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    What makes you happy? I need help

    Sorry guys, i posted earlier how my gf and i split up. I dont know anything to do to make me happy. What makes you guys happy besides hooking up with chicks

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    Dude, go hit the gym!! Call up some of your buddies tonight, hit up a party and have a couple drinks, talk to women etc.

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    We could tell you what makes us happy but that wouldn't help you much, only you know what makes you happy. Just keep busy and don't think about it so much, you will get over it and meet someone else and everything will be fine. Like Audis said meet some buddies, go to the gym and just surround yourself with people who are close to you and people you love, when i'm feeling a little down i try to meet up with friends and EAT.

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    Hit the gym. Always relieves the stress from the day for me.

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    drinking makes me happy but i cant drink right now

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    If you wanna get your break up out of your head try and help someone else acheive something don't be so inwardly focused and help someone else.

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    Nothing cures a bad break up like a strange peice of horozontal refreshment

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    my advice is to keep busy and fill up your time with things that keep your mind moving. i had a gf of 3 years that i broke up with 6 months ago or so. it sucked but on the posotive side, it let me clear my head and focus on things i couldnt b4

    find some things you are passionate about and focus on them. i recently graduated school and got a job as a commercial real estate broker, so i now have the time to work late, research, and read books/articles on my career to be better at what i do. $$$$$

    try a new workout plan...if you used to go 5 days a week, change to 3 days a week. the new routine will keep you looking forward to the gym to make gains, start a new supplement or mass stack to get you motivated to see gains and be on point....plan a vacation for around spring break time with your boys...youll be hitting the gym with more intensity then you can believe and youll have something to work for and look forward too ( especially if you lookup pictures of skinny weird guys covered in women on those trips)

    and again for me, staying busy worked, ive always worked as a bouncer for either concerts or clubs, i started working on the weekends at some clubs/bars at the jersey shore and having the random women come up to you b/c you wearing a security shirt on stage really takes your mind off things.

    this may be the longest reply ive ever written on the board but its what helped me get through my time

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    u know what made me get over my ex- everytime i thought about her i either, hit the gym and tore myself apart(got me huge) with the mindset of making her jealous by talking 2 one of her friends n the future or if i was really upset i'd run until i threw up....might sound stupid but it gets ur mind off the gal reeeeeal quick

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    Working on the farm, helping out community ed wrestling, lifting, living good, training mma(fight in december). Its not what makes us happy but what would make you happy. If it was meant to be it would be but it didn't so its not meant to be so you need to stop sweating it. We are here for a short time so you need to at least do things that make you happy well your here

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    Sitting out on my balcony on a cold morning/evening w/ a cup of coffee, just thinking about life and the big picture. Going to the gym is def. a great one too, you almost always feel relieved about life and it's pressure after a good workout, spending time on AR,hahahahhah. I would not resort to drinking excessively. A beer or two is fine to help you socialize, but dont get hammered.

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    Quote Originally Posted by taiboxa
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    Dont listen to this guy,hahahahaha, if anything tren and Halo will make you go shoot the girl. Damn talk about a combo for a ticking time bomb,hahahaha

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    "Conan, what is best in life?"

    "To crush your enemies, see them driven before you, and hear the lamentation of the women."

    "Good!!"

    Go to the gym and take out your anger on the weights. Afterwards, rent Conan the Barbarian (if you don't already own it), buy a big steak, some pasta, veggies, etc. Then go home, cook yourself dinner and watch Conan. Later, visit AR and bond with the boys.

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    Quote Originally Posted by audis4
    Dude, go hit the gym!! Call up some of your buddies tonight, hit up a party and have a couple drinks, talk to women etc.
    DITTO, hope it all works out for you bro.

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    this might be a little off thread....but this is what makes me happy.....we are going eat a chicken and sausage gumbo with my cousin and his family for lunch. sitting around planning our bon fire for halloween. i like family gatherings.....

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    Money, more money and looking at bank account (btw, not that happy lately with the off season)

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    Quote Originally Posted by justinandrews7
    Sorry guys, i posted earlier how my gf and i split up. I dont know anything to do to make me happy. What makes you guys happy besides hooking up with chicks
    what usually makes u happy also makes you sad

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    Quote Originally Posted by justinandrews7
    Sorry guys, i posted earlier how my gf and i split up. I dont know anything to do to make me happy. What makes you guys happy besides hooking up with chicks
    Spend some time doing some soul searching within yourself. Doing this will often allow you to understand both yourself and others in a different light. I'd recommend reading and seeking out to different types of people in places where you would not normally look for friends.

    A good deal of balance in your life often leads to a peaceful life.

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    just try to keep yourself busy. hang out w/ friends, talk to family and eventually things will get better

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    Quote Originally Posted by audis4
    Dude, go hit the gym!! Call up some of your buddies tonight, hit up a party and have a couple drinks, talk to women etc.

    i agree. simply talking to other people really helps with depression, even if you're only talking to another guy.

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    Quote Originally Posted by stayinstacked
    Dont listen to this guy,hahahahaha, if anything tren and Halo will make you go shoot the girl. Damn talk about a combo for a ticking time bomb,hahahaha

    damn it... i want some halotestin .

    i really should have bought some


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    I used the gym to surpress my hurt and i ended up getting sick. I was in the gym 7 days a week killing myself

    What is going to make the pain easier is time. Right now you need to hang out with friends and be around positive people. People will tell you they undersstand but they don't unless they been through it. Just take your time and be man enough to cry it out . Just find some chick you are close with. Crying is bad enough (in my eyes but i did it) but to do it with your buddy =

    but in the end it helps, trust me , been there done that and its very hard.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Mizfit
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    i wish i did this so i didn't lose so much weight .

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    Quote Originally Posted by DSM4Life
    I used the gym to surpress my hurt and i ended up getting sick. I was in the gym 7 days a week killing myself

    What is going to make the pain easier is time. Right now you need to hang out with friends and be around positive people. People will tell you they undersstand but they don't unless they been through it. Just take your time and be man enough to cry it out . Just find some chick you are close with. Crying is bad enough (in my eyes but i did it) but to do it with your buddy =

    but in the end it helps, trust me , been there done that and its very hard.

    i cant cry anymore. even seeing that poor girl fall 25 feet onto an iron fence and probably dying infront of me didn't make me cry. i almost cried though

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    hell theres several things i like to do to make myself happy.

    one is going to parties wearing a shirt that shows off my body, cause this town is full of beautiful and very slutty females. theres just something about pretty girls yelling at me the way you think of construction workers yelling at pretty girls that puts a big ol smile on my face

    another thing id do to make myself happy is go wage war on the convicted child molestors in my town


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    me reading the bible .... church ... bible study groups.... but as of late The Idea of being a dad Has me on cloud nine... but the wifey can strip that away with just opening her pie hole... dig in bro all is not as bad as it's seems ..... It's always the darkest before the dawn ... and it will be dawn soon

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    Quote Originally Posted by Tren Bull
    i cant cry anymore. even seeing that poor girl fall 25 feet onto an iron fence and probably dying infront of me didn't make me cry. i almost cried though
    Unfortunately I was on a cycle at the time of the break and man this made me into a weeping child!

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