Who's got the girl knowledge?

**MuscleScience** · 11-16-2006, 04:59 AM

Man we have all been in this situation. If you get into the crying on the shoulder thing you will turn into the gay best friend. and hear all about how she is going to dump her ex for good and go out with a guy like you. But guess what she never really gets rid of him cause they have history and he is misunderstood. Plus he feels really bad and takes her to dinner and does sweet things and bla bla bla. Its all bulls--t from here on out with her. But man all those words you carefully thought out go out the window when you see her walk into class and your heart is pounding through your chest and fireworks are going off in your head. Thats they way it was we i started dating my fiance. I pretended I could give two s--ts about her but truth be told I hung on every word she said. It really sucks being in love, cause it hits
you up side the head. Just be yourself and change for no women, eventually girls will come along.

**king6** · 11-16-2006, 05:19 AM

Originally Posted by spound

What EXACTLY did you say to her when you told her "how you felt"? And what was her response?

I told her that, I felt bad for her because she got dumped. But I was also kind of happy because I really liked her. She said "You do"? And smiled. I also said that the difference between me and her ex is that I would not have left her. But I don't think any of that had much of an effect. I wanted to play the sneaky marine, and try to be the friend first. But when she said she was going to try and work it out with her ex, I knew I had to act now. We only have a couple more classes left before the end of the semester. And believe me I have tried to write this one off, it's just not that easy. I took a gamble and lost. Now I think it will be harder to play the friend role, cause now she knows how I feel about her. So after the class is over I will probably never see her again. What a buch of b/s. I should have just stuck to one night stands.

**king6** · 11-16-2006, 05:25 AM

Originally Posted by MuscleScience

Man we have all been in this situation. If you get into the crying on the shoulder thing you will turn into the gay best friend. and hear all about how she is going to dump her ex for good and go out with a guy like you. But guess what she never really gets rid of him cause they have history and he is misunderstood. Plus he feels really bad and takes her to dinner and does sweet things and bla bla bla. Its all bulls--t from here on out with her. But man all those words you carefully thought out go out the window when you see her walk into class and your heart is pounding through your chest and fireworks are going off in your head. Thats they way it was we i started dating my fiance. I pretended I could give two s--ts about her but truth be told I hung on every word she said. It really sucks being in love, cause it hits
you up side the head. Just be yourself and change for no women, eventually girls will come along.

Amen brother. My heart would pound everytime she came into the room. I knew I was setting myself up for failure by feeling that way, but I couldn't help it. It feels like I do love her. But that seems crazy, cause I hardly know her. All I know is I think about her all the time. Now after all this, it's hard to concentrate on anything else. It's now 5:30 a.m. She is probably laying next to him in bed.

Thoughts like that get my bowels moving.

**MuscleScience** · 11-16-2006, 12:17 PM

Originally Posted by king6

Amen brother. My heart would pound everytime she came into the room. I knew I was setting myself up for failure by feeling that way, but I couldn't help it. It feels like I do love her. But that seems crazy, cause I hardly know her. All I know is I think about her all the time. Now after all this, it's hard to concentrate on anything else. It's now 5:30 a.m. She is probably laying next to him in bed.

Thoughts like that get my bowels moving.

Dont think about that, it will drive you crazy. But you know even if you dont talk to her after this there is a lesson to be learned and you can grow from it.

**king6** · 11-16-2006, 12:35 PM

Originally Posted by MuscleScience

Dont think about that, it will drive you crazy. But you know even if you dont talk to her after this there is a lesson to be learned and you can grow from it.

I know what you mean. I usually have good control over my emotions. This was different. I tried not to think about her, but the harder I tried the more I thought about her. I feel like such a wuss. I used to make fun of guys like that. Well come Monday, I will see her again. And find out if she got back together with her ex or not, but I'm sure she will.

**Polska** · 11-16-2006, 02:41 PM

Originally Posted by king6

I know what you mean. I usually have good control over my emotions. This was different. I tried not to think about her, but the harder I tried the more I thought about her. I feel like such a wuss. I used to make fun of guys like that. Well come Monday, I will see her again. And find out if she got back together with her ex or not, but I'm sure she will.

Dude, WHO CARES if she got back with her ex? you have to realise that the attitude you have now is unhealthy. There are one billion single available healthy women in the world and you're hurting yourself getting hung up on one? think about your reasoning. you think you love her? dude! you're gonna come off as an obsessive stalker. girls are attracted to guys that have options. so get out and get yourself options. if she sees you interacting with other girls, girls hanging off of you, etc she will see you in a different light.

**king6** · 11-16-2006, 03:48 PM

Originally Posted by Polska

Dude, WHO CARES if she got back with her ex? you have to realise that the attitude you have now is unhealthy. There are one billion single available healthy women in the world and you're hurting yourself getting hung up on one? think about your reasoning. you think you love her? dude! you're gonna come off as an obsessive stalker. girls are attracted to guys that have options. so get out and get yourself options. if she sees you interacting with other girls, girls hanging off of you, etc she will see you in a different light.

Good point. When I go back and read my posts, I can totally see what you mean. Oh well. Fuk it. When I think about all the problems I could be having, this seems pretty stupid.

**MuscleScience** · 11-16-2006, 03:53 PM

Yeah you just have the single stink all over you. Once you get a girl then all the other chicks will be nocking at your door.

**king6** · 11-16-2006, 03:54 PM

Originally Posted by MuscleScience

Yeah you just have the single stink all over you. Once you get a girl then all the other chicks will be nocking at your door.

Kind of weird how that works, isnt it?

**Timm1704** · 11-16-2006, 03:58 PM

Originally Posted by king6

Kind of weird how that works, isnt it?

very weird lol.

i have learned that things have a way of just happening, without you even trying. i was slagging it up for over a year, loving the single life. was hoping in the back of my mind to meet someone i really liked, and stick with them, but didnt meet anyone that gave me that 'butterfly' feeling. i ended up in a relationship, and didnt have major feelings either, but now i can feel them creeping up on me lol

**king6** · 11-16-2006, 04:24 PM

Yeah, I had that butterfly feeling. But I guess that doesn't mean anything. I'm still young, I should concentrate on living the single life. Its cheaper than having a girlfriend that's for sure.

**bigfish** · 11-16-2006, 10:11 PM

Bro move on. If you are in college I guarantee you walk by ten girls a day that look just as good. Don't be ude though keep it cordial

**bigfish** · 11-16-2006, 10:13 PM

Oh yeah now you gotta have sex with five other girls to truly get over her

**epc512** · 11-17-2006, 10:08 AM

dont get involved girls are cold hearted

**king6** · 11-17-2006, 10:28 AM

Originally Posted by bigfish

Oh yeah now you gotta have sex with five other girls to truly get over her

Five girls.......Gotcha, I will start working on that. It will probably take less time if I take them 2 at a time.

**bigfish** · 11-17-2006, 10:31 AM

go read "art of seduction" and/ or "layguide". get them on amazon. very good books. Get over the fear of rejection.

**king6** · 11-17-2006, 10:49 AM

Sound like good stuff. I will have to check it out.

**saturn08** · 11-17-2006, 12:29 PM

yeah, I have to agree with Polska, girls dig the guys that have other chicks besides them. I dont know why but that is just the way it is. If a girl gets the vibe that you dont care, she will be on you like a fly on shit. The minute you start saying sorry and "do you want this?" and "do you want that?", they are gone. This is just my experience.

**king6** · 11-17-2006, 07:16 PM

Originally Posted by saturn08

yeah, I have to agree with Polska, girls dig the guys that have other chicks besides them. I dont know why but that is just the way it is. If a girl gets the vibe that you dont care, she will be on you like a fly on shit. The minute you start saying sorry and "do you want this?" and "do you want that?", they are gone. This is just my experience.

I should just act like I don't care. I'm starting to feel that way anyhow. I have too much other crap going on to worry about this. Come Monday when I see her, I will see what happened with her and her ex. If there together. Whatever. If not. Whatever. I can buy beer, I'm a Marine with a nice body, an 04 cobra and an 02 trans am, and I'm pulling in 4 grand a month. I can find some other chick to get drunk and spend money on.

**saturn08** · 11-18-2006, 03:27 AM

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**king6** · 11-24-2006, 11:58 AM

Thought I would post an update. So after I told her I liked her, the next week in class she said she was in a great mood, because she got back together with her boyfriend. And all she did was talk about him. Even after class we usually walk out together, she calls him in front of me and starts talking to him. I thought that was unnesessary. But whatever. She's happy now but it's just a matter of time before they break up for good. Too bad she missed out.

**Huckster** · 11-24-2006, 01:44 PM

SCREW HER! She's a dumb beotch. Now that you saw what she did and all the talking about the dude, this should give you plenty of motivation to get this broad of your mind. She's f***ed in the head, better off w/o her.

Keep working hard in the gym devil dog... Becarefull and don't just settle for any scank, you sound like an alright guy. Your time will come.

Damn this thread is kinda gay...

**Selene** · 11-24-2006, 02:03 PM

Originally Posted by king6

So in one of my college classes there is this girl who sits next to me who is super cute. I really like her. I was going to ask her out when she said one day, that she saw this guy who she thought they were going out but he was dating someone else now. That kind of threw me off. Then after the weekend she said she was dumped. And this time the story she told contridicted the other. So now im kind of confused. Could this just be her way of telling me she is single? I don't really know. She is not real flirty, we have friendly conversations, and she said I seemed mature. I am 4 years older than her, and I know how girls like older guys. I'm just not good with these mind games.

It sound like she letting you know she is available should you be so inclined

**Huckster** · 11-24-2006, 02:09 PM

Originally Posted by Selene

It sound like she letting you know she is available should you be so inclined

Bro' you need to read the entire thread!

**king6** · 11-24-2006, 02:57 PM

Originally Posted by Huckster

SCREW HER! She's a dumb beotch. Now that you saw what she did and all the talking about the dude, this should give you plenty of motivation to get this broad of your mind. She's f***ed in the head, better off w/o her.

Keep working hard in the gym devil dog... Becarefull and don't just settle for any scank, you sound like an alright guy. Your time will come.

Damn this thread is kinda gay...

Yeah that kind of pissed me off. It is helping me to get over her, so its all for the better.