Dating Q... NEED ALL HELP POSSIBLE :(

***Doc.Sust*** · 08-09-2007, 09:07 PM

Originally Posted by taiboxa

nah we got tons of hotties.. all prego by 14-15 so .. yeah it blows

thats exactly how south carolina was when i lived there, go out to a abr meet a hot 22 year old girl.....with 3 kids twice divorced

**Sir Lifts-a-lot** · 08-09-2007, 09:31 PM

Originally Posted by taiboxa

since i know jack shit bout dating.. other than sex sex sex... i would like some input on the ettiquite.

ok goes like this... really- help me out lol.

we decide to hang out at her place for first date since we both suck at dating, i told her im dieting so no real place to go out to eat (she is in the fitness field she understands lol), she suggests renting a movie and just b.s.ing at my place or hers- either/or.. then we decide hers because she has to get up super early (she personal trainer on the side had like a 6:00am aptmnt) so it would be eaiser on her for me to come over to her house to play.

anyways (first date mind u and she has only been w/ a handfull of people) the movie totally suckd, YES i know i should never be allowed to pick movies out by myself... but oh well. Atleast it gave us alot of time to chit chat and joke (i really am funny damit). And of course i had to make first move... whole making out and unfortunatly ONLY making out (but i would probably question her alot more if i was able to go further on first date), BUT there was a boat load of chemistry.

she even, like later on that night, did the grab onto my arm and kiss my shoulder during the movie... the whole "All affection, no sexing" move.

OK w/ all that stupid background info stated heres the REAL Q:
she is going on a DINNER DATE w/ a guy this friday... she already had it set up before i came along...should i be worried in anyway that ima get replaced?
if so.. should i go off the guy now, or wait and pay someone to do it?

i made a joke bout gettin replaced by thursday and she said dont worry i hardly ever make out on the first date.. and gave me a lil grin, but w/ my luck.. i just dont know anymore.

AWWWWWWWWWW!!! Tai's got a lil crush

Don't worry about it... show her your cool with it, ask her out tomorrow (friday) during the day for a second date sometime next week.... Then you will atleast have one more with her and you can maybe score some brownie points to sing her decision in your direction.

Granted, I would be jealous as hell, but im just insecure like that.

**Sir Lifts-a-lot** · 08-09-2007, 09:37 PM

Originally Posted by taiboxa

yeah well i fvckd up most of this w/ the call last night and the ambien.. but I DONT REMEMBER ANY OF IT yet she claims i calld her like 3 times though it only looks like once if that man drugs are bad ><

I know I just posted but, I, just like Sman didn't waste my precious time reading the other responses. Now I gotta say this and only this.... DONT TAKE AMBIEN AND THEN PULL A 'B D T R'!!!!

We all know what happend there.

**Igifuno** · 08-09-2007, 09:37 PM

just do what you usually do with this one anyway.... you're in too deep already. worry about making it count with the next one... or maybe the next..... if all else fails, worry about someone next year... unless this is the one of course.

**soulstealer** · 08-09-2007, 09:51 PM

I say you played it perfectly by saying that thing about being replace you will be on her mind all during the dinner..... Bravo on the mind terrorism... =P but other than that shes either a whore or not.... so you'll see....

**Bojangles69** · 08-09-2007, 11:48 PM

Originally Posted by x_moe

i have an e-book my friend sent me to my email, its called 'double your dating', did anyone hear of it

I've read that ebook like 2 times and his other ebook (4got the name).

Speaking from serious experience in the dating arena. There are THOUSANDS of books out there on dating and relationships.

That book is in the top 20 imo. David DeAngelo is a genius. He tries to keep his material out of the mainstream. He has worked with tons of the best well known PUA's and naturals in the entire world. He KNOWS his shit.

His dvd seminars are still about 100times better though. And there are other books out there that are in fact better. My 2 favorites being "The Venusian Arts Handbook" and "Sperm Wars".

After you read those 2 books you will NEVER (and this is something I guarantee) see women the same.

As far as me advising tai in his initial post, I'm going to refrain for the fact I've told him more than a thousand times how to handle women in his previous posts and the fact that he keeps asking similar questions conveys that he has not applied even a grain of what I've said into his actual life.

So at this point I'd only be wasting my time. But I WOULD def suggest he reads one of the aforementioned books (prob DYD because its less intense and easier for beginners to grasp the concepts). But if history says anything, right now its saying I'll be seeing another post just like this one within the next 2-4 weeks,.. despite what anyone says.

**x_moe** · 08-10-2007, 12:04 AM

Originally Posted by Bojangles69

I've read that ebook like 2 times and his other ebook (4got the name).

Speaking from serious experience in the dating arena. There are THOUSANDS of books out there on dating and relationships.

That book is in the top 20 imo. David DeAngelo is a genius. He tries to keep his material out of the mainstream. He has worked with tons of the best well known PUA's and naturals in the entire world. He KNOWS his shit.

His dvd seminars are still about 100times better though. And there are other books out there that are in fact better. My 2 favorites being "The Venusian Arts Handbook" and "Sperm Wars".

After you read those 2 books you will NEVER (and this is something I guarantee) see women the same.

As far as me advising tai in his initial post, I'm going to refrain for the fact I've told him more than a thousand times how to handle women in his previous posts and the fact that he keeps asking similar questions conveys that he has not applied even a grain of what I've said into his actual life.

So at this point I'd only be wasting my time. But I WOULD def suggest he reads one of the aforementioned books (prob DYD because its less intense and easier for beginners to grasp the concepts). But if history says anything, right now its saying I'll be seeing another post just like this one within the next 2-4 weeks,.. despite what anyone says.

thanks for the info, so did you find "double your dating" useful ? my buddy who sent it to me read it and said that he started doing what the book says and its working, he hooked up with a girl and now shes loving him and wants him so bad, he said he wasnt being himself with her but just doing what the book says to do.

**taiboxa** · 08-10-2007, 12:04 AM

well all i know .. is that i put the ne i want on hold to go watch movie w/ my 18yr old friend.
while i was at the late viewing -she sent me a txt messages, missed call and a voice mail all inquiring to what i was doing and hoping to hear from me soon as well i was having a good time. and something else bout going to bed after she gets off here.. it was rambled....

so either way past 8hrs of the day she been contractin or trying contact me.. and i made it very difficult and will due so until she goes on her date... hope fully A)she becomes more curious bout me and doesnt focus on him
B) tottally forgets bout me kuz i wsnt around and hhhooks up w/ new guy.. either way win win@!

**longhorn814** · 08-10-2007, 07:51 AM

Originally Posted by R**85

oklahoma huh? that just sounds like breeding grounds for fugly fat chicks!

yup, all the hot chicks are in Texas..all the fatties in Oklahoma!

**taiboxa** · 08-10-2007, 07:55 AM

she calld me this morning... to just say hi.. FUX ITS EARLY but yeah atleast she is making all the calls/txt's

anywys she said.. its her EX she is going to dinner with because its his birthday and he did the same thing last month for her birthday. (take out to dinner) she said i have nothing to worry about AT ALL and is just trying to be nice to him.

i really cant say shit kuz i still talk to my ex wife ALL THE TIME and she is one of my best friends.. so that would be completely hypocritical of me.. so what ever... but yeah even though she SAYS it doesnt bother her that i went to movies w/ that 18yrold.. she said a lil later "That Much" lol so its cute to see her trying to PLAY IT OFF COOL lol.

either way she is extremely excited to see me again so i will take that as a plus and go spank it to some porn later all

**SMAN12b** · 08-10-2007, 08:35 AM

Originally Posted by pewntang

for every good man... theres a women rolling her eyes..

And for every HOT women there is a some man somewhere tired of putting up with her shit !!!

**PEWN** · 08-10-2007, 09:13 AM

Originally Posted by SMAN12b

And for every HOT women there is a some man somewhere tired of putting up with her shit !!!

lol ... i saw that on a poster some where i wanted to buy it...

**bpm1** · 08-10-2007, 11:06 AM

man oklahoma, thats not where i pictured u living, but yea there r hotties everywhere.i still think there r sane/normal girls there though, u gotta find-em, gl let us know how it goes............

**bpm1** · 08-10-2007, 11:09 AM

BTW i hear there r pics of u on my space, where bro, i wanna see em, please!

**Stock** · 08-10-2007, 01:10 PM

Originally Posted by taiboxa

she said i have nothing to worry about AT ALL and is just trying to be nice to him.

IMO, if you didnt have to worry about anything, she would not have said the above statement, unless of course she is already thinking you are a desparate, controlling, looser...J/K

**taiboxa** · 08-10-2007, 01:13 PM

Originally Posted by Stock

IMO, if you didnt have to worry about anything, she would not have said the above statement, unless of course she is already thinking you are a desparate, controlling, looser...J/K

DAMIT i am a desperate controlling looser!

well this probably wont end well lol oh well always got murilo as my rebound date so thats a plus..