Ever try to find someone?

**songdog** · 09-24-2013, 04:42 PM

I have been looking for a friendthat I have not seen in over 30yrs.Everytime you get going on the puter.A site will pop up that wants CC.Now I am not into giving that out.So my question to you puter experts is how would you go about this.

**kronik420** · 09-24-2013, 04:51 PM

facebook.com

**Brett N** · 09-24-2013, 04:54 PM

Yep, facebook. A girl I went to middle school with found my brother on facebook and he gave her my email address. I replied and asked her not to give it out to anyone else because if I wanted to keep in contact with my school mates I would of done it on my own. Never heard from her again.

Lesson - You can get in touch with people with facebook or their relatives at least...course, they may not be interested in someone getting in touch with them.

**Shol'va** · 09-24-2013, 05:12 PM

I stay away from Facebook. The last time I signed up on it I ended up with 3 thousand new friends I never knew I had. It was like WTF? Where did these people come from. Course once I sent them my history and sexuality I lost all but 2. So if you get overwhelmed by being friended by several just tell them your gay.

**Hazard** · 09-24-2013, 05:17 PM

I don't use Facebook because I have no desire to stay in touch with people. I was also a DOG for a long long time lol - I don't need that drama in my life right now.

**songdog** · 09-24-2013, 05:27 PM

I tried facebook but I think she maybe married now.I also tried her 3 friends because we all hung out.

**Rwy** · 09-24-2013, 08:10 PM

I used to be on facebook. However it made me stay in touch with people I have no desire staying in touch with

**DSM4Life** · 09-24-2013, 08:24 PM

Leave the ex girlfriend alone.

**GirlyGymRat** · 09-24-2013, 08:33 PM

stalker

LOL

Originally Posted by songdog

I have been looking for a friendthat I have not seen in over 30yrs.Everytime you get going on the puter.A site will pop up that wants CC.Now I am not into giving that out.So my question to you puter experts is how would you go about this.

**Lunk1** · 09-24-2013, 09:34 PM

Give me her name and DOB..I'll help ya out

**songdog** · 09-25-2013, 07:52 PM

Originally Posted by Lunk1

Give me her name and DOB..I'll help ya out

its been so long I cant even remember.But thanx.

**crazy mike** · 09-25-2013, 09:37 PM

Originally Posted by Lunk1

Give me her name and DOB..I'll help ya out

Her name is Kathleen Thompson 7-18-54 went to Bird High school in south Fl. Lived in G'ville and went to Santa Fe Junior College then UF in the 70's. Hve no clue as to married or not, so...? ..crazy mike

**Lunk1** · 09-26-2013, 08:38 AM

I will need your wives to sign a waiver first lol.

**Times Roman** · 09-26-2013, 11:20 PM

I used to track people down for a living, but that was a long time ago. there are other resources than just the net.

You can PM me and pick my brain if you like. I'll ask you a variety of questions, guide you through processes, and let you have a stab at it.

to some of the others.

i had a girl contact me on classmates. she was the only girl in my life i almost hit. we were neighbors, and hitting puberty around the same time. we were "experimenting" (nothing too serious) and then later ridiculed me in public.

anyways, she had the gall to reach out to me, AFTER tracking my brother and mother down after twenty some odd years.....

....i just ignored her, but the moral of the story is just because you CAN track someone down, doesn't mean you should track them down.

use the grocery store rule. if you saw them in the check out isle at the grocery store, would you reach out to them?

---Roman

**EasyDoesIt** · 09-27-2013, 01:37 AM

Originally Posted by songdog

I have been looking for a friendthat I have not seen in over 30yrs.Everytime you get going on the puter.A site will pop up that wants CC.Now I am not into giving that out.So my question to you puter experts is how would you go about this.

You can try signing up for beenverified, it does cost, but you can cancel if you want and usually they will give you a trial offer. It is relatively cheap and start digging. Almost no one is invisible today. Linkeden also, with any searches, try using the maiden name. Facebook is the number one form of law enforcement to find people. Google the name and use facebook search. Try the city they lived in when you knew them. Facebook search through google is so effective that even if they used a fictitious name as a user name, there real name if registered that way will show up. Meaning if you search through the maiden name and the same facebook site shows up, it could be them or they are on that persons friend list. Yes i have done PI work in the past. It can take a lot of digging, but usually they are out there. They may even show up on someone elses fb in a photo somewhere with a comment. Good Luck and happy hunting!

**austinite** · 09-27-2013, 01:39 AM

I'm always trying to find my next Ex.

**Fcastle357** · 09-27-2013, 03:12 AM

Originally Posted by austinite

I'm always trying to find my next Ex.

Shouldn't be to hard. All my ex's live in texs.

**austinite** · 09-27-2013, 03:42 AM

Originally Posted by Fcastle357

Shouldn't be to hard. All my ex's live in texs.

They're not Texans then

**Fcastle357** · 09-27-2013, 09:18 AM

Originally Posted by austinite

They're not Texans then

Texs lol that's what I get for posting at 4 in the morning.

**songdog** · 09-30-2013, 04:20 AM

Originally Posted by austinite

I'm always trying to find my next Ex.

We were more like friends and the real reason I wanted to get in touch is because my xwife did her bad.This was for no reason.But I set the score straight.I just really wanted to explain and say I was sorry