dating advice what happened??

[Zodiac82]

lmao Evil Grin....I do that

[gixxerboy1]

Oh, you're the guy I give a $50 to; to look the other way in the VIP lounge.

Lol, $50 gets you a thanks and a smile thats it. And im faking both

[spiketannin]

update. k its tuesday college night and i decided to call her to tell her i was going and to see if she was going.. no answer. so i left a tx and asked her if they are going tonight and all she said was ya. so hmmm what should i do here playas this ones for the board lol, wonderin if i should even waste my time wit her tho cuz its gona b a lot of chicks there tonight.

[Lunk1]

update. k its tuesday college night and i decided to call her to tell her i was going and to see if she was going.. no answer. so i left a tx and asked her if they are going tonight and all she said was ya. so hmmm what should i do here playas this ones for the board lol, wonderin if i should even waste my time wit her tho cuz its gona b a lot of chicks there tonight.

She isn't in to you....drop it like a hot fkn potatoe!

[cherrydrpepper]

You basically got friend zoned or stay the f away from me zoned lol

Thats why you have to go at it like you are going to go after as many different girls as you can. If you want to have standards thats finebut you should still be talking to a half dozen "10s" if that is your game. Personally id rather have a "7" that doesn't have her head way up her ass and has an ok face with nice tits.

[dan991]

You basically got friend zoned or stay the f away from me zoned lol

Thats why you have to go at it like you are going to go after as many different girls as you can. If you want to have standards thats finebut you should still be talking to a half dozen "10s" if that is your game. Personally id rather have a "7" that doesn't have her head way up her ass and has an ok face with nice tits.

^^^^^ What he said. If she wanted you to go out with her tonight; she would've extended an invite before you even asked her about what she's doing.

[ReX357]

update. k its tuesday college night and i decided to call her to tell her i was going and to see if she was going.. no answer. so i left a tx and asked her if they are going tonight and all she said was ya. so hmmm what should i do here playas this ones for the board lol, wonderin if i should even waste my time wit her tho cuz its gona b a lot of chicks there tonight.

You should not of contacted her before hand. The point was to make it look like you had other girls on the go. You had already persisted too much over text / phone calls. You messed up before the night even started.

The whole point was to 'randomly' run into her while you're having a time with other hotties. Ignore her for a bit to show that she's not really important, then when she's doubting her attraction, you take her to do a shot and lay some game into her while acting like you don't care either way. Either your f*cking her or one of the hotties she's seen you hang out with. Even if the other girls are not as hot as her, it doesn't matter. It eats at her to think that you're going for someone else than her and makes her wonder what the other girl has that she doesn't.

Please learn for next time.

[Ajc330]

also you dont need to make her jealous by talking to a bunch of other girls, thats just stupid, only insecure girls fall for that

[Ajc330]

garuntee i get bashed for what i said

[ReX357]

garuntee i get bashed for what i said

When you're dealing with hot 20 years old, you gotta play games. The only reason why I gave him a 'game plan' is because he's in a precarious situation and is not seeing straight since he's involved in the situation. This stuff should really happen naturally. If you're confident, and have a life, you will act like that naturally. But then she flipped the game on him. Girls are good at it. I've been a victim of it myself before. You have the upper hand and then all of a sudden they start detaching themselves and then you're like "What the f*ck happened? This girl use to power text me!". And that's when you make mistakes and start being overly available / needy / etc. Those are not attractive qualities in a male. That situation usually happens if you only have 1 girl on the go. Having multiple fixes that problem because you don't notice too much when one is trying to reel you in by being distant.

What you say no doubt holds true in general but not in that girls situation. He has messed up by being overly available and now he has to fix it. So he has to make calculated moves if there's even a slight chance she'll consider him again.

[RaginCajun]

nevermind

[Lunk1]

dude you dont need any game plan, or long thought out scheme to get this girl, that shit never works, just be yourself, if you are a nice guy and have a great personality and are smart, you can win her just by intellectual and thoughtful convo , bein confident in yourself is a must , muscles are a plus

also you dont need to make her jealous by talking to a bunch of other girls, thats just stupid, only insecure girls fall for that

garuntee i get bashed for what i said

Someone watched to many John Cusack movies in the 80's lol!

[spiketannin]

but i would be lying if i said i didnt want to chat her up

[gearbox]

You gotta man up and move on...

[spiketannin]

yup you guys were pretty much right lol somewhere along the line i blew it cuz she was the one who wanted to exchange numbers in the first place. but i went to the bar with my buddies and we still had funn and met some cool people but she was there and we just avoided each other. she did seem very pissed off tho and kinda honestly looked like she was tryin to make me jealous. also when we moved to one side of the bar about 5min later her and her friend kinda came to the same side definately not close but seeable. anyways dont really matter i seriously dont care there is a girl at my school that im talking too anyways. but we shall see you never no lol ill let you no if the biatttch tries to contact me.

[dan991]

yup you guys were pretty much right lol somewhere along the line i blew it cuz she was the one who wanted to exchange numbers in the first place. but i went to the bar with my buddies and we still had funn and met some cool people but she was there and we just avoided each other. she did seem very pissed off tho and kinda honestly looked like she was tryin to make me jealous. also when we moved to one side of the bar about 5min later her and her friend kinda came to the same side definately not close but seeable. anyways dont really matter i seriously dont care there is a girl at my school that im talking too anyways. but we shall see you never no lol ill let you no if the biatttch tries to contact me.

You care... otherwise you wouldn't have started this thread. Nonetheless.... told you she is about games. Easy way to deal with games- don't play them.

[Ajc330]

dude you dont need any game plan, or long thought out scheme to get this girl, that shit never works, just be yourself, if you are a nice guy and have a great personality and are smart, you can win her just by intellectual and thoughtful convo , bein confident in yourself is a must , muscles are a plus

[Bigshotvictoria]

How is this still even going on!?! In the time you've wasted trying to figure out the blatantly obvious you could have nailed half a dozen girls, or met another that you like. Who cares why it's not happening!!!! Sh!t or get of the pot!!!!!

[ReX357]

How is this still even going on!?! In the time you've wasted trying to figure out the blatantly obvious you could have nailed half a dozen girls, or met another that you like. Who cares why it's not happening!!!! Sh!t or get of the pot!!!!!

I like your style.