O/T I hate girls

**chris2wire** · 04-24-2005, 02:43 PM

My sort of gf screwed me over. We never got fully together, like officially, cuz her and her bf of 4 years had just broken up. for 5 months now we've just been having sex, holding hands, dating alot, etc etc. Just havent been official.

Well yesterday, out of the blue, she just lost interest. Shes one of those ppl that can change her mindset in the blink of an eye and never look back (hence how she left her bf of 4 years without explanation, poor guy)

Ive been so sad. Ive been gulping down tranquilizers non stop to help ease the pain and although the pills have been keeping her off my mind, I definatley have been making a fool of myself and/or pissing ppl off that im around. Oh well.

I just hate life.

**Juddman** · 04-24-2005, 02:49 PM

I had the exact same situation happen to me bro..exact same. Painkillers wont do anything but make things worse for you...the sooner you can man up and deal with it the sooner you will get over it...Good luck.

**thirdeyeopen7** · 04-24-2005, 02:51 PM

Originally Posted by chris2wire

My sort of gf screwed me over. We never got fully together, like officially, cuz her and her bf of 4 years had just broken up. for 5 months now we've just been having sex, holding hands, dating alot, etc etc. Just havent been official.

Well yesterday, out of the blue, she just lost interest. Shes one of those ppl that can change her mindset in the blink of an eye and never look back (hence how she left her bf of 4 years without explanation, poor guy)

Ive been so sad. Ive been gulping down tranquilizers non stop to help ease the pain and although the pills have been keeping her off my mind, I definatley have been making a fool of myself and/or pissing ppl off that im around. Oh well.

I just hate life.

bro, bro, bro you gotta let that **** go. how old are you? you sound pretty young. girls will do that ****. that same kinda situation happened to me with my last girlfriend. but now that i look back on it, all i was interested was sex with her...bc she was a full blown PSYCHO. she did the same thing...just up and left her ex boyfriend of like 5 years, for no reason. now i aint even gonna lie, she had some pretty darn good snatch, but dont let that **** get to your head, its just pusy. my advice for you is to lay off the tranqs, spend about a month getting your head back on straight, get yourself a good cycle, go get buff, and in a few months youll be beating the chicks off you....like i do

good luck doodle

**Juddman** · 04-24-2005, 02:53 PM

If youre gonna nail a girl who just got out of a long term relationship, you better understand that you are likely only the rebound guy...sorry to sounds harsh, but I learned by experience myself.

**JayP40** · 04-24-2005, 02:57 PM

drugs are bad bro. dont let this ho bring you down like this. just let her go i know the pain hurts but there is plenty of fish in the sea. you'll snag another. Just keep your head up and ditch the pain killers

**Testsubject** · 04-24-2005, 03:08 PM

Do not waste your time worrying about this girl bro, she one out of a billion that are out there. You may not believe it but there are girls out there who are better looking than this girl, nicer than this girl, better in bed than this girl, and the list goes on. Your holding yourself back man, let it go and go grab a new one, as soon as you get a new one you wont give two sh*ts about the old one. Hang in there.

**JoeySpyda** · 04-24-2005, 04:11 PM

Bro this type of crap happens to everyone, you just gotta say screw it and move on. Like everyone else says there are plenty of girls out there. Dont sweat her, let her go. Stay focused on lifting and the girls will come when you least expect it.

**arnoldwannab** · 04-24-2005, 04:12 PM

As hard as it sounds, Dont let bitches control your life..........never get down over a ho

**JoeySpyda** · 04-24-2005, 04:16 PM

Originally Posted by arnoldwannab

As hard as it sounds, Dont let bitches control your life..........never get down over a ho

I agree with that 100%.

**lucabratzi** · 04-24-2005, 04:29 PM

honestly the way i look at situations like this is if they could up and leave out of nowhere she obviously wasnt worth it...if ur puttin all ur heart into someone or something and they can leave out of nowere she's definatly a bitch/hoe. not worth ur time and feelings. u cant turn a hoe into a housewife. sorry if i was a lil harsh

**shrunkennutz116** · 04-24-2005, 05:10 PM

girls are evil plain and simple we will never understand them. talk to other girls and soon u will forget about ur ex. u cant get to attached to girls its not worth it imo. the pain killers arent gonna do ne thing for u, u need to cut that out. put all ur energy into working out not her. my ex kinda helps me workout harder. when im on my last rep or 2 i think of her and be like yea bitch look at me now. its kinda stupid but to me wanting to make her jelous helps at time.

**BlInDsIdE** · 04-24-2005, 05:15 PM

yeah bro definatly don't look to the pain killers 4 a quick fix, they're only going to make things alot worse in the longrun. Good call on putting ur enery into working out shrunkennutz, thats how i dealt with my ex. Just push through it man u'll b alright.

**Hell Awaits** · 04-24-2005, 05:16 PM

turn gay

**topvega** · 04-24-2005, 05:27 PM

bro... i m going thru the same s**t right now... my wife f**cked me over hard... the way i saw it i had 2 choices start drinking heavy and let that try and kill the pain.... or do something to improve my health and self esteem.... i chose the drinking at first for a week straight. then was tired of feeling like crap on top of the emotional pain... so i started going to the gym and taking out my frustrations on the weights...that was 3 months ago and now i have packed on 25 lbs, am in great shape, and feel alot better about myself and life... i also bought a 2005 infiniti g35 coupe, that helped alot too..

u can get over it.. just put that pain into your workouts it does wonders to squeeze out that extra rep....
imo i wld stay away from gear though till u have your emotions in check... u don't need something that is gonna give u mood swings or roid rage ....

hang in there....

**magicstick2003** · 04-24-2005, 05:39 PM

i might as well chip in muy two sense too.. although it's been said many times. she's obviously not worht it. I know it hurts if you're getting attached to someone and they can juts up and leave like that, i mean you have to feel sorry for women like that cause they don;t see what they have and will probably end up with someone who treats them half as good as the one they left. As everyone else said hang out with frfiends, go to parties, do anything to keep your mind off her and get out there and meet new people. the easiest way to deal with a break up is to make more friends and get to know other people. Of course there will be a slight "grieveing" time but you have to stop and think that there is so much out there and life really is too short to gravel over soemthing petty like some girls leaving, besides you said it yourself you weren;t officially going out...just take it one day at a time bro, if your friends rn;t there for you you always have your fam here at AR...
best of luck man
magic

**Thegr8One** · 04-24-2005, 05:52 PM

wow bro there's millions of women out there and they look as good if not better than her. go and be whore full it'll do ya good
ps use protection

**RussianVodka** · 04-24-2005, 06:17 PM

Planet Earth full of chicks. Don't have relations with girls before 30. Just have sex and fun, no commitments:-)

**Latin** · 04-24-2005, 06:37 PM

keep ur head up bro, time will make it better.

**arnoldwannab** · 04-24-2005, 09:01 PM

Originally Posted by Hell Awaits

turn gay

lol

**Testsubject** · 04-24-2005, 09:06 PM

Originally Posted by Hell Awaits

turn gay

I sure as hell hope that isnt one of his options.

RA · 04-24-2005, 09:25 PM

lmfao!!

**CrispyHaole** · 04-25-2005, 03:55 AM

Stick your d!ck in every d@mn b!tch in sight for at least a month...and call your bros in the morning. If you don't feel better after that...your gay, sorry, j/k

**RRogers** · 04-25-2005, 08:21 AM

In my humble personal opinion, you should get some Cialis and then proceed to work her friends over. Girls absolutely talk more than men and it will get back to her within a day. Revenge is best served cold so whatever you do, don't give her the time of day. Just push her away, be disinterested, and keep working her friends.

**drake79** · 04-25-2005, 08:30 AM

dude i wasn in he same boat as the girl, lol, i left my girl of 3 years and started screwing this 18 year old that ive been know for years, she was hot as hell. well anyway after screwing the ex and the new chick for 4 months they finally hooked up and cought me. im still screwing the ex , sad to say the 18 year old wont talk to me anymore, but i know this, she will never forget me. sux cause i was realy diggin her man.