Cruising and Sex addiction

[Dgs59]

There might not be a quick answer for this but in last couple of weeks I have been hit really really hard that I might have developed a very strong sex addiction since I started cruising. In last 4 years I do not recall a single day I didn't have an orgasm or two surely we can take it as a joke and say it's a good thing but knowing this scares me a bit that how much time I have spent (sex and porn). I have been married 1 year and wife is not really always available so I go to porn for it, before marriage I have slept with so many girls that I actually have lost the count.

Everyone will have an opinion on this which is ok, but do you think it's time for me to seek help?

[XnavyHMCS]

You sound completely "normal" to me.

I would classify you (and myself...) as being "functional addicts", meaning basically that the addiction does not run your life, you aren't missing work, letting responsibilities go, etc... you are fine, bro.

I will state the obvious here; the AAS are without a doubt, fueling your sex drive. But again; there are worse addictions...

My advice: Save the money that you would spend on psychological counseling, invest it in drugs (AAS), a Premium account at your porn provider and hookers.

Good luck bro.

[Honkey_Kong]

There might not be a quick answer for this but in last couple of weeks I have been hit really really hard that I might have developed a very strong sex addiction since I started cruising. In last 4 years I do not recall a single day I didn't have an orgasm or two surely we can take it as a joke and say it's a good thing but knowing this scares me a bit that how much time I have spent (sex and porn). I have been married 1 year and wife is not really always available so I go to porn for it, before marriage I have slept with so many girls that I actually have lost the count.

Everyone will have an opinion on this which is ok, but do you think it's time for me to seek help?

By cruising, do you mean you go down to a TRT dose when you're not blasting?

As long as it's not interfering with your life, it's not a problem. And I think most of us are in the same boat as you. And yeah, even married people still spend some "alone time" with porn.

[Fluidic Kimbo]

Everyone will have an opinion on this which is ok, but do you think it's time for me to seek help?

I attended SLAA for a while. You can always just go once, be like 'I don't need this', and not go back.

If anything, it will give you perspective when you hear how it affects other people's lives. I went one time and there was a guy who was secretly flying to Amsterdam at the weekend to go to the Red Light District while keeping it a secret from his wife.

Whether or not sex addiction is something distinct from being 'hypersexual secondary to supplementing exogenous androgens' is probably something people will have varied opinions on.

SLAA is very secretive, more so than AA and NA. You will probably have to meet one of the organisers in person before they'll tell you when and where the meetings are held (they are very weary of reporters).

[Mooseman33]

stop watching porn and bang ur wife more.

she should know the compounds u are on and tell her it is needed. have fun with it.

[Dgs59]

Thanks guys, maybe I am bit overthinking lol it is correct that although I am spending lots of time everyday and sex is on my mind 24/7 I am not impacting anything like work or anything.

@kong I don't go too low trt, I stay on 150-180 PW all the time, this seems to be my sweetest spot with Test E, do you think I should go lower, however I experimented with lower dosages like 80-100 and 125, i really don't feel anything on 100, where 125 is just ok.

@mooosemab, for her once a week is a good number more then that and she is bored with sex so I don't push too much. I know her for a long time she is not very sexual type person I accepted that though when I married her so porn is the alternative.

[Fluidic Kimbo]

@mooosemab, for her once a week is a good number more then that and she is bored with sex so I don't push too much. I know her for a long time she is not very sexual type person I accepted that though when I married her so porn is the alternative.

You could ask her if she wants a vitamin B12 injection, and then put a tiny bit of testosterone in with it. That will waken her dormant desires.

[Fluidic Kimbo]

Actually while we're on this subject... which AAS makes men most horny? Is it definitely testosterone ? I'm talking purely about the psychological drive we get from our brain's reaction to the compound.

[almostgone]

You could ask her if she wants a vitamin B12 injection, and then put a tiny bit of testosterone in with it. That will waken her dormant desires.

Takes a shitty husband to do that if she isn't aware of the added testosterone

[Cuz]

stop watching porn and bang ur wife more.

she should know the compounds u are on and tell her it is needed. have fun with it.

Thats ALOT easier said than done , I wish it was that easy! LOL

[Cuz]

Takes a shitty husband to do that if she isn't aware of the added testosterone

I don’t think young kimbo will have to worry about playing the role of a husband anytime soon or ever for that matter (hopefully)

[Honkey_Kong]

Thanks guys, maybe I am bit overthinking lol it is correct that although I am spending lots of time everyday and sex is on my mind 24/7 I am not impacting anything like work or anything.

@kong I don't go too low trt, I stay on 150-180 PW all the time, this seems to be my sweetest spot with Test E, do you think I should go lower, however I experimented with lower dosages like 80-100 and 125, i really don't feel anything on 100, where 125 is just ok.

@mooosemab, for her once a week is a good number more then that and she is bored with sex so I don't push too much. I know her for a long time she is not very sexual type person I accepted that though when I married her so porn is the alternative.

150-180 might be alright. Unless you have blood work pulled, you don't know if it puts you in the range or not. Some people need high doses of gear just to be in a normal natty range. Some people need just a little. But yeah I would go by blood work results and then also if you're experiencing low T symptoms at that dose. But I don't know what your goals are from cruising.

But yeah, sex has been on my mind 24/7 since I was like 10 or 11 years old. It's part of being a man.

[Honkey_Kong]

Thats ALOT easier said than done , I wish it was that easy! LOL

Yeah, I wouldn't tell her that you're on gear (unless she's also on gear). Divorces happen and when battling over property or custody of kids, she'll bring that up.

[DinAZ]

You can’t catch anything or have a strange chick knocking on your door from watching porn. Wank away, it’s when you start seeking out strange you have to worry about your marriage.

[XnavyHMCS]

Takes a shitty husband to do that if she isn't aware of the added testosterone

I would guess; that's why FK is single...

[XnavyHMCS]

You can’t catch anything or have a strange chick knocking on your door from watching porn. Wank away, it’s when you start seeking out strange you have to worry about your marriage.

SOUND FUCKING ADVICE HERE...!!!

Gospel...!!!

[XnavyHMCS]

If anything, it will give you perspective when you hear how it affects other people's lives. I went one time and there was a guy who was secretly flying to Amsterdam at the weekend to go to the Red Light District while keeping it a secret from his wife.

= the worst sex money can buy

This, coming from a guy who fucked, in my 23 yrs of "honorable" service, whores on every continent except Antarctica. The infamous Red Light District was by far the worst sex ever.

[DinAZ]

= the worst sex money can buy

This, coming from a guy who fucked, in my 23 yrs of "honorable" service, whores on every continent except Antarctica. The infamous Red Light District was by far the worst sex ever.

Don’t leave us hanging now I gotta know where the best are?

[Fluidic Kimbo]

I would guess; that's why FK is single...

Depends what you mean by single.

[DinAZ]

Actually while we're on this subject... which AAS makes men most horny? Is it definitely testosterone? I'm talking purely about the psychological drive we get from our brain's reaction to the compound.

I think I’ve read that estrogen is responsible for much of sex drive. So my guess would be that compounds that aromatize have a larger impact on sex drive. IDK what compound would make people the most horny but testosterone would be up there. The reason I say people and not men is because I’ve read females also get horny from taking test, it is just less common for them to take it.

[sean007smith]

My advice: Save the money that you would spend on psychological counseling, invest it in drugs (AAS), a Premium account at your porn provider and hookers.

Good luck bro.

Best advice ever

[powerliftmike]

Do you have blood work? Did this issue suddenly arise after a few weeks on TRT?

[sean007smith]

@mooosemab, for her once a week is a good number more then that and she is bored with sex so I don't push too much. I know her for a long time she is not very sexual type person I accepted that though when I married her so porn is the alternative.

I learned my wife will trade sex for a massage or if I take her nail polish off. Also when she showers I know when she wants it because she will make herself seen with a little towel on. Just a few things I picked up being married for 15 years.

[XnavyHMCS]

I learned my wife will trade sex for a massage or if I take her nail polish off. Also when she showers I know when she wants it because she will make herself seen with a little towel on. Just a few things I picked up being married for 15 years.

Most commonly for me, when she and I end up in the shower "together", then that's the green light for me to give her the golden shower (Provided I have been informed well in advance of the forthcoming festivities, so I can have an overflowing bladder...). * I just read to her this post, and she told me to edit it to include the info that, "she knows when I am in the mood for "water sports", because I will drink a beer or two..." Mine lets me unload in her face and in her mouth; straight outta Legal Porno, gents...!!! (If I could pm pics, but I can't seem to figure out how to do it / make it work from my phone, it would make for great entertainment. I know Lovbytes would enjoy it...)

So, yeah...!!! Here's to AAS and sex addiction / hyper-enhanced sex drive...!!!

[Dgs59]

150-180 might be alright. Unless you have blood work pulled, you don't know if it puts you in the range or not. Some people need high doses of gear just to be in a normal natty range. Some people need just a little. But yeah I would go by blood work results and then also if you're experiencing low T symptoms at that dose. But I don't know what your goals are from cruising.

But yeah, sex has been on my mind 24/7 since I was like 10 or 11 years old. It's part of being a man.

Do you have blood work? Did this issue suddenly arise after a few weeks on TRT?

No it has been forever but definitely increased, before I could force myself for nofap/nosex for a month, now max I can do is 2 days. Surely a good thing. Sex is ok but that much porn and masterbation seems bit crazy.

I have been doing 6-8 months blood work, or pre post blast. I do start feeling low test symptoms at 100 even though my bw says otherwise, yes you seems to be spot on again, I do need a bit more in my body to feel it. This seems to be perfect spot, gym, energy, sex, life feels fucking great.

[Dgs59]

You can’t catch anything or have a strange chick knocking on your door from watching porn. Wank away, it’s when you start seeking out strange you have to worry about your marriage.

True lol

[DinAZ]

No it has been forever but definitely increased, before I could force myself for nofap/nosex for a month, now max I can do is 2 days. Surely a good thing. Sex is ok but that much porn and masterbation seems bit crazy.

I have been doing 6-8 months blood work, or pre post blast. I do start feeling low test symptoms at 100 even though my bw says otherwise, yes you seems to be spot on again, I do need a bit more in my body to feel it. This seems to be perfect spot, gym, energy, sex, life feels fucking great.

Dude that is just normal we are just used to being low test which has our drive too low without TRT. I felt same way on 400mg test cycle but in reality I felt the same at 16-26yo. so I bet it’s just the hormones working? AI might reduce it but I sure wouldn’t take any if you don’t have other issues needing AI. Wanting sex every couple days isn’t sex addiction it just means you're a normal, healthy man. As long as your behavior does not jeopardize it your relationship I don’t see anything to worry about.

[Dgs59]

You could ask her if she wants a vitamin B12 injection, and then put a tiny bit of testosterone in with it. That will waken her dormant desires.

no

[Dgs59]

Thats ALOT easier said than done , I wish it was that easy! LOL

Cuz knows lol