hurt... Patience is a virtue n dnt rush it in time someone special with appreciate ur kindness if not their bad n move on... Anyways just wants to say that NOT ALL BAD GUYS FINISH FIRST my ex is in last place!! Haha
    Oh no I realize it's all about balance. The title of the site is a little harsher than the reality of my philosophy.

    I am a nice guy. But I can be an asshole if necessary lol.

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    Quote Originally Posted by ReX357

    Oh no I realize it's all about balance. The title of the site is a little harsher than the reality of my philosophy.

    I am a nice guy. But I can be an asshole if necessary lol.
    LoL yeah I think every guy can tho haha... My husband says the same thing to me but we joke around a lot also so its all good... Just didnt want u to classify us woman as "ALL the same" haha hope u find a woman who appreciates ur kindness n doesn't take it for granted! good luck!

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    Quote Originally Posted by MiNNiE_MOUSE View Post
    LoL yeah I think every guy can tho haha... My husband says the same thing to me but we joke around a lot also so its all good... Just didnt want u to classify us woman as "ALL the same" haha hope u find a woman who appreciates ur kindness n doesn't take it for granted! good luck!
    Haha thank you. And welcome to the forums btw!

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    Rex, you need to start listening to Tom Leykis.

    His show's at www.blowmeuptom.com

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    thx honkey..
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    I was just letting my inner Tom Leykis out. I'm kind of a pus$y myself in regards to women, believe it or not. I've been that nice guy that finishes last way too many times, until I stopped holding back what I felt inside but was too afraid to say/do.
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    if thats the kind of stuff tom leykis spreads id pick a different person to look up to or listen to. we all have the freedom to choose our partners and if ur not getting what u need from the partner u have (assuming ur not married) maybe its time to just find a better partner.

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    Quote Originally Posted by ReX357 View Post
    There will be yes. I am making t shirts and stuff with the dude in the logo on them and he's gonna be saying some funny misogynistic stuff. This should get interesting haha
    Sweet, I'll use it everyday if there's an app. Post up in the lounge when you make one please

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    Working on some advertising. What do you guys think?

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    Quote Originally Posted by ReX357 View Post
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    nice.

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    Trying to capitalize on the someecard phenomenon. Anybody's got some good 50's style sayings or any ideas to make more of these?

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