Need help please !!!

**guest589745** · 12-03-2006, 10:21 AM

Need Advice, Please.

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I love lifitng, it's been a life chaning experience for me I lift almost constantly. It has tought me self discipline and perservenance among other things. Unfortunately, my enthusiasm hasn't come without a price, my girlfriend has really had it with how much I'm lifting. We've been together for 5 years with no serious arguments( not realtionship threatening anyway), but since I've gotten into bodybuilding it's been nothing but complaints about how I never spend time with her, or how when I am "on" she may as well not exist.

Last night the situation came to a head, she asked me some stupid question or something in the middle of my deadlifts, and when I didn't answer she accused me of not listening. When I tried to defend myself she started acting completely irrationally, and said it was either my weights or her.... She spent the night at her parents last night and said she wouldn't enter the house again until I got rid of every bit of my weights, benches and dumbells, everything.

This brings me to the advice part, I was going to move all of my equipment into her old room and turn it into a home gym, but my squat rack doesn't fit through the door in there, anyone wanna throw me some ideas as to how I could do to get it in there? Thanks in advance.

***perfectbeast2001*** · 12-03-2006, 10:37 AM

Just cut a bigger hole for the door, in fact just knock through al the rooms in the house and turn it into a really good gym. Your GF can live in the garage.

**guest589745** · 12-03-2006, 10:39 AM

Originally Posted by perfectbeast2001

Just cut a bigger hole for the door, in fact just knock through al the rooms in the house and turn it into a really good gym. Your GF can live in the garage.

Lol, I was thinkin maybe somewhere outside actually, or not at my house at all lol.

(This was a complete joke, not sure if it's obvious

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**anaBROLIC** · 12-03-2006, 10:39 AM

lmao....

**fLgAtOr** · 12-03-2006, 10:41 AM

Originally Posted by perfectbeast2001

Just cut a bigger hole for the door, in fact just knock through al the rooms in the house and turn it into a really good gym. Your GF can live in the garage.

Agreed..You're gonna need bigger doorways soon anyways.

Can you disassemble the rack?

**guest589745** · 12-03-2006, 10:44 AM

Originally Posted by fLgAtOr

Agreed..You're gonna need bigger doorways soon anyways.

Can you disassemble the rack?

Lol, complete joke man, all of it.

***perfectbeast2001*** · 12-03-2006, 10:45 AM

LOL yeah I knew that really....

**fLgAtOr** · 12-03-2006, 10:47 AM

Originally Posted by Skullsmasher

Lol, complete joke man, all of it.

Oh...BOOO!

I was hoping to see the youtube video...
"Baby I got rid of alll the weights, I love youuuu, come back??"
"I love you too, I never leave again...."

She walks into her room..

BWAHAHA

**** chicks....Sorry I got denied last night...

***Narkissos*** · 12-03-2006, 10:58 AM

... okie

**guest589745** · 12-03-2006, 10:59 AM

Originally Posted by fLgAtOr

Oh...BOOO!

I was hoping to see the youtube video...
"Baby I got rid of alll the weights, I love youuuu, come back??"
"I love you too, I never leave again...."

She walks into her room..

BWAHAHA

**** chicks....Sorry I got denied last night...

Yea women can suck. I would probly literally do that if it came down to it.

**MAXIMA5** · 12-03-2006, 11:33 AM

Originally Posted by Skullsmasher

Need Advice, Please.

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Last night the situation came to a head, she asked me some stupid question or something in the middle of my deadlifts, and when I didn't answer she accused me of not listening. When I tried to defend myself she started acting completely irrationally, and said it was either my weights or her.

Walk in on her while she's shitting, or putting in a tampon and start a stupid conversation. When she get's pissed, tel her "It's your poop/tampons or me"

**Snrf** · 12-03-2006, 11:39 AM

lmao

**big L 17** · 12-03-2006, 12:00 PM

that blows she wont even give you a hour or so a day to lift.you shoudnt have to give up lifting because of her

**guest589745** · 12-03-2006, 12:07 PM

Originally Posted by big L 17

that blows she wont even give you a hour or so a day to lift.you shoudnt have to give up lifting because of her

I think I am in love ................

**big L 17** · 12-03-2006, 12:25 PM

ya i no you are but,girls come and go are you realy going to throw away all the traning you have done for some girl that could leave you in a heart beat.you are going to regret it if she was a good gf she would let you lift

**guest589745** · 12-03-2006, 12:38 PM

Originally Posted by big L 17

ya i no you are but,girls come and go are you realy going to throw away all the traning you have done for some girl that could leave you in a heart beat.you are going to regret it if she was a good gf she would let you lift

I was referring to you

Just a joke anyways.

**MuscleScience** · 12-03-2006, 12:43 PM

Originally Posted by MAXIMA5

Walk in on her while she's shitting, or putting in a tampon and start a stupid conversation. When she get's pissed, tel her "It's your poop/tampons or me"

Thats awesome, I will remember that one.

**big L 17** · 12-03-2006, 07:52 PM

Originally Posted by Skullsmasher

I was referring to you

Just a joke anyways.

hahah thanks sorry i am a little slow

when we getting married my mom is going to be proud i married a guy lol jk

**needmorestrength** · 12-03-2006, 08:14 PM

LMAO THATS GOOD.. theres one bout a cheating wife and harly... was funny

***BajanBastard*** · 12-03-2006, 09:11 PM

My best friend (R.I.P) stopped lifting because of a situation just like that.

**guest589745** · 12-03-2006, 10:08 PM

Originally Posted by big L 17

hahah thanks sorry i am a little slow

when we getting married my mom is going to be proud i married a guy lol jk

Haha, got a date in mind ?

**taiboxa** · 12-03-2006, 10:08 PM

Originally Posted by BajanBastard

My best friend (R.I.P) stopped lifting because of a situation just like that.

couldnt get squat rack through the door?

J/K

godspeed be with ur friend.

**guest589745** · 12-03-2006, 10:09 PM

Originally Posted by BajanBastard

My best friend (R.I.P) stopped lifting because of a situation just like that.

Damn, sorry to hear about that.

I will never give up lifting for anything besides my child. It is one of the only things I hold dear to me and I don't believe in giving up on a dream.

***BIG TEXAN*** · 12-03-2006, 10:54 PM

Well sorry to hear the trouble...quick note though...please don't refer to women as "bitches" on here. I'm a daddy and if that's the case you're calling my daughter a bitch...and than I'd have to stomp a Texas sized mud hole in your ass.... LOL Kidding bro...

Anyways... let me ask...how many days a week you lift and for how long each day? Just curious cause we can get carried away with our training and we do need to find a good balance in our lives...I've personally been there and done that. ON the same note she needs to understand how important lifting is to you and accept it.....k I'm tired and rammbling, going to bed now.

**chest6** · 12-03-2006, 11:43 PM

this is the reason i think ill never get a gf. I had this one girl interested in me and i scared her off cuz of my bb'ing lifestyle

**CSAR** · 12-04-2006, 01:01 AM

Just get a hacksaw and some duct tape...it'll be sure to fit through after you saw it in half and you can duct tape anything back together!!

**taiboxa** · 12-04-2006, 11:07 AM

Originally Posted by BIG TEXAN

Well sorry to hear the trouble...quick note though...please don't refer to women as "bitches" on here. I'm a daddy and if that's the case you're calling my daughter a bitch...and than I'd have to stomp a Texas sized mud hole in your ass.... LOL Kidding bro...

Anyways... let me ask...how many days a week you lift and for how long each day? Just curious cause we can get carried away with our training and we do need to find a good balance in our lives...I've personally been there and done that. ON the same note she needs to understand how important lifting is to you and accept it.....k I'm tired and rammbling, going to bed now.

lil girls are cute
chics are sexy
women are bitches
lady's are HOT!

It appears to me MR. BIG TEX that our 8hr ciminar on HOW TO REFER TO FEMALES has not sunk in yet!

**guest589745** · 12-04-2006, 11:16 AM

Originally Posted by BIG TEXAN

Well sorry to hear the trouble...quick note though...please don't refer to women as "bitches" on here. I'm a daddy and if that's the case you're calling my daughter a bitch...and than I'd have to stomp a Texas sized mud hole in your ass.... LOL Kidding bro...

Anyways... let me ask...how many days a week you lift and for how long each day? Just curious cause we can get carried away with our training and we do need to find a good balance in our lives...I've personally been there and done that. ON the same note she needs to understand how important lifting is to you and accept it.....k I'm tired and rammbling, going to bed now.

I apologize, I didnt mean it in terms of EVERY woman/girl whatever, I meant it in the sense of girls who are deserving of that term, so I was in no way directing it towards your daughter

**guest589745** · 12-04-2006, 11:17 AM

Originally Posted by taiboxa

lil girls are cute
chics are sexy
women are bitches
lady's are HOT!

It appears to me MR. BIG TEX that our 8hr ciminar on HOW TO REFER TO FEMALES has not sunk in yet!

Lol.

***BIG TEXAN*** · 12-04-2006, 04:48 PM

Originally Posted by Skullsmasher

I apologize, I didnt mean it in terms of EVERY woman/girl whatever, I meant it in the sense of girls who are deserving of that term, so I was in no way directing it towards your daughter

Hell I know...just giving ya shit is all...LOL

**guest589745** · 12-04-2006, 04:52 PM

Originally Posted by BIG TEXAN

Hell I know...just giving ya shit is all...LOL

Thanks alot a**hole!!!!

***BIG TEXAN*** · 12-04-2006, 04:57 PM

Originally Posted by Skullsmasher

Thanks alot a**hole!!!!

yes....yes I am.

**cfiler** · 12-04-2006, 05:55 PM

Originally Posted by MAXIMA5

Walk in on her while she's shitting, or putting in a tampon and start a stupid conversation. When she get's pissed, tel her "It's your poop/tampons or me"

Holy crap, that's freaking hillarious!