My GF wants fake boobs

[HitIt]

fake tits are...fake.

[Lunk1]

fake tits are...fake.

Powerful observation

[crazy mike]

That's not always a good idea and typically leads to more problems like divorce. 2 wrongs dont make a right and most of the time confession is more for the person who did the bad dead than for the person it was done to. Especially now there would be nothing to gain from admitting what happened. Like most women she probably knows or has strong suspicions and if she wanted to know she would be still asking if she ever did.

Instead of criticizing another admitted wrong doer lets try to save the current one from making a lifetime of mistakes.

Now that was precisely what I was saying but with the details and inner thoughts. Thanks lovbyts. ....crazy mike


NOW BACK TO THE THREAD

[gearbox]

Have you ever confessed it to her? How could you hold onto that your entire life/marriage? Looking into her eyes every day knowing you betrayed her love?

According to most psychologist telling someone is another selfish act on your part. You want to tell them to make YOU feel better. And as Lovbyts said it is not a good idea only IF you believe you can sustain from the temptation from doing this horrible act again

[gearbox]

Back to thread. I think redz may have went into this innocently and now he has developed serious feelings for this woman. And is continue to think with his emotions

[Knockout_Power]

Personally Im not really a fan of fakies, but it wouldnt stop me from being with a woman I desired. Im not really a boob guy so I dont care if they are big, fake or non-exsistant. The bodies I like most are usually ones that are built in the gym so the tone usually results in loss of breast mass. Having said this, a woman in search of a nice lean body may feel self conscious as her chest shrinks so look at things from her perspective as well... maybe one of the reasons she is leaving her husband is because he tries to control her life as well

[oatmeal69]

Are you going to be cool with it when she cheats on you like she does her husband? If she was willing to cheat on him, she'll do the same to you too.

Take it from someone who knows all too well. - If she does it WITH you, she WILL do it TO you! You are no one special enough to change that.

I want to marry this girl!

If she is still married and cheating with you, you're DELUDING yourself if you believe any stories about how it's for the mortgage, the kids, the money - WHATEVER! She's still married because she's not ready to end the marriage. You're PLAYING WITH FIRE, and you WILL get burned!

Back to thread. I think redz may have went into this innocently and now he has developed serious feelings for this woman. And is continue to think with his emotions

Understand emotions make seemingly easy decisions impossible, but you need to go into it KNOWING what I just said. Good luck.

[GirlyGymRat]

So I`m having a dilema here my married gf wants to get breast implants but I really dont want her to. She really doesnt need them but she is possibly getting them this week suddenly. I`m flying down next Sunday to drive her home from Florida but she may already have this done by then. Any tips on talking her out of this? or am I insane for not wanting her to?

Redz. I notice a few things that puts up the red flags for me.

1. She's still with husband after announcing she wants a divorce nearly 2 months ago. (And I imagine still having sex with him)
2. She wants u to go to some couple school or retreat.
3. She's letting the husband pay for the boobs. Unless she works but somehow I never got that feeling.
4. She's getting surgery without regard for your input.
5 shes not discussing important decisions with you. Cuz i don't know a single plastic surgeon who can do surgery within a weeks time.

So it seems that she does what SHE wants and SHE gets what SHE wants......it's all about HER.

I know that you fell for this girl but I am afraid she is going to break your heart....

[JWP806]

I don't know if some of you generally think Redz is stupid or if the majority of you just hate women.

What's not to hate about this woman? She's a skeezer. Redz should be a bit more intelligent than saying he wants to marry a woman who is married and currently cheating on her husband. She flirts with other guys so he flirts at other girls to get back at her. I remember when I was dating in high school...

[HORSE]

Just tell her you want to (in your words) make her pregnant, then watch how fast your love bunny and her new fake tit's run's....

Red from two or three years ago was not completely retarded, current day Red seems more than a tad bit der da der and I'm having a hard time believing that this is even real....

[DSM4Life]

I will expound for your sake. This is the truth, believe me or not this is what went down. I was in shape a competitor, in my prime 30's, not a bad looing guy. So when I was out the women picked me up. I never had to look. So for tow (2) years it was 3, 4, 5 women a week. Now that's fvcked up ( aids wasn't a problem at hand then ) This was cruel to my wife we agree. I thought I fell in love with a women and my wife found out. It was so sad, so bad and not her anger, her heart was broken ( self-centered/selfish , me) the kids suffered by not knowing but the way it was for a time. Now I think and I've been counseled long ago and as current as when I got sober 1yr 5 months ago to not tell her about ALL the others too spare her the pain. Some times we tell, and sometimes we have to discern what good could come of it. What could be gained to tell her about the numbers of them. The night before coming home to her. So should I continue to be selfish and think about my own piece of mind, or should I be kind and spare her heart again. See my shame, my learning experience might help Redz to think about the other side. His cross to bear, but maybe my testimony of how bad for everyone, as well, again for the people on the forum who don't want to hear, spare the details, they are less then commendable. So it would just kill her, it have broken us up, no purpose for her to be hurt. I'm getting redundant now so I'll close. I will advise that when you hear a heart full confession, don't rub the sh!t in the confessor's face. It is more fuel to an old fire and only serves to hurt. To those like you who judged me when you don't know all what took place 26 years ago, I say look in the mirror and judge yourself as to your MOTIVES as the comment "Makes you a douche bag" what was that for. Once a douche bag always a douche bag. Are you not forgiven for your sins, does your father keep telling you that you remain a douche and you will never redeem yourself, I think not. And I will tell you your comment served to be mean, nasty and cruel. I'm the receiver of the comment and that's where you took me. Ya think ?? ....crazy mike

PS this thread was not about me and I apologize to OP for running down this trail, Please accept. ...cm

The douche bag comment was a bit much and I apologize for it. I just read so many threads on here about guys cheating on their wives and being proud about it. Makes me sick. Being in a LTR I've learned that keeping a relationship together is tough and takes dedication. Destroying one is easy.

You say you don't want to tell her the full truth because you don't want to further hurt her but maybe you are not telling her because you are that ashamed at what you did. You never said you told her but rather "she found out" which isn't the same. If she hadn't found out would you still be playing the same games behind her back? I just don't understand how you can say you love someone and cheat on them at the same time.

[DSM4Life]

That's not always a good idea and typically leads to more problems like divorce. 2 wrongs dont make a right and most of the time confession is more for the person who did the bad dead than for the person it was done to. Especially now there would be nothing to gain from admitting what happened. Like most women she probably knows or has strong suspicions and if she wanted to know she would be still asking if she ever did.

Instead of criticizing another admitted wrong doer lets try to save the current one from making a lifetime of mistakes.

1)Two wrong don't make a right? Are you trying to say that him telling him his wife he cheated is wrong? You say the person shouldn't say anything because it will just lead to more problems/hurt feelings. Maybe that should have been thought about before the person cheated.

2)There is nothing to be gained from being truthful to the mother of your children?


3)" Like most women she probably knows or has strong suspicions and if she wanted to know she would be still asking if she ever did. "

Dude are you serious? Wow.


I guess being a man and sticking by the person you decided to make a family with is an old school notion. It's easy, you want to **** other people then dont get married and make a family. And they say gay people shouldn't marry....



Sorry to OP. I have very strong feelings on the topic.

[crazy mike]

Holy Sh!t I was 32 yrs old I was on aas and was thinking with my dick. Do you have kids and grandkids. Have oyu been married succsefull for 34 Fvckin years. Is your wife 68 yrs old disabled to the point that she can't see right, walk very good, has had many years ago a COMPLETE hysterectomy , can't have sex, is in pain all the time, skin cancer has to take meds and pain meds to get by each day. How fvckin selfish of you to judge me or anyone who is spareing some one the pain of the knowledge of these events. So she can go to sleep at night picturing me in bed with these women and fvckin them or eating etc... Wow how long would it take her to get over those pictures in her head. Why be so selfish to get this off my mind, asking for forgivness and letting it go. Only so she can hang on everyday. Sorry but YOU are very self centerd and selfish to think you have to take it to that limit and for what. So we can live and not talk, gave her look at me, in pain. Oh and then my friend, have you not sinned at all. Did you always think before you spoke or did anything wrong. Give me a Fvckin break, are you holier then thou, that you stopped and thought and didn't commit that sin. How old are you. If you were 99 as your profile you would have some wisdom about these things. Go out ask a psych or q marriage counselor. Why can't you tell the truth like your age. Are you just a kid, sound like it because you know nothing about the real life. Living on life's terms. AS I said stupid I have been pained by this I have remorse , she has suffered, the kids suffered and by your statements you want me to rub this sh!t in my wife's face, thinking not of her. You showed you a$$ today when you called me a douche. You showed the others that you were thinking of your own carnal pleasure by maliciously busting my balls when my intention was pure to help another to not create the pain my wife already went thru, to another family or himself in the end. You have strong feelings, well did you catch that I do, or the others that stand by what I say don't. You don'/t know you're only thinking about your strong feelings. When and if your other does this (if it should happen) would you want him/her to stop at some point and save you the details. I think you are very, very naïve. Remember what I said, if you only get this, What was your motive to make me feel bad. To take my helpful confession as a tool to hurt me and change what I said to be more embarrassing. I bore quilt and shame to try to help another to THINK as you said.
Guy I care to not continue to "regret the past nor shut the door on it". A quote fro AA's BB. But I do as I just said. I care not to wallow in self pity, nor bring more sadness by tell something that will hurt my wife. My dead was done and I can't change that so I choose to let sleeping dogs lie to save another's remainder of her life. Your cruelty to me and whom ever you punish with your sins some day, will come to haunt you. ....NOW THAT IS NOT CRAZY SH!T.....mike


Sorry I'm not going to try to fix my typos here. I'm pissed. My wife already knows of the infidelity regarding you second point. So that's the sin. You should have thought before you brought embarrassing pain to me by calling me a douche. Answer me and this post or PM me and tell me what the fvck was your motive... Mr. sinless...tell me your motive

[frank13]

fake tits are...fake.

i hate fake tits

[DSM4Life]

Holy Sh!t I was 32 yrs old I was on aas and was thinking with my dick. Do you have kids and grandkids. Have oyu been married succsefull for 34 Fvckin years. Is your wife 68 yrs old disabled to the point that she can't see right, walk very good, has had many years ago a COMPLETE hysterectomy , can't have sex, is in pain all the time, skin cancer has to take meds and pain meds to get by each day. How fvckin selfish of you to judge me or anyone who is spareing some one the pain of the knowledge of these events. So she can go to sleep at night picturing me in bed with these women and fvckin them or eating etc... Wow how long would it take her to get over those pictures in her head. Why be so selfish to get this off my mind, asking for forgivness and letting it go. Only so she can hang on everyday. Sorry but YOU are very self centerd and selfish to think you have to take it to that limit and for what. So we can live and not talk, gave her look at me, in pain. Oh and then my friend, have you not sinned at all. Did you always think before you spoke or did anything wrong. Give me a Fvckin break, are you holier then thou, that you stopped and thought and didn't commit that sin. How old are you. If you were 99 as your profile you would have some wisdom about these things. Go out ask a psych or q marriage counselor. Why can't you tell the truth like your age. Are you just a kid, sound like it because you know nothing about the real life. Living on life's terms. AS I said stupid I have been pained by this I have remorse , she has suffered, the kids suffered and by your statements you want me to rub this sh!t in my wife's face, thinking not of her. You showed you a$$ today when you called me a douche. You showed the others that you were thinking of your own carnal pleasure by maliciously busting my balls when my intention was pure to help another to not create the pain my wife already went thru, to another family or himself in the end. You have strong feelings, well did you catch that I do, or the others that stand by what I say don't. You don'/t know you're only thinking about your strong feelings. When and if your other does this (if it should happen) would you want him/her to stop at some point and save you the details. I think you are very, very naïve. Remember what I said, if you only get this, What was your motive to make me feel bad. To take my helpful confession as a tool to hurt me and change what I said to be more embarrassing. I bore quilt and shame to try to help another to THINK as you said.
Guy I care to not continue to "regret the past nor shut the door on it". A quote fro AA's BB. But I do as I just said. I care not to wallow in self pity, nor bring more sadness by tell something that will hurt my wife. My dead was done and I can't change that so I choose to let sleeping dogs lie to save another's remainder of her life. Your cruelty to me and whom ever you punish with your sins some day, will come to haunt you. ....NOW THAT IS NOT CRAZY SH!T.....mike

You are very emotional and very shattered in your thoughts. Just remember YOU brought up the topic not me. If you are so ashamed of it then why brin it up? I am sorry to hear your wife has a condition. I am not some punk kid who walks around and judges people but at the same I call a spade a spade. I won't continue to whore up the OP topic. I am done. If you want to chat further then please keep it to PMs.

[crazy mike]

I genuinely apologizes to all who have listened or read this. I said back to the thread but Mr. holier than though had to continue. I'm sorry to the thread and I'll not say another word on this topic. crazy mike apologizes

PS: again I realize this was not appropriate and hope Admin isn't aggravated at me. The end

[Knockout_Power]

any disagreements can be made via PM or by starting a thread that others can choose to avoid or take part in... $0.02

[tigerspawn]

Back to thread. I think redz may have went into this innocently and now he has developed serious feelings for this woman. And is continue to think with his emotions

I agree but disagree. This relationship wasn’t entered with any innocence. Redz started seeing this women knowing she had open marriage but not caring because he knew he was going to get laid. You are right; Redz has developed feelings for this woman and is thinking with his heart.

[GirlyGymRat]

Just tell her you want to (in your words) make her pregnant, then watch how fast your love bunny and her new fake tit's run's....

Does the gf know that you want to make a baby with her? How does she feel about this? This maybe a good approach to find out if her feelings are as strong as yours.

[Lunk1]

Best quote in this thread "der da der" LOL!

[warmouth]

So I`m having a dilema here my married gf wants to get breast implants but I really dont want her to. She really doesnt need them but she is possibly getting them this week suddenly. I`m flying down next Sunday to drive her home from Florida but she may already have this done by then. Any tips on talking her out of this? or am I insane for not wanting her to?

See if she can talk her husband into getting her a pair!

Seriously though, I dont want my wife to get them. After alot of complements and whispers of sweet nothings, I thnk she is now very confident in herself. Heck, if she keeps taking anavar AND got fake boobs, my mind would be going crazy.

[Lunk1]

See if she can talk her husband into getting her a pair!

Seriously though, I dont want my wife to get them. After alot of complements and whispers of sweet nothings, I thnk she is now very confident in herself. Heck, if she keeps taking anavar AND got fake boobs, my mind would be going crazy.

I was against it...now I'm AGAINST them all the time lol. Love em!

[redz]

Has she expressed any concerns regarding your desire to enhance your physique beyond it's natural capability?

Not really she said she would prefer I was off of steroids and hgh prior to us having a baby but over all she has watched me inject so no big deal really.

[Papa Smurf]

I want to marry this girl!

Bro.......... NO YOU DONT.......................How will you ever trust her..............Ever heard her on the phone with him while she is laying in the sack with you............ She sounds convincing doesn't she..........

And let me guess.............she doesn't have sex with the husband anymore since you have met? Matter of fact, they sleep in separate beds.....
Wake up bro..............tooo many good ones out there

[redz]

Does the gf know that you want to make a baby with her? How does she feel about this? This maybe a good approach to find out if her feelings are as strong as yours.

She wants a baby with me. She was pregnant back in the fall but lost the baby. We were deliberate that time and havent been careful at all after that either, timing was just off. She'll be ovulating next time I see her.

[Lunk1]

She wants a baby with me. She was pregnant back in the fall but lost the baby. We were deliberate that time and havent been careful at all after that either, timing was just off. She'll be ovulating next time I see her.

Fakies followed by baby equals new fakies and more $

[redz]

Fakies followed by baby equals new fakies and more $

Yeah I know. I think shes better off without the implants.

[--->>405<<---]

I was planning on knocking her up.

I want to marry this girl!

Redz...this is past due! You're an idiot! Nothing more need be said!

Redz dont take this as flaming man but seriously..???? U have gotta be the biggest sucker/moron ive seen in awhile! What the hecks is wrong with u man!!?!

Ur married girlfriend sounds like a fvcking train wreck!! I just dont get it..

[lovbyts]

This whole Redz saga is like a bad train wreck that hasent happened yet. You know it's going to happen but cant look away.

[RipOwens]

Redz ain't the first to fall for a married woman and won't be the last...

[crazy mike]

They say " Love Is Blind", just a saying . But if true redz might just be love blind. I thought that was my problem back then until I found out I'm..............just crazy mike

[JWP806]

They say " Love Is Blind", just a saying . But if true redz might just be love blind. I thought that was my problem back then until I found out I'm..............just crazy mike

I don't think that applies in any way to this situation. There are plenty of signs that this is bad news here and all of them point to "get the fvck out of there!"

[crazy mike]

I don't think that applies in any way to this situation. There are plenty of signs that this is bad news here and all of them point to "get the fvck out of there!"

I know that it was actually a joke. ...cm

[tigerspawn]

It was bad situation from the beginning. Relationship is complicated further by the fact that Redz is in love with her. We can sit here and give Redz advice and tell him he is wrong for feeling the way he does but the decision is his. Redz I’m not going make fun of you for having the feeling you do. I pray that we are able to help you see past the love that you have. Redz have you had her put phone on speaker while she is telling her husband that she wants a divorce? I can’t imagine a husband paying for his wife to improve herself when he knows she wants a divorce. Redz, I assume that she tells you that you are the only guy that she is seeing besides her husband. Every person in every open relationship that I have ever heard of sees multiple individuals.

[lovbyts]

I know that it was actually a joke. ...cm

That's what I have been saying. Cant imagine otherwise given the circumstances. Couldn't be any worse then jumping out of an airplane without a parachute just because you like the view...

[crazy mike]

That's what I have been saying. Cant imagine otherwise given the circumstances. Couldn't be any worse then jumping out of an airplane without a parachute just because you like the view...

That was a rough one. ...cm

[redz]

It was bad situation from the beginning. Relationship is complicated further by the fact that Redz is in love with her. We can sit here and give Redz advice and tell him he is wrong for feeling the way he does but the decision is his. Redz I’m not going make fun of you for having the feeling you do. I pray that we are able to help you see past the love that you have. Redz have you had her put phone on speaker while she is telling her husband that she wants a divorce? I can’t imagine a husband paying for his wife to improve herself when he knows she wants a divorce. Redz, I assume that she tells you that you are the only guy that she is seeing besides her husband. Every person in every open relationship that I have ever heard of sees multiple individuals.

I hear ya, I think he just thinks if he buys her whatever she wants she'll stay. I dunno to be honest but I do know im the only other one shes seeing not like that even makes sense anyways considering theres still someone else in this thing. Ultimatum coming soon, I know I have to now there really is no choice.

[GirlyGymRat]

I hear ya, I think he just thinks if he buys her whatever she wants she'll stay. I dunno to be honest but I do know im the only other one shes seeing not like that even makes sense anyways considering theres still someone else in this thing. Ultimatum coming soon, I know I have to now there really is no choice.

Maybe the ultimatum b4 you drive to Florida and pick her up and go to that workshop.

Not like you will likely have sex since she will have those new implants and be uncomfortable.

[redz]

Not like you will likely have sex since she will have those new implants and be uncomfortable.

I would have sex with her anyways im sure. I havent gotten any confirmation she is getting them yet. I actually want to do this drive and see what this course is about anyways its all setup now. I guess it's just another adventure, this time I just need it to end with a final answer.

[tigerspawn]

I hear ya, I think he just thinks if he buys her whatever she wants she'll stay. I dunno to be honest but I do know im the only other one shes seeing not like that even makes sense anyways considering theres still someone else in this thing. Ultimatum coming soon, I know I have to now there really is no choice.

I wish you the best of luck.