Take on signifigant other dancing on a bar top

**needmorestrength** · 09-09-2007, 06:59 PM

Whats everyones take on this. Say your gf, wife etc is dancing on a bar top (possible a skirt), all the guys are looking at her, how do you react?

**Dizz28** · 09-09-2007, 07:03 PM

lol, my wife would never do that...she is so shy

But my ex used to be a stripper and she did that once. I kinda got a kick out of it cuz all the guys were drooling as she was dancing on the bar and I knew I was gonna be the one going home and fvcking her....but that only lasted 2 months cuz she was a slut.....

**needmorestrength** · 09-09-2007, 07:08 PM

Originally Posted by Dizz28

lol, my wife would never do that...she is so shy

But my ex used to be a stripper and she did that once. I kinda got a kick out of it cuz all the guys were drooling as she was dancing on the bar and I knew I was gonna be the one going home and fvcking her....but that only lasted 2 months cuz she was a slut.....

haha oh boy.. thats kinda my take, even if shes not a slut or whore shes presenting herself like that isnt she?

**Dizz28** · 09-09-2007, 07:14 PM

Originally Posted by needmorestrength

haha oh boy.. thats kinda my take, even if shes not a slut or whore shes presenting herself like that isnt she?

yes, but i knew that about her going into the relationship so i wasn't expecting too much out of it. I knew she wasn't very faithful in her relashionships in the past so I wasn't counting on her beeing a "keeper." I think that's why I didn't get mad when she did all that

It was more like, I was bored because I had just moved to Connecticut and wanted some fun. She was a crazy girl that loved going out all the time and drinking so I went for it. The sex was a-maz-ing, there was never a dull moment when she was around...and she was hot.

I think I would get pissed if my wife did that crap. I'd tell her to get her lush-ass down off the bar

**buffgator** · 09-09-2007, 07:20 PM

She would not be going home with me. I do not like it one bit when other guys eyeball hump my wife.

**Big** · 09-09-2007, 07:24 PM

I couldn't go for that. If I saw some girl dancing on the bar and hooked up for a one night stand that would be one thing, but that's not the kind of girl I would want to be in a serious relationship with.

**needmorestrength** · 09-09-2007, 07:25 PM

Originally Posted by buffgator

She would not be going home with me. I do not like it one bit when other guys eyeball hump my wife.

Yea, the fact she was soooo drunk last night does not help my situation, but I told her its done if she does it again, its not something I can put up with!

**buffgator** · 09-09-2007, 07:25 PM

Originally Posted by ImaGetBigger

I couldn't go for that. If I saw some girl dancing on the bar and hooked up for a one night stand that would be one thing, but that's not the kind of girl I would want to be in a serious relationship with.

Amen brother.

**StoneGRMI** · 09-09-2007, 07:39 PM

I couldn't go for it. However, I don't mind if my girls gynecologist is male.

**Igifuno** · 09-09-2007, 07:44 PM

Originally Posted by ImaGetBigger

I couldn't go for that. If I saw some girl dancing on the bar and hooked up for a one night stand that would be one thing, but that's not the kind of girl I would want to be in a serious relationship with.

a bar top - ya i could agree with that. but you can't judge girls negatively who like to dance. my wife loves to dance and she can go pretty much all night. years ago when we used to hit clubs she would hit the platform or the stage and she's a pretty wholesome person.

**Big** · 09-09-2007, 07:48 PM

Originally Posted by Igifuno

a bar top - ya i could agree with that. but you can't judge girls negatively who like to dance. my wife loves to dance and she can go pretty much all night. years ago when we used to hit clubs she would hit the platform or the stage and she's a pretty wholesome person.

oh, I agree, but the initial post was about dancing on the bar top with guys staring, possibly up a skirt.
dancing on a dance floor=ok
dancing on the bar in a skirt=slut

**Igifuno** · 09-09-2007, 07:50 PM

Originally Posted by ImaGetBigger

oh, I agree, but the initial post was about dancing on the bar top with guys staring, possibly up a skirt.
dancing on a dance floor=ok
dancing on the bar in a skirt=slut

right on. i can't say i really mind watching someone else's chick doing that though. lol..

**godkilla** · 09-09-2007, 07:57 PM

depends on the circumstances really. besides, if your girl is hot the guy are alrdy eyeballing her anyways, table or no table. eyes, yes. hands, no.

**Sir Lifts-a-lot** · 09-09-2007, 08:48 PM

I dont dig it.. i get jealous really easily.

**gixxerboy1** · 09-09-2007, 08:52 PM

My ex used to do stuff like that a lot. Not in skirts though. I really didn't care. She was hot and its fun knowing everyone wants your girl and she is going home with you.

**Dizz28** · 09-09-2007, 08:58 PM

^^ that's what I thought about my last...but she really was a slut and probably would have gone home with another guy if I wasn't there....

**Prada** · 09-09-2007, 09:23 PM

Originally Posted by gixxerboy1

My ex used to do stuff like that a lot. Not in skirts though. I really didn't care. She was hot and its fun knowing everyone wants your girl and she is going home with you.

I agree. I never liked girls getting drunk and unable to behave but tipsy is okay, even cute and fun.

**taiboxa** · 09-09-2007, 09:32 PM

not a fan of chicks doing shit to acquire attention from other guys..

**PEWN** · 09-09-2007, 09:37 PM

i use to work at a bar .. and it would piss me off to try and get those girls off the bar... ther always .. stumbling and causing a scene..

**kman** · 09-09-2007, 10:05 PM

I've dated girls that dance on bars before. No biggie, I knew while dating them they were not serious gf or wife material. Fun as hell,and hot as hell, but if my girl did that now, I'd be pissed.

**kman** · 09-09-2007, 10:05 PM

I don't mind seeing girls on bars though, so amen to those select few of intoxicated women who know how to shake there body for all off us horny guys!!!

**Panzerfaust** · 09-09-2007, 10:09 PM

I would never date any woman who would act like that in the first place.

**DSM4Life** · 09-10-2007, 04:40 AM

Originally Posted by taiboxa

not a fan of chicks

Enough said.

**Booz** · 09-10-2007, 04:46 AM

gotta agree with most f the abouve,it would piss me off no end if my girl was dancing on a bar top with a skirt on and the men were leering up her skirt,
i would end up getting thrown out after flattening some of the guys.........
i got a problem with things like that.......................

**Booz** · 09-10-2007, 04:47 AM

sorry but i think drunk or not your girl is being disrespectfull to you...............

**dwaynewade** · 09-10-2007, 05:42 AM

Originally Posted by Booz

sorry but i think drunk or not your girl is being disrespectfull to you...............

yup... i'd say its respect too

i hate 'training' my gf's or molding them into a women... "true lady" with class

when they come straight out the package like that, those are the keepers

**peteroy01** · 09-10-2007, 07:00 AM

agreed, totally disrespectful.

**helium3** · 09-10-2007, 07:28 AM

Originally Posted by needmorestrength

Whats everyones take on this. Say your gf, wife etc is dancing on a bar top (possible a skirt), all the guys are looking at her, how do you react?

my girl wouldnt dance on a bar top, far too classy.if she did id call her a slut and walk out.

**1819** · 09-10-2007, 07:47 AM

Originally Posted by Booz

gotta agree with most f the abouve,it would piss me off no end if my girl was dancing on a bar top with a skirt on and the men were leering up her skirt,
i would end up getting thrown out after flattening some of the guys.........
i got a problem with things like that.......................

how bout just flattening the chick. i know i'd look. not my fault.

**buffgator** · 09-10-2007, 07:47 AM

Originally Posted by taiboxa

not a fan of chicks

DSM4life.... Enough said.
Tais Been

**buffgator** · 09-10-2007, 07:48 AM

Originally Posted by helium3

my girl wouldnt dance on a bar top, far too classy.if she did id call her a slut and walk out.

I totally agree.

**Prada** · 09-10-2007, 09:35 AM

Originally Posted by Booz

sorry but i think drunk or not your girl is being disrespectfull to you...............

Ohh hush, you're just jealous you cant wear your kilt and dance on table tops for a nominal fee.

**gixxerboy1** · 09-10-2007, 09:42 AM

Originally Posted by taiboxa

not a fan of chicks doing shit to acquire attention from other guys..

my girl used to do it for attention from me. She would stare at me while up there. She was bitch she would kick some other guy in the head if they tried and touch her. She was fun she would do all kinds of stuff like that. She would have me call when I'm 5 mins home from work and she would be waiting in the drive way in a stripper outfit and heels

**Prada** · 09-10-2007, 09:48 AM

^^^^Yeah I agree, I mean my GF use to dance with other girls on table tops having innocuous fun. Not like some wasted whore or like s stripper. It is actually normal in supper clubs and "in" places for girls to dance on tables and couch. Maybe people are confusing it with strippers.

**Prada** · 09-10-2007, 09:51 AM

Heck even I've danced on the couch, like many others, and drinking my Moet&Chandon Magnum. Just a huge party atmosphere.

**gixxerboy1** · 09-10-2007, 09:53 AM

Originally Posted by Prada

Heck even I've danced on the couch, like many others, and drinking my Moet&Chandon Magnum. Just a huge party atmosphere.

I agree. I have too. One bar i know has chains hanging from the ceiling for girls to hold on to while dancing on the bar.

I don't understand what there is to get jealous about. She isn't touching other guys or are they touching her. Getting jealous because some guy looks at your girl? If that's it I'd get in a fight every day.

**taiboxa** · 09-10-2007, 09:55 AM

Originally Posted by DSM4Life

Enough said.

great fat jokes are now becomming gay jokes ><

**Prada** · 09-10-2007, 10:03 AM

Originally Posted by gixxerboy1

I agree. I have too. One bar i know has chains hanging from the ceiling for girls to hold on to while dancing on the bar.

I don't understand what there is to get jealous about. She isn't touching other guys or are they touching her. Getting jealous because some guy looks at your girl? If that's it I'd get in a fight every day.

Gixxer, I think the types of clubs you and I may be attending to, are different then the ones the vast majority go to. At clubs I go to, supper clubs, they actually remove the tables around 11pm and the couch turn into dance spot, along with the floor.