life is falling apart

**Just me** · 11-11-2006, 06:51 PM

It all works out in the end,,keep a positive outlook and stay strong.

I my note i survived a devorce with 3 kids a wife that never worked a day in her life and a very sucessfull biz,,We lived on the water in NJ,,she took 80% of everything and now lives with my Xbestfriend in my house i had built,,my dream home......Been to hell and back ,,life can only get better,,or so i hope,,1 day at a time

**paulzane** · 11-12-2006, 12:06 PM

Originally Posted by Just me

It all works out in the end,,keep a positive outlook and stay strong.

I my note i survived a devorce with 3 kids a wife that never worked a day in her life and a very sucessfull biz,,We lived on the water in NJ,,she took 80% of everything and now lives with my Xbestfriend in my house i had built,,my dream home......Been to hell and back ,,life can only get better,,or so i hope,,1 day at a time

You poor b*stard ...... sorry to hear that .... it sux.

Best of luck in your rebuild!!

**goodcents** · 11-12-2006, 01:17 PM

Originally Posted by Just me

It all works out in the end,,keep a positive outlook and stay strong.

I my note i survived a devorce with 3 kids a wife that never worked a day in her life and a very sucessfull biz,,We lived on the water in NJ,,she took 80% of everything and now lives with my Xbestfriend in my house i had built,,my dream home......Been to hell and back ,,life can only get better,,or so i hope,,1 day at a time

Good lesson for everyone:

never get married!

**goodcents** · 11-12-2006, 01:19 PM

Getting married for love or sex is kind of like buying an airline to get free peanuts

**goodcents** · 11-12-2006, 01:23 PM

Originally Posted by Just me

It all works out in the end,,keep a positive outlook and stay strong.

I my note i survived a devorce with 3 kids a wife that never worked a day in her life and a very sucessfull biz,,We lived on the water in NJ,,she took 80% of everything and now lives with my Xbestfriend in my house i had built,,my dream home......Been to hell and back ,,life can only get better,,or so i hope,,1 day at a time

Do you know how many18-21yr. old hot chics you could of sugar daddied with that kind of money?

and then you could get rid of the chics when ever you wanted a new "flavor"

**Ufa** · 11-12-2006, 01:23 PM

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**stunner5000pt** · 11-12-2006, 02:46 PM

Originally Posted by goodcents

Getting married for love or sex is kind of like buying an airline to get free peanuts

im keeping that one!

**goodcents** · 11-12-2006, 03:41 PM

Just when you think your life sucks, someone else post something that's even worst! (I'm just tired of being that guy

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**Grappler13** · 11-13-2006, 05:55 AM

I used to be a huge asshole and when I got down I would just bootstrap myself up (which is obviously a metaphor as it would be physically impossibly). Nonetheless, I had a really shitty year last year, or rather a really shitty 14 months and eventually, if you can't get out of it, you'll be better to get some professional help. I was extremely skeptical about "professional help" as I'm a type A kinda guy but sometimes life can become very uncomfortable and then, like a well trained body, the mind develops a sort of homeostasis of negativity. That would be the opposite of the homeostasis of a well trained body of course.

My point being, is that you can "catch" a case of depression and the longer it goes untreated, the more apt you are to return their as your mind will begin to see that depressed state as "normal." SO.........whilst I'm sure that you know that your life is blessed compared to some in the world, it is still your life and you aren;t being a spoiled brat by trying to rationalize how others have it so much worse than you do (Darfur/Iraq/etc...) but don't try and wait it out. If exercise and staying on a good positive routine, etc.... (all the usual methods of postive doing and thinking) are not working, then use you some of that wonderful Canadian insurance and get thee to a pShrink for a check.

PM me if you want.....I've been in a very dark place and like you, it was precipitated by events, rather than out of the blue....but they just wouldn;t stop adding up. Really sucked!!!!!!!!!!!

**Mizfit** · 11-13-2006, 09:18 AM

Originally Posted by goodcents

Getting married for love or sex is kind of like buying an airline to get free peanuts

Love this.. that is so cute

**Schmidty** · 11-13-2006, 09:44 AM

Originally Posted by goodcents

Getting married for love or sex is kind of like buying an airline to get free peanuts

im gona remeber that next time my girl wants to talk about getting married

**dedic8ed1** · 11-13-2006, 01:46 PM

It's all a test brother,are you gonna submit to it or make the best of a bad situation.Stuff happens man if it's the worst thing that happens to you in life then I'd say you'll be fine.

Here's what I've had to overcome big guy,and if I can do it so can you.

A little bit about me/Chapter 2 -Starting over with nothing