4 year GF gone

[DSM4Life]

she says i am the best boyfriend ever, she is still in love with me. The deal is she feels/knows we wont get married, which kind of hurts. So she called it off

There have been a lot of us that have been there do a search.

I know you are looking for someone to tell you how to make it better but in the end there is nothing that anyone is going to say that makes the pain go away. The only thing that will do that is time.

Good luck man, i know its hard.


P.S

If you really loved this girl which after 4 years i am sure you did , it's normal not to want to run out and just start banging other chicks. And when you first do you might do the compare thing. Its going to happen but you slowly get over it.

[l2elapse]

hmm maybe she wouldn't have felt that way if you weren't ready to leave her for 2 years

shes the one that initially started telling me to go on it

[LatinoPR]

i wasnt actually going to cut myself. Its from the movie Click i used to describe my sadness. I know suicide is the dumbest thing ever

Thanks God,i was worry about you,...do this cuz it work....do your best trainning program ever cuz the next girl is going to be better than your ex g/f,just get ready for her...!!! it realy work,. i got a new g/f and we are planing to buy a house together...





LPR.

[legobricks]

holy SMOKES batman!!! What is the deal with all these breakups??? Is is break up season or something? Hahaha, i know what your going thru bro. My Ex fiance broke up with me bout 4 weeks ago. To top that off she was with one of my "best" buds. I dont talk to him anymore and if i see him he will be an ugly shithead after i break his face...anyways....AND to top that off I was taking Dbol and test. Well, my appetite was complete SHIT i didnt eat at all for 2 days and every time i did eat i felt like throwing up. suck it up and think of gaining muscle as I did. Think of impressing every girl you see. That pulled me thru and was back on my 4000 cal diet within a week. I got scared of losing muscle so i focused on that. Watching Ronnie coleman vids with his "lightweight" sayin also helped hahahah! things WILL get better. you will have fun like I am and WILL get the girls. its great bro, enjoy it while you can! Hope you start feeling better cus everytime i think about my ex i kinda get all sad again but then the next hottie that walks by me always cheers me up!

[AnabolicBoy1981]

dont kill yourself. just take it one day at a time.
i was so depressed i wanted to join the marines, so that way i could at least kill others that deserved it in the process of being killed myself.
But anyway, just relax and start each day saying. "Today may be horrrible, but just for today i will not kill myself". it seriously helps.

[Sage]

everytime i think about my ex i kinda get all sad again but then the next hottie that walks by me always cheers me up!

true that

[carguy_z28]

I hear ya bro, Like so many people here said, its not worth it, I learned the hard way, Me and about 5 of my military friends went to a bar, and I seen my then GF making out with some guy on the dance floor, her legs wrapped around him and everything, It was her ex, So, I went to my car grabbed my tire iron and was going to smash his FUC*ING inbred head, but my friends wouldnt let me, It took a long time to cool off, but when I did, I realized it was for the better. Good thing to, Id have killed the fat slob. and for what? A little whore that cant keep her legs closed!? Theres lots of girls out there, Im not dating a new girl and Ive never been treated better. Head up man, youll be fine.

[l2elapse]

im still sad = [

[Foskamink]

dont kill yourself. just take it one day at a time.
i was so depressed i wanted to join the marines, so that way i could at least kill others that deserved it in the process of being killed myself.
But anyway, just relax and start each day saying. "Today may be horrrible, but just for today i will not kill myself". it seriously helps.

thats funny

[king6]

dont kill yourself. just take it one day at a time.
i was so depressed i wanted to join the marines, so that way i could at least kill others that deserved it in the process of being killed myself.
But anyway, just relax and start each day saying. "Today may be horrrible, but just for today i will not kill myself". it seriously helps.

That's actually not funny. You can't compare breaking up with a girl to the sh!t that I saw. That stuff will mess you up for life.

Don't feel bad bro, no one says you will get over her overnight. Is she seeing anyone?

Seems like there are more and more threads everyday about girl problems and breakups. Tis the season I guess.

[kloter1]

relationships are fun but in the end someone always gets hurt. i prefer freinds with benefits so you dont have to deal with all the other crap.

[bigbouncinballs]

what doesn't kill ya makes you stronger... if it was easy it wouldn't mean anything. you're learning the lesson as we speak.

[lucabratzi]

im still sad = [

brutha u will be for a while...its normal...i hope u feal better soon cause the worst pain is emotional pain...think of it this way...u might have felt like u hit rock bottom when u felt that initial pain, but everyday will be better from then on...man i keep readin all these threads and im scared for when it happens to me...im so happy with my gf now and u never think anything bad will happen to you till it does...anyways keep ur head up...go out with ur boys and enjoy yourself...

[Panzerfaust]

Bro, thinks might seem real bad at the moment but believe me they'll work out. Breakups are a part of life.

Focus on the positive, go hit some ass.

When you have been in a relationship as long as him or me (just broke up after 2yrs) going out and banging another chick is not the first thing on your mind.

At least it would'nt be if you truly loved your g/f..i know i do and i don't wanna go out and sleep around. I am just going to get back into kick ass shape.

[abstrack]

Fuc it. Probably the best thing to happen to you. Everything happens for a reason, you just dont know why which is the reason why you are feeling shitty.

I would take this as an opportunity to make your life better with someone else.

Dont listen to her BS about you are the best BF ever. If that was the case she would have never broke up with you. She is just trying to make things seem as if they are not that bad to you. She most likely cares about you, but it is friends from here on out.

Move on and find somebody that is right for you. Another one will come along. Believe me!

[l2elapse]

When you have been in a relationship as long as him or me (just broke up after 2yrs) going out and banging another chick is not the first thing on your mind.

At least it would'nt be if you truly loved your g/f..i know i do and i don't wanna go out and sleep around. I am just going to get back into kick ass shape.

exactly, i dont even want to think about girls for a while

[prncezzml]

Agreed! Go bone her best friend!

LOL wayyyyy to much testosterone on this board! Why guys even post their relationship problems on this board I will never know....

It will be ok justin, sulking in your misery is normal for awhile, then you will get over it and move on and meet someone else. Just don't kill yourself

[king6]

LOL wayyyyy to much testosterone on this board!

Well, it is a steroid forum.

[goodcents]

im still sad = [

Sorry it seemed funny at the time. I know how it is, it took me along time to get over my girl of 2 1/2 years. But fuking alot of dark tanned chics just kind of takes my mind off it You just have to get cold towards life and then you can get all the chics you can handle ( it sucks that a good guy gets fuked over but who are we to change the rules of the game ) American chics suck (and not in the good way)



















I'm not bitter at all

[king6]

exactly, i dont even want to think about girls for a while

I know how you feel bro, sometimes life is not fair. We can't always have what we want. Be strong, time heals all.

[goodcents]

Use these chics just like they use us One day you will wake up and just say "fuk the world" love that Tupac song

[RA]

welp we just broke up, think im going to the restroom to slit my wrists. life blows

Over a woman?

Six months from now your going to be so happy your rid of her. Just keep your chin up and go kick some ass in the gym

[goodcents]

Haha, what you say?
Who you callin rapist? Ain't that a bitch
You devils, are so two faceted
Wanna see me locked in chains, dropped in shame
and gettin stalked by these crooked cops a-gain
****in with the young black male, tryin to stack mail
and umm, stay away from the packed jails
I told the judge I'm in danger
and that's why I had that fo'-five with one in the chamber
**** the world!

[Chorus: 2Pac]

{They tryin to say that I don't care}
I woke up screamin, "**** the world!"
{They tryin to say that I don't care}
Just woke up and screamed, "**** the world!"
{They tryin to say that I don't care}
Uhh, I woke up and screamed, "**** the world!"
{They're tryin to say that I don't care}
Just got up and screamed, "**** the world!"

[2Pac]
When I was comin up rough that wasn't even what you called it
That's why I smoke blunts now and run with alcoholics
I'm gettin, threats to me, comin from my enemies
And, in they dreams it's, Hell where they sendin me
Have I, lost control or just another soul
A car full of mother****ers when we roll
Sippin on yak as I sit back (YES!) life as a big mack
Brothers come up and say, "You did that?" {uhh, uhh, uhh}
Never take yo' eyes off the prize, and even if you gettin high
don't ever hesitate to try
Cause you can fall off or stay ballin, niggaz we all in
And them my mother****ers callin {ohh, ohh, ohh}
**** the world!

[Chorus: 2Pac]

{They tryin to say that I don't care}
I woke up and screamed, "**** the world!"
{They tryin to say that I don't care}
Just woke up and screamed, "**** the world!"
{They tryin to say that I don't care}
I got up and screamed, "**** the world!"
{They tryin to say that I don't care}
I woke up and screamed, "**** the world!"
{They tryin to say that I don't care}

[2Pac]
Man, **** the world..
Damn, they wanna label me a menace
cause I'm sittin here sippin on Guinness
Weighin 165, and these tricks should die
for bein jealous of a brother when he rides
I can see it in yo' eyes, you wanna see a young playa fallin
They hate to see a nigga ballin
Some of you suckers is rottin, plottin on what I got
And then you wonder why I shot him (boo-ya!)
Stop givin game for free, you wanna hang with me
like being a thug is the thang to be?
But I got love for my homies, the G's and macks
And if you're black, you better stay strapped
Nigga, **** the world!

[Chorus: 2Pac]

{They tryin to say that I don't care}
I woke up and screamed, "**** the world!"
{They try to say that I don't care}
I woke up and screamed, "**** the world!"
{They tryin to say that I don't care}
Got up and screamed, "**** the world!"

Haha, **** the world! **** it
I hear my niggaz screamin **** the world!

[2Pac]
They wanna know if I claim the click, that I'm hangin with
and if I'm down with this bangin shit
Well homie I don't give a **** if you Blood or Cuz
Long as ya got love for thugs
But don't try to test me out, stall that
Homie this is Thug Life nigga and we all strapped
I been through, Hell and back, and if I, fell black
then it's, back to the corner where we sell crack
Some of you niggaz is bustas; you runnin 'round
with these tramp=ass bitches, don't trust her
But don't cry, this world ain't prepared for us
A straight thug mother****er who ain't scared to bust
**** the world!

[Chorus: 2Pac Humpty Hump/Shock G]

{They tryin to say that I don't care}
I woke up and screamed, "**** the world!"
{They're tryin to say that I don't care}
I woke up screamin, "**** the world!" [Uhh!]
{They tryin to say that I don't care}
{They tryin to say that I don't care}
I woke up screamin, "**** the world!"
{Yeah what's goin on y'all?}
{Uhh, uhh, uhh..} **** the world!

[Shock G singing ]
I don't care.. I don't care, I don't care! [fades]

[DSM4Life]

Haha, what you say?
Who you callin rapist? Ain't that a bitch
You devils, are so two faceted
Wanna see me locked in chains, dropped in shame
and gettin stalked by these crooked cops a-gain
****in with the young black male, tryin to stack mail
and umm, stay away from the packed jails
I told the judge I'm in danger
and that's why I had that fo'-five with one in the chamber
**** the world!

[Chorus: 2Pac]

{They tryin to say that I don't care}
I woke up screamin, "**** the world!"
{They tryin to say that I don't care}
Just woke up and screamed, "**** the world!"
{They tryin to say that I don't care}
Uhh, I woke up and screamed, "**** the world!"
{They're tryin to say that I don't care}
Just got up and screamed, "**** the world!"

[2Pac]
When I was comin up rough that wasn't even what you called it
That's why I smoke blunts now and run with alcoholics
I'm gettin, threats to me, comin from my enemies
And, in they dreams it's, Hell where they sendin me
Have I, lost control or just another soul
A car full of mother****ers when we roll
Sippin on yak as I sit back (YES!) life as a big mack
Brothers come up and say, "You did that?" {uhh, uhh, uhh}
Never take yo' eyes off the prize, and even if you gettin high
don't ever hesitate to try
Cause you can fall off or stay ballin, niggaz we all in
And them my mother****ers callin {ohh, ohh, ohh}
**** the world!

[Chorus: 2Pac]

{They tryin to say that I don't care}
I woke up and screamed, "**** the world!"
{They tryin to say that I don't care}
Just woke up and screamed, "**** the world!"
{They tryin to say that I don't care}
I got up and screamed, "**** the world!"
{They tryin to say that I don't care}
I woke up and screamed, "**** the world!"
{They tryin to say that I don't care}

[2Pac]
Man, **** the world..
Damn, they wanna label me a menace
cause I'm sittin here sippin on Guinness
Weighin 165, and these tricks should die
for bein jealous of a brother when he rides
I can see it in yo' eyes, you wanna see a young playa fallin
They hate to see a nigga ballin
Some of you suckers is rottin, plottin on what I got
And then you wonder why I shot him (boo-ya!)
Stop givin game for free, you wanna hang with me
like being a thug is the thang to be?
But I got love for my homies, the G's and macks
And if you're black, you better stay strapped
Nigga, **** the world!

[Chorus: 2Pac]

{They tryin to say that I don't care}
I woke up and screamed, "**** the world!"
{They try to say that I don't care}
I woke up and screamed, "**** the world!"
{They tryin to say that I don't care}
Got up and screamed, "**** the world!"

Haha, **** the world! **** it
I hear my niggaz screamin **** the world!

[2Pac]
They wanna know if I claim the click, that I'm hangin with
and if I'm down with this bangin shit
Well homie I don't give a **** if you Blood or Cuz
Long as ya got love for thugs
But don't try to test me out, stall that
Homie this is Thug Life nigga and we all strapped
I been through, Hell and back, and if I, fell black
then it's, back to the corner where we sell crack
Some of you niggaz is bustas; you runnin 'round
with these tramp=ass bitches, don't trust her
But don't cry, this world ain't prepared for us
A straight thug mother****er who ain't scared to bust
**** the world!

[Chorus: 2Pac Humpty Hump/Shock G]

{They tryin to say that I don't care}
I woke up and screamed, "**** the world!"
{They're tryin to say that I don't care}
I woke up screamin, "**** the world!" [Uhh!]
{They tryin to say that I don't care}
{They tryin to say that I don't care}
I woke up screamin, "**** the world!"
{Yeah what's goin on y'all?}
{Uhh, uhh, uhh..} **** the world!

[Shock G singing ]
I don't care.. I don't care, I don't care! [fades]

.....now i am going to slit my wrist

[king6]

.....now i am going to slit my wrist

Get in line.

[dhriscerr]

Be happy man, atleast it didnt last and you get married!!! Ive got 5 friends that got married within 6 months of me and 3 of them already got divorced and 1 is in councilling. Im the only one still doing good, and i probably regreted getting married the most

[1819]

you should be happy you broke up. 4 year girlfriend? they can throw ya in jail for that sick sh*t!! j/k

[goodcents]

you should be happy you broke up. 4 year girlfriend? they can throw ya in jail for that sick sh*t!! j/k

He went there

[goodcents]

We are a helpful bunch (you just have to start laughing when a chic leaves you, because they are laughing it up while they are fuking the next guy)

[RA]

Maybe you should slice your forearm a little first. Wear it for a week, see how how you like it before you get to the wrist

[Doc.Sust]

Thats where Im at......completely numb...Ive been seein the new girl for about a month now and I dont feel a single thing for her, or for anyone really...I honestly feel dead emotionally at the moment. Me and my girl broke up after many many many years and she lived with me...Not an easy thing, probably the hardest thing I ever been through in my life to date, and I lost 15lbs during the ordeal... Keep your chin up bro, it will get better with time..Keep yourself occupied and focus on you, reinvent yourself. Once I started to get back on my feet I took a higher paying job, focused on college again, bought new clothes, and Im buyin a new car this week. All things to make me feel better about myself. Oh yea, and I started a cycle, Lol...

good advice. it will get better for both of you

[Doc.Sust]

Haha, what you say?
Who you callin rapist? Ain't that a bitch
You devils, are so two faceted
Wanna see me locked in chains, dropped in shame
and gettin stalked by these crooked cops a-gain
****in with the young black male, tryin to stack mail
and umm, stay away from the packed jails
I told the judge I'm in danger
and that's why I had that fo'-five with one in the chamber
**** the world!

[Chorus: 2Pac]

{They tryin to say that I don't care}
I woke up screamin, "**** the world!"
{They tryin to say that I don't care}
Just woke up and screamed, "**** the world!"
{They tryin to say that I don't care}
Uhh, I woke up and screamed, "**** the world!"
{They're tryin to say that I don't care}
Just got up and screamed, "**** the world!"

[2Pac]
When I was comin up rough that wasn't even what you called it
That's why I smoke blunts now and run with alcoholics
I'm gettin, threats to me, comin from my enemies
And, in they dreams it's, Hell where they sendin me
Have I, lost control or just another soul
A car full of mother****ers when we roll
Sippin on yak as I sit back (YES!) life as a big mack
Brothers come up and say, "You did that?" {uhh, uhh, uhh}
Never take yo' eyes off the prize, and even if you gettin high
don't ever hesitate to try
Cause you can fall off or stay ballin, niggaz we all in
And them my mother****ers callin {ohh, ohh, ohh}
**** the world!

[Chorus: 2Pac]

{They tryin to say that I don't care}
I woke up and screamed, "**** the world!"
{They tryin to say that I don't care}
Just woke up and screamed, "**** the world!"
{They tryin to say that I don't care}
I got up and screamed, "**** the world!"
{They tryin to say that I don't care}
I woke up and screamed, "**** the world!"
{They tryin to say that I don't care}

[2Pac]
Man, **** the world..
Damn, they wanna label me a menace
cause I'm sittin here sippin on Guinness
Weighin 165, and these tricks should die
for bein jealous of a brother when he rides
I can see it in yo' eyes, you wanna see a young playa fallin
They hate to see a nigga ballin
Some of you suckers is rottin, plottin on what I got
And then you wonder why I shot him (boo-ya!)
Stop givin game for free, you wanna hang with me
like being a thug is the thang to be?
But I got love for my homies, the G's and macks
And if you're black, you better stay strapped
Nigga, **** the world!

[Chorus: 2Pac]

{They tryin to say that I don't care}
I woke up and screamed, "**** the world!"
{They try to say that I don't care}
I woke up and screamed, "**** the world!"
{They tryin to say that I don't care}
Got up and screamed, "**** the world!"

Haha, **** the world! **** it
I hear my niggaz screamin **** the world!

[2Pac]
They wanna know if I claim the click, that I'm hangin with
and if I'm down with this bangin shit
Well homie I don't give a **** if you Blood or Cuz
Long as ya got love for thugs
But don't try to test me out, stall that
Homie this is Thug Life nigga and we all strapped
I been through, Hell and back, and if I, fell black
then it's, back to the corner where we sell crack
Some of you niggaz is bustas; you runnin 'round
with these tramp=ass bitches, don't trust her
But don't cry, this world ain't prepared for us
A straight thug mother****er who ain't scared to bust
**** the world!

[Chorus: 2Pac Humpty Hump/Shock G]

{They tryin to say that I don't care}
I woke up and screamed, "**** the world!"
{They're tryin to say that I don't care}
I woke up screamin, "**** the world!" [Uhh!]
{They tryin to say that I don't care}
{They tryin to say that I don't care}
I woke up screamin, "**** the world!"
{Yeah what's goin on y'all?}
{Uhh, uhh, uhh..} **** the world!

[Shock G singing ]
I don't care.. I don't care, I don't care! [fades]

this post made me throw up a little in my mouth out of utter disgust for how it has absolutely nothing to do with the topic!WTF?!?!?!

[Doc.Sust]

im still sad = [

it is ok to be sad when you lose someone, but it alwys gets better. give it time

[1819]

We are a helpful bunch (you just have to start laughing when a chic leaves you, because they are laughing it up while they are fuking the next guy)

i usually feel sorry for the next guy. his headache now.

[goodcents]

this post made me throw up a little in my mouth out of utter disgust for how it has absolutely nothing to do with the topic!WTF?!?!?!

Just makes me not care about the little things in life like break ups, bad days, etc.





ps, meanie

[B-STRONG]

I dated a girl for 7 years and she cheated on me with a hippy during a family crises. Here are some helpful hints for the break up
1)stop comparing all girls to her
2)No contact at all for a few months at least
3)Dont make her shit a priority since she made you a option
4)Dont take her back ex's are ex's for a reason.

Life goes on it sucks but its not the end of the world, good luck

I agree. Especially #1, when me and my girl broke up, all i could ever do was compare her to other girls i got with...definitely did not help the situation. Also, no contact is really hard to pull off, but if you can it works the best. It's helped me out in some pretty tough times, cuz hearing her voice or seeing her puts you back at square one. Good luck bro. -B-STRONG

[PaRiS2005]

Dude, black your eyes, and start a band...you are SO emo!

OK, I'm sorry dude. But CHILL! This is one girl. The only reason you think you can't do any better is because you haven't experience anything else. I dated a guy for 2 years and I thought he was the one. NOW, I'm dating someone who is SO much better, and I thank God for him. Sometimes, you have walk along a broken road, before you find the right path that leads you to the right woman.

[goodcents]

Dude, black your eyes, and start a band...you are SO emo!

OK, I'm sorry dude. But CHILL! This is one girl. The only reason you think you can't do any better is because you haven't experience anything else. I dated a guy for 2 years and I thought he was the one. NOW, I'm dating someone who is SO much better, and I thank God for him. Sometimes, you have walk along a broken road, before you find the right path that leads you to the right woman.

Here lies the problem, girls can always just find someone else guys can't just hook up when ever they feel like it. Girls just go "ok, I'll take him" We can't look at a hot chic and go "Maybe I'll take that one" we have to play fuking games, listen to their crap and maybe we can hook up

[PaRiS2005]

Here lies the problem, girls can always just find someone else guys can't just hook up when ever they feel like it. Girls just go "ok, I'll take him" We can't look at a hot chic and go "Maybe I'll take that one" we have to play fuking games, listen to their crap and maybe we can hook up

BAH! I hate games. Not to say that I don't play them, all females do.

In an ideal world we would all be straightforward and avoid the b.s., but that doesn't happen. Instead, we are stuck hiding our feelings for fear of getting hurt and being rejected. WTF!

[goodcents]

BAH! I hate games. Not to say that I don't play them, all females do.

In an ideal world we would all be straightforward and avoid the b.s., but that doesn't happen. Instead, we are stuck hiding are feeling for fear of getting hurt and being rejected. WTF!

Get it all out there baby *goodcents pours tea and offers tissue*