My friend is in love with this chick who's past is messing with his head...I told him it is the past and if he can't accept then move on with it...he was married for a while and dated several other women..he's 33 and she's 39..he has a thing for mature women. She has slept with like 12 guys in her lifetime..she was a single parent but never married..he daughter is like 19 or so..he tells me that ...she suggested a sexual position and he starts wondering if this was her favorite with someone else and stuff like that..she also dated 5 black guys in her past..they are both white...he seems to not be cool with that either...I told him I guess you are looking for an older woman who's been locked up in her closet or something...what do you giuys think? does a womans past play on you that much...what is too much? does it bother you if a woman has had more partners than you? he doesn't know I posted this so feel free to chime in.