You are over thinking/stressing things bro, a couple days of not so clean eating will have no negative effect besides holding some water from sodium. You will piss that water out by Tuesday and feel great from the couple days of surplus calories and the mental break from the grind. You are not getting paid by a sponsor or going for a pro card, you will be fine. You had a great time, but more importantly, your wife had a great time with you. The last thing you want is the wife having animosity towards your bb lifestyle and the AAS, you think a couple days of having fun and eating tasty food is bad? Try dealing with the stress and negative effects of stress hormones from fighting with your wife every day, trust me, you are in a much better position with the choice you made to go and make sure she had fun. Get back to it and kill the weights, as long as you stay on routine it was a win win.