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    Out of line (apology)

    Recently there have been a cpl threads in the lounge that involved female members where alot of sxual inuendos and things of a flirtasious manner have been thrown around alot! For a cpl days I let my self get wrapped up in this behavior and it was even pointed out to me by another member (thank you)!

    I want to publicly apologize first and foremost to my wife for saying things that are no doubt and without question innapropriate for a married man to say to a women! I allowed my self to get carried away in the fun and reteric to the degree where I lost sight of right and wrong! No doubt if the shoe where on the other foot and I were to see her making some of the same or simailair comments to another man...I would be furious to say the least!

    I also apologize to those that I may have said these things too. While taken in good fun they are still not exceptable things to be said by a happily married man! I meant no disrespect or ill intent!

    It's easy for a man to get carried away in flirtashious talk as it can easily feed his ego...which all men crave! Again...my sincerest appologies to all, especially my wife whom I love dearly by the way !

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    Quote Originally Posted by Lunk1
    Recently there have been a cpl threads in the lounge that involved female members where alot of sxual inuendos and things of a flirtasious manner have been thrown around alot! For a cpl days I let my self get wrapped up in this behavior and it was even pointed out to me by another member (thank you)!

    I want to publicly apologize first and foremost to my wife for saying things that are no doubt and without question innapropriate for a married man to say to a women! I allowed my self to get carried away in the fun and reteric to the degree where I lost sight of right and wrong! No doubt if the shoe where on the other foot and I were to see her making some of the same or simailair comments to another man...I would be furious to say the least!

    I also apologize to those that I may have said these things too. While taken in good fun they are still not exceptable things to be said by a happily married man! I meant no disrespect or ill intent!

    It's easy for a man to get carried away in flirtashious talk as it can easily feed his ego...which all men crave! Again...my sincerest appologies to all, especially my wife whom I love dearly by the way !
    Good man Lunk. I myself have fallen victim to this sort of banter in the past, which is why I have chosen to only spectate those threads and refrain from commenting in them.

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    Uh, does your wife have an account here?

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    Quote Originally Posted by stpete View Post
    Uh, does your wife have an account here?
    No but I dont hide my activity and she often sits and reads the BS! Even so....still not right, end of story!

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    I thought you were gay



    Somebody got busted by the wife......

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    OH.....I get it... she found out what's been happening for real to all the neighborhood sheep from that one thread!

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    Quote Originally Posted by dan68131 View Post




    I thought you were gay



    Somebody got busted by the wife......
    Dan...I knew I could count on you No...I have been thinking about this since it was pointed out to me a cpl days ago! Not the type of person I normally am!

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    No worries Lunk.

    You probably thought you were at one of those gang bang wife swap parties that you attend on wknds where that type of behavior is encouraged. Its understandable.

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    Quote Originally Posted by MickeyKnox View Post
    No worries Lunk.

    You probably thought you were at one of those gang bang wife swap parties that you attend on wknds where that type of behavior is encouraged. Its understandable.
    LOL...you just cant keep a secret can ya?

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    You're a good man, Lunk. Respect

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    Quote Originally Posted by jasc View Post
    You're a good man, Lunk. Respect
    A big X2 brother..

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    Lunk is one of the most genuine and sincere guys here. Respect.....you big Beef Queen

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    Ok....The old timer with the old morals, but morals we should all have will complement you on this apology you make. I know that the wives would not really deep down inside appreciate some of the flirting etc.. even when knowing it is in fun. So be cool guys and gals. Because through it all you guys were.....crazy mike

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    Quote Originally Posted by MuscleInk View Post
    Lunk is one of the most genuine and sincere guys here. Respect.....you big Beef Queen
    Dairy Queen.... Thanks buddy!

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    I'd like a link to the not-so-perfect comments. I could use a good laugh.

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    Good job lunk. Now...sensitive E2 assay.
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    Quote Originally Posted by austinite View Post
    Good job lunk. Now...sensitive E2 assay.
    Your getting a bit emotional on us girlfriend.
    I'm sending you some anastrozole

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    Did my situation make you reflect on your behaviour? LoL

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    Lay off the Clomid bro.And by the way I am on the phone with her now.She may not be pissed yet.But she will be when I have my sister tell her she wants her panties back

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    Wife got a gun to your head?

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    Man it would suck to be the dude in that picture.

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    Weiner. You are a great man and husband. I don't think anyone here would think different. You've made it clear how happy you are with your wife, and even encouraged many of us to be better husbands. Never doubted that for a second. I choose not to post in those threads because I can barely take seeing electamaddoxs' avi. I could very easily get distracted and would feel guilty. Thank you for this and I can assure you that no one took you for real. I don't think your wife has anything ti be worried about based on the obvious love you've portrayed on this site for her.

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    Quote Originally Posted by TheClinch View Post
    Wife got a gun to your head?
    Yeah but which head? Now I'm curious as to what all was said on here. Time for a little research....I was busy trying to catch up on watching episodes of south park. I got all the way to episode 201 only to find it was censored due to muslim radicals threatening to kill the producers if they went ahead and aired that episode. It supposedly made fun of the profit muhammed. So I'm thinking its ok to make fun of Jesus and God and Moses but we can't make fun of Muhammed? Well there you go so much for freedoms in America. What's bad is that we have others from another country controlling what we watch, say or do. I wonder what they would do or say if you or I were to threaten them with violence over something they say I/we don't like...Hmmmm. Anyways sorry for the hijack back to the original query of what did Lunk Head say to get himself in trouble...lol Yer in the Dog House Now!


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    All good reasons I typically avoid all those types of threads such as the leg one. I have not even read it

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    But to be honest, words are thin wispy things.

    Back in the days of feudal Japan, apologies were made by offering the removal of a finger with your knife.....

    ....and as the real man we know you are, this means you are good for nine (9) more apologies! =)

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    Quote Originally Posted by Lunk1 View Post
    Recently there have been a cpl threads in the lounge that involved female members where alot of sxual inuendos and things of a flirtasious manner have been thrown around alot! For a cpl days I let my self get wrapped up in this behavior and it was even pointed out to me by another member (thank you)!

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    I also apologize to those that I may have said these things too. While taken in good fun they are still not exceptable things to be said by a happily married man! I meant no disrespect or ill intent!

    It's easy for a man to get carried away in flirtashious talk as it can easily feed his ego...which all men crave! Again...my sincerest appologies to all, especially my wife whom I love dearly by the way !
    IMO you're a big man for coming out and making this apology. I too got caught up in this kind of behavior over a year ago, but it got out of control and was partly the cause of what would turn into a lot of heartache and tough times between me and my wife. I wish I had caught myself sooner and realized what I was doing; what seemed innocent (and certainly was) was still inappropriate and as you said, if my wife were doing the same with guys, I'd be fuming.

    Good for you brother, kudos.

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    In this day and age, to actually have someone come out and say something like this apology just shows that there are still men out here who can't accept responsibility and apologize. I line the part about his wife, how she would feel. To think of your wife before yourself is what love is.

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    Quote Originally Posted by lovbyts View Post
    all good reasons i typically avoid all those types of threads such as the leg one. I have not even read it
    x2.

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    Quote Originally Posted by lovbyts View Post
    All good reasons I typically avoid all those types of threads such as the leg one. I have not even read it
    Quote Originally Posted by MickeyKnox View Post
    x2.
    For the record..this was the thread where I lost my way and behaved poorly!
    http://forums.steroid.com/showthread...a-woman-s-body

    It wouldnt matter what the context of the thread is or what it's about! Fault falls squarly on me and me alone for my behavior!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
    Last edited by Lunk1; 02-27-2013 at 02:09 PM.

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    Quote Originally Posted by lovbyts View Post
    All good reasons I typically avoid all those types of threads such as the leg one. I have not even read it
    Same here.

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    this is still the internet and a steroid board correct?
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    Quote Originally Posted by gixxerboy1 View Post
    this is still the internet and a steroid board correct?
    You didn't get the memo. Harpo productions bought steroid .com. Now this is Oprah's Juciehead Show.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Lunk1 View Post
    For the record..this was the thread where I lost my way and behaved poorly!
    http://forums.steroid.com/showthread...a-woman-s-body

    It wouldnt matter what the context of the thread is or what it's about! Fault falls squarly on me and me alone for my behavior!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
    Ive never even opened that thread. But i forgive you anyway.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Dpyle View Post

    Good man Lunk. I myself have fallen victim to this sort of banter in the past, which is why I have chosen to only spectate those threads and refrain from commenting in them.
    Quote Originally Posted by lovbyts View Post
    All good reasons I typically avoid all those types of threads such as the leg one. I have not even read it
    Quote Originally Posted by gbrice75 View Post

    IMO you're a big man for coming out and making this apology. I too got caught up in this kind of behavior over a year ago, but it got out of control and was partly the cause of what would turn into a lot of heartache and tough times between me and my wife. I wish I had caught myself sooner and realized what I was doing; what seemed innocent (and certainly was) was still inappropriate and as you said, if my wife were doing the same with guys, I'd be fuming.

    Good for you brother, kudos.
    Quote Originally Posted by gbrice75 View Post

    Same here.
    throw me in that bunch...as told to another member....I was there about 3 months ago
    your welcome Lunk....I wasnt bustin ur balls or anythin and by no means did u say anythin "uncalled" for or derogatory....but if I helped save a potential future argument between u and the mrs glad I could have helped....as mentioned before I got caught up and was in the doghouse and dont wanna go back lol

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    Quote Originally Posted by lovbyts
    All good reasons I typically avoid all those types of threads such as the leg one. I have not even read it
    I'm with you on that. I avoid those threads. I occasionally read them for entertainment but rarely comment. Things can fall out of context too easily and what reads as fun and non-threatening to some may be offensive an off putting to others. I feel the same way about girl friend/wife threads. It's difficult to offer objective advice (IMO) when we only get the OP's side of the discussion.

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    Quote Originally Posted by MuscleInk View Post
    I'm with you on that. I avoid those threads. I occasionally read them for entertainment but rarely comment. Things can fall out of context too easily and what reads as fun and non-threatening to some may be offensive an off putting to others. I feel the same way about girl friend/wife threads. It's difficult to offer objective advice (IMO) when we only get the OP's side of the discussion.
    This could be true of any thread or post realistically any place where male and females interact on repeated occasions whether it be work, church, clubs, bars, sport events, parties, social gatherings, Internet sites... People build bonds feel comfortable and will make jokes... Anyone on the outside looking in who isn't apart of that is always going to think it is more than what it is... It's human nature... ESP with spouses

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