Problem thats really letting my confidence down...please help

[Narkissos]

I will respond to you once, and then I will ignore subsequent replies.

An FYI: If you wish to be 'helpful' on a discussion board, reply to the discussion at hand. Tangents (which compose the majority of your posts) help no one.

Continuing:

The biggest problem will always be fat. But it is a combination of all. There are plenty of people that are plenty lean with six packs but still have wider hips.

This guy who started this thread is not 'plenty lean'... or in the possession of a 'six pack'.

Ergo, any comment addressing people who fall into the above categories have no relevance to:
a. The poster
b. This thread

Continuing:

Yes, Yes, some is genetics, but mostly its because they are not doing enough side obliques and they are also not performing them correctly.

See previous statement.

You can be as lean as you want but if you only did for instance sit ups laying flat on the ground you WILL NEVER EVER achieve that perfect shape around your side hips. It truly isn't just fat loss.

See initial statement.

To reiterate: If you wish to be 'helpful' on a discussion board, reply to the discussion at hand. Tangents (which compose the majority of your posts) help no one.

Now, either contribute ...or allow someone who's genuinely interested in helping do so.

Good evening.