Need some advice

**caddilac** · 05-15-2006, 11:55 AM

What do you guys think the best way to break up with a chick is without making it bad and having both people hate eachother? I'm going to break up with this girl I've been seeing but we have a lot of the same friends so I don't want to be an ass about it or hurt her feelings too much.
Right now I'm thinking just to be completely honest and tell her that I don't think it's working out. What do you guys think?

**chest6** · 05-15-2006, 12:14 PM

Make up some Bs and be like "This isn't the right time" or.."Im not really ready for a committment yet"

**hawktribal** · 05-15-2006, 12:17 PM

just tell her exactly how it is. with the same friends you're obviously going to be seeing her again.. why get caught in a lie?

**Carlos_E** · 05-15-2006, 12:49 PM

Tell her the truth. Just don't be a dick when you say it. Were you 2 ever in love?

**stunt954** · 05-15-2006, 12:49 PM

Originally Posted by hawktribal

just tell her exactly how it is. with the same friends you're obviously going to be seeing her again.. why get caught in a lie?

Agreed... But if you still have sex with her... she'll be all over you like crazy. So if you break her the word... you might want to break off the sex too... (unless you can manipulate her into having it without the emotional drama ... then good for you) lol ...

hope it works out for ya man...

**Ufa** · 05-15-2006, 12:52 PM

You got to find her some one else. Have some one you know hit on her. When they get cozy then you come on the scene with your feelings hurt
and tell her good-by.

**Carlos_E** · 05-15-2006, 12:57 PM

Originally Posted by Ufa

You got to find her some one else. Have some one you know hit on her. When they get cozy then you come on the scene with your feelings hurt
and tell her good-by.

**SwoleCat** · 05-15-2006, 01:01 PM

Honesty is the best policy.

No one owns you, so do what you need to do.

~SC~

**zimmy** · 05-15-2006, 01:07 PM

be honest...but at the same time be prepared for some drama

**helium3** · 05-15-2006, 01:10 PM

been there.

its a tough one but you have to do the right thing and tell her.

**helium3** · 05-15-2006, 01:11 PM

p.s be prepared for a kick in the balls,women like rejection less than men imho.

**caddilac** · 05-15-2006, 02:51 PM

Originally Posted by Carlos_E

Tell her the truth. Just don't be a dick when you say it. Were you 2 ever in love?

No, never in love with her. One of the reasons I don't want to see her anymore is because I don't really care about hanging out with her much and don't see it going anywhere. I think being honest is the way to go. She's just gonna be pissed when I start talking to this other chick.

**Hackamaniac** · 05-15-2006, 02:53 PM

say it's all your faught it's not working out and not her and that might help with her feelings.

**caddilac** · 05-15-2006, 02:54 PM

Originally Posted by Ufa

You got to find her some one else. Have some one you know hit on her. When they get cozy then you come on the scene with your feelings hurt
and tell her good-by.

lol. Thats kind of an ambitious plan, but it's kind of f'ed up if you're just planning on messing with her- then when she finds out what you did through mutual friends = drama.