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10-21-2009, 11:07 PM #1Associate Member
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very sad guys
By JOHN BRANCH
Published: June 13, 2009
EAST RUTHERFORD, N.J. — Amid all the items to be discovered at the Meadowlands Flea Market on Saturday, past the kettle corn and between the $2 leather belts and the $1 bottles of shampoo, was a two-time heavyweight boxing champion of the world.
Riddick Bowe at a New Jersey flea market. He last boxed in December in Germany, but he has no bouts planned.
Riddick Bowe sat on a folding chair behind a card table that straddled two parking spaces, labeled in chalk as Nos. 264 and 265. Most people sauntered past, holding bargains in a bag or grilled meat on a stick, not recognizing the large man who waited for someone to come see him.
“The champ is here!” Darren Antola, who set up the autograph session, called out, like a carnival barker. “He beat Evander Holyfield two out of three times!”
Two women approached. Bowe always was boxing’s approachable heavyweight, the anti-Mike Tyson, witty and disarming. He called each of the women “sweetheart.”
One asked if he was still fighting. Bowe said he was, a reply based more in hope than reality. He beat a “crash dummy” named Gene Pukall in Germany last December, and has no other fights planned. He weighs about 300 pounds.
“Guess who I’m going to fight next?” he asked, excitedly. “You’ll never believe it.”
“Who?” the woman asked in return.
“Somebody I can whoop,” Bowe said. He smiled. She laughed. Then she bought an autographed picture for $35 that she intended to frame for someone named Pete. And Bowe, who said he had $15 million when he retired in 1996, thanked her.
A man working a stall behind Bowe watched.
“All those millions of dollars, and they’re gone,” the man said, and it was not in the form of a question, but a fact, readily apparent. “It’s a sad story.”
Bowe does not argue that. He is 41 (according to public records and news reports, although he insisted Saturday that he was born on Aug. 10, 1968, not 1967) and signed autographs because he has little money. He wants to fight again because he knows little else.
“What would I do without boxing? That’s the question, isn’t it?” he asked during a quiet moment under the canopy where he sat. He searched for the answer inside his head, which his own lawyers once argued was damaged from all the blows it absorbed.
“Boxing’s all I know,” he said finally. “At 40, what else am I going to do?”
Bowe’s version of the now-clichéd story of a heavyweight champion going from riches to rags — count Holyfield and Tyson among contemporaries with similar tales — is layered with bizarre episodes.
Bowe beat Holyfield twice, the loss in the middle of their trilogy coming after a parachutist landed beside the ring at Caesar’s Palace in 1993. Bowe had two strange 1996 victories over Andrew Golota, who was disqualified both times for low blows. The first, at Madison Square Garden, set off a riot in the ring.
Bowe retired. Things got stranger.
He joined the Marine Corps Reserves and quit a few days into basic training. He spent 18 months in prison for interstate domestic violence after going to North Carolina to haul his now-former wife and their five children back home with him to Maryland. He filed for bankruptcy.
But Bowe was relentlessly optimistic as afternoon rain washed out the flea market and ended the signing early. His cellphone displayed a photo of his wife, Terri (they married in 2000) and their daughter, Morgan, who will be 4 in August. And his mind saw a rainbow with more paydays at the end.
Some people called out “Champ!” as they walked past Bowe on Saturday, and Bowe greeted them as if they were old friends passing on the street. Others stared from a distance, as if at the zoo. Some shook his hand but did not buy an autographed photo or boxing glove ($65), which Bowe signed, “Riddick ‘Big Daddy’ Bowe.” Twice someone said something about Muhammad Ali, and Bowe said that Ali was the greatest, “but I am the latest.”
Most of the time, there was no one talking to Bowe. But whenever a few people gathered, they multiplied in a hurry. Bowe, the magnet in the middle, charmed them all, and a man collected their cash.
A signing in Manhattan last week earned Bowe “$2,000 or $3,000,” he said. The take on Saturday was far less.
“Now you see why I’ve got to fight,” Bowe said. “Put the word out that Big Daddy’s got to do what he do.”
Bowe said he made $30,000 for December’s fight, when he weighed 271 pounds. A few offers followed, all for less money. Bowe found them insulting. Calls stopped coming, and Bowe stopped training.
Now he dreams of a string of 10 fights, in quick succession, against more crash dummies to bolster his record (43-1, with 33 knockouts) and rebuild his reputation. Then he envisions a title bout. George Foreman, after all, was 45 when he won a heavyweight championship, and Bowe considers himself both “younger” and “prettier.”
The more Bowe thought about it, the more he decided that the best approach may be to get in shape now so that people see that he is serious. He said he might start training Monday.
A man told Bowe that he felt sorry for Tyson, having had so much potential, so much money, only to piddle it away. It was an awkward few moments. The man did not realize he was describing the person in front of him. Bowe did.
“No matter what, God is on my side,” Bowe said later. “I’m not perfect, but I’m not the worst, either. God brought me this far. He’s not done with me yet.”
Before leaving, Bowe wanted something else to be known. He loves his wife and their little girl more than anything, he said. And he said thank you.
Thirty minutes later, Bowe was on the phone. One more thing.
“Any promoter who wants to put me on their card, I’m willing to fight,” Bowe said.
He said thank you. And he was gone, again.
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10-21-2009, 11:08 PM #2Associate Member
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at one time he was the man i feel bad for him poor guy is 300 pounds and broke.. a little hgh and winny he could be champ again
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10-22-2009, 12:53 AM #3
Sounds like a real life Rocky V.
Very unfortunate. He sounds delusional, I hope he gets his shit together and moves on with his life.
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10-22-2009, 07:18 AM #4Member
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I remember hearing reports he was considering MMA.
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10-22-2009, 10:12 AM #5Anabolic Member
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This happens with a LOT of athletes. They live and dream about what ever sport it is they are in, and never are taught any financial sense. These guys come from poor families, never had a good up bringing, and never had to deal with finances because they were blessed with amazing athletic ability.
Eventually, your body cannot do it anymore though, and you have to retire. Money has never been an issue with these guys, and they are use to banking millions a year.
Money spends VERY fast, the more you make, the more you spend. Many of these guys are taken advantage of by more financially savvy people as well.
America will always be the rich being taxed to shit, and the rich taking advantage of the poor.
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