a new problem while on TRT...SEX!

**bass** · 05-28-2011, 08:54 PM

Originally Posted by lifeforce0019

You could always "slip" her 5 to10 mgs of your leftover anavar! Should raise her libido with little or no sides! Vitamin "V" for women!

LOL, well i gave the var away! never heard of vitamin V!

**Shol'va** · 05-29-2011, 01:49 PM

Bass I know you said pulling your pud was out of the question, but remember this...Sex is like poker, if you don't have a good partner, then you better have a good hand.....

**bass** · 05-29-2011, 02:59 PM

Originally Posted by Shol'va

Bass I know you said pulling your pud was out of the question, but remember this...Sex is like poker, if you don't have a good partner, then you better have a good hand.....

very funny, but true!

**zaggahamma** · 05-29-2011, 06:19 PM

all in

**JD250** · 05-29-2011, 09:43 PM

Fold

**GotNoBlueMilk** · 05-30-2011, 06:42 AM

I think you are bluffing!

I'd call your bluff, but I don't even want to see if you can get it up!

**zaggahamma** · 05-30-2011, 10:34 AM

ha no raises thats wut i thought

**Shol'va** · 05-30-2011, 01:48 PM

Utt Oh someones playing Texas "Hold-um" I'll call, show me your hand.

**JD250** · 05-30-2011, 05:04 PM

I'm not sure we can do that on an open forum. oh what the hell.....JPK....show him what you got

**zaggahamma** · 05-30-2011, 06:20 PM

i got a straight

**GotNoBlueMilk** · 05-30-2011, 06:24 PM

so if your wife has a flush . . . . then you win

**Shol'va** · 05-30-2011, 06:28 PM

Originally Posted by jpkman

i got a straight

I've got two of a kind.

**junk2222yard** · 11-06-2012, 11:55 AM

Originally Posted by bass

my wife and i are almost the same age, 51. normally sex drive at this age slows down for both men and women, but now that i am on TRT we are no match! basically i want it all the time and she doesn't...for those who are in my situation, how do you deal with it? TRT is a double edge sword!

I have sex with my wife almost every day. 75% of the time, she is not aroused at all, and just lets me use her while she mulls things over, like mentally doing a grocery list. I am not kidding. It takes 4-5 minutes and I am done and we go back to whatever we were doing. The other 25% of sessions are normal and lengthy and she has orgasms.

She says she prefers this arrangement to me whacking off. I do too.

**xcraider37** · 11-06-2012, 03:15 PM

Originally Posted by junk2222yard

I have sex with my wife almost every day. 75% of the time, she is not aroused at all, and just lets me use her while she mulls things over, like mentally doing a grocery list. I am not kidding. It takes 4-5 minutes and I am done and we go back to whatever we were doing. The other 25% of sessions are normal and lengthy and she has orgasms.

She says she prefers this arrangement to me whacking off. I do too.

Wow this is an old thread, my wife is exactly the same way, she can go weeks between encounters, she does give it too me a few times a week, but just not as satisfying without her being more involved. For some reason 3 or more drinks helps her out sometimes, BTW we are both 46. I am sure she is at least pre-menopausal. Guys if you have a women in her thirties I advise you to take full advantage of her.

**TennTarheel** · 11-06-2012, 04:58 PM

My wife is 31 and in her prime. I cannot wait to get my hormones in check so I can slay the tigress like I used to!!

**jamotech** · 11-06-2012, 07:41 PM

Originally Posted by flatscat

The other thing you have to consider if your situation is/was anything like mine is this -

I have been married for about 11 years. I think we had a pretty good sex life for maybe the two years we dated and maybe another year after that. Then the babies came, and then I think my low t started (not because of the bambino's, lol). So, for prolly 6 or seven years she dealt with MY low sex drive and kinda either got used to it or decided that was just how it was going to be (or had a Sancho). I really didnt even notice (kinda like the fat that was piling on my gut). Now all of a sudden I am like a teenager again - wanting it ALL the time. It kinda pissed her off at first. And, like your wife, she said it was ALL because of what I was injecting myself with.

Fast forward to today - she understands now that my hormone levels were wacked and she knows I actually need the t now. She has seen the change in my body (and likes it), she sees other women looking and flirting with me (and i think likes that too), she knows that I could have most of those women if I wanted but choose to stay with her.

Now I am not saying that I get it near as much as I want, but I am getting it a lot more than I was for the first 6-8 months of being on trt. Most females prolly need a good amount of time to go from where they were to where you want them to be.

Give it some time - let her see how it has changed not only your body, but your confidence and the way you treat her. Back off the cave man hit her in the head and drag her to the bed talk all the time and let her get to know the new you again.

I must say that my marriage is NOT perfect. We have had to deal with several issues along the way that were related to my old sluggo self. But, at the end of the day, the new me is way better than the old me (even before we were married) and she is coming around.

Best of luck bro and hope this helps.

Flats

Glad to hear about the improvement flats!

**jamotech** · 11-06-2012, 07:45 PM

Originally Posted by junk2222yard

I have sex with my wife almost every day. 75% of the time, she is not aroused at all, and just lets me use her while she mulls things over, like mentally doing a grocery list. I am not kidding. It takes 4-5 minutes and I am done and we go back to whatever we were doing. The other 25% of sessions are normal and lengthy and she has orgasms.

She says she prefers this arrangement to me whacking off. I do too.

I dated a girl who did the grocery list 100% of the time, weird, but I did get laid whenever I wanted!