Family bullsh*t

**zodiac666** · 10-13-2006, 10:38 AM

Originally Posted by Carlos_E

Do you know Omie's family?

i agree, i dont have all the facts so i cant really be that helpful, but like i said in my post i am curious what exactly she told her sisters about him when they had their "bad breakup". obviously she was really mad at him when she was talking to her sisters so she would have said mostly negative things about him and then she gets back together with him and the only thing her sisters know about him is all the negative stuff she told them about him.

so like i said i dont have enough info to really be helpful, but i would like to know what she told her sisters about him

**taiboxa** · 10-13-2006, 10:40 AM

well.. i dont know her family but i love to judge people.. makes me feel better bout my self!

**Omie** · 10-13-2006, 03:10 PM

When we broke up, both my boyfriend and I said some very harsh things. However, none of it involved hitting each other or cheating on each other. And even though I told my sister's about this breakup drama, it did not involve anything unforgivable. Obviously, or we wouldn't be together. Their reaction to my boyfriend seems to stem mostly from their own bad choices and bad experiences in relationships. But all that crap that happened is in the past. I need to know what to do about what is happening now. I can't just write off my family, but I don't want to go running back to them, apologising for something I'm not really sorry for. But at the same time, it is hurting my parents by being stubborn. Thanks for all the advice. I appreciate it. I hate drama.

**taiboxa** · 10-13-2006, 03:24 PM

you could always higher a ninja to off them for ya?

**spywizard** · 10-13-2006, 08:35 PM

Originally Posted by Omie

When we broke up, both my boyfriend and I said some very harsh things. However, none of it involved hitting each other or cheating on each other. And even though I told my sister's about this breakup drama, it did not involve anything unforgivable. Obviously, or we wouldn't be together. .

and yet you and muriloninja use the same computer... with different log ons...??? HMmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm

**Panzerfaust** · 10-14-2006, 12:21 AM

What can i say..my g/f stalks me on here

**zodiac666** · 10-14-2006, 12:30 AM

Originally Posted by muriloninja

What can i say..my g/f stalks me on here

LMAO, but seriously you have no idea why her sisters hate you so much?

**Panzerfaust** · 10-14-2006, 01:40 AM

Originally Posted by zodiac666

LMAO, but seriously you have no idea why her sisters hate you so much?

I was not joking in what i said earlier...they have serious man hate issues, i don't ever associuate with them so i could care less but they are her sisters so she might wanna have some contact with them.

I never gave them any attention since day one i guess and they feel the world should revolve around them and i typically hate bitches like that so it was destiny for them to dislike me.

Anyways, no sweat off my sack.

**Omie** · 10-14-2006, 12:11 PM

and he wonders why I have so many issues with this bullsh*t? anybody else see it?

**GUnit33** · 10-14-2006, 12:25 PM

Is it just me or when tai comes into a thread, it instantly gets jacked for about half of it, than when Miz comes to the rescue it gets back on track...it's becoming a trend...either Miz or Carlos to the rescue these days.

**notorious_mem** · 10-14-2006, 12:29 PM

i personally hate my sister in law.i doubt that helps anything but i definatly feel better now.

**gixxerboy1** · 10-14-2006, 12:46 PM

Originally Posted by muriloninja

I was not joking in what i said earlier...they have serious man hate issues, i don't ever associuate with them so i could care less but they are her sisters so she might wanna have some contact with them.

I never gave them any attention since day one i guess and they feel the world should revolve around them and i typically hate bitches like that so it was destiny for them to dislike me.

Anyways, no sweat off my sack.

Sounds like you have woman issues too. Not a good combo if they have man issues. Someone has to be the bigger person.

**gixxerboy1** · 10-14-2006, 12:47 PM

Also if my sister told me her boyfriend called her some really bad stuff. I would hate him too.

**zodiac666** · 10-14-2006, 12:50 PM

Originally Posted by muriloninja

I was not joking in what i said earlier...they have serious man hate issues, i don't ever associuate with them so i could care less but they are her sisters so she might wanna have some contact with them.

I never gave them any attention since day one i guess and they feel the world should revolve around them and i typically hate bitches like that so it was destiny for them to dislike me.

Anyways, no sweat off my sack.

if i were you i would definitely try to make it a habit to be nice to them, and if they act like hateful bitches just smile and say have a nice day. definitely dont argue with them when you are around them though, it'll just make the situation worse.

it is healthy for someone to have a good relationship with their immediate family. the spouse, or serious girlfriend/boyfriend, should always come first, but if possible you should almost always try to maintain some sort of relationship with the people you were raised with. think if the situation was reversed and you had two siblings who hated your girlfriend and wouldnt talk to you because of her. personally i could never forget about my family completely.

**Carlos_E** · 10-14-2006, 06:42 PM

Originally Posted by muriloninja

What can i say..my g/f stalks me on here

I knew you have the same IP, I just kept my mouth shut.

**Panzerfaust** · 10-15-2006, 03:00 AM

Originally Posted by Carlos_E

I knew you have the same IP, I just kept my mouth shut.

What a genius we have here folks...

Anyway's, i never talk to them so technically i am not hateful to them at all.

**notanormalgent** · 10-15-2006, 03:59 AM

Tell us about your bf, what kind of job does he have, does he do drugs, etc.

**Panzerfaust** · 10-15-2006, 06:20 AM

^^^

**NightTrain** · 10-15-2006, 07:02 AM

Tell us about your bf, what kind of job does he have, does he do drugs, etc.

well do you muriloninja ??????????

**Tock** · 10-15-2006, 10:56 PM

Originally Posted by Omie

I'm pretty new on this forum. I've read a lot of posts, but never posted. I noticed that sometimes you guys give some really good advice on life issues. I have an issue.

I have two sisters and currently we are not talking to each other. To make a long story short, they don't like my boyfriend of about a year and a half. They both hate men, generally. Pretty messed up. I was told to choose between living with my boyfriend or living rent free on my older sisters property, I chose my boyfriend. Both sister's came over to my house, I ended up trading some blows with one of them because she told me to, "get the dick out of my mouth."and to "stop being such a ****." Problem is they have cut my parents off of communication as well. My parents are pretty hurt about that. This is obviously only my side of the story, but everyone wants me to be the "bigger person." and apologize for all this sh*t, exept my boyfriend, of course. What would you do?

Well, you have your life to live, and that's what you should do. Your sisters, IMHO, are being unreasonable by using free rent to try to control your decisions.
I don't see what you have to apologize for, so unless you stepped out of bounds, I wouldn't worry about that. And as far as the rest of your family goes, they make their own decisions about who's going to talk to who, so it's not really any of your business what they decide to do, which means it's not your fault, either. You might have the occasional opportunity to encourage your sisters to talk to your parents, and you can always console your folks over your sister's decision to not talk to them, but that's really about it.

From what you've written, I'd say you're doing just fine, and there's nothing more you could or should do. Let your other family members work out their issues, enjoy the relationship you have with your boyfriend, and I hope you live happily ever after . . .

-Tock

**Panzerfaust** · 10-16-2006, 04:01 AM

Originally Posted by Tock

Well, you have your life to live, and that's what you should do. Your sisters, IMHO, are being unreasonable by using free rent to try to control your decisions.
I don't see what you have to apologize for, so unless you stepped out of bounds, I wouldn't worry about that. And as far as the rest of your family goes, they make their own decisions about who's going to talk to who, so it's not really any of your business what they decide to do, which means it's not your fault, either. You might have the occasional opportunity to encourage your sisters to talk to your parents, and you can always console your folks over your sister's decision to not talk to them, but that's really about it.

From what you've written, I'd say you're doing just fine, and there's nothing more you could or should do. Let your other family members work out their issues, enjoy the relationship you have with your boyfriend, and I hope you live happily ever after . . .

-Tock

You are a very smart man...i agree 100%