
Originally Posted by
Bojangles69
Women like muscle, at least the majority of attractive women do.
I know cause everytime I start making out with one, the first thing their hands touch is either my chest or bis and they usually will comment about it.
At the gym, they can't keep their eyes off it either.
I'd venture to say girls being attracted to muscle is actually a genetic survival trait. Same way we're attracted to a specific waist to hip ratio (for child bearing) and other traits that convey health in women, they are attracted to muscle cause it demonstrates sexual fitness, good genetics, health and most of all a female raises her own reproductive success by pairbonding with a man like that.
When you look at it from an evolutionary perspective, they need to like muscle for their own survival.
The thing guys don't realize is YES women get intimidated as easy if not easier then us guys when we see a supermodel. This shit happens to me all the time and after all these years its still hard to see sometimes.(the more humble you are naturally the more difficult it'll be to notice) It took me a good while to actually realize and believe my presence was intimidating (its not just from muscle cause I'm a small dude, its other things too I wont get into at the risk of sounding like a cocky fvck which Im not)
But they will stutter around you, mumble, act withdrawn and akward, and not really flirt cause they're being overtaken by urges to procreate, they can't think straight.
Theres 2 ways to handle it.
You act extremely relaxed and confident, which you *think will make them relaxed when in turn it aggravates their anxiety worse and raises sexual tension to the point where you'll be so attracted to someone you actually want to get away from them (counterintuitive but true).
Or you can demonstrate false vulnerabilities, which is what I do now. Don't engage eye contact, shuffle your hands and feet like you might if you were anxious, and if you naturally have conversation skills sometimes its best at this point to shutup and act like you don't always know what to say.
As the woman generally becomes less intimidated and relaxed, you continually up the initial traits she saw as intimidating, and it allows her to be attracted to you w/out experiencing all the fear and anxiety. (desensitization is the concept)
But I def have noticed women love muscle, only that fat ones who can't get it will say they don't as its an ego preservation move. You just have to understand it can make girls real quiet and real evasive. And even if the evasivness isn't related to her being intimidated, it could def well be that shes playing hard to get, which is when you need to bring in the teasing and smash her ego down. But its def more teasing then flirting as once she thinks you actually making fun of her, she'll stop playing hard to get cause she thinks you're not even trying to get her.
Then once her defenses drop you go in for the kill..