GF went nuts over porn. (rant)

[eGGz]

My girl friend came over today. She said "do you mind if I check your computer" because she had just talked to a friend of hers whose husband was having several affairs and she found out about it by checking his email.

I said sure go ahead, because I know I have nothing to hide. She looked around for 20 minutes or so and didn't find anything.

Then she said "I know you have some porn on here somewhere." She knows this because she asked before and I said "Of course I have porn on my computer, I'm a guy aren't I?" Which I then volunteered to show her but she declined at that time.

She asked me to now show it to her., which I did. (I have about 80-90 pictures of naked women, nothing too perverse, too kinky, or illegal BTW, just plain ol' naked women.)

She went nuts, got all upset, called me names, says that she should be more than enough for me, and storms out all in a huff.

I did not lie to her. I'm not into anything that she should be worried about and she has known I had these pictures for at least a year. I have told her everything and been completely honest all along.

It seems like she just wanted something to be mad at me for ???
Man, they will make you crazy sometimes !!!

There I feel better already, thanks for reading this..........

[USfighterFC]

You should know by now women will set a trap for you....they wanna sucker you in pretending all is well and then BAM!!! You dont even know what hit you. I learned from my last g/f that they hife their ambitions better than North Korea and just when you least expect it they pull it out of their ass and use it against you.

[LENNOXLEWIS99]

JUST BANG porn sluts like me man they love porno it pays the bills

[ttuprincess]

You should know by now women will set a trap for you....they wanna sucker you in pretending all is well and then BAM!!! You dont even know what hit you. I learned from my last g/f that they hife their ambitions better than North Korea and just when you least expect it they pull it out of their ass and use it against you.

Good boy!

[MBaraso]

You shouldn't have to hide your porn from your gf. If you do she obviously has some trust issues that she needs to deal with.

[HSV]

Seems there is lack of trust from your g/f , thats what would shit me.And she has a problem with porn.Maybe she feels a bit insecure about your relationship or about herself.
Goodluck.

[kloter1]

girls are weird creatures

[eGGz]

You should know by now women will set a trap for you....they wanna sucker you in pretending all is well and then BAM!!! You dont even know what hit you. I learned from my last g/f that they hife their ambitions better than North Korea and just when you least expect it they pull it out of their ass and use it against you.

BAM!!! is right. Every time I let my guard down here comes the sucker punch. Maybe it is time to get a new GF.

[eGGz]

You shouldn't have to hide your porn from your gf. If you do she obviously has some trust issues that she needs to deal with.

I agree, that is why I didn't make any attempt to hide anything. In fact I have been up front and honest all along. I actually thought I was doing the right thing, now, not so sure.

[kloter1]

honesty is always the best way to go. but on the otherhand, what she doesnt know doesnt hurt her

[needmorestrength]

yikes.. sounds like she was in "drama" mode

[eGGz]

Seems there is lack of trust from your g/f , thats what would shit me.And she has a problem with porn.Maybe she feels a bit insecure about your relationship or about herself.
Goodluck.

Aparently porn is a issue with her. She didn't act like it was a big deal before. I wouldn't care if she looked at naked guys, girls or farm animals, as long as she slept with me afterwards.

[USfighterFC]

Good boy!

Sad thing is it took me like 10 g/f's to figure that out.

[eGGz]

Sad thing is it took me like 10 g/f's to figure that out.

I hate to think I'll have to go through life with my guard up all the time. Is that what you do USfighterFC ?

[USfighterFC]

I hate to think I'll have to go through life with my guard up all the time. Is that what you do USfighterFC ?

Pretty much.......but then again i'm always doin things that will get me in trouble Thing is I've dated one specific type of girl my whole life and they were fiery latin girls. They look great and are the best in the sack but they are extremely vicious and will start an argument over nothing. I've actually swore I'd never date another Rican/Dominican ever again. So sad to say I'm not sure how other girls operate outside this genre.

[eGGz]

I've dated lots of girls "outside the genre" if you will. I don't think it is a ethnic thing. I think it is a female thing as in my experience, they all do this at least to some extent, some more than others.

I'm becoming tired of trying to be a "nice" guy, trying to do the "right" thing. I had a lot more fun as a "Bad Boy" and I don't see much difference in the amount of trouble I get in regardless of the role, be it nice guy or bad boy.

No wonder women complain so much about men being jerks. They drive us to it out of self defence.

[steve0]

well first off she dosnt trust u one bit if you wants to look in your computer s i would dump her ass

[USfighterFC]

I've dated lots of girls "outside the genre" if you will. I don't think it is a ethnic thing. I think it is a female thing as in my experience, they all do this at least to some extent, some more than others.

I'm becoming tired of trying to be a "nice" guy, trying to do the "right" thing. I had a lot more fun as a "Bad Boy" and I don't see much difference in the amount of trouble I get in regardless of the role, be it nice guy or bad boy.

No wonder women complain so much about men being jerks. They drive us to it out of self defence.

I hope you're right and it's a female thing or I'm in a shitload of trouble.

[chest6]

you even showed her the pics eggz! I will never understand girls..

[Kärnfysikern]

Il never figure out where you guys meet all these drama queens....

[Bojangles69]

You shouldn't have to hide your porn from your gf. If you do she obviously has some trust issues that she needs to deal with.

exactamongo, i hide my porn from NOONE, i am a man, one with a healthy sexual appetite, i do not apologize for nor hide my desires from anyone, if it wasnt for sex.. none of us would be having this conversation right now.

[QuieTSToRM33]

She shouldnt be trying to snoop through ur shit anyway .... she should trust u

[juicy_brucy]

My girlfriend went nuts after she found a link to a porn site in my web browsers History!
It's no secret that we don't get a long all of the time...
She hates my steroid abuse (which I refuse to lie to her about, or give up)
and my porno stash (which I refuse to give up, or hide).
If she wants to be with me, she has got to accept the fact that I am not going to change for her, or anyone except for my self.

She needs to accept the way things are.
If she can not, then I will move on with my goal with out her.
Sad, perhaps, but I refuse to be something that I am not, especially when I am doing nothing wrong and I am not hurting anybody...

[needmorestrength]

My girlfriend went nuts after she found a link to a porn site in my web browsers History!
It's no secret that we don't get a long all of the time...
She hates my steroid abuse (which I refuse to lie to her about, or give up)
and my porno stash (which I refuse to give up, or hide).
If she wants to be with me, she has got to accept the fact that I am not going to change for her, or anyone except for my self.

She needs to accept the way things are.
If she can not, then I will move on with my goal with out her.
Sad, perhaps, but I refuse to be something that I am not, especially when I am doing nothing wrong and I am not hurting anybody...

wow about the roid thing, im in the exact same situation!

[eGGz]

Yeah, she does not trust me for some reason, though I have been a good boy all along. I guess it it time to admit that she is not the one. I can live just fine without all the drama that is for sure.

Thanks all for the comments.

Cheers ... eGGz

[Seajackal]

My girlfriend went nuts after she found a link to a porn site in my web browsers History!
It's no secret that we don't get a long all of the time...
She hates my steroid abuse (which I refuse to lie to her about, or give up)
and my porno stash (which I refuse to give up, or hide).
If she wants to be with me, she has got to accept the fact that I am not going to change for her, or anyone except for my self.

She needs to accept the way things are.
If she can not, then I will move on with my goal with out her.
Sad, perhaps, but I refuse to be something that I am not, especially when I am doing nothing wrong and I am not hurting anybody...

You gotta be tough minded with girls like that (I'm in the same ship, bro!)
You know that all that keeps me up with my old biatch is my kids and nothing
else, gotta be tha last Samurai to hold the shit going.

[Gra]

Swedish girls are the best... The best looks to

Il never figure out where you guys meet all these drama queens....

[Flexor]

You should know by now women will set a trap for you....they wanna sucker you in pretending all is well and then BAM!!! You dont even know what hit you. I learned from my last g/f that they hide their ambitions better than North Korea and just when you least expect it they pull it out of their ass and use it against you.

Bro, you come out with funny shit ALL THE TIME!

[decadbal]

just dump her, she was just lookin for trouble or attention, and putting you down isnt a way to get either from you

[SVTMuscle*]

Seems there is lack of trust from your g/f , thats what would shit me.And she has a problem with porn.Maybe she feels a bit insecure about your relationship or about herself.
Goodluck.

i dunno how many times i read that post to understand what the hell that first "sentence" meant





You got pictures? I just stick to video's, so much more entertaining

[TAPPER]

IMO, get out now because the “damage” is already done.

My girl friend came over today. She said "do you mind if I check your computer" because she had just talked to a friend of hers whose husband was having several affairs and she found out about it by checking his email

As this issue with her friend plays out things probably aren’t going to get any better in your life. Every time you happen to do one of the things her friend’s husband did; work late, go out w/ your friends, not answer your cell, etc, her insecurity/trust issues are going to resurface immediately.

Aparently porn is a issue with her. She didn't act like it was a big deal before.

Classic move. You’re into a relationship and all of a sudden she realizes that xxxxx isn’t her thing anymore. They hook you with behavior that is appe****g and then change into who they really are. Porn and strippers are usually the first to go with oral not too far behind. In this case it sounds as if she wasn’t ready to make this move yet, but her friend’s problems hasten the process.

[Warrior]

fuk her - apparently she'd be better off with someone lacking in the testosterone department... wait - what was that? Oh, sh!t... it was her next boyfriend's balls rollin' across the floor...

[copenhagen]

she will get over it dude, my gf found all kinds of shit on my comp and got a little upset, guess it was my fault for not "hiding" the folder. anyway,i don't think it is a trust issue, some chicks just react strongly to porno, my guess is they might be kind of old fashioned and have the mentality of "all he needs is me " blah blah blah. but the fact of the matter is this kind of stuff is human nature and we shouldn't have to change our human nature for no one! if that doesn't work just go buy her a dildo and call it even!

[USfighterFC]

Bro, you come out with funny shit ALL THE TIME!

Yeah women are just awful little creatures, they can make me quite satirical sometimes....if thats even a word. Just ask P.I.

[eGGz]

honesty is always the best way to go.

I hate to lie, If the girl I’m with doesn’t like who I am then from now on, its going to be “bye bye baby.”

but on the otherhand, what she doesnt know doesnt hurt her

I never tell about AAS usage as sharing that information can blow up in your face.

you even showed her the pics eggz! I will never understand girls..

Yeah, I was honest and up front from the very beginning and I still got in trouble.

Il never figure out where you guys meet all these drama queens....

He He, I met this one over the internet.

exactamongo, i hide my porn from NOONE, i am a man, one with a healthy sexual appetite, i do not apologize for nor hide my desires from anyone, if it wasnt for sex.. none of us would be having this conversation right now.

Agreed

[eGGz]

She shouldnt be trying to snoop through ur shit anyway .... she should trust u

I gave her permission, I even showed her where to find the naked women pictures.

Sad, perhaps, but I refuse to be something that I am not, especially when I am doing nothing wrong and I am not hurting anybody...

Nothing sad about being true to yourself bro.

just dump her, she was just lookin for trouble or attention, and putting you down isnt a way to get either from you

eGGzactly

Porn and strippers are usually the first to go with oral not too far behind.

This line really had me laughing, thanks for that. Sounds like the voice of experience perhaps.

fuk her - apparently she'd be better off with someone lacking in the testosterone department... wait - what was that? Oh, sh!t... it was her next boyfriend's balls rollin' across the floor...

LoL, yeah, you are right. That’s why I broke up with her this morning.

she will get over it dude, my gf found all kinds of shit on my comp and got a little upset, guess it was my fault for not "hiding" the folder. anyway,i don't think it is a trust issue, some chicks just react strongly to porno, my guess is they might be kind of old fashioned and have the mentality of "all he needs is me " blah blah blah. but the fact of the matter is this kind of stuff is human nature and we shouldn't have to change our human nature for no one! if that doesn't work just go buy her a dildo and call it even!

He He, she already has a couple of dildos. She may get over it but I'm through with trying to be someone I'm not. This is all for the best.

[Flexor]

LoL, yeah, you are right. That’s why I broke up with her this morning.

And for good reason, if she doesn't like her bfs having porn, she will have a hard time finding another one when she wants to.

[Mizfit]

holy shit one long test session.. u guys have no idea how to handle women do u?

number one women don't always pull stuff outta their asses. She was looking for something in this case because she is upset about her friends recent turmoil.

Let her have a few days to calm down and find out if she really doe have a problem with the porn.. i can't imagine a lot of women having issues with it now adays, but u never know.. how old is she?

not all of us need to look for something to bitch about, but we do at times look for security and because her friend just went thru something she might feel vulnerable

[SVTMuscle*]

^ ^ haha she has no idea what shes talking about!!

[Mizfit]

^ ^ haha she has no idea what shes talking about!!

I do.. men have no idea how to handle situations.. whenever they get put between a rock and a hard place they do a few things..

They either 1) get defensive or 2) lie

Neither of these are effective..