Cheaters the show.

**Eddie_m63** · 02-25-2013, 01:10 PM

Who watches this? I began recording it again, some crazy funny stuff...I think most people can tell when cheating but can't believe how many are willing to take them back...I always told myself told myself that I would never give a second chance and I hope I never do.

**Lunk1** · 02-25-2013, 01:16 PM

The last sentence in your post raises an interesting question. I have been married for almost 21 years! Honestly never cheated and no reason to believe she has either. I used to feel the same way. I always said that was the one thing that would end it..no doubt!

I have seen many relationships endure infidelity. I am not 100% sure..as I mature, that I would give up on my marriage that easily. Hope I never have to find out though!

**Knockout_Power** · 02-25-2013, 01:18 PM

Unless its understood that there will be an open relationship (which is still a no-no for me) then there is no way thats forgivable... its so fvcken dirty!!!... I wouldnt want my girl bringing something nasty into the bedroom other than her mind

**Zodiac82** · 02-25-2013, 01:22 PM

used to watch it alllll the time about 6-7 years ago....sometimes ill watch it if nothin else is on....
like lunk said bein with someone for an extended period of time ( 4 yrs +) might make u reconsider the last statement ESPECIALLY if kids are involved

**Eddie_m63** · 02-25-2013, 01:29 PM

Originally Posted by Lunk1

The last sentence in your post raises an interesting question. I have been married for almost 21 years! Honestly never cheated and no reason to believe she has either. I used to feel the same way. I always said that was the one thing that would end it..no doubt!

I have seen many relationships endure infidelity. I am not 100% sure..as I mature, that I would give up on my marriage that easily. Hope I never have to find out though!

I know and you raised even a bigger one on your last paragraph...

**--->>405<<---** · 02-25-2013, 02:19 PM

Originally Posted by Lunk1

The last sentence in your post raises an interesting question. I have been married for almost 21 years! Honestly never cheated and no reason to believe she has either. I used to feel the same way. I always said that was the one thing that would end it..no doubt!

I have seen many relationships endure infidelity. I am not 100% sure..as I mature, that I would give up on my marriage that easily. Hope I never have to find out though!

IMO u wouldnt be giving up on it. it wouldve already been given up on by her right around the time she was being penetrated by another hard cock! (dont get me started!

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**Lunk1** · 02-25-2013, 02:22 PM

Originally Posted by --->>405<<---

IMO u wouldnt be giving up on it. it wouldve already been given up on by her right around the time she was being penetrated by another hard cock! (dont get me started!

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WOW....bad experiences buddy???

**--->>405<<---** · 02-25-2013, 02:30 PM

LOL.. well only one.. and if it werent for that experience i wouldnt be with my wife and prob wouldnt be who i am today.. needless to say IMO some things are beyond reconciliation. forgiveness yes, only in the sense that we owe forgiveness as instructed by our Father above out of respect and thanks for the undeserved forgiveness He has given us. BUT thats where it ends with me..

**Lunk1** · 02-25-2013, 02:34 PM

Originally Posted by --->>405<<---

LOL.. well only one.. and if it werent for that experience i wouldnt be with my wife and prob wouldnt be who i am today.. needless to say IMO some things are beyond reconciliation. forgiveness yes, only in the sense that we owe forgiveness as instructed by our Father above out of respect and thanks for the undeserved forgiveness He has given us. BUT thats where it ends with me..

I just hope I never have do make that kind of a decision...I dont think it would be as easy as I used to make it out to be.

**--->>405<<---** · 02-25-2013, 02:40 PM

Originally Posted by Lunk1

I just hope I never have do make that kind of a decision...I dont think it would be as easy as I used to make it out to be.

when i had to make that decision it was not easy at all. BUT it was necessary and unavoidable. i didnt react the way i thought i would. we were supposed to get married and had a home about 75% complete when i found out.

i knew living with the knowledge was not going to happen. i wished it wouldnt have happened as did she, but once the bullet leaves the barrel there is no stopping what comes next. as a man i could not look myself in the mirror every day knowing my woman had been with someone else. i knew this to be a fact. it sucked.

it is one of those benchmark situations that contributes to the definition of who you are. having to give something up u love for principles u know are uncompromising is brutal. especially when ur the one in control. i learned a lot about myself from the experience as well as a lot about the potential of people u think u know and love. i would not change it. i am stronger because of it.

**warmouth** · 02-25-2013, 02:46 PM

Originally Posted by --->>405<<---

LOL.. well only one.. and if it werent for that experience i wouldnt be with my wife and prob wouldnt be who i am today.. needless to say IMO some things are beyond reconciliation. forgiveness yes, only in the sense that we owe forgiveness as instructed by our Father above out of respect and thanks for the undeserved forgiveness He has given us. BUT thats where it ends with me..

You are the man 405!

**Lunk1** · 02-25-2013, 02:49 PM

Originally Posted by --->>405<<---

when i had to make that decision it was not easy at all. BUT it was necessary and unavoidable. i didnt react the way i thought i would. we were supposed to get married and had a home about 75% complete when i found out.

i knew living with the knowledge was not going to happen. i wished it wouldnt have happened as did she, but once the bullet leaves the barrel there is no stopping what comes next. as a man i could not look myself in the mirror every day knowing my woman had been with someone else. i knew this to be a fact. it sucked.

it is one of those benchmark situations that contributes to the definition of who you are. having to give something up u love for principles u know are uncompromising is brutal. especially when ur the one in control. i learned a lot about myself from the experience as well as a lot about the potential of people u think u know and love. i would not change it. i am stronger because of it.

I wonder if you would have taken the same approach had you been married for 10-15 years! Something to consider.....

**--->>405<<---** · 02-25-2013, 02:52 PM

Originally Posted by warmouth

You are the man 405!

LOL.. thx warmouth. sometimes these things are easier said than done as im sure u know! but we continue to try to improve daily..

**--->>405<<---** · 02-25-2013, 02:53 PM

Originally Posted by Lunk1

I wonder if you would have taken the same approach had you been married for 10-15 years! Something to consider.....

no way to know.. ive been with my current wife for 7 years and i can say the same applies.. come talk to me in 3-8more yrs.. i bet u get the same answer.. loyalty goes a long way with me man.