Thread: Online dating SUCKS
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09-30-2006, 04:45 PM #1Anabolic Member
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Online dating SUCKS
This is a part story/part rant/part me being a bonafide asshole (and for this i hope you guys dont hate me)
met this girl on an online service type thing. ANyway her and i have been talking for about 3 weeks and shes seen pics of me and i have seen pics of her. In her pics she looks pretty, she doesnt look fat obese or whatever. In fact she was hot by some standards. She was a nice person, smart, intelligent and bascially everything one would look for IN a woman.
ANYWAY, i met her at a club last night and when she said hi to me while i was walking around, i took one good look at all 200 lbs (ok 185lbs) of her and gave hera dirty look and walekd away. I was in complete disbelief at what i saw. How could someone look so different (ugier, fatter) than her pics??
She just messged me calling me rude for ignoring her like that. I told her that i was completely shocked and distraught at the way i was deceived by her pictures. I also told her to lose weight.
Thereafter she blocked me.
YEs i know i was too mean and ther is nothing i can do.
im sorry for being such a terrible human being
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09-30-2006, 04:47 PM #2
Tell us the truth... you went hoggin' didn't ya
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09-30-2006, 04:48 PM #3
girls always look different in person then online pictures. you shoulda knew something was wrong when her pictures she sent you said 2001 in the bottom right corner...lmao...
thats why dating online is 99.9999% pointless.
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09-30-2006, 04:50 PM #4Anabolic Member
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Originally Posted by anaBROLIC
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09-30-2006, 04:51 PM #5Anabolic Member
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Originally Posted by elvisinturn1
for it was not
i was so distressed that i kept asking my self after lookin at a hot girl... WHY COULDNT I HAVE MET HER ONLINE... o wait.. becuase shes not desperate...
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09-30-2006, 04:53 PM #6Originally Posted by stunner5000pt
aww man... come on bro. you could have at least talked to her. then when you reject her, make her think its something she did rather than the way she looks
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09-30-2006, 04:55 PM #7Anabolic Member
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Originally Posted by Tren Bull
i shouldve done that though
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09-30-2006, 04:55 PM #8
on hte other hand though, shes the one thats guilty of false advertising...
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09-30-2006, 04:57 PM #9
i had the same thing happen to me on hotornot. what are these girls thinking?? seriously do they think that once they show up looking like sh*t the guys going to not care that she is ugly and not care about the fact that if anyting came of it the relationship would be based on a lie (her saying that the pics are recent or that she's in shape)
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09-30-2006, 04:57 PM #10
i hate when ugly girls try to hook up with me, but i dont think ive ever made it apparent im rejecting them based on their physical appearance... at least, i try not to
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09-30-2006, 05:00 PM #11Anabolic Member
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Originally Posted by Superhuman
too bad that looks matter
for me in a HUGE way
i dont know about you guys tohugh
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09-30-2006, 05:03 PM #12Originally Posted by Tren Bull
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09-30-2006, 05:07 PM #13
I had the opposite happen..
I met a decent looking kinda hot chick online, talked for a few weeks, met her and she was smokin'
SHe looked nothing like in her pictures..
Maybe cause her hair was different, she was alot thinner too, and it all just looked diff...
dated her for about a month n a half
LOL
now she hates me, and i aint to fond of her either lol
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09-30-2006, 05:11 PM #14
talk to them on live webcam before meeting them in person, If you dont like the person, turn off your computer and teell them your internet got disconnected.
Last edited by Joey2ness; 09-30-2006 at 05:16 PM.
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09-30-2006, 05:18 PM #15Originally Posted by stunner5000pt
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09-30-2006, 05:30 PM #16Anabolic Member
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Originally Posted by Foskamink
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09-30-2006, 05:41 PM #17
you should have put 2 and 2 together when you noticed all the photo's were from the shoulders up.
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Try to let her down easy. Tell her once you saw her you decided you were g@y.
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09-30-2006, 05:49 PM #19
Nothing wrong with what you did
I've done the same but
you didn't have to tell her to loos weight
But fck her she was the liar
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09-30-2006, 05:51 PM #20Originally Posted by Foskamink
that jlo weighs 170+
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09-30-2006, 05:51 PM #21
stunner5000pt , please post the pics for your bros...
Bros before hoes
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09-30-2006, 06:02 PM #22
Bro, consider yourself lucky. I answered an ad that a girl put out in a local paper, quite a few yrs ago, b4 i got married. We talked on the phone for awhile b4 i ever met her. She described her self as looking like Paula Adul and actually she sounded just like her (very sexy perky voice). I didn't even ask her about look all that much and she kept going on at every time she goes anywhere guy are playing on her and asking her out etc. Anyways to make a long story short. We talk about meeting at some India restaurant and so i pick her up at her house. I go to her house and park and what do i see first off..about 4-5 kids running around and the house looks like it should be condemed, lol! Im still sitting in my car waiting for her to come, but she is not ready. She finally comes to my car...damn obese, and at least 190-200lbs, and wearing spandex the ones that go to the calf and low waisted and this big roll is comming out. Her face looks nothing like Paul Adul except that she is dark complexion and is chubby in the cheeks. She tells me she isn't ready yet and so it will take like 30more minutes. She invites me in, but i say that i need to pickup a few things and ill be back. So im driving and thinking to myself "What a pig" to deceive me like this so i decide im not going back cause im not going to waste my $ on this. She calls me on my cell and i don't answer, then again, i answer and tell her im not feeling too good and bail out. Guess what??..this girl keeps calling like every 5 minutes and leaving v-mails. First they are like she is alittle disapointed, then shes like asking if im bailing and don't think she is pretty, the this goes on for like 1hr and about 10 v-mail each one getting worse and worse, then she is like swearing like a drunken sailor and ragging on me big time. Im starting to get worried cause i unfourtuantely gave her my hm phone. I get home and there are like 3 more of these really hard core fatal attraction type calls. Needless to say i was down right worried, but finally they ceased. I told myself "never giving a girl i don't know my ph again untill i see her and no commitments. Do lunch and if i like then make plans from there.
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09-30-2006, 06:05 PM #23
good job stunner you did the right thing.......
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09-30-2006, 06:06 PM #24Originally Posted by mick-g
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09-30-2006, 06:29 PM #25
what sites are you guys using to meet chicks?
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09-30-2006, 06:50 PM #26Originally Posted by stunner5000pt
honestly a few chiks ive met were about 10x hotter in person than online and ive had maybe one that wasnt as attractive but still nothing like a 200lb blob.
i really think its a lot rarer than you think, so rationally speaking your next 10 dates should look like thier pics, just basing it on my experience and a few other people i know.
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09-30-2006, 06:54 PM #27
and yeh i just got photoshop lastnight and all i can say is that shit is scary as fvck how you can alter your appearance, but ive only had that happen once and it wasnt that serious, just an old pic case.
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09-30-2006, 10:55 PM #28Originally Posted by stunner5000pt
No, what she meant to say whas that they were uploaded a week ago but are from her Junior picture in highschool.
Truth be told, we all know you went after a fatty, it's ok, we understand times can get rough.
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10-01-2006, 12:55 AM #29
dont be a HOMO
online dating rocks
now be an e-man and go get em e-tiger!
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10-01-2006, 01:00 AM #30
200lbs? does she have a fat ass?
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10-01-2006, 01:06 AM #31
wtf is that man
why do chicks try to lie... like maybe a guy won't notice? Jeez.. I don't hide that i'm a fat aass... then again i dont' online date either
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10-01-2006, 01:10 AM #32Originally Posted by zimmy
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10-01-2006, 01:12 AM #33
It can go both ways. I've only met one girl online but fell in love with her. she fell in love with me and it was all good. we lasted a good part of a year before splitting up and still keep in touch. aaahhh young love.
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10-01-2006, 06:43 AM #34
must be older pics dude - i have given this advice before - always ask how recent the pics r, ask if she has a web cam - get her to even stand up to make sure the trunk aint full of too much jiggle.
I've meet a few ppl off line - had 3 long relationships from it even (2.5 yrs, 2 yrs, and well my current one actually saw me the day befor in the gym, just ended up msging me on line instead of actually coming up to me)
U gotta make sure the reality self matches the pics
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10-01-2006, 07:19 AM #35Originally Posted by Mizfit
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10-01-2006, 07:54 AM #36
burn in hell you bastard, i'm trying to loose weight..
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10-01-2006, 08:57 AM #37
I have alot of friends that have meet hot girls on myspace.
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10-01-2006, 09:53 AM #38
I guess the thing is when ppl look like their pics its cool.
I don't have a clue why someone would bother posting old pics or pics of someone else - besides it being wrong, the other person will asurely be disappointed and turn u down once u meet in person.
I don't think the few experiences i have had had ever been shocked by the real life me - but i also posted very recent pics and wasn't trying to be something i wasn't.
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10-01-2006, 09:54 AM #39Originally Posted by Foskamink
The one who saw me at the gym and msged me on a site the next day
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10-01-2006, 09:59 AM #40
FALSE ADVERTISING!!! I know a few girls on dating sites personally & I read their profiles & trust me...its nothing like the REAL person...its all a crap shoot...they say they are athletic & toned or average...WRONG. whatever they say..downgrade it one level...if they say athletic & toned-they are average.if they say they are average-they are "a few extra pounds"- it they say a few extra pounds--they are FAT....its a sales job basically & they are lookin for that commission check.
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