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01-17-2005, 07:23 PM #1
serious serious issue
Ok, well i'm not going to go on and on about the details, but to sum it up:
I met this girl that was 19 at a club about 2 months ago...one thing led to another and we ended up having sex that night. Haven't talked to her since about a week or two after that incident...
I just had a conversation with her a little while ago. To my surprise, she told me she is not 19, she is 17, she got in with a fake ID. And in an effort to completely sabotage my life plans...
SHE IS PREGNANT
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01-17-2005, 07:25 PM #2
WTF am i going to do??!??!?!??
Not only did I impregnate a woman, but SHE IS A FVCKING MINOR
WTF....i'm freaking out...IDK what i'm gonna do...
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01-17-2005, 07:25 PM #3
thats tough...did you wrap your tool atleast?
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01-17-2005, 07:27 PM #4Originally Posted by bigrob33
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01-17-2005, 07:28 PM #5VET Retired
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Awwwwww Hell no! What does she think this is? How does she know you're the father? Did you use a condom?
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01-17-2005, 07:28 PM #6Originally Posted by bigrob33
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01-17-2005, 07:28 PM #7Originally Posted by angelxterminator
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01-17-2005, 07:29 PM #8Originally Posted by needmorestrength
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01-17-2005, 07:29 PM #9
I would try to convince her not to have it (as gently as possible).....It's sounds heartless but she's not ready and it doesn't sound like you are either.
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01-17-2005, 07:30 PM #10Anabolic Member
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Originally Posted by needmorestrength
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01-17-2005, 07:30 PM #11Originally Posted by D-END
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01-17-2005, 07:31 PM #12VET Retired
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Let hope she does not want him to take care of her until the child is born and tests can be done.
I'm more worried about her age. Now that's messed up.
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01-17-2005, 07:31 PM #13Originally Posted by bigrob33
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01-17-2005, 07:31 PM #14Originally Posted by aXe
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01-17-2005, 07:32 PM #15Originally Posted by D-END
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01-17-2005, 07:32 PM #16
what's the legal age there....here it's 17
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01-17-2005, 07:33 PM #17Anabolic Member
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I guess I'll be the first to say congrats, if it is yours angel.
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01-17-2005, 07:34 PM #18
I would think there is something that works in your favor. I'm no lawyer, but it seems that it would be the clubs responsibility to make sure everyone in that club is at least 18. As far as gettting in trouble for sex with a minor....you might be safe. How do you know shes not F***ing with you and lying about her pregnancy...? A lot of girls around that age are shady like that.
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01-17-2005, 07:34 PM #19Originally Posted by aXe
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01-17-2005, 07:35 PM #20
This is why you pull out ,even with the rubber on. But the girl is probably just fuc*ing with your head, or pregnant from somebody else. Hey man, you need to watch out, girls have been known to pull this kinda crap so they can hit guys up for 3 or 400 bucks for an "abortion."
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01-17-2005, 07:37 PM #21Originally Posted by stayinstacked
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01-17-2005, 07:37 PM #22Anabolic Member
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Originally Posted by D-END
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01-17-2005, 07:38 PM #23Originally Posted by angelxterminator
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01-17-2005, 07:40 PM #24
Angel.....you are in a very precarious situation....depending on her family. First I would insist on proof of estimated day of conception. See if the math adds up. If the math adds up, I would recommend you contact her family and have a discussion with the parents.....before they decide to press charges. If you met her in a club you can certainly make a case that she misrepresented herself. If she won't have an abortion, then there are other options...i.e., adoption, etc. But what it boils down to is, fair or not, it's her body and her choice what she does. IF she chooses to keep the baby, you will have to step up and do the right thing. I.e. support her during the pregnancy. Once the baby is born, insist on a paternity test and be prepared to be a father. It is unfortunate, but as I've told my daughter many many times, if you make adult choices you gotta be ready for adult consequences.
1. Once a cheat always a cheat!
2. YES, SHE can get pregnant the first time!
3. NO, PULLING out IS NOT a RELIABLE method of Birth Control. DAMMMMIT..... Wrap that shyte UP!!
Women over 30 are dignified. They seldom have a screaming match with you at the opera or in the middle of an expensive restaurant. Of course, if you deserve it, they won't hesitate to shoot you, if they think they can get away with it.
For all those men who say, "Why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free". Here's an update for you. Nowadays 80% of women are against marriage, why? Because women realize it's not worth buying an entire Pig, just to get a little sausage.
What the mind can conceive....the body will achieve!
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01-17-2005, 07:41 PM #25Anabolic Member
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Originally Posted by Commando_Barbi
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01-17-2005, 07:41 PM #26
How old r u?
Originally Posted by stayinstacked1. Once a cheat always a cheat!
2. YES, SHE can get pregnant the first time!
3. NO, PULLING out IS NOT a RELIABLE method of Birth Control. DAMMMMIT..... Wrap that shyte UP!!
Women over 30 are dignified. They seldom have a screaming match with you at the opera or in the middle of an expensive restaurant. Of course, if you deserve it, they won't hesitate to shoot you, if they think they can get away with it.
For all those men who say, "Why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free". Here's an update for you. Nowadays 80% of women are against marriage, why? Because women realize it's not worth buying an entire Pig, just to get a little sausage.
What the mind can conceive....the body will achieve!
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01-17-2005, 07:44 PM #27Associate Member
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Back in my day, I can think of three girls who gave me the same bs, and none of them were pregnant.
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01-17-2005, 07:45 PM #28Originally Posted by bigrob33
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01-17-2005, 07:45 PM #29Anabolic Member
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Originally Posted by elicotton
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01-17-2005, 07:46 PM #30
And let me add - your life plans do NOT have to go away. You are just going to have to work a little harder.
Second....since she is so young....there's a good chance that she's upset over the one night stand and is trying to make you feel bad. In the short term you could go buy a pregnancy test, go to her house and insist that she take it right then and there.
Before you do anything drastic...insist on proof and do the math. Get your head on straight and go from there.1. Once a cheat always a cheat!
2. YES, SHE can get pregnant the first time!
3. NO, PULLING out IS NOT a RELIABLE method of Birth Control. DAMMMMIT..... Wrap that shyte UP!!
Women over 30 are dignified. They seldom have a screaming match with you at the opera or in the middle of an expensive restaurant. Of course, if you deserve it, they won't hesitate to shoot you, if they think they can get away with it.
For all those men who say, "Why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free". Here's an update for you. Nowadays 80% of women are against marriage, why? Because women realize it's not worth buying an entire Pig, just to get a little sausage.
What the mind can conceive....the body will achieve!
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Originally Posted by aXe
True on both counts...
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01-17-2005, 07:58 PM #32
Is it just me or does anyone else find it strange she would get a fake ID that says she's only 19?? What's the point of the fake ID then lol. Do you live in Canada??
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01-17-2005, 07:59 PM #33Originally Posted by Commando_Barbi
I'm sooo worried. I will entirely take responsibility for my actions though. I am going to talk with her about abortion, etc. and hope she makes a choice that is good for both of us. Neither of us are ready to have a child!
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01-17-2005, 08:00 PM #34Originally Posted by LeanMeOut
Good call bro, but down here clubs let chicks in 18 and older. Guys 21....God bless'em...lol jk
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01-17-2005, 08:00 PM #35
And i believe the legal age here is 18+
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01-17-2005, 08:01 PM #36Originally Posted by LeanMeOut
Man i really didn't need this right now
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01-17-2005, 08:02 PM #37Originally Posted by angelxterminator
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01-17-2005, 08:03 PM #38
Bro, am I hearing this right, you were wearing a condom ? If so, how in the hell can it be yours unless it had a hole in it which is highly unlikely
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01-17-2005, 08:03 PM #39Originally Posted by angelxterminator
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01-17-2005, 08:04 PM #40Originally Posted by OGPackin
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