Page 1 of 3 123 LastLast
Results 1 to 40 of 84

Thread: 4 year GF gone

  1. #1
    l2elapse's Avatar
    l2elapse is offline That don't kill me, can only make me stronger
    Join Date
    Mar 2006
    Location
    Texas
    Posts
    6,330

    4 year GF gone

    welp we just broke up, think im going to the restroom to slit my wrists. life blows

  2. #2
    Deluge1 is offline Junior Member
    Join Date
    Mar 2006
    Posts
    145
    Quote Originally Posted by justinandrews7
    welp we just broke up, think im going to the restroom to slit my wrists. life blows
    Bro, thinks might seem real bad at the moment but believe me they'll work out. Breakups are a part of life.

    Focus on the positive, go hit some ass.

  3. #3
    dan991's Avatar
    dan991 is offline Anabolic Member
    Join Date
    Oct 2004
    Posts
    2,943
    Quote Originally Posted by Deluge1

    Focus on the positive, go hit some ass.
    Agreed! Go bone her best friend!

  4. #4
    IronReload04's Avatar
    IronReload04 is offline "Rancid Protein Powder Mastermind Technician"
    Join Date
    Jun 2004
    Location
    everywhere and nowhere
    Posts
    5,622
    Quote Originally Posted by elvisinturn1
    Agreed! Go bone her best friend!
    **** that shit

    put an s on the end of freind and do em at the same time

  5. #5
    xlxBigSexyxlx's Avatar
    xlxBigSexyxlx is offline CHEMICALLY ENGINEERED
    Join Date
    Sep 2006
    Posts
    13,966
    Blog Entries
    2
    shit happens and ev1 breaks up...so it seems.

    There is so much more poon out there. Plus, she obviously isnt "the one".

    good luck with everything.

  6. #6
    Deluge1 is offline Junior Member
    Join Date
    Mar 2006
    Posts
    145
    Quote Originally Posted by xlxBigSexyxlx
    shit happens and ev1 breaks up...so it seems.

    There is so much more poon out there. Plus, she obviously isnt "the one".

    good luck with everything.

    True story.

    There are 3 BILLION women in the world. Repeat then until you feel better.

  7. #7
    l2elapse's Avatar
    l2elapse is offline That don't kill me, can only make me stronger
    Join Date
    Mar 2006
    Location
    Texas
    Posts
    6,330
    Quote Originally Posted by Deluge1
    True story.

    There are 3 BILLION women in the world. Repeat then until you feel better.
    true, but i can have 2.99 billion people. I cant have this one though

  8. #8
    Deluge1 is offline Junior Member
    Join Date
    Mar 2006
    Posts
    145
    Quote Originally Posted by justinandrews7
    true, but i can have 2.99 billion people. I cant have this one though
    You really want the broad back?

    Pay NO attention whatsoever, go have the time of your life...all day everyday. And MAKE sure she hears about it. Make sure she thinks you're wheelin other broads as well - even if you're not. Don't be needy, don't be clingy, act like it was the best thing that ever happened to you.

    Wait for her to come to you....YOU'RE the prize.

    And if she doesn't....well you're already on your way to moving past it.

  9. #9
    PROTEINSHAKE's Avatar
    PROTEINSHAKE is offline Protein Power
    Join Date
    Feb 2006
    Location
    somewhere
    Posts
    4,938
    just remember.... its just a girl man.... MILLIONS of people have gone thru MUCH worse that this....divorces involving kids etc.... stay strong & you will be ok.... round up some buddies & go out clubbin tonite.

  10. #10
    scriptfactory's Avatar
    scriptfactory is offline Anabolic Member
    Join Date
    Jul 2004
    Location
    Germany
    Posts
    1,553
    I say forget about the clubs and forget about other women for a while. Find what puts YOU at peace. When you are at peace with yourself good things happen. It took me a long time to figure that out.

    You will find your way. Suicide is NEVER the answer.

  11. #11
    cfiler's Avatar
    cfiler is offline Anabolic Member
    Join Date
    Jul 2003
    Location
    Training my ninja Degu
    Posts
    7,185
    There's lots of women out there, don't stress over this one.

    BTW, not to flame, but your whole "I'm gonna cut myself" thing is so emo. Come on, don't wimp out like that. Stand up, put on a smile, and go have a one night stand with some chick. Go hang out with your friends. Or do something that he didn't want you to do. Like sky dive, buy a motorcycle, see some strippers, ect.

  12. #12
    l2elapse's Avatar
    l2elapse is offline That don't kill me, can only make me stronger
    Join Date
    Mar 2006
    Location
    Texas
    Posts
    6,330
    i wasnt actually going to cut myself. Its from the movie Click i used to describe my sadness. I know suicide is the dumbest thing ever

  13. #13
    scriptfactory's Avatar
    scriptfactory is offline Anabolic Member
    Join Date
    Jul 2004
    Location
    Germany
    Posts
    1,553
    Quote Originally Posted by justinandrews7
    i wasnt actually going to cut myself. Its from the movie Click i used to describe my sadness. I know suicide is the dumbest thing ever
    Glad to hear that. I've been so depressed in the past that it didn't seem all that stupid and for many people it actually seems like a viable answer to all their problems.

    Click is a great movie, BTW. I need that remote!

  14. #14
    KINGKONG's Avatar
    KINGKONG is offline Knowledgeable Member
    Join Date
    Apr 2004
    Location
    Outside the walls
    Posts
    4,266
    Took me a good year to get over my ex..Time heals all wounds..

  15. #15
    PrairieDawg's Avatar
    PrairieDawg is offline Senior Member
    Join Date
    Mar 2004
    Location
    Canada
    Posts
    1,884
    Depending on the type of person you are going out and banging other girls right away isn't always the answer. I did that after me and my ex broke up and it just made me feel worse. I found going out and partying with my buddies and just forgeting about chicks helped me more than anything.

    Surprisingly, later on with that attitude, when I was ready, I was getting laid every weekend by a different chick it seemed. Things get way better bro I promise.

  16. #16
    Sage's Avatar
    Sage is offline Anabolic Member
    Join Date
    Oct 2003
    Location
    SAGEVILLE City
    Posts
    2,147
    i know the feeling homeboy, but u will bounce back up and probably remain numb emotionally after that for awhile when comes to women or in general.

  17. #17
    scriptfactory's Avatar
    scriptfactory is offline Anabolic Member
    Join Date
    Jul 2004
    Location
    Germany
    Posts
    1,553
    Quote Originally Posted by PrairieDawg
    Depending on the type of person you are going out and banging other girls right away isn't always the answer. I did that after me and my ex broke up and it just made me feel worse. I found going out and partying with my buddies and just forgeting about chicks helped me more than anything.

    Surprisingly, later on with that attitude, when I was ready, I was getting laid every weekend by a different chick it seemed. Things get way better bro I promise.
    Exactly my point. Promiscuous sex oftens makes things worse, not better.

  18. #18
    STYLE74's Avatar
    STYLE74 is offline Got Style?
    Join Date
    May 2006
    Location
    Queens BITCH!!!!!!!!!!
    Posts
    5,158
    Quote Originally Posted by scriptfactory
    I say forget about the clubs and forget about other women for a while. Find what puts YOU at peace. When you are at peace with yourself good things happen. It took me a long time to figure that out.

    You will find your way. Suicide is NEVER the answer.
    Very good advice!!

  19. #19
    thegodfather's Avatar
    thegodfather is offline Dulce bellum inexpertis
    Join Date
    Nov 2004
    Location
    Middle East
    Posts
    3,511
    Quote Originally Posted by Sage
    i know the feeling homeboy, but u will bounce back up and probably remain numb emotionally after that for awhile when comes to women or in general.

    Thats where Im at......completely numb...Ive been seein the new girl for about a month now and I dont feel a single thing for her, or for anyone really...I honestly feel dead emotionally at the moment. Me and my girl broke up after many many many years and she lived with me...Not an easy thing, probably the hardest thing I ever been through in my life to date, and I lost 15lbs during the ordeal... Keep your chin up bro, it will get better with time..Keep yourself occupied and focus on you, reinvent yourself. Once I started to get back on my feet I took a higher paying job, focused on college again, bought new clothes, and Im buyin a new car this week. All things to make me feel better about myself. Oh yea, and I started a cycle, Lol...

  20. #20
    Hunter's Avatar
    Hunter is offline Grateful
    Join Date
    Dec 2005
    Location
    North dakota
    Posts
    3,576
    I dated a girl for 7 years and she cheated on me with a hippy during a family crises. Here are some helpful hints for the break up
    1)stop comparing all girls to her
    2)No contact at all for a few months at least
    3)Dont make her shit a priority since she made you a option
    4)Dont take her back ex's are ex's for a reason.

    Life goes on it sucks but its not the end of the world, good luck

  21. #21
    l2elapse's Avatar
    l2elapse is offline That don't kill me, can only make me stronger
    Join Date
    Mar 2006
    Location
    Texas
    Posts
    6,330
    Quote Originally Posted by thegodfather
    Thats where Im at......completely numb...Ive been seein the new girl for about a month now and I dont feel a single thing for her, or for anyone really...I honestly feel dead emotionally at the moment. Me and my girl broke up after many many many years and she lived with me...Not an easy thing, probably the hardest thing I ever been through in my life to date, and I lost 15lbs during the ordeal... Keep your chin up bro, it will get better with time..Keep yourself occupied and focus on you, reinvent yourself. Once I started to get back on my feet I took a higher paying job, focused on college again, bought new clothes, and Im buyin a new car this week. All things to make me feel better about myself. Oh yea, and I started a cycle, Lol...
    i cant feel the weight loss coming. its impossible for me to eat

  22. #22
    l2elapse's Avatar
    l2elapse is offline That don't kill me, can only make me stronger
    Join Date
    Mar 2006
    Location
    Texas
    Posts
    6,330
    sorry i meant i can feel*

  23. #23
    zodiac666's Avatar
    zodiac666 is offline Senior Member
    Join Date
    May 2006
    Location
    West Virginia
    Posts
    1,549
    i think just about everyone has gone through this, and like someone else said above time heals all wounds.

  24. #24
    taiboxa's Avatar
    taiboxa is offline "Vanity Redefined" ~VET~
    Join Date
    Feb 2005
    Location
    lol im not telling :D
    Posts
    29,198
    Quote Originally Posted by mn_fighter
    I dated a girl for 7 years and she cheated on me with a hippy during a family crises. Here are some helpful hints for the break up
    1)stop comparing all girls to her
    2)No contact at all for a few months at least
    3)Dont make her shit a priority since she made you a option
    4)Dont take her back ex's are ex's for a reason.
    Life goes on it sucks but its not the end of the world, good luck
    EXACTLY!!!
    beilve me im going through a ruff time (not so ruff kuz mizz is my bestest friend ever and is helping me immensley)

  25. #25
    needmorestrength's Avatar
    needmorestrength is offline Anabolic Member
    Join Date
    May 2004
    Location
    Canada eh
    Posts
    7,073
    ****... whats goin on with everyone.. Mine was of two years..... I feel your pain dude.. that guyu with a 7 year relationship had a great points though

  26. #26
    Hunter's Avatar
    Hunter is offline Grateful
    Join Date
    Dec 2005
    Location
    North dakota
    Posts
    3,576
    yeah we where together since the 7th grade would have been coming up on 8years it sucks but you get over it. I mean if it was meant to be it would be so, So in closing to the thread starter take off the dress and end this tea party

  27. #27
    lightwaytbaby's Avatar
    lightwaytbaby is offline "Anabolic Reviews Affliction"
    Join Date
    Jun 2004
    Location
    Donkey calf raises
    Posts
    5,559
    join the club bro's, 3 yeaRS here and just broke up.WTF is going on with all these psycho women???

  28. #28
    goodcents's Avatar
    goodcents is offline "body piercing & body jewelry expert"
    Join Date
    Dec 2004
    Location
    Playing w/ tits
    Posts
    5,742
    Women suck (and not in the good way)they can't feel what we feel, you really think they drive around with a sad cd and cry all night? (come on guys, we've all done this) How many women do you know that off-ed themselves over a guy, I dont know any, but knew a few guys that did over some pos girl or wife, hell I wanted to when my girl of 2 1/2 years left, fuked me up big time, I still can't trust women!

  29. #29
    KINGKONG's Avatar
    KINGKONG is offline Knowledgeable Member
    Join Date
    Apr 2004
    Location
    Outside the walls
    Posts
    4,266
    Quote Originally Posted by mn_fighter
    I dated a girl for 7 years and she cheated on me with a hippy during a family crises. Here are some helpful hints for the break up
    1)stop comparing all girls to her
    2)No contact at all for a few months at least
    3)Dont make her shit a priority since she made you a option
    4)Dont take her back ex's are ex's for a reason.

    Life goes on it sucks but its not the end of the world, good luck
    Good stuff!
    Fvcking hippy's..Mine ex is with a metrosexual..

  30. #30
    mavsluva's Avatar
    mavsluva is offline "Gone but not forgotten" 10/11/07
    Join Date
    Nov 2005
    Location
    Frisco, TX
    Posts
    1,360
    Hey Justin - isn't it you that is on your way out of town on a long mission trip?

  31. #31
    Bruce000's Avatar
    Bruce000 is offline Associate Member
    Join Date
    Sep 2006
    Location
    S.A
    Posts
    227
    Quote Originally Posted by thegodfather
    Thats where Im at......completely numb...Ive been seein the new girl for about a month now and I dont feel a single thing for her, or for anyone really...I honestly feel dead emotionally at the moment. Me and my girl broke up after many many many years and she lived with me...Not an easy thing, probably the hardest thing I ever been through in my life to date, and I lost 15lbs during the ordeal... Keep your chin up bro, it will get better with time..Keep yourself occupied and focus on you, reinvent yourself. Once I started to get back on my feet I took a higher paying job, focused on college again, bought new clothes, and Im buyin a new car this week. All things to make me feel better about myself. Oh yea, and I started a cycle, Lol...
    Nothing like a little retail therapy

  32. #32
    Chins is offline Junior Member
    Join Date
    Aug 2006
    Posts
    108
    Dude do a monster cycle.. GET BUFF AS SHIT and then bang everything in site next summer and have the summer of your life. If you make it that far before she comes crawling back when you look like a WWF wrestler

  33. #33
    Phreak101's Avatar
    Phreak101 is offline Anabolic Member
    Join Date
    Apr 2002
    Location
    Chicago
    Posts
    2,056
    It all sucks until you meet another sweet, kind girl and you get to experience the infatuation of extreme mututal attraction all over again, and life is beautiful! All the guys on here that get dumped are Jon Faverau's character in Swingers, I swear.

    And that movie rings true, everything sucks until you meet another person that just makes life better.

  34. #34
    Superhuman's Avatar
    Superhuman is offline Banned
    Join Date
    Mar 2004
    Location
    USA
    Posts
    3,762
    Hey Man, It's Your Choice To Go On This Mission Trip For 2 Freaking Years What Do You Expect???

  35. #35
    Superhuman's Avatar
    Superhuman is offline Banned
    Join Date
    Mar 2004
    Location
    USA
    Posts
    3,762
    If you truly loved her you would either stay with her or take her with you.

  36. #36
    l2elapse's Avatar
    l2elapse is offline That don't kill me, can only make me stronger
    Join Date
    Mar 2006
    Location
    Texas
    Posts
    6,330
    Quote Originally Posted by Superhuman
    Hey Man, It's Your Choice To Go On This Mission Trip For 2 Freaking Years What Do You Expect???
    nah bro i agree with you but thats not the reason she broke up with me, go figure huh?

  37. #37
    l2elapse's Avatar
    l2elapse is offline That don't kill me, can only make me stronger
    Join Date
    Mar 2006
    Location
    Texas
    Posts
    6,330
    Quote Originally Posted by mavsluva
    Hey Justin - isn't it you that is on your way out of town on a long mission trip?
    yeah thats me

  38. #38
    l2elapse's Avatar
    l2elapse is offline That don't kill me, can only make me stronger
    Join Date
    Mar 2006
    Location
    Texas
    Posts
    6,330
    Quote Originally Posted by Superhuman
    If you truly loved her you would either stay with her or take her with you.
    she says i am the best boyfriend ever, she is still in love with me. The deal is she feels/knows we wont get married, which kind of hurts. So she called it off

  39. #39
    Superhuman's Avatar
    Superhuman is offline Banned
    Join Date
    Mar 2004
    Location
    USA
    Posts
    3,762
    hmm maybe she wouldn't have felt that way if you weren't ready to leave her for 2 years

  40. #40
    Sage's Avatar
    Sage is offline Anabolic Member
    Join Date
    Oct 2003
    Location
    SAGEVILLE City
    Posts
    2,147
    Quote Originally Posted by Chins
    Dude do a monster cycle.. GET BUFF AS SHIT and then bang everything in site next summer and have the summer of your life. If you make it that far before she comes crawling back when you look like a WWF wrestler
    guilty as charged

Page 1 of 3 123 LastLast

Thread Information

Users Browsing this Thread

There are currently 1 users browsing this thread. (0 members and 1 guests)

Posting Permissions

  • You may not post new threads
  • You may not post replies
  • You may not post attachments
  • You may not edit your posts
  •