When he’s doing it right, the third man in the ring is invisible.

A referee should be a spectator first, watching the action closely, seeing that no fouls are committed, making sure neither fighter gets badly hurt. When the referee enters the action, when paying spectators shift from watching the fight to watching the man watching the fight, there needs to be a clear, definitive reason.

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