it's not working out with my gf, how to I get her to move out.

[JCFobsession]

Hey guys /girls....

Ok me and the girl are not working out. Always fighting and arguing about everything.


We have lived together for 8 months and still not cool. She's only pays 300 bucks to live here that includes rent, cable, internet, food, electric, water, she has it made pretty good.

She said she is not moving out... her parents wont take her back and she has not place to live.

When I say I wanna break up or move out she Freaks out. Yells, throws stuff and says she's not leaving..


WHAT DO I DO!!!!????

HELp THANKS

[LGM]

Bang another chick in the living room about the time she's supposed to come home.

[Lunk1]

How do you feel about HER? What are the fights typically about? Is there any interest in this point in making it work??

[barrybulkers]

Bang another chick in the living room about the time she's supposed to come home.

Haha priceless!

[DSM4Life]

Bang a dude in the living room about the time she's supposed to come home.

Fixed. My advise is sure to get the job done.

[Lunk1]

Fixed. My advise is sure to get the job done.

Unless she is into such a thing....then what smarty pants ?

[DSM4Life]

Unless she is into such a thing....then what smarty pants ?

Let her join in. Then after you nut call the cops and say she is trespassing.

[JCFobsession]

Lol your fools are funny...

I feel I have lost interest in her. And also being on gear well that's does it's own damage.

Fights are mainly about dumb shit living together type stuff. Both geminis we're always bumping heads over everything

I just not really into her as her needs goes, sexually or talking to her about her day etc.

[kronik420]

change the locks..

[austinite]

If she established residency, and she is not on the lease, all you can do is legally evict her, which could take up to 90 days depending on where you live. Once the time is up, if she hasn't moved out, a constable will remove her and all her belongings. Whatever you do... do everything in your power to avoid any violence. Don't do anything that might cause her to throw a fit. She could seriously get you in trouble.

If at all possible, you could stay at a friend's place for a while.

[kelkel]

Listen to Austinite. He's been through it all!

[Shol'va]

Damn everyone already beat me to the good stuff..lol
Invite me over and we can raise some hell in bed loud enough to scare her away. If that don't work then start leaving the toilet seat up or just leave it down and pee on it. Throw your dirty underwear all over. Bang someone in her bed and leave a mess. If she doesn't get the hint then maybe you will have to leave instead.

[Lunk1]

Yep...because she is considered a resident you need to have her served with a notice to evict. This will be a 30 day notice in most cases. If she fails to comply then you would need to serve her with another notice of forcible removal. This is a 90 day notice typicaly. She has a right to contest the eviction in which case a court date would be scheduled for an eviction hearing. If she fights hard enough she could easily drag this out 120 days or so.

[Knockout_Power]

tell her that her sisters ass is tighter

[RipOwens]

So you both know its not working, but both refuse to leave, correct?

[stpete]

Kiss and make up. you 2 haven't been living together long enough to really know each other.

I say you apologize for whatever(who cares what) and then take her to bed. Lay down the law and be done.

Happy couple.....

[tigerspawn]

Lunk is correct you must serve her with proper notices before she can be removed. I would start having parties, making out with other girls, sleeping with other women. Be polite to her but do not be intimate with her.

While you are waiting for her to move out do not harass her, turn off electric, water, heat, or anything you supplied in the past as an incentive to get her out. She can sue; get a restraining order that would keep you out of your own home which is not worth it. Do not change the locks until after proper completion of the formal or informal eviction required by your state. Again doing so is against the law. And do not keep her belongings as retaliation; each state has clear laws regarding the disposal of personal property during an eviction.

[Lunk1]

Kiss and make up. you 2 haven't been living together long enough to really know each other.

I say you apologize for whatever(who cares what) and then take her to bed. Lay down the law and be done.

Happy couple.....

Some honestly great advice Pete!

[JCFobsession]

Hey thanks alot. It's my place and I'll be staying here...

She now talks about moving out with a friend and looking at places and staying here in the mean time. That pisses me off that she is living off me till she can find a place...

Ive tried but her stubborn Ways and Mind set and mine and being on gear is soooo tuff. I'm stubborn all time regardless of what I'm on. But aside from that. I just feel .A living together is not working and B: I just might be over the relationship all together.

I feel if she moves out one were not fighting over dumb stuff and two it Will let me see if I still want to be with her.

I told her if your looking for a place to live don't live off me till you find a place move back to your dads till you find something. Is that wrong to say?

[Lunk1]

Hey thanks alot. It's my place and I'll be staying here...

She now talks about moving out with a friend and looking at places and staying here in the mean time. That pisses me off that she is living off me till she can find a place...

Ive tried but her stubborn Ways and Mind set and mine and being on gear is soooo tuff. I'm stubborn all time regardless of what I'm on. But aside from that. I just feel .A living together is not working and B: I just might be over the relationship all together.

I feel if she moves out one were not fighting over dumb stuff and two it Will let me see if I still want to be with her.

I told her if your looking for a place to live don't live off me till you find a place move back to your dads till you find something. Is that wrong to say?

Say whatever you want to say...just dont punch her in the face lol

[evander87]

Ive tried but her stubborn Ways and Mind set and mine and being on gear is soooo tuff. I'm stubborn all time regardless of what I'm on.
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Two things, don't blame the gear for your attitude. It only enhances the attitudes already present.

Second does she know you're on? If so best make this process as peaceful as possible. She could call the cops and rat you out about your AAS stash. Hell hath no furry like a woman scorned.

[crazy mike]

Let her join in. Then after you nut call the cops and say she is trespassing.

=That's the gentleman's way...huh At one time you liked / loved her? So I suggest you keep it civil and MORAL ethics ensue. Hmm. I feel strong about other people's feeling after I've slept with for 8 months. But you cant throw her out she has made homestead and has paid. She has her belongings there and you can't even lock her out. I tried that oops where was my heart. But you have to just convince her or go thru an eviction process. Legal and she has to be notified in writing and it must be filed with the county. This only if it came to that

[JCFobsession]

Guys, crazy Mike...

I don't blame the aas. And yes I love the girl but as far as our relationship, it's not working. I want to keep it civil and deal with it the best way I can. I dont want to hurt her any more then I'm going too. All I'm saying is I don't think she can find a place to live any time soon! She's looking with a friend and if her friend flakes she's back to nothing. All along we Will just continue to fight. So I feel I'm stuck letting her stay and were going to keep having problems.

[JCFobsession]

Definitely don't want any police trouble!!!!
She has problem getting really loud yelling throwing and breaking stuff. I'm scared of something happening. I keep my cool pretty well and just leave into other room before stuff gets to wild

[GirlyGymRat]

Definitely don't want any police trouble!!!!
She has problem getting really loud yelling throwing and breaking stuff. I'm scared of something happening. I keep my cool pretty well and just leave into other room before stuff gets to wild

This doesn't sound like a rational person. Be careful bc if u have gear in the place, she may do something that involves police....

[Papa Smurf]

If she established residency, and she is not on the lease, all you can do is legally evict her, which could take up to 90 days depending on where you live. Once the time is up, if she hasn't moved out, a constable will remove her and all her belongings. Whatever you do... do everything in your power to avoid any violence. Don't do anything that might cause her to throw a fit. She could seriously get you in trouble.

If at all possible, you could stay at a friend's place for a while.

As a landlord ^^ This is the best advice anyone can give you

[JD250]

I would secretly video a couple of her fits from start to finish just so you have a little something to show the judge in case she gets shitty about the whole deal

[Times Roman]

YOU move out and tell the landlord what you are doing.

Do this quick, before something fukked up happens........

......like she gets pregnant!

[JCFobsession]

Yeah, whole thing sucks im trying to make it easy and no issues. Def thinking about putting all the gear at my buddies house, recording some stuff and having it just In case. I live in a Apartment... what can I tell landlord??

She wants to just stay there until she finds place to live I just talked to her... so I'll see how tonight goes!

[Times Roman]

you would tell the landlord you two are moving out, and then YOU move out! She's not on the lease. Nothing she can do to force you to take her with you.

and if you force her to move out, she'll just shag up with some other bloke.

[evander87]

1st thing you need to do is "BREAK UP WITH HER". If you are still screwing her and you are sleeping in the same bed you're totally sending mixed signals. I've known a few couples that have gone through a divorce and had to live in the same place. You don't have nearly the complications they do. Start sleeping on the couch, stop eating dinner together, stop f@cking her. If it's "your" place and you want her out and nothing more to do with her. Stop interacting with her and she'll soon find another place to call her own and move on.

[JCFobsession]

Yeah I dig it.

We are not having sex, rarely see each other I Work 6 days a Week and gym 4-5 days a Week. And she works full time. So we don't spend much time together now. And we are in Damn bed. Lol my couch is to small for me. Haa.

Maybe need to sleep on floor!

Honestly this part sucks. I don't want to live together anymore it's tearing us apart. The relationship may be over too but I told her we can see if it gets better if she moves out. If not then that's final draw. We have been together for over 1.5 Years living together for 8 months. Enough time has passed

We are just not ready to live together. To many issues.

[Lunk1]

Put her stuff out and change the locks. It's not illegal and she isn't likely to know her rights anyhow!

[JCFobsession]

THANKS EVERYONE ILL

LET YOU KNOW WHAT HAPPENS. NEXT FEW DAYS.

Un till next weeks episode lol

[ElectraMaddox]

THANKS EVERYONE ILL


LET YOU KNOW WHAT HAPPENS. NEXT FEW DAYS.


Un till next weeks episode lol

Ive been in this situation with a friend of mine. I'm sure you spoke to get and the only thing that's coming across in her brain is she's being rejected. Anyhow, if she qualifies for low income housing ( no she doesn't have to be dirt poor) I actually moved out when I was really young using this method myself and I helped my friend do this when I "evicted" her. Essentially depending in her income level she can find a really nice apt or studio that will include everything and be affordable for her. Because these are est govt, state programs certain standards of living need to be met meaning the neighborhood and up keep will be nice. She will also be able to put money away. I literally moved out, 8 months later I saved enough money to purchase a condo and I actually broke my lease and moved in to my new place. I had just turned twenty and I was making crap money.... I was borderline poverty with my income level. She may not be educated as to what she qualifies for so maybe guiding her in the right direction and showing her you are willing to assist her will give you what you want and in her mind it will translate to you trying to help her establish her independence and work on the relationship vs sending the message of like hey lady I'm done with you.... Just an idea. Hope it helps good luck

[crazy mike]

Hey, what the FK. My wife and I sleep in different rooms because we are old people, ya know. WE don't have sex either and we fight like holly crap, every day and we're still together so what are you looking for, a fairy tale...huh, ?..............Just some humor for your night. But what austinite said about eviction process , it will work and you might not have choice but to do that. So if you have to get on with it, protect yourself from crazy people and take action. Remember the eviction takes time. Be strong friend and do the right thing for yourself, it will be right for her. Luck at ya. ...crazy mike

[tigerspawn]

JCF has her refusal to move out convinced you that you guys are meant to be together? Has her refusal to allow you to move on with your life caused you to want to get married? People should get the hint and realize when things are over. You can’t force someone to love you. You can’t force someone to be with you when they no longer want to be. She should be an adult and you guys should be able to come up with solution that works for both of you.

[JCFobsession]

JCF has her refusal to move out convinced you that you guys are meant to be together? Has her refusal to allow you to move on with your life caused you to want to get married? People should get the hint and realize when things are over. You can't force someone to love you. You can't force someone to be with you when they no longer want to be. She should be an adult and you guys should be able to come up with solution that works for both of you.

No not at all. Yeah Bottom line we should not live together. And it's driving me crazy that she wont agree to anything!

I tell her I feel trapped, and UN easy and am not happy coming home.

Told her to move out within next 10 days or two weeks. She says I'm threatening her and she's not moving out till she gets apartment with her friend. Which could take minimum a month. Or not at all if she can't quAlify or her friend flakes.

I told her to move all her cloths and makeup and stuff she needs on the regular back to her dads and can get other stuff when she finds a place. She says no I'm not moving back to my dads.

So as it stands I'm the asshole, have no heart, I'm mean, and don't care about her at all. And I dont try to make things better.

[tigerspawn]

Told her to move out within next 10 days or two weeks. She says I'm threatening her and she's not moving out till she gets apartment with her friend. Which could take minimum a month.
I told her to move all her cloths and makeup and stuff she needs on the regular back to her dads and can get other stuff when she finds a place. She says no I'm not moving back to my dads. So as it stands I'm the asshole, have no heart, I'm mean, and don't care about her at all. And I dont try to make things better.

This could be considered harassment. If you want her to move out you need to serve her the correct papers. If she feels threatened she could file a restraining order that would keep you out of your own home. Even if you don’t live there you still have to provide all utilities that you have provided in the past and rent. If you don’t provide all this she could sue you. Crappy thing is judge would more than likely rule in her favor.

[Lunk1]

This could be considered harassment. If you want her to move out you need to serve her the correct papers. If she feels threatened she could file a restraining order that would keep you out of your own home. Even if you don’t live there you still have to provide all utilities that you have provided in the past and rent. If you don’t provide all this she could sue you. Crappy thing is judge would more than likely rule in her favor.

Thats a bit extreme. In order to get a restraining order she would have to show immenent danger not just a general PITA! As far as providing things if he is not living there..that would be civil matter not a criminal one.

Since she is not on the lease...have the landlord remove her. I dont know if your lease allows you to sublet so she/you may be in direct violation of the lease. I still say move her out and change the locks...it's not illegal!