“There is a saying when you sit, sit. When you stand, stand. What ever you do - don’t wobble. Once you make your choice do it with all your spirit. Don’t be like the evangelist that thought about praying while making love to his wife and making love to his wife while praying”
I Laughed at this image, while Socrates blew perfect smoke rings.
“It’s better to make a mistake with the full force of your being than to carefully avoid mistakes with a trembling spirit. Responsibility means recognizing both pleasure and price, making a choice based on that recognition, and then living with that choice without concern."
"It sounds so 'either-or'. What about moderation?"
"'Moderation?" He leaped up on the desk, like an evangelist. "Moderation? It's mediocrity, fear, and confusion in disguise. It's the devil's reasonable deception. It's the wobbling compromise that makes no one happy. Moderation is for the bland, the apologetic, for the fence sitters of the world afraid to take a stand. It's for those afraid to laugh or cry, for those afraid to live or die. Moderation - he took a deep breath, getting ready for his final condemnation - it is lukewarm tea, the devil's own brew!"
Laughing, I said, "Your sermons come in like a lion and go out like a lamb, Soc. You'll have to keep practicing."
He shrugged his shoulders, climbing down from the desk. "They always told me that in the seminary." I didn't know whether he was kidding or not.
"Soc, I still think smoking is disgusting."
"Haven't I got the message across to you yet? Smoking is not disgusting; the habit is. I may smoke one cigarette a day, then not smoke again for six months; I may enjoy one cigarette a day, or one a week, without any unmanageable urges to have another. And when I do smoke, I don't pretend that my lungs won't pay a price; I follow appropriate action afterward to help counterbalance the negative effects."
"I just never imagined a warrior would smoke."
He blew smoke rings at my nose. "I never said that a warrior behaved in a way that you considered perfect, nor do all warriors act exactly as I do. But we all follow the House Rules, you see. So whether or not my behavior meets your new standards or not, it should be clear to you that I have mastered all compulsions, all behavior. I have no habits; my actions are conscious, intentional, and complete."
Socrates put out his cigarette, smiling at me.
"You've become too stuffy, with all your pride and superior discipline. It's time we did a little celebrating."
WAY OF THE PEACEFUL WARRIOR Dan Millman