Job Dilemma

**DAAS** · 07-10-2014, 04:32 AM

So recently I took a job to work for a friends father. Its the nearly the best paying job I've had so far. They encourage over time and I could easily get 50 hours a week. (I know that's not a lot of over time, but it helps) I like my coworkers and will receive a raise in 90 days. (not sure if it is $1 or $2) However, over all the pay isn't that great in the broad scheme of things, and it will not lead to a career I want.

I've only started about 3 weeks ago, and it looks like the opportunity to work in the oil fields may be there. Obviously the pay for that will be much much greater, But I am only guaranteed 1 project, if I do well or like it more.

Essentially the dilemma is do I leave the best 9-5 job I've ever had in order to make big money and possible open a career? I'm not even sure id want a career in the oil business, but id make nearly a years wage there in a matter of months. I would loose my ability to come back to my 9-5 simply by trying out the other job. they'd have to replace me immediately.

My long term goals are to start my own business, and patent and produce a couple ideas I have. Also Id like to make music. The oil field would certainly fund my endeavors, but if it doesn't work out then I am back to job hunting. Also i'd end up putting my friends dad in the position to try and find some one that works for them. (which has be very difficult apparently)

Another thing to consider is how well id be able to handle the oil fields with diabetes, and work in a environment that is already dangerous. When I had a phone interview he made it seem like everyone else is basically an alcoholic when they aren't working. He said no one works out, its just a bunch of bar goers. Basically its not an environment that suites me at all, I just see it as the only current means to reach my goals, and for that reason I am pushed towards it. I'd like to add that I am grateful for the job I have now. Just before this I was working minimum wage for 3 months... dear god.

After typing this out it seems like this is a leap of faith I might have to take in order to live the life I want to build. Any thoughts, or similar situations you've gone through?

**mikey hulk** · 07-10-2014, 07:36 AM

Buddy I'm in the same boat
I love my current job but it just doesn't pay enough
I'm going oil field lots of opportunity there

**diesel101** · 07-10-2014, 08:08 AM

Sorry I don't know if this will help because I have been at the same place for 26 years and its the only full time job I have ever had.
I will say this if you are going to accomplish you goals you will need to take chances I have never seen a business owner that did not put it all on the line. When I bought the business it was a make or break deal either I was going to succeed or I would be screwed for the next 20 years of my life.
That is my .02 worth but what do I know I am just a dumb diesel mechanic.

**kelkel** · 07-10-2014, 08:15 AM

You've already made your decision.

**evander87** · 07-10-2014, 11:05 AM

There's more to life than $$$. That said money can't buy you happiness but it can buy a great big boat you can park off happy island.

I left a high paying business to go after my dreams. No way was I ever going to be happy in a suit and tie world. I'm not looking forward to being damned near broke but I'll be busting ass to live the life I deserve.

What's stopping you from starting that business you want now?

Eat meticulous, train ridiculous for best results.

**lovbyts** · 07-10-2014, 11:32 AM

I say for now go for it. Money isnt everything but try living without it.

Speaking of living without it dont spend it. Starting from day one have every penny more than you are making now put into a cd, IRA or 401k but have it taken out of your paycheck before you get it and you will never miss it. Wouldn't it be nice to buy a house 100% cash in 5 years? It can happen.

Your diabetes should not be an issue as long as you have it under control and not one of these guys who ignore it and get all spaced out.

**APIs** · 07-10-2014, 11:45 AM

Always go for the money. Especially at a young age, as it may be the only opening you get to finance your future goals. Depending on your idea, be prepared to have at least $50K to $100K in cash to properly start your business. Opportunities are sometimes presented for a reason & then it's up to the individual to take the necessary action.

**Sicko** · 07-10-2014, 12:29 PM

Originally Posted by DAAS

So recently I took a job to work for a friends father. Its the nearly the best paying job I've had so far. They encourage over time and I could easily get 50 hours a week. (I know that's not a lot of over time, but it helps) I like my coworkers and will receive a raise in 90 days. (not sure if it is $1 or $2) However, over all the pay isn't that great in the broad scheme of things, and it will not lead to a career I want.

I've only started about 3 weeks ago, and it looks like the opportunity to work in the oil fields may be there. Obviously the pay for that will be much much greater, But I am only guaranteed 1 project, if I do well or like it more.

Essentially the dilemma is do I leave the best 9-5 job I've ever had in order to make big money and possible open a career? I'm not even sure id want a career in the oil business, but id make nearly a years wage there in a matter of months. I would loose my ability to come back to my 9-5 simply by trying out the other job. they'd have to replace me immediately.

My long term goals are to start my own business, and patent and produce a couple ideas I have. Also Id like to make music. The oil field would certainly fund my endeavors, but if it doesn't work out then I am back to job hunting. Also i'd end up putting my friends dad in the position to try and find some one that works for them. (which has be very difficult apparently)

Another thing to consider is how well id be able to handle the oil fields with diabetes, and work in a environment that is already dangerous. When I had a phone interview he made it seem like everyone else is basically an alcoholic when they aren't working. He said no one works out, its just a bunch of bar goers. Basically its not an environment that suites me at all, I just see it as the only current means to reach my goals, and for that reason I am pushed towards it. I'd like to add that I am grateful for the job I have now. Just before this I was working minimum wage for 3 months... dear god.

After typing this out it seems like this is a leap of faith I might have to take in order to live the life I want to build. Any thoughts, or similar situations you've gone through?

I have kicked myself on numerous occasions in retrospect for not pursuing a risky yet lucrative opportunity because I was comfortable where I was living or working.
I am happy how my life turned out with a loving wife, two beautiful kids & a stable moderately well paying career but I still daydream every once in a while what my life would have been like had I chased the dream or took the crazy job offer etc...
The only thing I can say for certain is the older you get and the more responsibilities/bills you acquire the more difficult it becomes to take a gamble because you have much more to lose if you fail. Like a house, marriage, kids etc....
If it is just a matter of risking losing the job that you have fun working at then I would give them proper notice asap and pack your bags. There are plenty more regular jobs out there if the oil fields don't work out.
Anyways if your friends father has a hard time finding someone who works out for them, maybe if you leave on good terms with them he would gladly re hire you if the oil field gig didn't pan out.
Good luck.

**DAAS** · 07-10-2014, 06:42 PM

kelkel you're right. Time to leave the comfort zone. I'd regret not going for this.

Originally Posted by kelkel

You've already made your decision.

**DAAS** · 07-10-2014, 06:44 PM

Originally Posted by evander87

There's more to life than $$$. That said money can't buy you happiness but it can buy a great big boat you can park off happy island.

I left a high paying business to go after my dreams. No way was I ever going to be happy in a suit and tie world. I'm not looking forward to being damned near broke but I'll be busting ass to live the life I deserve.

What's stopping you from starting that business you want now?

Eat meticulous, train ridiculous for best results.

Money. The R&D stage is expensive. Could spend $1,000 just to see how 1 finished unit would look like, if not more. And the units would sell for around $6.50. This is a good oppertunity because in the oil biz, its a few months balls to the wall hard work 90 hours a week, then I could have a month or two off to build my business.

**Ernst** · 07-10-2014, 08:40 PM

Fortune favors the bold. You gotta go for it.

**evander87** · 07-11-2014, 09:24 AM

Originally Posted by DAAS

Money. The R&D stage is expensive. Could spend $1,000 just to see how 1 finished unit would look like, if not more. And the units would sell for around $6.50. This is a good oppertunity because in the oil biz, its a few months balls to the wall hard work 90 hours a week, then I could have a month or two off to build my business.

Hey brother if you're looking at the oil gig to finance your business venture then go for it. Just keep the business venture dream alive. I know first hand how big money can make you "comfortable" and less likely to actually start it up. Just keep you eye on the real prize and best of luck to you.

Eat meticulous, train ridiculous for best results.