My GF rant.

**cfiler** · 06-23-2006, 12:50 PM

Originally Posted by roidattack

Did she ever do anything like this in the past? How long have you been together? It was total bullshyt but I would need to know more before saying walk. Sometimes you can give people a second chance if that is not normally in their character..

We've been together for almost three years. She has never done anything that extream, but she has complained about me to my family. Just little things like "Cfiler is lazy. He barely ever helps with the dishes." or "It's like pulling teeth getting him to do laundry."

**Mizfit** · 06-23-2006, 12:52 PM

Is she having second thoughts too? Sounds to me like possibly some of the things you do she might find disrpestivful as well.

You have to sit down and have a completely honest discussion...

RA · 06-23-2006, 01:17 PM

Originally Posted by cfiler

We've been together for almost three years. She has never done anything that extream, but she has complained about me to my family. Just little things like "Cfiler is lazy. He barely ever helps with the dishes." or "It's like pulling teeth getting him to do laundry."

Is she right?

**cfiler** · 06-23-2006, 02:03 PM

Originally Posted by roidattack

Is she right?

I am kinda lazy about housework, but it's only since I've moved in with her. I find the appartment so depressing, it was mostly because of her cat, which would make TONS of mess. SO I figured why bother doing the dishes all the time, if the appartment will still be a mess because of the cat.

Since the cat was put down,
I am doing alot more clean up.

**cfiler** · 06-23-2006, 02:04 PM

Her appartment was not nearly as nice as mine was, but she wanted to keep it because hers was a 2 bedroom, and she wanted a room for her cat to have of his own. SO I moved in with her to save money. I was in debt quite abit, and am now only slightly in debt.

**cfiler** · 06-23-2006, 02:07 PM

Originally Posted by Mizfit

Is she having second thoughts too? Sounds to me like possibly some of the things you do she might find disrpestivful as well.

You have to sit down and have a completely honest discussion...

She's not having second thoughts to my knowledge. We did have a talk on Monday, but it didn't make me feel any better. I belive she knows how upset I am know, but she blames me for creating the situation.

**firmechicano831** · 06-23-2006, 02:18 PM

Why would she blame you? Don't let her put the guilt on your part. Your not the one that started yelliing shit out in front of you're family. She should know better.

**cfiler** · 06-23-2006, 02:41 PM

Originally Posted by firmechicano831

Why would she blame you? Don't let her put the guilt on your part. Your not the one that started yelliing shit out in front of you're family. She should know better.

She says it's my fault for starting a fight before going to my parents. I wasn't meaning to start a fight, I was just trying to suggest that we look into other places to live.

RA · 06-23-2006, 02:44 PM

Originally Posted by cfiler

She says it's my fault for starting a fight before going to my parents. I wasn't meaning to start a fight, I was just trying to suggest that we look into other places to live.

Yeah, Im thinking your 100% on this one. She should have kept her mouth shut in front of the family. The fact that no one called her on her Birthday may have had something to do with that. She have many friends?

**cfiler** · 06-23-2006, 02:56 PM

Originally Posted by roidattack

Yeah, Im thinking your 100% on this one. She should have kept her mouth shut in front of the family. The fact that no one called her on her Birthday may have had something to do with that. She have many friends?

No, she doesn't really have any friends. Outside of work, she doesn't have any friends. Her sister called her for her birthday after we had come home from dinner.

He parents are a bunch of loosers. They never called her all day.

He cat was put down two days before aswell.

So I understand that she was upset, but she should not have taken it out on me.

**LetsGetItOn** · 06-23-2006, 07:42 PM

Originally Posted by cfiler

Her appartment was not nearly as nice as mine was, but she wanted to keep it because hers was a 2 bedroom, and she wanted a room for her cat to have of his own. SO I moved in with her to save money. I was in debt quite abit, and am now only slightly in debt.

Man that is sound to hear the the cat was put down 2 days before, but really...the cat had it's own big room? Damn, Queen of Pussy-cats.