Help - Low Libido

**clomid222** · 02-14-2010, 03:17 PM

For the past 3 girlfriends over the last 5 years I have always had an extremely high libido, drive, and been able to have great stamina and performance. Whether on-cycle or off-cycle. I always did extremely well.

A month ago I broke up with my girlfriend of 2 years and ever since then my lidido has been shot. I have totally lost interest. The break up was totally my decision and I am glad that we broke up. But I went from being a sex addict to having no interest at all.

Since the breakup I have hooked up 3 different times with 3 different women in the past month, but each time my performance has been poor. I don't know what's wrong. I was able to perform, but not nearly at the same level as I could prior to the breakup.

What is wrong with me?

I have not done a cycle in over a year. Since the breakup, I have been eating healthier and lifting more, losing weight, and getting fit. I am 33 years old and in good shape.

So how can I fix this situation and get my lidido and performance back on track?

**im9boss** · 02-14-2010, 03:21 PM

did you do proper pct on your previous cycles? you should get some bloodwork done.

**bjpennnn** · 02-14-2010, 03:21 PM

Well since your 33 maybe the test lvls have dipped naturally and the breakup and the test lvls were just coincidental. I would say go to your dr. and get some blood wor done to see what they are at. Good luck man.

**clomid222** · 02-14-2010, 03:28 PM

Originally Posted by im9boss

did you do proper pct on your previous cycles? you should get some bloodwork done.

Yes, I did a proper PCT and my sex drive was fine for over a year following the cycle.

**Bonaparte** · 02-14-2010, 03:30 PM

This sounds like a job for a psychiatrist. I doubt your problem is strictly hormone related (i.e. its in your head).

**clomid222** · 02-14-2010, 03:31 PM

Originally Posted by bjpennnn

Well since your 33 maybe the test lvls have dipped naturally and the breakup and the test lvls were just coincidental. I would say go to your dr. and get some blood wor done to see what they are at. Good luck man.

I hope it hasn't dropped that quickly! How could it tank so quickly in the past 30 days with the absense of gear?

What can I take to boost my libido? What else besides low test could account for low libido?

**clomid222** · 02-14-2010, 03:35 PM

Originally Posted by Bonaparte

This sounds like a job for a psychiatrist. I doubt your problem is strictly hormone related (i.e. its in your head).

That's exactly what my best female friend told me. It would also explain why I don't feel any of the other symptoms related to low test.

**Bonaparte** · 02-14-2010, 08:23 PM

Originally Posted by clomid222

That's exactly what my best female friend told me. It would also explain why I don't feel any of the other symptoms related to low test.

There's a lot more to libido and well-being than hormones. The mind is a complex thing. Seriously, see a therapist. They can be quite helpful.

**double j313** · 02-14-2010, 08:26 PM

you should try taking a supplement that boost libido. Give Trib a try

**Ashop** · 02-14-2010, 08:30 PM

Originally Posted by clomid222

For the past 3 girlfriends over the last 5 years I have always had an extremely high libido, drive, and been able to have great stamina and performance. Whether on-cycle or off-cycle. I always did extremely well.

A month ago I broke up with my girlfriend of 2 years and ever since then my lidido has been shot. I have totally lost interest. The break up was totally my decision and I am glad that we broke up. But I went from being a sex addict to having no interest at all.

Since the breakup I have hooked up 3 different times with 3 different women in the past month, but each time my performance has been poor. I don't know what's wrong. I was able to perform, but not nearly at the same level as I could prior to the breakup.

What is wrong with me?

I have not done a cycle in over a year. Since the breakup, I have been eating healthier and lifting more, losing weight, and getting fit. I am 33 years old and in good shape.

So how can I fix this situation and get my lidido and performance back on track?

Have your natural hormone levels checked to see where you stand. This may show your problem.

**956Vette** · 02-14-2010, 10:15 PM

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**russiandave** · 02-14-2010, 11:31 PM

you may be depressed man
lots of people are depressed and dont even realize it
it may sound silly but its true. people become so complacent they dont even realize they are down

**DR T** · 02-14-2010, 11:37 PM

i had the exact thing happen after i got out of a 3 yr relationship.... hooked up with a dozen girls, performance was hit or miss, whereas in the relationship i was golden...
it can very well be in your head, doesn't have to be an organic issue.
for the time being, get some generic viagra, its cheap... 50mg and you'll be good to go, you get your confidence back in performance, and you likely won't need to take the little blue pills very long-
when i finally met the right girl, and was most physically/ emtionally attracted to this one, libido and ability to perform was never an issue, then a cycle of prohormones messed me up for awhile, blue pill to the rescue, now after a real cycle, and a good pct, i'm back to normal, but still like to use a low dose of the blue pill every now and again- it makes it that much better... good luck, hang in there

**bd50** · 02-14-2010, 11:44 PM

dude i was in the same rut a couple years ago. it's mostly in your head,, ... i was depressed over the break up, my self-esteem took a hit,, and allll that shiit plays a part in the libido and stress hormones.

maybe do another pct? it will rebound in time, how much time varies from person to person.

stay positive!

**Trenquility** · 02-15-2010, 12:41 AM

I just started a my cycle 2 weeks ago and I just wanted to say, I just broke up with my ex and now I'm ****ing like a rabbit, different women on a regular basis, nice rough sex and all, and its great!

...Sorry I just had to rub it in... but hey, maybe it's a time you started another cycle?

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**NMacFar** · 02-15-2010, 10:01 AM

It's just part of a broken heart. It will pass and you will be the king once again... don't sweat it!!!!!! Next time you're in the sack with a lady just find things about her that you normally wouldnt recognize. For ex, pay attention to her skin, or her ass, etc. It will help take your mind off of things!!!!! best of luck

**Fetch** · 02-15-2010, 10:11 AM

Yep, broken heart deal. I'm 5 months out of a 2 year relationship myself. I don't think I even had a single erection the first few weeks. Even if it was your choice, I'm willing to bet you still feel off. You are accustomed to being attracted to your ex, on a physical and emotional level. With random hookups, it's all physical. Also, we feel more vulnerable with new partners because of anxiety. Subconsciously worrying about your performance has it's effect. Just try not to sweat it so much. As you become more accustomed to being single, your sex life should get better.

**clomid222** · 02-15-2010, 07:29 PM

Thanks for the replies... it was totally in my head!

A friend of mine gave me a gel pill last night and said it was a new type of liquid cialis gel pill that I should take an hour before getting on with this chick.

I took it and had off the hook performance.

Today I asked him for some more... he pulled out a bottle and showed me that he had actually gave me a flax seed oil pill.

You all were right!

**AlphaGenetics** · 02-15-2010, 07:39 PM

Breakups are a libido killer when we get into our 30's or so because we are no longer satisfied with just off the hook hot women, we need to feel some kind of love to make it feel whole. Im in your boat right now, been broke up for a couple months and really loved her, fkd a chick way hotter than my x but just diddnt feel right. 10 years ago this wouldnt of been an issue.