Confidence

[largerthannormal]

yo bros lookin for a bit of help . i been with the same girl for a really long time close to 10yrs.. but when i first met her i was tiny and had shit for confience! now im in the gym 6 days a week and feel like i can take on the world with a bit of a cocky attitude due to some help with AAS. so the question is: my girl has been gettin severly jealous because i am makin new friends mostly younger girls who are smokin hott. our relationship is kinda slowin down. and she pushes me to break up with her for one of my younger friends! what should i do. i dont want to but she is makin it out to be a big deal! kinda dont want to throw away 10yrs of my life for some stupid thing like this! dont get me wrong if i was single it would be a total diff story!

[largerthannormal]

no help huh? bump...i knew this was gonna be a tricky one! lol

[legobricks]

Get rid of her, move to phoenix wit cha boi, and go out partying every weekend with different girls!

[largerthannormal]

hahah lmfao! shit i actually could my work would pay me no matter where i am! AZ would be hott bro! hmmmmmmm now u got me thinkin!

[legobricks]

HAhahahah naw bro, she is a good girl. I'd say do what you feel is right. Don't just go where the fun is. My fiance and I split because she said that i could choose either roids or her and well.........hahahaha im single! But it was all for good cause. There were other things she did not want me to do and kinda forced marriage early so out the door she went!

[Amorphic]

if you love her, stay with her. dont let vanity get in the way of a good relationship....if it is a worthy relationship. if not, move on.

[largerthannormal]

thanks guys! this sucks! i dont wanna choose. i choose her but i still like friends and hangin out wit people. she asked me why i gotta hang out with hot chicks. i told her cause i dont wanna be seen with ugly ones! lol

[legobricks]

if you love her, stay with her. dont let vanity get in the way of a good relationship....if it is a worthy relationship. if not, move on.

I think I made a thread bout a year and a half ago in regards to my fiance and me splitting up. Yes it was my fault she left me (more so i told her that is fine she leaves cus i chooses juice) But like I stated there were a lot of things that boiled down to me just saying "fvck it!" Forcing me into an early marriage HER WAY as well as other things. I told her I wanted to join US coast gaurd and she said that she would not move away from mommy and daddy so I said BOO FRICKEN HOO! Suck it up biuttercup. Well she won that one, but it wasnt the last. I did not choose vanity over her, I choose my own free will and life over her. There were no compromises, if she was unhappy then it wouldnt happen. Man where the hell is Goodcents when ya need him!!!!! So this is kinda why I moved to Phoenix, wanted to do something different and just get far away. Do I regret moving? HELL NO! But personally its MY life and I will do as I please. Compromise....yes, and there are things that are a no-brainer but common, AAS? If she says no you cant do that then Hahahahaha Ok, now seriously Goodcents, where are you???? I LOVE your views on this stuff!

[Amorphic]

just assure her you're with her for a relationship and the other people are merely friends. Just make sure you make it clear that you want her in a relationship more than anyone else. and ask yourself if that is really indeed what you want as well.

[legobricks]

thanks guys! this sucks! i dont wanna choose. i choose her but i still like friends and hangin out wit people. she asked me why i gotta hang out with hot chicks. i told her cause i dont wanna be seen with ugly ones! lol

HAhahahah that does sound like you bro!

NExt time tell her that they are actually a step down from you. She will be like "whatever" but deep down it will make her feel good.

Also, has she let you put it in her butt yet? If not, then tell her BYE BYE! Then move down to phoenix!

[Amorphic]

I think I made a thread bout a year and a half ago in regards to my fiance and me splitting up. Yes it was my fault she left me (more so i told her that is fine she leaves cus i chooses juice) But like I stated there were a lot of things that boiled down to me just saying "fvck it!" Forcing me into an early marriage HER WAY as well as other things. I told her I wanted to join US coast gaurd and she said that she would not move away from mommy and daddy so I said BOO FRICKEN HOO! Suck it up biuttercup. Well she won that one, but it wasnt the last. I did not choose vanity over her, I choose my own free will and life over her. There were no compromises, if she was unhappy then it wouldnt happen. Man where the hell is Goodcents when ya need him!!!!! So this is kinda why I moved to Phoenix, wanted to do something different and just get far away. Do I regret moving? HELL NO! But personally its MY life and I will do as I please. Compromise....yes, and there are things that are a no-brainer but common, AAS? If she says no you cant do that then Hahahahaha Ok, now seriously Goodcents, where are you???? I LOVE your views on this stuff!

i agree, of course you have to take into consideration how well you actually get along and how the relationship works. if someone is just taking and taking then of course its a wise to move on.

goodcents makes things pretty clear when he comments on relationships

[legobricks]

i agree, of course you have to take into consideration how well you actually get along and how the relationship works. if someone is just taking and taking then of course its a wise to move on.

goodcents makes things pretty clear when he comments on relationships

LOL! Yeah I know, and I like to listen to them because im in the same boat right now as he is....NO NOT DSM's BOAT!!!!

[legobricks]

Deep down do you really love her? Being "comfortable" with her is not love and that "comfortable" will take a LONG time to break TRUST ME! But eventually you will forget, once you start seeing the women in Tempe and Scottsdale...OMG THEY ARE HOT! So glad im single!!!! LMAO!!! IM NOT FRIGGEN HELP BRO~!

[largerthannormal]

yeah lego no help..lol tempting though! lol!! but thanks Amorphic/Lego..ill have to ask myself these questions! thanks bros ..

[Amorphic]

yeah lego no help..lol tempting though! lol!! but thanks Amorphic/Lego..ill have to ask myself these questions! thanks bros ..

keep us updated

[largerthannormal]

much appreciated!!! will do..

[dedic8ed1]

10 years is more then sharing time,it's really an acomplishment for 2 people to stay together that long.It's your responsibility to reassure her that your on gear and people are gonna look at you in a different light and that she can trust you to be faithful.You obviously love this woman so wow her by suprising her with one day out of the blue making that whole day all about her and nothing else.But get "CREATIVE" do things for her that you've never done I know 10 years you've probably done it all but there's some things I'm sure you can do that will show her that she's the one you want.And if not maybe your both just at two different points in your lives."REMEMBER" it's the gear buddy you won't always attract the hotties and feel so good when you come off,but confidence is a state of mind.

Good luck,10 years is really something to be proud of.

[largerthannormal]

thanks that was a great answer that one really made me think! also much appreciated for your time! i think i will try that and i actually think that should help! thanks again!

[largerthannormal]

well its about 9yrs but im only 23. and we never broke up! kinda wierd huh?

[dedic8ed1]

well its about 9yrs but im only 23. and we never broke up! kinda wierd huh?

You met at 14 wow that is rare.You and your woman havn't really had any other lovers then I'm guessing?

[largerthannormal]

no never!!!! is that bad?? some people say i jsut would know what to do if i wasnt with her! thats more that half my life! and we aint even married!

[legobricks]

Like I said bro, you would come down here and ill show ya what single life is about!

[largerthannormal]

haha damn lego's can never put them together in the right order! lol..im cumin bro..after im out! haha u know what i mean!

[largerthannormal]

oops i meant wouldnt know what to do without her! sorry fast fingers!

[legobricks]

oops i meant wouldnt know what to do without her! sorry fast fingers!

As Goodcents would say,


Find more ass.

[dedic8ed1]

Honestly buddy I'd say your between a rock and a hard place.When meeting a girl at that age you really don't know much but as you get older you owe it to yourself to really experience life and it's fortunes.Try the one day for her thing and if she's not receptive then I say your at a point where both of you need to see what life has to offer,after a couple months or years apart you find yourself unhappy maybe she is the one,or was.

Rare situation man very rare.You and only you can figure this one out good luck man,just don't do anything that might hurt her or yourself.

[largerthannormal]

its not hard to find is my problem!! lol but the girls gettin jealous over these others talkin to me and shit..ahhh ill go with ualls advice and let ya know how it goes...take care guys and thanks.anymore ideas il check in lata! peace!

[largerthannormal]

the only thing i fear about about that is i hear most girls when outta a really long relationship they go and f u c k every guy around..but i dont think she is that type..i dunno..ill try the one day thing!

[RA]

If you dont love her and want to spend the rest of your life with her stop wasting your time.

[longhorn814]

the only thing i fear about about that is i hear most girls when outta a really long relationship they go and f u c k every guy around..but i dont think she is that type..i dunno..ill try the one day thing!

yeah thats true they do, but so do all guys..no reason to be a hypocrite!! 10 years is along time and its a great accomplishment, but you also have to consider that youre only 23 too..you have to ask yourself if this is the girl you want to spend the rest of your life with or not? There are plenty of fish in the sea too. Ive seen it happen before with couples that get together very young..one or both gets bored and starts looking other places and it kinda sounds like that is what youre doing now by hanging around a bunch of hot girls. Good luck with whatever you do..either choice isnt gonna be easy

[largerthannormal]

i do most definalty! shit this is harder than it sounds!! ha yo roid attack u ever check that PM from last week i resent it! haha! thanks bro!

[largerthannormal]

i think im just temted becuase i never had this much attention from other girls, shit i dont even talk to them , they walk up to me..never had this happen before! these muscles are gettin me in trouble lol!!

[largerthannormal]

i do want to spend my life wit her..but i wish i could have a month or 2 to be single and see what its like! but i dont wanna come back to girl whos been around the block in the last month! to be honest i dont think she would ..hmmmm so far thanks guys this is helpin!

[longhorn814]

look for the Chris Rock skit where he talks about choosing between "committment" or "new *****"..funny shit!

[longhorn814]

i do want to spend my life wit her..but i wish i could have a month or 2 to be single and see what its like! but i dont wanna come back to girl whos been around the block in the last month! to be honest i dont think she would ..hmmmm so far thanks guys this is helpin!

if you went to being single after 10 years for the first time in your life..i think it would be pretty hard for you to go back..at least for quite some time

[largerthannormal]

hahaah ill check it out..he is funny shit..maybe some humor needs to be brought into this subjects! lol

[largerthannormal]

thats what i was thinkin cause it would take a few months to get over her then when i did i would prolly be havin to much fun to go back! hmmm but is that what i want?? f u k kkkkkkkk! man this is a knee slapper!

[Amorphic]

thats what i was thinkin cause it would take a few months to get over her then when i did i would prolly be havin to much fun to go back! hmmm but is that what i want?? f u k kkkkkkkk! man this is a knee slapper!

i think it would take more than a few months to get over a 10 year relationship. my longest relationship was 4 years and i was miserable about it ending for more than half a year.

[legobricks]

Ok, when you have a brand new p*ssy starying you in the face that belongs to some hottie in scottsdale you will forget you just broke up! Easy bro, happened to me. When i split with my fiance i went thru a good deal of depression but hooked up with ALL the p*ssy that i wanted when i was with here and do i regret it???? HELL NO! Some of that ass i was willing to cheat for! Hahahaha so my theory now is stay single bro, move down here and we'll get a bachelor pad and have parties and go out and scoop up some hotties for sure!

[longhorn814]

hahaah ill check it out..he is funny shit..maybe some humor needs to be brought into this subjects! lol

heres one clip..he is funny as hell

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=R6OaRcsfnY4