Losing my wife

[Shinalynn]

the point of that was, he never knew she had cancer..she didnt go mess around on him.. My point to everything, was go back to being bestfriends to stay together, the little things.. I posted the story to push my point on how easy it is to get side tracked and not know the person you sleep next to every night. If they want to work it out being bestfriends is key.. This has been my point from my first post.

[calgarian]

the point of that was, he never knew she had cancer..she didnt go mess around on him.. My point to everything, was go back to being bestfriends to stay together, the little things.. I posted the story to push my point on how easy it is to get side tracked and not know the person you sleep next to every night. If they want to work it out being bestfriends is key.. This has been my point from my first post.

simple question....u tell tai i am not in love with you after he neglected you for one year and then you cheated on him...what should he do? (its hypothetical so dont get offended please)

[Shinalynn]

simple question....u tell tai i am not in love with you after he neglected you for one year and then you cheated on him...what should he do? (its hypothetical so dont get offended please)

wow I had a real hard time putting myself into that situation with tai. I would have left. I dont think I could EVER cheat on him..I really love him that much.
On the other hand if it was someone else, and if i am at the point of cheating (emotional and all) then it would for sure be over for me. None of this but I still love you stuff.


I wasnt saying he should work it out or shouldnt, I wasnt saying she was right in what she did. In order to work it out you have to start out with a clean slate, and become friends again. I am a believer in two key points to a marriage, is friendship and sex. I was throwing out that they should work on the friendship if THEY really want it to work..

[calgarian]

wow I had a real hard time putting myself into that situation with tai. I would have left. I dont think I could EVER cheat on him..I really love him that much.
On the other hand if it was someone else, and if i am at the point of cheating (emotional and all) then it would for sure be over for me. None of this but I still love you stuff.


I wasnt saying he should work it out or shouldnt, I wasnt saying she was right in what she did. In order to work it out you have to start out with a clean slate, and become friends again. I am a believe the two key points to a marriage, is friendship and sex. I was throwing out that they should work on the friendship if THEY really want it to work..

Bingo!!! then y give advise to him to try work things out if u werent going to do that?
for second bold....some ppl are coward they are not sure how the new thing will work out so they like to keep the old one hanging around thats why they say "love make you week"....she is playing with his emotions and I have seen my fair share of women in my life.....

Third bold there is no they just him... you cant clap with one hand......

[Knockout_Power]

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[calgarian]

I have big fukken hands, I can clap with one...

and if theres a lot of cheating going on, he is most likely going to end up with the clap regardless of whether he uses his hands or not...

kp serious please i will come in whore thread

[BJJ]

wow I had a real hard time putting myself into that situation with tai. I would have left. I dont think I could EVER cheat on him..I really love him that much.
On the other hand if it was someone else, and if i am at the point of cheating (emotional and all) then it would for sure be over for me. None of this but I still love you stuff.


I wasnt saying he should work it out or shouldnt, I wasnt saying she was right in what she did. In order to work it out you have to start out with a clean slate, and become friends again. I am a believer in two key points to a marriage, is friendship and sex. I was throwing out that they should work on the friendship if THEY really want it to work..

Very true.