So many dudes breaking up

[Mizfit]

anyhow in stead of creating new threads - which in all honestly seem to basically say the same thing - i am gonna outline the rules of a break up for you.

1. Admit to yourself it is over
2. Change their name in your phone to do not anserr - and when they call - do not pick up.
3. go around your house and get rid of anything that reminds you of them.
4. Start healing in whatever way you can - in all cases this means do not contact them and do not let them contact you. Do stuff that interests u with your friends and try to keep busy.

STOP DWELLING ON THE PAST, stop living in the past and try to move forward.

If you live in the past, you can not try to have a future. Wounds will not heal if you keep opening them up.

Hope this helps!

[Dangerdan]

You're pretty.

[Bruce000]

What would we do with out Lady's advice. good advice.

[G-1000]

But most people like to fight

[Mizfit]

But most people like to fight

ur right but only because they wanna hold on to the past or try to get something back.

[lucabratzi]

ur right but only because they wanna hold on to the past or try to get something back.

both of u are right...i remember a quote u said in a thread miz..."never miss anyone from ur past, theres a reason they didnt make it to the future"..i've been tryin to see it that way now..

[Mizfit]

both of u are right...i remember a quote u said in a thread miz..."never miss anyone from ur past, theres a reason they didnt make it to the future"..i've been tryin to see it that way now..

My relationship is far from perfect... if u ask him he mite pay yah to take me away

But in the past when i have broken up with someone it was a 1005 break - no calls, n msn, no seeing each other . NOTHING.

[V_Vandetta]

both of u are right...i remember a quote u said in a thread miz..."never miss anyone from ur past, theres a reason they didnt make it to the future"..i've been tryin to see it that way now..

nicely put

[lucabratzi]

My relationship is far from perfect... if u ask him he mite pay yah to take me away

But in the past when i have broken up with someone it was a 1005 break - no calls, n msn, no seeing each other . NOTHING.

and that really is the best way to do it...im messin with my ex from spring semester, i insisted on not talkin over summer but she kept callin...eventually she stopped, but now she moved back down here and my stupid ass is messin with her again...oh well...im just goin to have fun and not get serious with it...hopefully...

[lucabratzi]

nicely put

i give miz credit on that cause im pretty sure she said it in the famous/favorite quoute thread a while back...

[*Narkissos*]

All my Exs and i are still good friends

Why must a break cause you to hate each others' guts?

[Mizfit]

i give miz credit on that cause im pretty sure she said it in the famous/favorite quoute thread a while back...

Yup it's on my msn space all the time

[GUnit33]

I hate to think about breaking up with my gf, bc I love her so much, but so many times I just think it'd be the best thing to do...I'm such a pussy.

[Carlos_E]

All my Exs and i are still good friends

Why must a break cause you to hate each others' guts?

I think it takes time apart to get over the pain you caused each other before you can be friends. I am friends with one of my ex's who broke up with me because his parents are racist. They threatened to cut him off financially if he did not break up with me. It took a couple of years before I would speak to him again.

I am not friends with any one who as cheated on me. There is no way in hell I'd trust them again even just as friends.

[perfectbeast2001]

I think it takes time apart to get over the pain you caused each other before you can be friends. I am friends with one of my ex's who broke up with me because his parents are racist. They threatened to cut him off financially if he did not break up with me. It took a couple of years before I would speak to him again.

I am not friends with any one who as cheated on me. There is no way in hell I'd trust them again even just as friends.

Were his parents rich?, Would they have minded him having a white BF? That is Ffed up!

[Carlos_E]

Were his parents rich?, Would they have minded him having a white BF? That is Ffed up!

Yeah they were wealthy. He's a Ph.D., MD. His parents were paying off his school bills and paying for his house. They were racist and not happy he was with me and preferred he date someone White. Basically told him to break up or he's on his own. He chose money. That showed me his true character so in the end I was better off.

[BG]

Get some different ass, works wonders for a broken heart.

[Dangerdan]

All my Exs and i are still good friends

Why must a break cause you to hate each others' guts?

I'm still very close with my ex although it does cause problems from time to time with my (and her) present relationship.

[outofthebox]

nothin better than a new girl to replace the old one

[G-1000]

All my Exs and i are still good friends

Why must a break cause you to hate each others' guts?

i thought that was because they were family also.

[Mizfit]

i thought that was because they were family also.

ohhh.. i thought that was just a rumour

[Bojangles69]

anyhow in stead of creating new threads - which in all honestly seem to basically say the same thing - i am gonna outline the rules of a break up for you.

1. Admit to yourself it is over
2. Change their name in your phone to do not anserr - and when they call - do not pick up.
3. go around your house and get rid of anything that reminds you of them.
4. Start healing in whatever way you can - in all cases this means do not contact them and do not let them contact you. Do stuff that interests u with your friends and try to keep busy.

STOP DWELLING ON THE PAST, stop living in the past and try to move forward.

If you live in the past, you can not try to have a future. Wounds will not heal if you keep opening them up.

Hope this helps!

October is the #1 month for break ups, if you ever read my theory a while back that infuriated 90% of AR. Last October alone it was 5 break ups within my immediate social circle. (2 that mended before x-mas) So far this year its only 3 but the months not over yet!!!

Shit happens EVERY YEAR for the same damn reasons.

not a coincidence at all.

[DamnYouMSN]

damn what a coincidence i just ended my relationship last night....i feel like shit. maybe it was a mistake.

[Bojangles69]

damn what a coincidence i just ended my relationship last night....i feel like shit. maybe it was a mistake.

ahhh! NOT a coincidence.

if it was a mistake it will mend with time, unless you did something potentially irreversible.

[Mizfit]

October is the #1 month for break ups, if you ever read my theory a while back that infuriated 90% of AR. Last October alone it was 5 break ups within my immediate social circle. (2 that mended before x-mas) So far this year its only 3 but the months not over yet!!!

Shit happens EVERY YEAR for the same damn reasons.

not a coincidence at all.

wow my Bf's got 15 days to get rid of me to make this statisitc.. i will let him know..

[ginkobulloba]

I broke up with my gf last Thursday. I got laid with a new girl on Friday night. Saturday I was back on with my gf. She found out about the other girl, naturally. She's pissed because six hours after we had our conversation about being best friends (fvckbuddies) I went out and got laid. Anyway, it's all smoothed over for the most part. You're right, October is one fcked up month.

[Carlos_E]

October is the #1 month for break ups, if you ever read my theory a while back that infuriated 90% of AR. Last October alone it was 5 break ups within my immediate social circle. (2 that mended before x-mas) So far this year its only 3 but the months not over yet!!!

Shit happens EVERY YEAR for the same damn reasons.

not a coincidence at all.

It's because summer is over. People realize the summer fling they were in is empty and they come back to reality.

[Foskamink]

All my Exs and i are still good friends

Why must a break cause you to hate each others' guts?

yeh all my exs are still good friends.

[Booz]

anyhow in stead of creating new threads - which in all honestly seem to basically say the same thing - i am gonna outline the rules of a break up for you.

1. Admit to yourself it is over
2. Change their name in your phone to do not anserr - and when they call - do not pick up.
3. go around your house and get rid of anything that reminds you of them.
4. Start healing in whatever way you can - in all cases this means do not contact them and do not let them contact you. Do stuff that interests u with your friends and try to keep busy.

STOP DWELLING ON THE PAST, stop living in the past and try to move forward.

If you live in the past, you can not try to have a future. Wounds will not heal if you keep opening them up.

Hope this helps!

[AnabolicAndre]

ironically enough me and my GF celbrated 2 years today!!!`

[lucabratzi]

It's because summer is over. People realize the summer fling they were in is empty and they come back to reality.

u hit the nail on the fckin head w/ my roomate and his girl...she is my ex's roomate and he talked to her on the phone and aim all summer...they started dating as soon as she moved back...now he see's she's a bitch...and about to end it...

[AnabolicBoy1981]

Get some different ass, works wonders for a broken heart.

for this reason its easier for chicks to breakup cuz they can get different ass almost immediatly

[DSM4Life]

anyhow in stead of creating new threads - which in all honestly seem to basically say the same thing - i am gonna outline the rules of a break up for you.

1. Admit to yourself it is over
2. Change their name in your phone to do not anserr - and when they call - do not pick up.
3. go around your house and get rid of anything that reminds you of them.
4. Start healing in whatever way you can - in all cases this means do not contact them and do not let them contact you. Do stuff that interests u with your friends and try to keep busy.

STOP DWELLING ON THE PAST, stop living in the past and try to move forward.

If you live in the past, you can not try to have a future. Wounds will not heal if you keep opening them up.

Hope this helps!

Easier said then done. My Xgirl and I would still like to be friends after the break of 3 years . This is the first time EVER that i wanted a friendship after a break up. The girl in my eyes is 100 percent worth being friends with. She is still the most special girl to me in my life right now and i dont want to let that go for anything. It does make it harder but i would rather it be like this then to never talk to her again.

[Mizfit]

R u back

[Mizfit]

Easier said then done. My Xgirl and I would still like to be friends after the break of 3 years . This is the first time EVER that i wanted a friendship after a break up. The girl in my eyes is 100 percent worth being friends with. She is still the most special girl to me in my life right now and i dont want to let that go for anything. It does make it harder but i would rather it be like this then to never talk to her again.

See but when u change the rule sof a relationship its really hard to adapt - espcially if one side still has feelings.

I am no expect, but this method i outlined has always worked for me.

U can't forget someone who is always in ur face.. Both parties have to move on and if they don't then they mite as well get back together.

I lose contact with ex's. Now mind you yes if me and my bf were to break up and i never saw or heard his voice again it would be hard - but it's what i would do if we broke up and he knows that. It's the only way one can move on.. succesfully.. Really move on.

[DSM4Life]

See but when u change the rule sof a relationship its really hard to adapt - espcially if one side still has feelings.

I am no expect, but this method i outlined has always worked for me.

U can't forget someone who is always in ur face.. Both parties have to move on and if they don't then they mite as well get back together.

I lose contact with ex's. Now mind you yes if me and my bf were to break up and i never saw or heard his voice again it would be hard - but it's what i would do if we broke up and he knows that. It's the only way one can move on.. succesfully.. Really move on.

I totally agree with this method and i have done it with all my past relationships but this one is just different. Like i said this girl is just too special to just let go. We are both level-headed people and we are working on it together. If we were to get back together awesome if not then that is fine but in the end as long as she is still in my life I am happy. There are some people you build a connection with that is almost unbreakable. I can agree i fell head over heels for this girl and just being around makes me escape from all my problems. If i have problems with school, work and daily stress i talk to her on the phone and for that half hr i no longer feel stressed out in ANY WAY. I want to go as far to say it puts me in a state of bliss but the other guys on here will beat me up for saying it

In the end, I will love this girl for the rest of my life whether I am with her or not.

[zodiac666]

I totally agree with this method and i have done it with all my past relationships but this one is just different. Like i said this girl is just too special to just let go. We are both level-headed people and we are working on it together. If we were to get back together awesome if not then that is fine but in the end as long as she is still in my life I am happy. There are some people you build a connection with that is almost unbreakable. I can agree i fell head over heels for this girl and just being around makes me escape from all my problems. If i have problems with school, work and daily stress i talk to her on the phone and for that half hr i no longer feel stressed out in ANY WAY. I want to go as far to say it puts me in a state of bliss but the other guys on here will beat me up for saying it

In the end, I will love this girl for the rest of my life whether I am with her or not.

but it is going to be rough as hell on you when she starts dating other guys. i dont know if i could go through that with a girl really liked

[DSM4Life]

but it is going to be rough as hell on you when she starts dating other guys. i dont know if i could go through that with a girl really liked

I know, i don't even want to go there. Hopfully by the time she starts dating again there is enough time for me to be more emotional detached from her.

She came over my place the other day just to hang out went into my draw and found a condom (we didn't use them) and she broke down . I know it tought but i feel as though i am a strong person. I might need help here and there but i feel i can pull through. She has no one to really fall on so for now i am her crutch.

[FranKieC]

I miss mizfittttttttt

[goodcents]

Yeah they were wealthy. He's a Ph.D., MD. His parents were paying off his school bills and paying for his house. They were racist and not happy he was with me and preferred he date someone White. Basically told him to break up or he's on his own. He chose money. That showed me his true character so in the end I was better off.

They were cool with him being gay, just not dating a black guy?
I would of thought they would be more open by then